jmichael259:


private number and it's location can be disclosed when you print call records from ur service provider.

That's the reason why I haven't call her yet because I don't want them to locate me. Is it possible for them to locate me if I create a new Facebook account to send a message to my brother then I will delete the account?

damoobaba:


We will be waiting for update

Update
https://www.nairaland.com/7420968/ran-away-home-sister#118190245

Okhuadams:
Is the said sister ur blood sister then why the maltreatment or is she adopted find out.

She's my dad's daughter

Emdebby2:
You didn't mention the reason why she was abusing your younger sister. Was she adopted? Did you talk to her when the abuse started before running away?
Anyway...now that she's sick because of you, call her and tell her how you feel and if she's ready to stop abusing the innocent girl. You may not visit for now but keep communication with her open.

She's the product of my dad infidelity

Buziness101:
My dear you have shown a very different personality unlike the ordinary Nigerian girl... Please drop ur bank details with me on pm ... I will love to support your effort just to encourage you and let you know that you are doing the right thing.

07044943661... WhatsApp only

Thank you so much sir I am not in needs of any money like I said earlier we are not struggling, our rent and feeding are covered by a good samaritan. Please give the money to someone who needs it more than us

Kobojunkie:
1. Na you kill am then abi na her conscience?

2. It is really up to you. My concern is the 13-year-old with you. Aren't there any relatives on her side who can take her in instead? You are still young is why I ask..

She had a maternal grandmother but I don't know her whereabouts also my dad's family doesn't want her. I am the only person she has

frozen70:


I think you need to call her so that she will know that you guys are better where you

That will give both of you peace of mind

If she says that you should come back home, tell her the reason why you left with your sister and that you don't trust her again

If she insist, then you have to tell her to involve a family relation whom she respects to be the one to ask you to visit her and if such person calls, tell him or her that, you will only come on the condition that he invites another family member so that you will tell them why you acted so

By so doing, you want your people to know what have been happening and you need a witness

After such meeting, don't sleep there, always visit and go back, don't even eat for the time being but get whatever you can for them

You know as it is now, you guys already have a discord so you don't know their plans on you

Meanwhile don't tell them where you are for security reasons

Thank you so much I will call her tommorow involving family will not help the matter because they are all supporting her including my grandmother she had witness most of the abuse and she had never for once tell her to stop abusing the child. Early this year when I reported the matter to the police they had denied everything painting me back and the police believed them. They had all ganged up against me and beat me up and I don't want the same to repeat again. I am trying to be away from her for as long as I can I hope my absence will make her a good person If she can't bear to lose me she should accept and love my sister the same way she loves my siblings and I.

Helpout12345:
You are justified in your action. God will keep and bless you for this.

My advise are these

1. Try to get a job so that you can support yourself and your sister without depending on another person.

2. Locate a welfare office in your state and register the situation for a record. You can also lodge a police report after that to document the situation with police. These steps are important in case your family decided to report that your sister was kidnapped.

3. You can contact your family on an unknown number if you want but do it in a way you cannot be tracked or traced. Go to another city ,use a public phone to call them.

Thank you so much I will definitely use a public phone

Greatzeus:
You have a good heart for you to be protective of your step sister,whom your mother and brothers are maltreating.
But in life,we need wisdom,good intentions are not always enough. So you must apply wisdom in these situation.
First that woman that is accomodating you and your sister,when you have been declared missing by Police is risking jail term. Don't put that woman in trouble.
I will advice you to go to the LASG Office of public defender,if you're not in Lagos,go to the office of public defender in your state. Tell them your mom and brothers are maltreating your sister and her life might be in danger. So that way, your leaving the house is justified and the woman that accommodated you won't be prosecuted.

Thanks so much I am not in lagos I will pass the information to the good samaritan to locate the office in our state

Mindlog:


Ok. Does your half-sister have contacts of any of her late mother's relative?

From your earlier thread your family is based in Uyo, get in touch with FIDA, it is an international organization of female lawyers, I worked with their office in Nairobi, Kenya and they intervene in such cases.

