hopman98:
I invested my school fees of 40k last month and now it has got stucked on 86fb platform. I am really depressed right now as my family are going to disown should incase i let them know. Though i have gotten a job as a fuel attendant, my mind is still shaking as i hope to save up before ASUU resume. I've only saved 10k right now. Pls stay away from gambling, ponzi and all sort of dubious acts. I have learnt my lesson in the hardest way ever

Someone was fighting me because I said it was a scam , let me go and look for their trouble I love it when I know I'm right and I'm actually right

Man buys car
Nairalanders : nice one , cool ride , more billions to bank account gee , God no go shame us , double the hustle , vaginarians will start running after you now , no lose guard oh

Woman buys car
Nairalanders : how many dogs did you Bleep? Na still man money you use , I blame simps , death to simps , small girl big gbola , she rented it , fake life , I fear who no fear vaginarians

Even educated men will come here and partake in sexism , misogyny and gender discrimination , some will even say they will throwaway their baby if it's a female and we can't even see their faces

Stallionhorse:
All my guys please gather and congratulate me!!
So this girl I've been dating she has been sleeping with this rich married man for some weeks now.. I just ignored her like I didnt know, I've been billing her seriously of late the public community hole, I call a gf even gave me 250k last week.. To crown the whole story I traced the rich married man to his house got to know about the wife I Used inside the 250k to shop in the wife boutiques and she gave me her number.. Yesterday I invited her out for lunch And we ended up doing short time in a hotel.. Today she credited my account with 50k to use and attend my friends sister's wedding, which is format!! Guys please gather let's celebrate victory I will continue billing my community holosho, and also billing her rich sugar daddy's wife too.. This is a win win for me..

I slept with the wife of my girlfriend's sugardaddy , next time write it like this , the headline is confusing , I almost thought you were a lesbian or gay , I slept with my girlfriend's sugardaddy

Supreme01:
These same thing happened in Bible days, and only the woman was condaim to death, thank God for the MESSIAH.
The same women you're condaiming on NL, the same you'll stark naked and kneeldown to begg for just one mouth.
The OP was too quick to condaim the woman alone and left his saint gender.
It's clare indication of immaturity.

This new guy I was talking to around December happened to be close friends or should I say best friends with my cousins , two of my male cousins and you know after a while I was hearing whispers whenever I was with the guy
Apparently he was a brolosho and he bleeped 70% of young girls in town and now it was my turn ( yay )
My cousins were doing the exact same thing to other girls too and when they see him with girls they will keep quiet and mind their business

That's how my cousin reached out to me to stop talking to him , that they don't want to hear or see me get hurt ( me? Hurt ? Lol ) I didn't like him yet , I was still checking him but the man thought I'd fallen , my cousin who was his friend ended up exposing him , he had a girl that he loved , I don't know if she loves him back or if she no dey give am face , but I'll just assume she's not giving him face so that's why he decided to make himself a gigolo ( under the pretence of using girls ) imagine telling the girl you say you liked that you sleep by 10pm and that's why you don't pick calls when I literally saw you with a chick around 9:50pm from a distance

I was upset with my cousin and I haven't spoken to him in months , why would you keep quiet because the others are not your relatives ? And why would you have such a friend ? Its always funny untill they catch someone you care about and then they'll be like "women are cheap , use all of them "

Last night I reached another dead end when this man I had respect for opened his dirty filthy mouth to say that he wants to have sex with me , I just drop call and busy incoming calls , noone is talking about that , so many men do that and get away with it , they are so cheap when it comes to sex , I can prove it , it will always be the woman's fault , my dad knows why he provides the basic necessities for me so that I don't use the excuse of hunger to end up with useless men , they'll send like 2k and you'll be thinking it's love , because you were born poor
If you had food on your table and clothes to wear and a good education , you'd realize how unfortunate some men can be , they literally go hunting for broke and hungry girls to use them , they're in every girls dm
But noone is talking about that, noone is talking about how easy it would be to lure men and kill them if we really wanted to , we'd just use sex , if we want to poison you , we can still lure you from sex , some will be embarrassing their poor girlfriends , if I had a nickel for every male ashawo ( especially the ones in relationships that I'm aware of) in my dm , I for don buy island ,so disappointing

philiancoop:


Seems you're a lady that's big on insulting other people and you insulted the boss. Because the person above only asked you a question and you've already insulted him

Another misogynist spotted , so because he's rude you're denying him from your gender

Digmygold:


It's a fake Facebook account. He has a second wife. His dad never wrote that.

