idealogical:
Abdulwasiu Sowami

Adova CEO

Oluromantic:
You now see why it's not easy to let go sometimes especially when it's d other way round. You girls will be so quick to cast terrible aspersions on a guy and say... He doesn't know what he wants, when he knew he doesn't like her, why did he waste her time, he just wanted to be sleeping with her.

And if after letting go and realised he shdnt have, and he comes back to apologise.. aaaah, the worst talks will show up especially with the influence of your fellow rotten-brain female friends who have no wisdom than to just conclude on what they see on the surface.

The truth is some decisions are not easy to take at some points and it's not easy to know what's on the other side that you have not experienced.


I understand that feeling and I'd advice you don't cut out ur communication with him totally, while you satisfy ur curiosity by letting in another guy. If the new guy is ur dream guy, then separate from the former guy respectfully with maturity and not with the sudden rude attitude u ladies give insensitively cus you've found someone else.

But if you find out he's still d best option you've got, then apologize for the slight reduction in communication and begin to build him up to your taste...yes it's very possible... Know his personality, temperament and responses to actions and connect with him from there. Before you know it, you will change him and he'll become a guy many girls are dying to have.

Reference:


And you rather believe anyone who posts anything on social media in a country globally known for its cyber fraud...ypu need to up your game. You surely can do better.

gudnex22:

They should show us evidence or video na

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Ehya,
That statement is very painful. It can make someone even commit suicide.


Now that you can't break up with the girl, kuku break up with your mama

Liliantalks:
did she say she is righteous?? kunle decieved her that’s the point

BankyGee:

;D Lol... Guess we like the same set of women



Nice one bro

BankyGee:
I have many favorite actors/actresses but lemme write the 1st - 3rd
1st - Henry Cavill
2nd - Dwayne Johnson (The Rock)
3rd - Samuel L. Jackson

Female:
1st - Gal Gadot
2nd - Scarlett Johansson
3rd - Melissa Benoist

instinct57vm:
Well said but I figured her flaws and told her. And her flaws in the whole scenario are 1. She emphasized on the length of stay of her mum too often. Even tho it shouldn’t be a bigdeal coz it’s within her right to know, but it is what it is.

Evry other blame lies with d guy in my opinion. He can’t put his house together and failed to prove he’s now a man to his mum

Ffolksy:
Hi Everyone,

I want to run this through this platform, perhaps I would get some useful input.

I switched companies in March. It was basically due to locations. I was doing fine at my former company. I moved to the latter one because it's close to my house and offered a little salary raise. Turned out it would be my worst career decision.

First week in April after the lockdown was announced, the company came up with a work from home policy which stated that staff were meant to work only Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Consequently, only 70 percent of basic salary (without the allowances) would be paid, and worse, computation would be made for only the number of days (I.e, 12 days a month).

We were assured it's just for the lockdown period, and that things would return to normal afterwards.

Surprisingly, by third week of April, about 90% of staff (including I) was laid off, giving us one week notice.

Yesterday, i got N36,000 from them as my salary for April. My agreed net salary before accepting their offer was N240,000, and that's what I got in March

Considering I'm being laid off, shouldn't they have at least paid the full salary for the month? I feel greatly cheated. Any advice, please?

Thank you.

sexylassie2:


she was the man in the relationship, she thought your dependency will change, she was investing thinking it will change but it didnt, she moved forward. so you thought she will continue this forever .

Liliantalks:
sorry to disappoint you but it’s a trade by barter , u take care of me and I take care of you . But in different ways

Jasonjay101:
Please I'm new here on this platform and I just want some advice to clear my mind.

Let me just go straight to the point. My girl that we've been dating for a year plus now just told me a week ago that she lived a couple's life with her ex back in school right from when she entered 300l (4yrs course) and the guy 400l (5yrs course) and I've not been able to get over it.

It happened a week ago, we were together and she saw a post of her ex engagement to his current girlfriend and she started feeling bad, so I asked her what happened and a little bit angry with her thinking maybe she was not over her ex yet. She told me she has gotten over him but she just remembered her past so I try to console her to let go and if there's something she hasn't told me yet about her past that is still eating her up she can tell me because before now we've talked about a lot of things about our past and we've try to forgive each other and let the past be in the past.

She had told me it was this only guy she had dated and it was the same guy that disvirgined her. I was not bothered about that because I was not a virgin either. She told me she has moved on even before I came and she stayed for close to a year to heal up and all through this time I was asking her out but she never said yes and never told me she was going through heart break.

Now, it's a year and few months into our relationship, she's been a very good girl, supportive and hard working. And now she just told me this, coupled with some lies she has used to cover it up in some of our previous conversations about her school life.

