Like seriously! How is FB bad for marriages, guess u have to check urself first aside who on earth is not on FB now sef even meat sellers av an account.
Guess u av ur best of game played on FB and u are afraid ur wife will fall prey.
Bros! Pls check urself

Mogten: wowww quite touching and inspiring! God bless your home ma'am!

Amen!! Thx & urs too

damiso:

It was a rant thread

Issokay

Met tru a family friend n we didn't get to see until 2 mnths b4 our wedding cos I wasn't in the country. Within a mnth we chose a date, he went to my parents to make his intention known, it was all like a dream til date I can't explain how possible it cud b.
We got married had triplet like a wk to our wedding anniversary and honestly God has been faithful.
None of his friends know the true story of how we met he didn't tell them to avoid discouragement.
This must b GOD!

By the way, ur topic doesn't go wt ur story or is it just me?

How can I forget the lady I was beg to accommodate whyl in my forma flat in SA....she nags at everytin!!
I asked her to share ward rope wt the lady staying in the other room and 'she started grumbling, 'in my father's house I control 4 wardrobes'
The next was wen she was to wait for me to finish bathing....'what is all these, in my room I have my own bath'
I was so irritated I answered her...did SA or Aril prevent u from bringing ur wardrobe and bath wen coming or who does not av a father's house.
This is a lady I met for the first time the day She arrived the country. A male friend brot her to me to pls let her stay for sometime, and if there was any action I still regret it was accommodating that lady cos she caused me a lot.

Sometimes if we don't find ourselves in a situation we keep blaming others for the action they decided to take....well, I am not for neither am I against, but let him who is without a sin be the first to cast a stone...
Mayb u mite need to b reminded that SIN is SIN, there is no measuring scale for it, and to u guys who av on many occasions aborted for diff gfs and u r here forming Joseph that neva touched Mary, It is well, to all the Virgin Mary in the house...May the Lord b with u.
This is a serious case where only she has her decisions to take....

SLIDE waxie: I think they are mad, as u've said earlier!
It's wrong. But like all fingers not equal, wot if d family can't afford enoug separate rooms to accommodate different sexes?

Well said, they actually stay in a 2 bedroom...the one I frown mostly @ is the bathing togeda that to me is not right not even the kids of this generation

pekelepekele: Ha just like Jesus Christ he died then when Maria Magdalene was still pregnant but Maria did a good thing by keeping the baby safe with also the help of the disciples

Excuse me pls! What version of the bible do you use? And can u pls quote where this is in the bible

At what age must a mother stop bathing with her kids esp if the child is a boy, Also Is it good for Siblings of different sexes to take their bath togeda and share same room?.
I visited 2 families and I saw these happened.
The first her kids boy n girl bath togeda (ages 7 & 10) and the 2nd bath togeda and share same room (ages 12 & 14).
I was so mad at this that I warned the 12 year old girl to stop bathing wt her broda.
Pls wat do u think?

tjskii: Pls wat exactly is this number portability about,cud someone enlighten me,and uh cud we get anoda link to watch d video apart from youtube,d last time I viewed smthn on youtube I lost ova 1,500 credit and iv vowed since den never to return

It simply allows u to use ur present noba on a different ntwk. For instance let's say u use Zain, u will retain ur noba even on mtn netwk, hence u start re charging wt MTN crdt after porting.
Do u understand?

Da Mayor: Sister, everyone here is advising you to throw in the towel. However, remember when youre crying at night, they will all be cozy with their boo's, and i bet many of them are worse 'mugus'(permit me to use that phrase), yet will come here ranting.
Dont compare your relationship to any other. Building is never easy, and the more expensive it is, the better. Im sure that boo loves you. He probably really just needs some space and you have to understand that giving him space doesnt mean he doesnt want to hear from you. Theres just cycles in life and this is just one of them. He'll come around i promise. The key is communication (sometimes people can actually talk but not communicate).
However i hope you are not pressurising him to make some kind of commitment. These things come in stages. if hes been with you this long, itll happen at the right time.

Abeg!! For so if she was ur sister, this is the kind of advice u will give en, how sad, there are no 2 ways to it, this are clear signs, how busy can a guy b that he wnt even find out time to call and moreover do u ever use the word 'busy' for ur love, oh! He is occupied yet he keeps hurting her wt words....if u know wat is good for u @OP, move ahead wt ur life, don't b too hasty to start anoda relationship n if he comes bk let him work for u so see if he is for real.

It's gotten to a point that he says if i don't have anything really really important to say i shoudln't call him or text him.
If i call him randomly to just tell him how my day is going, he gets angry.


He told u all these n yet u are still deceiving urself, I weak for u ooo, must there be an important reason or instance before u call that man u love, babes if u wanna be sincere wt urself 'U are only attached cos u lost ur virginity to him and he is ur first love' U know within urself that he is as bad as gone.
Good riddance to bad rubbish that what u must tell ur self right with above words from him

I have been there so I can feel ur pains.... Sistergirl, I will like u to wake up from ur slumber and talk real sense into ursef just like I did abt a year ago and here I am happily married & I hardly remember I met that guy in my life cos am experiencing bliss to the glory of God.
The fact that u lost ur Virginity to man is not enuf a reason to beg him to continually love u and pls take it off ur mind that u can't find a better person...oh pls! I have come to realise u can actually love anybody.
Its definitely not easy to let go but u have to.
I grew up to know the word Love as a Verb & not a Noun, so it should b expressed if he really still loves u
Would u wanna hear the hardest truth, this guy is probably married to a white for papers just like mine was then and I was here waiting for his arrival growing older by the day.
DON'T CALL HIM ANYMORE, a man shd do the hunting not the woman ok? He will continue to make u sad and I bet u, usually wish u never called eachtime u did cos of his responses.
Try to read in between the line, make urself happy and look good for other and better men around.
Distance Relationship is what I won't advice my worst enemy to do cos of the emotional pains that come with it.
Free him and give someone else a chance but pls don't start gisting the new guy abt his ways early in the relationship, he might use it against u or probably think u are using him to get rid of him from ur mind!

I have a pending application with the SA home office and I was issued a letter to return to my home country Nigeria for my wedding with the assurance the letter covers my to and fro, but unfortunately, my airline didn't board me after my wedding to return to SA, they demanded I do another visa.
My question is would I be given another visa because I intend to reapply, and what documents would I need to submit.
I didn't overstay but I have a pending application cos I stayed longer than 30 days.
Would appreciate your reply
Adebola