Did you even do your research , there is a video of Judy shouting that her son belongs to her husband , the same husband that she has two children for , but nigerian people won't see it

Digmygold:


It's no publicity stunt and his father doesn't have a facebook account. Yul has a second wife and he himself carry him personal matter come social media and therefore put am on top our heads by himself.

This one is still going

IceColdVeins:

Which ever it is, she can now clearly experience what most men go through. But it’s fine, we are naturally generous to whom we love

May you experience labour and period cramps , may you carry a child in your belly for 9 months while still moving around on swollen feets , may you breastfeed a child till you faint from exhaustion , may your breast swell up in pain as your child has no appetite , may you be up at night with no hope for rest during the day , may you carry a baby to work
May you cook , clean , bath the babies , and still go to work and come back and proceed to repeat the same process
You will experience pain in all parts of your body for 5 days a month
You shall feel your manhood contract painfully every month and when you walk you'll think your intestines want to fall out
When you use the toilet you'll think your intestines want to fall out
When you pee you'll feel pain but you're not sick so no medicine for you
You'll purge 3 days every month and you'll feel pain
In the end of everything noone will console you , rather they'll prey on you and tell you that you're not the first so endure
Even if it's just a nightmare , I pray you experience what it really feels like to be a WOMAN , if you knew you'd go and look for your mother but the sad and brutal truth is that YOU WILL NEVER KNOW

sisisioge:


Your dude must be a yoruba guy! Once they see a woman capable of handling things, they let you do it. Hian! Didnt you know that "sense of responsibility" is a thing that must be checked in a guy before marrying him? Why in the world would you marry a guy comfortable with you wearing the trousers? Those guys that would not buy stuff for you while dating, pick some of your bills or simply give you money to sort things turn out to be terrible husbands when it comes to holding the material angle of the home. Money is important! Whew! It will only get worse o and by the time the kids are grown,you would have out grown your youthful years embittered with a terrible husband. Poor you.

Life is tough though, you choose your battles. It is well.

Ah you know them oh
Yoruba men will show you pepper
Even Yoruba women don't want Yoruba men unless he's Muslim , the Muslims are the nice ones but if you're a Christian it will hang because it can't lead to marriage
Yoruba men are irresponsibly and arrogantly selfish , always hunting for an independent woman , even at 19 they expect you to be independent and they still want your love , loyalty and respect

dalass:


Exactly!

The problem in this country and others like us is that even maritally, there are laws that men can break at will while the wife must understand and be patient but she can't even think of adultery not to talk of doing same. Till he brings her diseases and heartaches that will make her have stroke/ heart attack.

And they're the first to blame Buhari for his nepotism.. we're not yet ready or serious as a people to remove double standards in all areas, then this imbalance will clear off and we'll have a healthy nation once more

Men can be so disappointing

Magnoliaa:


Why do they say women are "special?" It certainly isn't because they are just women and have vaginas. Bring such posts, let's see them. It is still all the same vein of thoughts!

We say you should respect women because:

1.) The default is to disrespect women
2.) Women do things, so much, raising kids, managing the homefront, bringing money, expelling lots of energies in relationships, experiencing labour, at the end of the day, they experience no. 1.

That statement is driven MOSTLY by the reality of guys disrespecting women. When I say nobody says women should be respected because they are women, I'm not saying you cannot find people saying that, I'm saying more often than not, there are reasons behind it that has nothing to do with being special or thinking women are special.



Men are respected by default, and that respect drives some of them into wanting to provide. The respect comes before the the responsibility. Really? In the streets, your hometowns, villages, classrooms, family meetings and so on, men aren't respected by virtue of them being men? If you conducted a research and put two unknown man and a woman in a place or amongst people, who are people likely to defer to? I did not say the woman will not get attention, nor be liked, but who is going to automatically be seen as the superior gender and therefore deserving of respect and adulation?



Oh, wow, so you know me down to my relationships and what I do in them? You even know I've been in relationships? Are you a punter and a pìmp/john then if you give money to the women you are in a relationship with and have sex with? Is your room/house a brothel? We also know a prostitute in a woman who sells sex as a work, as a single person. So you know I hawk sex? You don patronise me before? You know I give sex to guys in exchange for favours from them? Or you know the company I went to in search of a job and I tried seducing the interviewer?



And you think women calling men broke and frustrated isn't in retaliation as well? Can you pinpoint the initial erring party? What is MY offense against YOU that you went on a mission of slutshaming me? How many times have you seen me broke-shaming and insulting guys here? And without reason, on the most neutral threads? No, you're not dumb and I know you can try not to be dishonest. Women insult men as much as guys do here? Oya, let's even go and start with the CONVICTED RAPE cases that made front-page. All the DOMESTIC VICTIMS that are women, and the males' comments on such threads vs. when a man is the victim. You cannot even give me equivalent misandristic monickers like all the ones I listed.

