American25:

Marriage is a personal decision one has to make. Jehovah Witnesses are NOT allowed to attend another church. It is an offense if caught. Marriage is for life. The only solution for remarriage is that of adultery or death of a spouse. Here is some scriptural facts as follows:

1Cor. 7: 39--Marry only in the Lord

This means that a baptized servant of Jehovah should marry a fellow worshiper. They study God's Word and do family study together. This strengthens the marriage and makes it easy to manage family problems. There is no compatibility if a Witness marries an unbeliever, be they church goers, Muslims, and idol worshipers. Because the two have antipodal or opposing beliefs and ways of life.

Gal. 6:4,5--Each one will carry his own load

We should not compare ourselves with the other person. Each one's circumstances differs. We should think before making decisions. Because our decisions can have beneficial or adverse results. And they may be irreversible. Whatever decision we make, we should be ready to live with it whether for good or bad.

Gal. 6:7--We reap what we sow

Some Witnesses have disobeyed Jehovah's laws and are reaping the sad results. With regard to marriage, I know Witnesses who married outside the organization for different reasons but who experienced things shocking to relate in their marriage. It means that there is "punishment" for anyone who disobeys Jehovah's laws.




PS. Any Nigerians or Americans who are Jehovah Witnesses in this forum that would like to share testimony?

rokiatu:

I think you are being a bit paranoid and should call her, ask her to be try with you if anything, to put you out of your misery.
I'm a girl and I know the game we play. There shouldn't be a dominant person in a relationship, both should be equal. Do not be
a dummy if not you backside will get burn in the process. Common LDRS is not easy, do not waste your time waiting for someone who is
not worth it. Could be that she is only using you, maybe she's using you as a back up relief. Someone she calls only when she get lonely/ needs someone to talk to. I could be wrong, but still be straight forward with her, tell her you need some answers.

Some things are so silly that they are not worth responding to.  Sorry but are u now in MOBO'S class of intelligence too?

Rooneyboy:

oya start toasting ~ she has told u now that she's not shy . Oya we dey hear u .START . . . .

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come if u try am, i nor go hesitate to down u, i be merciless militant

Rooneyboy:

hope u r for real and caring ? i wouldnt want one Hot boi down the street to break an innocent girl's heart . @ inked_nerd, give this young man a chance .

--190--:

passin tru~

Inked_Nerd:

Lucky you, I guess you got one of the good ones. Girl, please tell me where you found him so I can go get one.

Inked_Nerd:

I'll be sure to be on the look out for guys like this next I come to Naija. I go slap am if they try it

Inked_Nerd:

No offense but why do you care if I'm always online? If you must know, my account is permanently logged on. I can chose to log of if I want to. Why is it a big deal?

Didn't mean any disrespect gurl,
just kinda curious my apologies if i got u stirred-up

publisher:

@ Poster:
Most (not all) Edo girls prefer to marry two types of men, a. A very strong,intimidating,successful,dangerous man OR b. An extremely weak,less than average,laid-back man.

If you dont belong to either of the two, plsssssssssssssssssssssssss RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.

Edo girls who prefer category A men belong to the school of thought which believes that if a man doesnt beat you that means he doesnt love you. They like men who can command them,take charge and cater 'fully' for her needs,especially financially and in bed. Even when such men cheat on them,these brand of Edo ladies will not disturb their guy,rather they'll deal with (seriously) their man's mistress!

Edo girls who prefer category B men are most times ex-love peddlers,ex-bad girls,ex-wives of category A men or husslers. They prefer weaker men most times cos they've not had much luck with 'hard guys'. These brand of Edo girls make very good wives to non-ambitious men,they takecare of their husbands and will even sleep with category A men in order to gain money or some kind of favours to be used for her hubby's well being. Problems only start when their 'mumu' husbands begins to 'soji' and starts to behave like category A men,the relationship crumbles almost immediately.

Having said that you could still locate a 'between the line' Edo girl,they are very rare though and i sincerely hope your present girlfriend is one of them.

Good luck son,