slimshay:

And he haff come again. Ogbeni shey won sa si e ni? Haff dey swia for you?

Your posts are long full of irrelevances. Keep them to yourself. R€t@rd.

Arsenal triangle, pele o.

whatever you spewed up there has been redirected to the grown folks in your abode.

naijababe:

A lot of people get married for all the wrong reasons you can think of or sometimes the marriage completely falls short of their expectations, eventually this sort people figure they've made the worst possible mistake of their lives at some point. One partty may however be willing to slug it out for the kids but the other party assumes an I don't care attitude.

The party kind with the most fault even refuses to go counselling or any kind of mediation, do you seriously expect the one who's suffering to just accommodate this behaviour and remain in this situation? Bear in mind too that once the problem escalates to this point, both are useless to their kids.

so it is when they are apart that they will be useful to their kids? without a doubt, you just made the most brilliant statement since this forum was established. i expect you to get a pulitzer for the comment you made above. keep it up.

slimshay:

And thank you Mr Cougar for live. . .sori late match report. Cheeew. Oshi o da.

silly move by Sagna, but to be honest at one point he had to break. And Zabaletta elbowed him in the contest, that is why he reacted. From what I saw tho.

But in other news, how do assemble a team so expensive and tell them to sit behind the ball. It is quite appaling. To bad we couldn't take our chances when we got them.

this glorified twunt does not know when to keep his gob intact. what an arsehole!

tensor777:

I really don't know where you are going with this. You don't even talk about counselling but divorce which is ugly and destructive act. It also does untold damage on the psyche of growing kids and can prevent them from fulfilling their potential .
Or you think its the same as boyfriend and girlfriend breaking up?

i am sure naijababe is just winding us up. why should any little quarrel lead to a divorce? divorce? where the husband can only see his kids with some moronic visits scheduled by some social care fools?

naijababe:

Trust me asunder is sometimes the best option even for the kids. Staying together at all costs at times damage children irreparably

divorce should be the last option. how are kids expected to be sound without a father figure in their lives. the two of them should sit down and talk to each other. the kids are the most important here, not the parents. the parents should lock each other in a room and punch till their knuckles fracture.

naijababe:

How ?

asunder is a bit selfish. what about the children involved here?

debosky:

I think it's safe to say the title is Utd's to lose.

Mancini nor go die well.

blame mancini or blame your flops. arsenal played at home, didn't they?

naijababe:

^^U be catholic?!. Sometimes asunder is the best option for all parties

you are harsh.

dayokanu:

Thought WenGAY said the difference in buying a quality player over the sankwa ones at Arsenal now are just a few points?

I cant count how many points Hart has won them this season and Shay Given last season.

No one can win a trophy with Fabianski, Almunia or Sczceny

arsenal played at the emirates. the onus was on them to take the game to citeh. they huffed n puffed in the first half with nothing to show for it. in the second half, i was even more disappointed as arsenal didn't really change their plan a. they were still toying with the ball trying to play their triangles when it was obvious it wasn't working. fortune favours the brave. arsenal have lost thrice at the emirates this season - another draw is a bad result but they can take solace in the fact that they are a better team away from home.

@ dayokanu,

you deserve a bottle of bollinger.

dayokanu:

Abeg make una nor vex, I just dey arrange turntable and Speaker and I also get show for Liverpool thread

request line. . . . .i want eldee's new joint with lkt. "ota mi"

Mr_TA:

lol, I reckon he even added his son's soul to the deal.

sometimes i think we underrate what fergie represents at old trafford. this is one of the worst united teams ever and fergie is working wonders with what he's got with brilliant squad management and smart purchases. how much is javier hernandez worth now in the transfer market? rafael da silva? luis nani? hats off for ferguson. he is the best at what he does.

Mr_TA:

Dont care about unbeaten season its all about the title.

What a wonderful set of results for us this evening. Absolutely fantastic.

sir alex ferguson remortgages his soul to the devil once again tonight.

but this will be bad if chelsea lose to wolves. wolverhampton wanderers? come on. . . .what is wrong with chelsea?

ruffrider:

[color=#990000][/color]I am goin to share some fustration on this one;  You guys always think that your women understands you best, but it's not true all the time.  You guys come to the States, play with the American women, married them, divorce them, and go back home and marry your lady.  It is not right.  

play with american women? american women toy with us and when shyte hits the fan, they run to their firearms and wave it in our faces. what are we supposed to do?