Office Address: Room 39B, Ministry of Justice, State Secretariat, Uyo.
Phone No: 08033022895, 08032606289
E-mail Address: lovedybassey@yahoo.com, mfonobong.uduak@gmail.com

Thanks so much I will pass the information to the good samaritan to help us locate them

Mindlog:


Ok. Where is your Dad in all these? In what way(s) had your 2 younger brothers abused her?

Here is the story

https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

azraeljaheel:



And she didn't tell you to go back to your family. What was the story you told this your good samaritan. You mum is sick thanks to you and your sister. I would advice you reach out to them.

This life sef. Me I am here wishing for a family someone is there running away from theirs

Okay o

Anyways incase you are interested in shared apartment kindly send a pm

Here is the story

https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

Mindlog:
"I am her only daughter among 4 boys"....who is the biological mother of the 13 year old?

She is the product of my dad infidelity.We share the same dad , different mum her bio mum is late

Pierocash:
I am very sure this good Samaritan is a boyfriend right?

She is a woman

Pierocash:
So your 13yr old sister doesn't go to school,can't they go to her school to get her and locate you from there? Or did you change her school.

She hasn't been to school since July my mum did not enrolled her for this term but I am planning to enroll her soon

blackbone989:
Use a private num to call n tell them u r fine. Tell them not to bother looking for you that u r ok.

I will do that thanks

general111:
Hope you are fine wherever you are?

We are doing great thanks . The rent, feeding and other expenses are covered by a very good samaritan

I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.

I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.

Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.

Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.

I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.

I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.

Should I do it or not?


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

Good evening everyone , all my efforts were in vain. My parents, four brothers and grandmother denied everything and my sister has refuse to talk about the abuse , she kept worshipping my mum. They have all turned against me and no further actions were taken due to lack of proof. My mum , dad and elder brother ganged up against me and beat me up. They have seized my big phone and I am using the small phone. I swear some people like my sister deserve to suffer I don't think I will ever intervene for her again. I have washed my hands and thank you for all your advice.

Truvelisback:
What abt her own mother?

She is dead

InTheCloudySky:
Please report her or call the Police before she kills her. She's already killing the girl right now with all you've written up there. The fact that your brothers are following suit is shameful too. Shame on all of them. That poor girl needs to be taken away from that home asap.

Thank you for attempting to help her. Please don't relent until she's out of there and either returned to her mother, or placed into a loving home.

Thanks , her bio mum is late hopefully when the police will be involve. I will tell them to force my dad to contact her maternal grandmother to come and pick her up.

Truvelisback:
Have u told ur father or her father?

He is aware of the situation and he has witnessed most of the abuses but he doesn't say anything

FairlyUSEDpussy:



Pls........do fast before she murder the poor girl........God bless u!!!

They might even help reuniting her with her mum.......

Yo dad is BIG SIMP.

Thanks, I am waiting for my friend to come and pick me up so we'll go together

Sexyliciousbri:
Report her to the police . The child should be taken away. The father is a complete idiot.
The girl should be given back to her biological mother if she's still alive.
Horrible and terrifying

Thanks , her bio mum is late

Good morning everyone, I want to report my mum for abusing my 12 years old step sister both physical, verbal and emotional and I don't like it because she didn't ask to be born from a married man. My dad caused it and she should abuse him not her.

I don't even know why she is treating the dog who cheated on her nicely while the innocent girl is suffering for his mistakes. My younger brothers 13 and 15 are also copying her and they have started to abuse her too.

Tears has become her foods and I am tired of my mum abusing the innocent girl. Yesterday, she strangled her just because she didn't wash my younger brother white jeans properly and I lost respect for her. I have insulted her for the first time in my life even though she hit me but I don't care I have to save my sister. She is my birth mother but I will not support her. I don't care if she rots in jail because she doesn't deserve the title mum.

If you know any human rights in Uyo please let me know.