I HATE IT WHEN I SEE GUYS ACT LIKE WUSSY!

Can't you see?! She doesn't want you! Stop making yourself very less important!

@ Poster I don't know why You're here askin us dis kind question! Even if we(Nairalanders) present the best logical answer. Does it make it the best decision in the future?! If someone happens to tell you that both men ain't right 4you what are you goina do?!

The point is this:
I don't know why we humans neglect God so much!! We place no significance in a Supreme God who is more than willing to carry our burden, confusions, fruastrations etc. 4 us! Im not a pastor neither Im I trying to preach but the truth remains that HE's the only one that can tell who is right 4 now! cuz, logically speaking HE's d only 1 with d knowledge of d future! So, ask HIM!
Naijangel Pray! Ask Him to direct you, to make d best decision 4 you, in fact His Awesome will should be done in your life!

PRAY! PRAY!! PRAY!!!

That's your way out of this dilemma!

I don't see any reason why any1 should be jealous over 'letters or pics'. For Crying out low, d guy is with you. And it's his life, remember. So don't allow whatever archive his gathering for posterity sake bother you. He's 2ru with those girls and he's with U!!!


I just wish Nkem will ever understand this!

dnhovercraft:

I need a girl for a serious relationship

4 SACRIFICE?

Inked_Nerd:

@OP: No, I don't assume he is thinking about me.

U don commit? I think He's gat a good reason.

Dyt:

^^ lol
well well i call mine n he calls 2
dont c any big deal in it
n 4 d fact he didnt call doesnt mean m outta his mind

Tell them jor!!

short time no see . . . .

dobodobo:

it may sound like truth but it real and genuine-

Don't take time looking for girlfriend but take time doing one things or the other like going computer lesson,going to work, joining study groups, attending church or Mosque,doing something that will add value for your life

Don't take time buying stuff for someone but spend on yourself and make yourself look good as much as you can,you will even jealous of yourself( from your hair, face, body, neat cloth,clean shoe since you haven't no one to buy things for then but the most important thing is the future which is do something that add value to life)and before you knows it,dress nicely,don't talk to much,don't roams around to much,don't let anyone know much about you but before you know it, a girl either from society you join or area will want to get close to you and find out more about you,thats how I get my girlfriends and I have got up to 3 that way with the currently one which are will be 4 yrs relationship in 2011- no matter how bad you think I am, I will expose the real me to you soon

You 4got something, GO TO THE BATHROOM AND HANG YOURSELF

You no serious!! so because of Babe I go do all dis stress?!

Guyz like us don't have to force it, it just happens. Being yourself is more than enuf!

Haba!! @OP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! change your ways the right way! Abeg read your post again, you funny DIE!

Really, I'm telling you, these are the attributes that makes me trip 4u.

That humour feels so familiar, you remind me so much of sum1.

Anyways, I've told you. It's up 2 you.

Ain't you feeling like a QUEEN? I jst said DICTATE, it's up 2U!!

hermosa:

If only everyone could see this and understand it.


When she stares at your mouth
Kiss her

When she pushes you or hits you like a dummy because she thinks she's stronger than you
Grab her and don't let go

When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough
Kiss her and tell her you love her

When she's quiet
Ask her what's wrong

When she ignores you
Give her your attention

When she pulls away
Pull her back

When you see her at her worst
Tell her she's beautiful

When you see her start crying
Just hold her and don't say a word

When you see her walking
Sneak up and hug her waist from behind

When she's scared
Protect her

When she steals your favourite hoodie
Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night

When she teases you
Tease her back and make her laugh

When she doesn't answer for a long time
reassure her that everything is okay

When she looks at you with doubt
Back yourself up

When she says that she loves you
she really does more than you can understand

When she grabs at your hands
Hold her's and play with her fingers

When she bumps into you;
bump into her back and make her laugh

When she tells you a secret
keep it safe and untold

When she looks at you in your eyes
don't look away until she does

When she reposts this bulletin
she wants you to read it

- Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything

- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go

- When she says she's ok don't believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she'll remember you

- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her

-Treat her like she's all that matters to you

- Stay up all night with her when she's sick

- Watch her favourite movie with her or her favourite show even if you think it's silly

- Give her the world.

- Let her wear your clothes

-When she's bored and sad, hang out with her  

-Let her know she's important.

- Don't talk about other girls around her

- Kiss her in the pouring rain

- When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is:
"Whose butt am i kicking baby?"

is this the cutest text ever read??

Men, I love this article.

deco2come:

A lot of men are like that but since most girls take their caring as being dumb, men have learnt never to show a girl that his full love.

Anyway, interested in learning/knowing more about my language and culture you are welcome at www.umuigbo.com. Don't forget to post a topic or ask any question in the forum section. You can also advice me on how to make it better

Guy you're kinda right. when you do all this to them, they'll start taking you 4 a WUSSY! But when you know your girl is sincerely in love with you then practicing all that would be nice and ok.

almoner:

I was reading in one of the classrooms in my college and suddenly a discussion ensure.

A young Nigerian lady was asking if any of us can marry from another tribe.

After much arguments, we couldn't arrive at a definite answer to that.

So, tell me your opinion about inter-tribal marriage and consequences if any.

Why not? Except Isi-Ala Ngwa

nurabela:

Does the duration of a hug tell the relationship between two people?

Ask urself?? Cuz reli U shuld be tellin US.





