I wish that he doesn't waste his talents and changes for the better

obviously there is something wrong with both of your marriages for you to allow yourself to meet someone else online and then decide to fall for them

I thought that too until I wasn't

sure I would work with them. Why would I let the past still affect my present?

Lianne la Havas - Lost and Found

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ou5uZjDNEko

probably. doubt it will happen always.

replace sugary drinks with water.
drink more water
walking
buy an exercise dvd and try to do at least 20 minutes of that a day and work your way up to an hour (I like kickboxing but there are many others)
exercising to music might also help
get involved in a sport
make a goal
less carbs, more vegetables and foods high in fiber
make sure u are getting enough sleep

indecisiveness

I would never want to divorce, ever. However, if i am married and my husband puts my childrens lives in danger numerous times, does not see any need to change, i will leave him. ill love my husband plenty but my children will win everytime.

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KweenAdz: Nice one...And wat are d signs dt she only wants him for sex too...#JstAsking

same signs

perhaps, time will tell.

perhaps. He said when he returns to the states he is coming back for me but I'm a more realistic person so I'm not holding my breath

P4VS20:

"WTH!, if u cant say "i love u" why re u expecting him to say it?. expect what you can give my dear and you will get it.

if u say i love u and you dont get it back in return, good enough reasons to kick his blackass to the curbs!. saying i love u dont make u vulnerable, but reveals the heart of the other party.

ha thanks

dmcdad:
WTH! Since when does "I love u" means being vulnerable

its simple, fear of rejection.

It's odd, I know its happened to me before. Where someone has expressed their love and I didn't feel the same and I was able to see how much it pained him.

ITbomb: I say it every time even when sleeping, but that doesn't stop me from saying ' sweetheart , its time to move on with ur life ' if situation require.
What's the big deal , God require us to love fellow humans and all creations

I guess the vulnerability. If I say it then I don't get the same response.

sexdntkillz: if u dont feel it dont say it, but if u do, its important you dont just show ur partner dat u love him, also tell him!

Thanks

Nasty-clown:
saying it or not won't stop me from walking out if i have to.

Preach!

LadyTC:

It's because you don't trust the person enough yet to say it. No big deal. By next time remove the fear and say it if you feel it. Carpe diem!

Thanks! That's sad tho that I didn't trust either of them well enough. I guess I have trust issues.