@Papa190 and Omolola1, If you wan tage, go dey tage for facebook.

If she changes gear, you should either press the break or throttle.

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1212:

send me your e-mail instead i cnt put mine on here,

email deleted!

Hello House,
What is the big deal about SIM registration? What if I don't do the so called registration. Does that mean they are going to block my line? I guess it should not be by force. I want the house to educate me on this stuff. Thanks.

My conclusion is that the poster is confused.

@Poster, see where you landed yourself now. Upon all the advice given to you on your previous thread (Sweden, Uk, South Cyprus and Finland Which one is easy for huzzling). Dont worry, you will turn to gay. Go with enough vaselin to rub your yansh.

mi 2010:

@kood. i know dat live in abroad is not easy but is far more better than life in nigeria. ok, compare this:

nigeria abroad

1. life expectance 40 87

2. power supply 1% 100%

3. education 20% 100%

4. water supply 15% 100%

5. road 1% 100%

6. daily death 99% 10%

7. clean environment 10% 100%

8. mosquito 100.5% 0

10. juju 100% 0

life in abroad is incomparable to life in nigeria, no matter what

I no wan talk before but with this your analysis, I no fit hold am. You need to see how I was laughing hahaha!! You be one bad comedian.

mi 2010:

@kood. i know dat live in abroad is not easy but is far more better than life in nigeria. ok, compare this:

nigeria abroad

1. life expectance 40 87

2. power supply 1% 100%

3. education 20% 100%

4. water supply 15% 100%

5. road 1% 100%

6. daily death 99% 10%

7. clean environment 10% 100%

8. mosquito 100.5% 0

10. juju 100% 0

life in abroad is incomparable to life in nigeria, no matter what

I no wan talk before but with this your analysis, I no fit hold am. You need to see how I was laughing hahaha!! You be one bad comedian.

Ashiri_IQ:

Anyway, this is not a time to cry over spilt milk. Do you know of anyone who has ever won a swedish appeal because am going all the way with them on my appeal.
Guys give me input, now you all know the full info on my rejection.

Here is someone's case on facebook. It should give you a little hope. Pray well. Pray for those of us still awaiting decision too.
Angella Namiiro HI
l applied for visas on 17th may
Got the reply on 28th june: permit denied due to insuffient funds
Appealed this decision on 12th july
my appealing docs reached the on 16th using dhl
embassy gave me permit on 21 july

The link: http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?topic=12640&post=126988&uid=31300055244#topic_top

Ashiri_IQ:

Its a big problem when you are applying to non-english speaking countries for visa, they dont understand english so well and may misinterprete what you are saying. For example, my father is my principal sponsor in principle and he owns a firm, i used his letter head to prove the evidence of fund to them by saying he has remitted all my needed fund held in my current account (applicant's current account), they went ahead to say i have partly the fund and my father has partly the fund according to the english they used. I did not show any part fund in my application, what i presented was the whole money 5million held in my own account as the applicant. A lot of places wey them goofe for law, too many injustice for their little knowledge. How on earth i fit afford 5 million, i actually brought in my father remitting money into my account to further prove to them that at the completion of my course, i shall return back to niger to take charge of our family company that is well related to my proposed course of study. They gave me right of appeal, am only familiar with UK appeal process, dunno what to make out of sweden wey don use 3 months to process visa, not to talk of appeal, that appeal may not see the light of day before school resume.

The rejected you because of the area in bold. You should not have included any letter. At least, that was not part of the requirement.

Ashiri_IQ:

, you have ever been refused, scan and edit your personal infor and paste refusal letter for all to read and interprete and debate upon

I think its high time you fulfilled your promise.

Ashiri_IQ:

If you dont have the money in your account for 2-5days, then forget the visa, except a miracle say them no confirm at all.

Did you actually remove the money before 5 days?

Ashiri_IQ:

I had 5 million in my account when I applied, later I removed 2 mil, later add 500k, then I started taking off and adding back money in my account, but I made sure I had over 3.5 mil, but why my bank go tell 3rd party my balance.

How many years programme were you admitted to? If it is 3 years, there should be no time when your account balance is less than 4.5 million, unless you were actually admitted into 2 years programme (3 million in this case). Keeping your account at 3.5 million is only acceptable for 2 year programme. The embassy has the right to check your account balance since you gave them the permission to do so by signing the customer agreement form during your appointment. You accepted all the terms on the form, wrote your full name and signed with date. All the embassy does is to take the agreement form to your bank and poof, they check everything about your account. Maybe your account balance was actually less than the required amount as at the time they went to check your balance.

So sorry to hear this. These people just reject people for no concrete reason. Why the rejection when you have the required amount in your account. Its not their fault. Guy, no long thing. Put in for spring 2011. Application is still inI progress. I'm still waiting for my own decision anyways. Its well bro.

justwise:

You completely misunderstood everything he wrote.

Agreed. I wasn't in a good mood when I replied. Thats why I apologised when I realized my bad.

@Ashiri_IQ, I wonder how these people do their things. I applied 2 days before you did and my case has not been decided yet. The whole stuff is slower for we Nigerians. Many people from india and Pakistan got theirs within 2 to 4 weeks.

In your case, I'd advice you to chill till tuesday if you dont hear from them today.

1212:

@ deoyel25 how old are you? and are you single?

I am single but I wont say my age here. Can I have your email?