DYT wat are you doing here?

I knw say the next tin na, go be.  .  .  .  .  .   ignores Dave. That is your Trademark

Dyt:

i dont do under age dude

That is heart breaking, I wish I could do something about that.

The last time I checked, I'm who I am, so whoever that ain't OK with that should. . . . .

THIS IS WHO I AM!!!!!!! DYT

I kinda like this, so much to learn from

Ok, Im sury.

Im giving U dat POWER! Decide!

coded777:

Thats if there is any at all.
I haven't debated this with anyone.
How effective can a promise make, are there consequences for breaking a promise made to a spouse or girlfriend knowingly or unknowingly?
It baffles atimes when i see how highly dependent gals are with promises, they  want you to just PROMISE them at all cost that you won't break their hearts and the sort after which they feel protected, my girl made me promise her that i wont break her heart, now
it makes me ponder if promise is same as 'Love Covenant' (LC),

NEMESIS [list]

Dyt:

Wish he wz so near
bt he seems far 4 now
shld b wit my cousins n all
i miss him so much

I feeling 4u (empathy)

Come hang with me, let me spoil you. I know you'll like that

jontoyin:

I beg I no undastand all of una.

all of who? me no understand u

Creamish:

  . . dont even bother making a 2nd attempt at trying to understand them . .     

Dyt:

Me?
Fakeful
u don enta 4 back finish o
u hear

Roflmao

Cutie wen I said dat I was not referring to you

It was just an Idiomatic expression


Why are you still touching your toes

Phate07:


What Is The Craziest Thing That You Have Ever Done For The Sake Of Love?

They're just 2 much don't know where to start 4rm!!

Dyt:

Yet 2 com
bt dere s almost nottin i cant do

I trust U, na        the craziest thing U've done is that [s]YOU'VE DONE NOTHING!!!!!![/s]

!!Mr Cork:

eat  punnny continiously  for 80 minute actually, without break!

That's what I'm talking about! it's 1 of them

livedit:

Gave my virginity away to my first boyfriend. 

Jeez! dis is so ORDINARY. Cutie, think of something Crazy.  puleeeaasee,

I don't agree with U guyz!!! This is what I believe in: We all scream 2 our Gurls "I WANT YOU TO BE MY LOVER AND MY FRIEND!!!"

Think about it this way: Guyz, shey we all know the way we gist our guy friends almost everything and with utmost sincerity(BECAUSE THEY'RE OUR FRIENDS, I MEAN OUR FRIENDS!!!)

That's the same way You should gist your LOVERS because they're Your LOVER AND FRIEND


   .   .   .   .  .  . SIMPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ssemire:

i have this guy that is supposed to be my friend but i am having second thoughts about him now. when we met initially, i thought he was really level headed. we met in January and we became very close friends. we started hanging out a lot and got used to being seen together.after our year was up in the student accommodation we were staying, we moved into a 3 bedroom house together with a third person.

on a dreadful day like that, he brought a chinese girl home and after the girl left around 12 midnight, i confronted him on why he had to bring a girl home seeing that it was not fair on me (though there was never any official asking out). he said that after all i wasn't his girlfriend. that he did not come to the UK to date another Nigerian girl and that he had to know what a non-nigerian a-r$e feels like. at the end of the day, he said this is the one time he has to hurt me as he has made up his mind. after chatting rubbish to the girl asking if she is a virgin (on the second day of meeting her) in a not-so-subtle manner, the girl told him off.
he resorted to looking on dating websites like tagged to find girls. he eventually found one that gave him her number and the first thing he did was to give her the address of our place and the girl started asking him for plenty alcohol and drugs (he doesn't do drugs but the girl wants him to buy for her). now something of a drug overdose has happened to the girl and the police have started visiting our house.

i really feel like ignoring him now since he was not even sensitive in the first place. i think it serves him right

I like ur sincerity, and transparency. I tell U, most Naija Babes won't have the courage 2 do wat U did.

Anyways, I'll be pleading with You 2 be there 4 him, do it as a friend and as a Naija sister watching after Her Naija Brother. Pls, if this will make any sense, do it 4 GOD!

Must U act lyk every Naija Babe?!
Is it pertinert U mst pretend U dnt av BF(s)?!
Ok!!! ok! ok!!

Im talkin abt d Unlucky Guy(s), is he(are they) taking U out?


P.S. Dnt fink I gat plans 4U, Im simply askin. . . . . . . . It's called Curiosity!

. . . . .SO BE SINCERE!!!

Dyt:

Where wld u prefer

mmmmm. . . . . . . . On a 2nd thought, cum in front me, and Touch Ur toes

Cojamaja:

@davedoss&dyt,you guys should open a thread where two of you can hook up and do the chatting.I don't like what you people are doing oh?

Haba! Na wa o o! U go stingy o o! Na only U need faithful Babe?! I jst found a fakeful babe in Ur thread! Ain't U suppose 2b happy with me?!!

where? behind or on top of me, dats where u shld be!!!

So, he's takin u out

Mygoldie:




desense where art thou sense?

Ar U sayin U're nt my Chi?

If U dnt mind, U can replace her 4me
(kiddin)

SERIOUSLY, I NEED HELP!!!

Ok, dat's alrite. I thought U forming innocent Ajebo!

Wat ar your plans 4 Xmas? Dat's if U're Xtian?!

Dyt:

Wat do u want?

I want U!