FBS:

Last 10 mins. . .how is it going to be?  

chelsea will nick the equalizer

roymary:

Never trust anything that bleeds for 3-5 straight days and doesn't fu cking die.  This women no dey feel the lonliness and rejection that men have to put up with. 98% of women does is sit around, look pretty and wait for us to do something. I wish they could feel one moment of what it takes to put up with their crap. Pretty sure they can't handle it.

this is mad funny.

buzugee:

lmao you ain never lied bruh.   memorys men

i am still searching for a nigerian woman in london though. if you have any you can recommend, hit my fone.

Ibime:

Im enjoying my Arsenal game over here. Na pesin wey want die early go dey watch Chelsea these days.

how the mighties have fallen.

buzugee:

lmao. you have said it all. the harsh life, cold weather, hustling and impending biological clock gauging makes them extremely angry abroad. lol @ agbero   and you are right. it dont take much to spark the flame  

anything as little as who holds the remote control or why you received a call late in the night. it's sometimes baffling when these chics start their drama. and when you take your car keys during their drama, they block the doorway that you ain't going nowhere.

buzugee:

good question yet funny. but yeah the naija chics i have encountered abroad all seem to be very angry types. dunno why sha.  

truth be told, the stress in this country can be depressing. the cold weather, occasional boredom and other variables also contribute to their aggression but even then, a woman must behave like a lady - not like an agbero.

Jenifa_:

what did you guys do to these girls to provoke them that much lol

little argument is enough to spark them into life.

buzugee:

i once had a nigerian girlfriend throw our tv out of the window in london because she was angry    then one time she was fighting me in the car when i was driving. she nearly drove the both of us over a cliff  

i called the cops the day a chic attempted it with my tv way-back. she coughed out every penny back. naija chics are not to be pitied especially when they put up such disgusting attitude. would she throw her father's black n white tv out of the window when she was in nigeria?

nateevs:

THis is how shite we will look after this game. Wolves have picked up more points than us in the last 6 games. We were 8 points ahead for Christ's sakes.

injuries
thin squad
loss of form in your big players.

shyte happens.

HNIC:

in January
Just like Nani said. . . 'we would win without losing'
I like this confidence coming outta the Manure camp.

shut up your mouth. . . . .nani said he hopes united can win it without a defeat. he never said united would win without losing. that is how you lethargic gaynners put words into the mouth of players.

Let us wait and see!All this 2nd half,2nd period,2nd quarter thing. . . . .
We will see this season . . . .

what are you seeing? arsenal have been beaten already. there's nothing else to see. yes - i said if united can replicate 2nd half of last season. and that means losing twice and drawing thrice - i don't expect the lads to go unbeaten - i expect them to win the title.

debosky:

Simple question - is Josh better than Wilshere? Answer on a postcard.

he is miles better than wilshere - wilshere has been allowed to express himself week in week out, josh hasn't. this time last season, mumus like you also said welbeck would never make it at arsenal. after few regular starts in sunderland, you have kept mute about his progress. wilshere is shyte.

duduspace:

In Cou-gar's demented mind he is, has everyone quickly forgotten Monsieur Gravel (the great black hope of Sauron) Morrison?
If I recall he was miles ahead of Wilshere according to Sauron.  

he is still miles ahead. wait for him to get regular starts in man utd before you judge. wilshere is ahead cos arsenal have no good players in their central midfielder. wilshere won't start ahead of scholes, anderson, carrick and fletcher - so why should we expect ravel morrison to get ahead of them? cesc will even struggle to make man utd's first team let alone wilshere.

duduspace:

Na yu dey help am mint money for him house? resources can only be ever unlimited in your warped econonmic logic abi yu dey related to Idi-Amin?

you are a valuable tool. abrahamovic spent $1.2 billion on a yacht and you are asking if i mint money for him. his yacht will buy 2 arsenal football clubs with some change enough to buy 11 decent players. not to talk of the helicopters that land on his yacht and other properties.

Naa, its you thats coked to yur eyeballs and unable to grasp simple concepts or in this instance unable to interprete them effectively. The points you mention completely validates my stand on Roman and his prior expenditure on Chelsea.

stop making your own argument. if roman wants to spend, he will. he designed his outlay according to what his football directors told him in 2003. peter kenyon said in 5 years, chelsea will be a global brand like man utd - which means roman won't need to spend anymore on chelsea cos the club would be self-sufficient by 2008 - a miscalculation! if you think roman is suddenly broke like you are then you must have saw-dust in your brain.

