Ladies allow the best part of their emotinos to carry them in a relationship instead of making use of their heads they always use their hearts.

Ladies are usually carried away by a Man's words especially when they feel something for that Man. There is a saying " KNOWLEDGE IS BELIEVING HALF OF WHAT YOU HEAR, WHILE WISDOM IS KNOWING WHICH HALF TO BELIEVE" Even though you love him, please be smart, A man that loves you wont disrespect you, neither will he cheat on you and vice versa!!

Dont let your emotions becloud your sence of reasoning. Men give foolish/very stupid lies!! His words should not sweep you off your feet!!!!

WHY NOT, its best to inform our partners of past secrets

@ Poster,

i think you should focus on your education and goals in life, u re only 23yrs old!!

talk2sulta:

She is the students union vice president of her school.her boyfriend is a hardworking engineer.he is thinking of settling down but he has a source of concern;she is a celebrity.always on the phone,never takes care of the house when she's around.she's a good homemaker with good culiniary skills no doubt.but she's to busy to cook,discuss and attend to home chores.he's not insecure though but he's thinking about the future of the children nd the home.talked it over severally but no end or solution in sight.now he needs a breakup.
Your candid and mature suggestion would be helpful.thanks.

she's a good homemaker with good culiniary skills no doubt If he recognizes that she is this then what is his problem? maybe he should be more patient and understanding with her, or he can do them himself abi him be handicap? Since she is an SUG vice president it wont last long.

Also let me ask the Men, why is it a problem to you all when your woman usually does your chores for you and along the way she stops or its not consistent as before? why is it a problem to you all? Also is it right to do chores consistently for a man who never pay anything ontop your head, who you are not yet married to, you are not his wife oh remember that!!

I dont have anything against this but i think when the girlfriend cant do this the man has his hands to do it, because it is not yet her duty/responsibity to do the guys chores for him

omega25red:

each women like different individual quality about each individual man. There is no way to pin point it. Besides most women don't even know what they want

Why did u say most women dont know what they want? Well for me, the kind of man i like is the one who has devoted and given the whole of himself to God, a man that is not devoted to God cant be devoted to you his woman. But he should be badddddddddddddd u know wat i mean

angel dust

maradonat:

she has been like a sister and an aunty to me,but because of our closeness,i have fallen deeply in love wit her.am 20yrs.she is far older than me,because of the what i touch her ,now she has asked me what i want from her and i don't know what to say,

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igwe 1:

Ehh, kedu?

phemygee:

As a matter of fact, love is bin wicked when u pour out ur emotion because u want to show 100% support and along the way some awful things start coming up, U will feel down,


D-BAby, u shuld have a beta insight of what i am talkin about

Mr Femi ko!! Well i do understand ur point and i have been in such situation but what will u do? will u kill yourself that he/she isnt reciprocating the way he/she should? life goes on!!! Maybe he/she is probably not that into you, Its time to have a rethink and dont keep languishing in soo much pain. Move on you will definately find love again someone who will love you even much more than what you showed the person you just left and u will give thanks to God .

Love is sweet no matter how bad it could hurt we cant just give up on love and run into conclusion that love is wicked, to me it is not.

tp580:

Dude if u think you love her then blen her to your taste. because nobody is perfect.

U cant blend or change anybody to your taste oh! if the person does blend to your taste its only to pleaseeeee you and not for the right reasons!!!

@ Topic, Bros u fit turn into VESKPA, nothing do u!!!

igwe 1:

Like love being wicked nawn lol

Nna, love odiro(no de) wicked. ibu onye igbo ba

LOVE IS WICKED HOW?

phraoh:

yes i have,she is pretty.

Are u sure its her picture she sent Careful oh! she fit be half human half fish

phraoh:

yes i have,she is pretty.

Are u sure its her picture she sent Careful oh! she it be half human half fish

It happens,
For me oh! I will take my tym maybe weeks to mourn the loss of whoever it is, cry everything that is in me, accept the breakup and then move on.

Nautillus:

lol . . .you are just nuts . . .

U might be suffering from what we call Premature Ejaculation!!! Go see a Dr, there re drugs that cure this problem

We that are born and have lived all our ives in the north only give legshakes not handshake so plzzzzzzzzzz next time try go for our legs not hands

Reliability+insurance dear. Its safer dating older men than d yound dudes

i will go beg the lady to please give him a little taste of it

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We know how to cover our tracks and nothing can be suspected unlike the Men who give very very very stupid lies when they re caught that a baby still in the womb will know it a lie. Men dont know how to cover their tracks but We re just better game players

Bro,
1. i will say she could have been testing you

You just have to go and appease her, and promise her it will never happen and mean it oh! not just words. She might likely not do anything,2her been quite she is your wife, and maybe sheis trying to figure out where she has gone wrong that warranted such an act from you Also her been quite, is a wise strategy that a Woman also uses to build her home. U re feeling uncomfortable about what you did and u know it was a grave mistake u made and that is what her silence is causing, if she had fought you and her friend at that point you probably wont be feeling this way now.

How we react to nagative situations has a lot to play in the success of our marriage/relationship. She has built with you and i dont think she will ever allow another woman from no where to come reap where she has sown.

You just have to realise the gravity of what you did and go make ammends in every way possible. Even if na make u dey carry wrapper back her from morning till evening

That is a wife Bro, and thank God you have such a woman, and she loves u!

Good luck to u as u make ammends but dont forget to wear a helmet incase pistel go land for your head

Bro's
seems u are deriving soo much pleasure pulling our legs here on Nairaland with your English.
Enjoy

I was engaged to a guy 4 years, who am educationally higher than, he is an ND holder while am an economic graduate. He is 33 and am 24. My parents refused to give their consent one of their reasons was that i am higher educationally and due to the jealoused nature of men and always wanting to lord over you that it could bring about inferiority complex and cos problems in marriage. Well there is truth in it. Now he is thinking of going back to school. Also our Pastor advised he goes back to school!!!

But to me it all depends on the two parties wanting to make their marriage a success. He can still marry at that age and go to school. Age does not hinder anyone from going to school or continuing his/her education. Education broadens the mind!!! Its left for her and the guy to decide their fate and what they want. But they should not leave their parents out of this.

HELLO NL,

I have noticed that Men when usually going through some trying times tend to go into their caves by withdrawing from his partner!

Ladies, how do you take it when your man withdraws from you? what can u do to support him? and Gentlemen what usually goes through your mind at this point in time and what do you expect your woman to do or how do you expect her to react seeing that you really cant give her attention at this point in time that you seem depressed?

Pls post in your views.

Thanks