Johnny B.:

Man, if I were you I'd tell your bro! Same thing happend to me, I was sleeping with a girl for about 6 months, during this time my younger brother was away. He later hooked up with the same girl I was with and later on, they became a couple. Well, to make it short, he was going to move with her to Arizona and live there together but one of our freinds, mine and my brother's, told my bro that he knew the girl my bro was dating and also he told my brother that she was with me for a while. Little to say, by little bro stopped talking to me and all this drama happend. It's not an "ego" thing like some people say, it looking out for you bro! If he excepts what happend between you and her, then give them your blessing!

stag:

tell the him now and let him make up his mind if he's going ahead with her. keep no secret with any one let alone a woman, not that men are any better, but u don't want to get mixed up in a nasty secret -believe me.your secret may come back to haunt u.a future 'had i known' can be prevented now by of this chance

iceblue:

daywalka!!! are u sleeping??!!

tell us - do u still think about her like THAT when she walks into the room? do u still have the hots for her? this is the third time i'm asking bro. i'm beginning to smell fowl nyash o!

Bblak:

No matter the situation, i think it's better the girl tells him to avoid chaos when he later find out.Cos i'm quite sure he will find out soonest even if the brother refused telling him. _{My View}

tenhap:

Guy,
If i were u, i would have told my brother long before now. Better late than never. Tell him NOW!!! What will follow is a function of 'what will be will be'. Surprisingly, we have two kinds of men on earth:
1) Those who can live with a girl's sordid past, no matter how graphic
2) Those who would rather imagine and can't get the picture off their minds once told.
Your brother sure belongs to either of the above and his course of action would be determined as such.
For me, nothing feels as good as a brother's loyalty!
Look at it this way:
1) Your brother can never blame you for having dated the girl before him
2) Having this 'little' secret creates some kind of unhealthy bond between you and the girl (not wise)
3) It would be easier for your brother to adjust to the fact that you told him, cause he would be better placed to understand her fears (if he chooses to) and at the same time have no beef with you.
Think real deep bro!