I'm not perfect either and I've had my past which I have told her. I never lived a couples life back in school and it was only a girl I've also had anything sexual relationship to do with.

Why am emotionally down now is because I know what it is like to live a couples life in school. I never lived as one but I know of people that lived as such in school and I know what happens.

Now I don't know if I can forget about this and we move on. I love this girl so much and she has shown to also love me as much and I've tried to forget about what happened but most times when I see her now I tend to always remember and it eats me up.

Do you guys think I can forget about this?

nairavsdollars:
looms or it has happened already. It will worsen if if the lockdown is extended

DEROX:
we all know messi is the best who doesn't enjoy him play

Nicklaus619:


You are a very rational person, I like that, that's just what I was discussing with my kid brother this morning , I believe that they have got the cure like since the virus broke out, after all they knew the Genesis of the virus, but they want to play victim and crush other countries economy, now USA is the most affected country with the highest case of coronavirus, when this thing is finnaly over, china may become the next world power and the rest of the world has got to lean on them for support , ever wonder why Beijing and north Korea and South Korea has got zero case of the virus, yet they are the closest to china It's all a conspiracy theory clearly cratfed by the Chinese to make the world dependant of her just like USA has been since like forever now.

CAPSLOCKED:

IT'S NOT GOOD FOR THEM. IT'S SHAMEFUL AND SUCH PEOPLE ARE CALAMITIES.
THEY ALREADY CHOSE YOUR NAME, RELIGION, TRIBE AND SCHOOLS FOR YOU. MAYBE EVEN YOUR CAREER. NOW YOU'LL LET THEM CHOOSE YOUR PARTNER FOR YOU. AND WHAT MORE, YOU'LL LET THEM CHOOSE WHEN YOU FÙCK THEM?


OUR ELDERS ARE NOT THE UNTOUCHABLE ANGELS WE HAVE MADE THEM TO BE IN THIS PART OF THE WORLD, AND SOMETIMES, THEY DISH OUT THE MOST EVIL UNDER THE GUISE OF LOVE. WE'RE IN THIS MESS IN NIGERIA TODAY BECAUSE OF THE PEOPLE BEFORE US. EVERYTHING FROM POLITICS, TERRORISM, NEPOTISM, WITCHCRAFT, THUGGERY AND MORE DAMAGING VICES WERE CREATED BY THIS PEOPLE, AND I HATE TO SEE US MODERN PEOPLE NOT CHANGING THEIR WAYS BUT DECIDING TO WALK IN THEIR PATH AND EVEN SEEK AND TAKE SOME OF THEIR ILLITERATE COUNCIL BEFORE MAKING DECISIONS THAT WILL AFFECT OUR OWN LIVES.

CAPSLOCKED:


I'M ALRIGHT.



THIS IS QUITE UNFORTUNATE. AND TODAY'S YOUNG MINDS ALLOW THEIR PARENTS GET AWAY WITH THESE THINGS BECAUSE THEY CARE SO MUCH ABOUT THEIR PARENTS EMOTIONS. THIS IS STUPID.




OUR YOUTHS SUBSCRIBE TO THE "WHAT AN ELDER CAN SEE WHILE SITTING, A YOUNG MAN WILL NEVER SEE EVEN WHEN HE CLIMBS A MOUNTAIN" MANTRA. THIS IS INSULTING TO OUR INTELLIGENCE I SWEAR.

HOW CAN AN OLD PALMWINE DRINKING UNCLE FROM THE CAVE IN YOUR VILLAGE KNOW MORE THAN YOU WHO IS ADVANCED IN MANY FIELDS OF STUDY?


Seems you cannot pass your message across without insulting or abusing someone. It was only a question that required a simple answer but you decided to go on a tirade on elderly people. If someone decides to allow their parents to choose for them, good for them. You seem not to have elderly ones or you were scarred by the ones you have.

To the person who asked the question, I am not in support of parents choosing for their wards when it comes to marriages but it doesn't mean they are wrong if they raise a concern or an objection to certain people. Listen with an open mind. They might be right or wrong, take what is important in their concerns and leave what you feel is not important.

At the end of the day, you will settle with whom you are meant to settle down with. Don't let someone who is obviously bitter talk you into doing the wrong thing.

McCoy662:
Good evening my good people. Our result just came out today and my worst imagination has happened. I saw my name in 2:2 division, what I have always tried to avoid since my year 1. I know it's my project supervisor that fvcked me up cause he has been hostile to me for no reason. I feel really bad, but that did has been done.

So, I just want to know how bad is 2:2 in Nigerian market? Is it something to count on or should I just move on like I never went to the university??

I need answers please!!