Stop typing yur posts while perched precariously on your toilet seat with a sandwich in yur hand. History also tells us Manure won the Carling cup last season, are they going to win it this season? NO

you are an indolent sheep. so carling cup is the measure of strength of the same man utd side that are unbeaten in the league currently? i now know why dayokanu feels your intelligence quotient is the same as that of a butterfly.

tosinaded@:

absolute nonsense!

and that is why you are my favourite tool.

tensor777:

You do keep going on about that chiildhood sweethearts. When there is genuine love and understanding then I think tthet such marriages very very rarely end up as the ugly stories we have been reading about here, So it is hogwash to even link this to the cases of a Nigerian man going over to Nigeria to import a stranger bride.
That is what we are discussing here. Basically the guy continuing to act as a bully and a tyrant to his bride when she is in the West.

is it actually possible for any man to fly to nigeria and bring a strange bride to his home in america? i find this hard to believe. no man is that daft to bring an unknown entity into his house because she wants to be a nurse. there's a certain degree of pretence involved here. these women are cool and down with whatever in nigeria but immediately change their spots once they reach new york.

Then there is of course the messy issue of guys with childhood sweethearts in Nigeria but who get married to oyibo women strictly for the greencard or ILR

that's another story.

tosinaded@:

cougar u keep sayn the same thing over and over again! your point isnt even valid!

u keep sayn 9ice said his best friend slet wiv his wife

do u av a prob wiv listening or sumtn? cos me no hear wife for that song!


like i said earlier. . . your best friend and wife thing is outplayed, more like a broken record!
hit me up wiv relevant and truthful points. . . .

whether he meant wife or girlfriend is irrelevant. the crux of the issue is 9ice should have clarified the whole ish and paint a clearer picture for the fans. the customer is the most important in this ish and they have the right to know what is going wrong. they are the ones paying for 9ice's life bills. without them, 9ice is nothing.

dayokanu:

How can starting for Arsenal be a landmark achievement? The same Arsenal that Adebayor, Diaby, Eboue, Senderos, Djourou, Kolscieny even Squilacci started for?

How may years ago did Clichy start for Arsenal? How old was he then? And at no point in his career can he be said to be close to average never mind decent.

Arsenal aside from lacking ambitions have hopeless and poor elderly players thats why the children start. How many clubs would give the Captainship to a 21yr old?

if Toni Kroos moved to Arsenal in 2008, We can be rest assured he would be captain by now never mind Thomas Muller who would have been made captain/coach because his football talent dwarfs anyone who has ever worn the Arsenal Jersey in the last 100yrs

but mumuface thinks once a player gets a start for arsenal then he is miles better than his peers elsewhere without critically thinking youngsters in other clubs might have more senior players ahead of them limiting their appearances than a shyte club like arsenal where a 21 yr old was made a captain. cesc fabregas played more than 100 games as a teenager for arsenal. the same cesc would be lucky to play 20 as a teenager in big teams like real madrid, barcelona or man utd.

eku_bear:

This is my real beef with some Nigerian-American girls. If I want a westernized woman, I'll just stick with the african-american or white chicks 
With that said, not all of them are like this. Just a lot of 'em  

some men actually left their sweethearts in nigeria when travelling with the promise of coming back to get them when they settle abroad. if they don't come back to their sweeties, they are in trouble cos of the broken promises. if they come back to get them as vowed, the chics turn on them and make their lives miserable. i ask again - what should a man do?

buzugee:

bollocks. the cases of childhood sweethearts are extremely negligible and those one always work out. most of the cases are these grown men going home to scout for women they have not met in their lives.

it's not negligible. they are in the larger percentage. most of these men came abroad for their masters degree or hmsp/work permit ish. they left girlfriends in nigeria with the promise of coming back to marry them.

tensor777:

Good question. If he wants to stay in the West then he should simply look for a bride brought up in the West. In that wise both parties would know what to expect from each other.

good point. what if he already had a chic in nigeria before travelling abroad. someone he loves wholeheartedly - he should neglect n let her rot in nigeria?