So wait, "some of YOU are prostitutes, while some of THE GUYS here are broke?" Why you no fit personalise the brokeness to your own self but you set me up as a paragon of female prostitutes? Now, that is one of your devaluation attempts.



And I have explained the context of that statement to you, so I am very certain you've gotten it or have gotten it.

I don't know you but I like you

Dorwadora:
24-30k I earn weekly

How?

Bluntdude:
Hello guys so I moved into a new apartment late last year which cost 300k - a mini one bedroom flat in Abuja. I knew I had to become more serious about saving or else me and landlord go get problem at the end of the year ....

Just like always, I do my calculations before taking any step and then I start saving. My former place cost 140k (a self contain) I needed more space so I had to move into my current place. Although it's not too big but since na only me, e dey ok.

However before moving in I calculated how much I'd have to save to meet up because I don't like the idea of having to run around like a headless chicken when my rent is due so I always start saving the very day I renew my rent anywhere. It has really helped me.

My calculation was that if I could save 1k per day I'll definitely meet up by God's grace before the year runs out. Some days I put in 10k or 5k or even 1k depending on how much cash I have at hand while the money transferred to my bank account remains untouched except for important spendings. I still have a month plus before my rent expires but I just started having this strong feeling to break the box open and I did tonight. What I got when I counted...... N343,500

I spread the money for people wey wan count. Although there was no space enough to properly spread so some are ontop others in twos and threes. I couldn't capture the whole money well because space no too dey and I'm not a professional photographer

I'll be sealing the box to begin saving from today again if I get cash. It's fun but very stressful and draining. Not for people without self control. Lol

Lots of people don't know the power of consistently saving in bits for a long period of time. If you're in that category, I hope this helps.

So motivating

I can't wait to break mine by March 2nd next year , I'm on a 365 days saving goals , what am I saving for ? I know but I also don't know , might be for a skill? Might be for emergencies ? I just feel safer knowing I have some money somewhere and it's not been easy keeping my hands off it , I stay off the internet so I don't buy data and when I have airtime I sub at night to download movies so i don't get bored from not chatting or not scrolling through tiktok all-day

I have to manage how often I eat and I had to let go of my addiction for junk food ( especially chocolate and shawarma etc ) , I had to cut out soft drinks too , which was very hard and i just eat real food and support it with cereals and provision

I rewrite my goals so that I'm motivated to save towards them , and I keep one copy of my goals inside the box so when I open it I'll see it , it's like a promise to myself that I'll get there , it's easy to fight the urge to break it because it's so adorable, it's like an art decor , I should've gotten it in pink to really get that look , I guard it with my life but it's really scary coz some people know I have it and that there's money inside

We4all:
He should enjoy his 3 days trend. The guy is even an immature motherfucker.

This one is pained

OlawaleBammie:
wait pls, koyemi

What is the guy saying??

He no marry that judy??

Judy is already married and that son belongs to her husband not Yul edochie , she said it herself on IG but everybody no wan hear , someone even posted a fake Pete edochie response on nairaland with no source or proof that he said it , everybody just dey download the nonsense

I knew it was fake but nairaland witches don't like good news

Some even exposed themselves

OlawaleBammie
MadamVanessa

oya come and see

VandalSavage:
bro thats actually Western culture and alot of Nigerians are slowly buying into it ,it's all over music , female musicians telling ladies to never date a broke guy and to always go for the money

If you listen to cardi B,magen thee stallion, sweetie and city girls ,that's basically what all their songs are about

Promoting prostitution

Prostitution?

Lol the guy before me grew up with Pete edochie he knows the man in and out , I came here to read comments

SurvivorM:

Dude is falling in love with a girl his cousin have had sex with.
Dude dont want to love her as he didn't like the fact his cousin have had sex with her.
Dude now in a dilemma of what to do