1212:

so you want to hook up simply because i'm single, strange

It sounds strange but its not strange. Its not all about your status but some other reasons I wont post here. I want you to forget about the past and face the future.

@mylove4him, I know you are referring to me with the first line of your post. Mind you, I aint frivolous. Ta

Based on your status.

1212:

I mean it.

1212:

A strong chemistry always exist between two ex-lovers when they meet again, especially if the break up was due to trivial issues. Most of the time, they hook up again when they meet again and this always leads to cheating on their present lovers.
@Poster, this is what you both are experiencing now.

1212:

, and now i am single again.

Can we hook up?

@Vicjustice, sorry for the harsh words used on you.

Siena:

No need to be rude - did Vicjustice insult you?

If you read by the lines, you'd see the insult.

Siena:

Your friend got his visa after two denials. Do you know why he was refused initially? I doubt it was due to false documents.

Did I tell you my friend used false documents? If you read by the lines, you would see that I said "legitimate documents". And who told you that it is only the people that use fake documents that are denied? The fact that you used a legitimate document does not guarantee you visa. Visa is an opportunity, not your right.

Siena:

Learn to read properly, before responding. And learn to understand why visa's are denied in the first place.

Are you refering to me or yourself? So where is your argument? If you have learnt how to read properly, you would have seen my argument. In case of another time, read by the lines before you reply to threads. You dont just jump to a thread and post a reply without reading the previous conversations

Vicjustice:

   Perhaps you can exercise some generousity by lending me a half of your over-sized brain so i may be endowed with a half of your overwhelming wisdom, please?

I dont have your time. Next time, you dont just talk anyhow and talk about something you know nothing about. You be cheetah?

@Vicjustice or whatever you call yourself, i cant blame you cos you have no brains in your empty skull. The fact that somebody has been denied once at any embassy does not mean the person will always be denied. Get this into your empty skull. I have a friend that was denied 2 times at the US embassy with his legitimate documents. He eventually got his permit after the third trial.

Nairaland guys bad oo.

@Poster, you can still try again. When next you wanna go to the embassy, go with legit docs. Dont rely on some bull dogs to boost your account. Run up and down and get a family member that can spare you the required amount for one month. I wish you better luck next time.

@big father, I'm trying my best but it seems my best is nothing to her.

@nath01, thanks. I'm still thinking of the decision to take.

@stroke-in, every other thing is there except the understanding. I think I better open my eyes wide so as to clearly see the girls passing by.

Dont even try it. Though it might not be easy to quit the relationship at this stage but it is the best option for you. The money you spend on one 'SS' child is enough to take care of 4 healthy children. After spending a lot of money, the child eventually dies before age 25. So, what is the gain? Its better you cry now (after breaking up) so that you wont cry later (after your 'SS' child dies). The child will even blame you for taking such decision in the first place. Majority of the people that did it in the time past, did it because of ignorance. But now, you have no excuse because you know the implication of the risky decision you are about to take. Read my signature below. "A word is enough for the wise."

Hi Nairalanders,
I need your advice. My five years relationship is at the middle of a great storm. For the past one year, my girlfriend has been complaining that I am not romantic. She's always telling me that the relationship is boring. Here is a text I got from her today after calling her.

"Each day, my heart longs for a happy and better relationship. Do all you can to make this relationship romantic and fun-filled. Happy night rest".

It all started before we started dating. She made me realize that she is not freaked by words, that guys are always flattering girls with those words. This deleted all the words I would have been using for her in my dictionary.

To my greatest surprise, she has been complaining for more than one year now, that I don’t use words for her. She said I treat her like a normal friend (not like someone she is in a relationship with). I'm finding it hard to use those words because she made me delete them in my dictionary. Anytime I call her, she is always expecting words from me. When her complaints got unbearable, I started using those words but she said I'm saying them because she asked to always do so. She said they are not from my mind (which is true). This made me stop again.

Back in the University days, she does not complain but for the past 3 years, we have been hundreds of kilometres apart. Recently, I asked her why she agreed to go out with me when she knows I am not romantic and lively (we were like 5 guys chasing her back then). She said it’s because of my morals. Naturally, I am an introvert and I don’t talk much. That’s why she said I’m boring. I’m not romantic because I don’t use words for her.

Now, I am thinking of calling it quit with her because I don’t think I can stand her complaints anymore. I have never tested another girl but her complaint is making me to have a rethink. I'm thinking of starting afresh with someone else with a new dictionary that contains all those words. The problem is that a known devil is better than an unknown angel. I don’t wanna lose her because I have invested a lot in the relationship. I can’t imagine myself chasing a girl again because I chased her for more than 2 years before she said yes to me. At the same time, I'm finding it difficult to do what she wants because it has not been part of the relationship right from the onset. I love her but I hate her complaints.

HOW CAN I BE LIVELY AND ROMANTIC IN A DISTANT RELATIONSHIP? Must I always say I love her? I need your advice please. Thanks.

@Iyked, congrats once again. We'd also share our testimonies too. For them to be shocked about your early decision at the embassy, it means your case is a real miracle. Its obvious you are the only one who has been notified in Nigeria so far. (I stand to be corrected). Pray for us too.

@Ashiri_IQ, The best thing is to wait. Dont start deducing anything. Mine is 6 weeks 4 days today and I am also waiting. We are in the same shoes. I've not checked my status online though.