As for tradition and all that I feel that is neither here nor there in this scenario. It is primarily about power and control within the home. Anyway there is no human reason why a village bride would not embrace such power when she comes over to the West. Who even says that such women were not power hungry themselves even whilst in the village?

this is hardly the point. the question here is. . . . should a man neglect his girlfriend of many years because he is now abroad?

tosinaded@:

not-so-smart person. . . .  he needed to sell his already dead new album
how come he has two songs dissing 9ice on the album?

did he diss 9ice? or you don't know what a diss is? he explained what happened to slow-wits like you who cannot cope with the pace of the controversy.

eerm pls name one artiste that has done a press conference to explain his song to the public!
lmao. . .  why u dey play daft my guy, just to support a foolish act

name one artist alleging his best friend slept with his wife in such a controversial manner. when you sing garbage, fans will call you out. like i said, it's the internet age. the fans are now closer to their heroes. 9ice should get with the trend of twitter, facebook, blackberry ish. you cannot just open your mouth about any issue without being asked to explain your hogwash.

only a not-so-smart person would ask who the heck is cabassa, when it deals wiv 9ice!

9ice sang a song alleging his best mate slept with his wife and we should seek cabassa's opinion on the matter? is 9ice dead that he cannot be asked to explain his own shyte?

and by the way, no dey remix the song my guy. . . . . i dey play am for here, no need changing word to prove your point!
wife was neva mentiond on that song! or where did u hear your own song?
like i said in my earlier post about cabassa's comment on fb and twitter, i said every sane sapien would know that 9ice wasnt talkn about payne. . . .

whoever 9ice was talking about his own cup of tea. he had the chance to squash the beef but indolent geese like you kept egging him on to call rugged's bluff. well, he got served appropriately. if he could turn back the hands of time, he would wish he had come out on facebook to say he wasn't talking about payne/rugged/cabassa/mombassa.

dayokanu:

How come these killings hardly happen to "non-imported" wives?

I agree with Buzugee here. Most men who go home to marry have a deep seated problem of wanting to Lord over their woman. Who else but a village girl would take all their crap. There are numerous Naija girls in US and UK looking for husband, marry one of them. They wont because they would say Naija girls in US "don tear eye" just because she wont take your bullcrap

you are jumping into conclusion so fast here. many of these men had these babes as spouses before the men left nigeria. they were in a relationship and i see nothing wrong with a man going back home to take his fiancee abroad and marry. 90% of these cases are long term relationships so i cannot blame the men for the wrong doings of the naija women.

This doesnt affect village girls alone, Even a average Lagos girl would jump at an opportunity to marry the guy from abroad, Who comes home every xmas to oppress with the money he has saved all year.
I know several guys who save hard all year and take the money home on xmas. See how girls would flock around them like ants on Sugar.

so what should a man do? marry abroad or marry a girl based in nigeria? the women here have their issues. they have been "westernized". they have lost touch with the african tradition and they want to be whiter than the white women. the ones in nigeria on the other hand cannot be trusted to maintain the same behaviour once they get abroad.

Go to any bar in FESTAC or Ajao estate and See when the Obodo Oyinbo guys come from Germany and Belgium. Dem dey oppress die. Na only politicians and yahoo guys fit rival them

after 300+ days of working 9-5, unwinding in nigeria can be excused.

tosinaded@:

gabbage! stop justifying stupidity my friend!
rugged had his plans all along. . . .  he's a snitch!

you are a tool. what plans are we talking about here? ruggedman has been selling records before 9ice met toni payne. i cannot see how ruggedman would want to take advantage of that dirty union. your senses are beclouded with bias.

u remember the response 9ice gave him on the phone convo?
so if i sing any song, i av the make a press conference to explain it?

that is because 9ice doesn't appreciate the relationship between ruggedman and rugged's fans. if he sings any controversial song like the 'once bitten twice shy' then he should own up and explain to the fans what he meant in his song. we are in the information age not the days of barrister and osita osadebe.

once bitten twice shy was a song. . .  the -ve buzz was linked to 2face, cabasa and ruggedman!
the buzz is nothing new to these celebs, its a lifestyle. . .  thats the press and the fans for u.
all dem -ve buzz about celebs usually die with time. . . . .
cabasa even came out on fb and twitter, sayn that tonipayne was wiv them in the studio wen the song was being recorded,and even left to make food for them! dsnt that tell any sane sapien that the song wasnt about his wife?
but no, logheadman had other ideas in mind. . . . . . . . .

cabassa my foot. what is wrong with hip-hop fans hearing the gospel from the horse's mouth. why should we believe what cabassa said? who the heck is cabassa? what has he gotta do with this ish? 9ice insinuated a close friend of his slept with his wife and you are telling me cabassa said toni payne was making amala in the studio. upgrade your brain drive, my friend. you are hardly making sense.

so my friend like i said before, ure not talking to people who dnt know how this stuff started. . . . .we re not fools!
say something else abeg! am tired of hearing the friend and girlfriend excuse everytime!

i agree you are not a fool, but you are a tool.