Bless you

Dreadlock69:
I visited my father's hometown with my distance cousin or best friend from secondary school, though his mum is from my father's side just two neighborhood village along the road ,my aunt got married to this my cousin or I'll say best friend side and this my aunty husband have a younger brother who I'll talk about his daughter . So I stayed in my cousin or I'll say best friend side for two weeks.
I and my cousin been bored to hell for two days before the fun begin ,one sunny afternoon I went to return the bottle of drink my aunt husband gave my cousin and I ,I met this dark beautiful girl we made eye contact and I left , unfortunately she came with my aunt husband 'younger brother who is her dad'.
I told my best friend about it he said "I dun Bleep am before but nah quickie her papa dey over protective and nah last year before we enter school sha " and it's true the girl dad gave us a headache. So I told my best friend I'll like to have my own share too mind normal guys parole nah .
"I dun bleep my best friend sister b4 but he didn't know about it till date cause nigga gon kill me"
On a blissful evening this girl sounding rude or will say acting disrespectful to my cousin and I was there with them “so I just cap am straight up say she know dey look face before she follow person talk say him resemble him mate or we resemble her mate "I just gave her a warning and later calm her down say no be so Dem dey follow person talk ,my cousin was saying “ leave am nah so Dem dey do if Dem dey follow Dem talk ".she was laundering at that time I told her should I bring mine but she replied no she's done , later that evening I told her to come sit near me which she reply "why should I ".I close the conversation with her immediately.
The next morning after having brunch because we ate late and woke up late the next morning I saw her in my cousin grandma quarters I walk through and hold her on the waist telling her wassup and left not know the step grandma saw everything and called me " mad man ashawo " in Ibo dialect she was talking to my cousin at that time, he told bout it himself .
she started behaving girly and touchy around me and sometimes hold my hand on frequent occasion but I didn't have sex with her only the normal romance and stuff like that , but the fact here is I can't date her because my cousin have slept with her and I myself will want to “chop and clean mouth to" like the saying goes “ if you want to cheat on him don't cheat on him with his fellas", like I will say if it was with other guys I won't be bothered but it was with my cousin , I'll say this girl liked or will I say loved me dearly but I'm kind of feeling the same for her but I'm really sure the relationship will not work cause I can't lived with the fact my cousin quickie her and I'll want to have my share and move on.Cousin told me she's a better girl for me and this doesn't comes from my cousin mouth easily.

My head is paining me , your cousin married your sisters aunt

Hugo55:
You kinda like the guy already to have even noted all that. He's just not expressive or maybe not serious.

Nope I don't

OlawaleBammie:
send the pics to who??

And besides, who no dey snap wen she marries?? Even regina Daniel wey marry one of our ancestors sef snap pics.
Will i know if ur husband is married to four wives in ur pics??

Lo joko joo, tie marry na kari

Ma worry , I go send am, calm down

Nonexisting:
See this ulaga crying here because I extolled thick vaginarians in the other thread. Don't worry, you will be alright. Drink yoghurts and also tell the blind mumus that chase you about including the one that shows you off to cum in your mouth to see if their sperms will improve your weight. I call them blind mumus because the day you pull off your clothes before them, they will realize how much your clothes have been covering up since. A little free secret I want to share with is this. The mumu that shows you off will dump you the sooner his low self esteem improves and he is able to get something better for himself so he is just managing you for now.

You will faint if you were the one that was there when I undressed

Nonexisting:
See this ulaga crying here because I extolled thick vaginarians in the other thread. Don't worry, you will be alright. Drink yoghurts and also tell the blind mumus that chase you about including the one that shows you off to cum in your mouth to see if their sperms will improve your weight. I call them blind mumus because the day you pull off your clothes before them, they will realize how much your clothes have been covering up since. A little free secret I want to share with is this. The mumu that shows you off will dump you the sooner his low self esteem improves and he is able to get something better for himself so he is just managing you for now.

Oya sorry
Let's hookup
Leave these slim girls they don't know anything

raddyworld:
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MadamVanessa:




Nobody can preach that to me. All that matters to me is my dildoos.

We already know

MadamVanessa:





You just finish taking Mkpurummiri

I kuku know you
Crazy madamvanessa , might even be an oga Vanessa

OlawaleBammie:
u wil just kee ursef ontop another person sicknes
U dont even know if u re going to be the fourth wife to a middle age man

When I marry I will send the pics , ma worry

Prettygirl200:
Lol sweetie don't mind the guy jareh, it's either he wants to use his head for rituals or want to chop u ND clean mouth. On no account should u embark on such journeys shey u have been seeing things going on on social media my dear it's real. Life don too big nd every lazy young idoult wants to cash out with someone's head. Always be careful!!!

Thank you

Kobojunkie:
The bible never said any such. In fact the only reference made to such was of the daughter of Israel, during a time of captivity when most all of the men had been taken away to be prisoners in foreign lands, leaving but a few of the mostly previously undesirable men.


Please try not to quote bible without understanding abeg!

Please marry me
I will cook my own food and eat it