I am very happy for the bride, indians are very well home bred like we Africans. They are very warm and hospitable. You go girl! We waste much energy in Naija hating, thinking bad thoughts for others and envying. Why can't people open their heart and love one another, why? Wishing you long long years of bliss and hurry up and give us some sweet looking douglas girlfriend.

Please you guys should let Tracey kuru mmiri togbo iko(drink water and keep cup). Is it not enough that  this lady opened her whole heart and the unhappiness in it to share with all. Let the poor girl be biko. Tracey abeg have you checked that old list of those fellas that pissed you off in the past so we can see whether there's some good fella in there after all or will you rather we forget them and check out the next fella that comes around====smile. I guess this time around you are gonna let up a bit and not be too hard on them men, won't you? Now go on and have a good day, don't let the detective agents that abound in NL give you a hard day. I enjoy playing detective very well, there are just times it isn't necessary. You go girl!
Wait! Tracey did you say that you are in Abuja? I have brothers living in Abuja, wait! only one isn't married and he is so cute and handsome, how old is my babyboy------wait, I'm checking----he is 30 or 29. Blimey! I am wondering whether I should do a matchmaking here, only if you promise not to be hard on him(as in find fault). He is tall, handsome (Ehn what are those stuffs on your list again?). The only problem is that I don' know whether our babyboy is having baby blues yet and considering settling down. He is the last born boy of our family and may want to take his time but I will find out for you okay girl. If you do let me have your e-mail so you can tell me more about yourself and Voila! Tracey will get a handsome boyfriend----Everybody make some noise! dytfughjo;k;pk';pk;ojhkvhgfhfhgfdghgfjhhlkj;ljk;jlhgxdfxgfdtyfuytyjvkhbjkbihnopjmpojoitgyudftyfdtyfyufgyuguguh

@jennykadry
You are one bad-a**(positive compliment) Naija lady, maybe we should call you Nairaland police woman. Everybody watch out cos Jenny is on duty! Hey Jenny! I am one detective agent too-o-o-o and the only reason you know that is me is because I gave out one or two facts that made you know who is talking. I even had in mind to delete my post when our Tracy reads it. Which is what I am gonna do right now. It's a pity I didn't do that before our Sergeant Jenny stormed the thread. You are one hell(positive compliment still) of a lady Jenny, how do you have all the time to manage the home, work and still socialize this fully in Nairaland? I always see you having fun all over the place and even kicking the a** of some Naijas that acts s-t-u-p-i-d and needs to be woken up with a jolt. Isn't it high time Seun realized that your police uniform needs more additional stuffs by the shoulder that is he hasn't done that. Now smile for me!

@Tracey girl
Infact you are lucky that Aunty Jenny did not kick your a** here cos if she did, you will be crying now. You are so sweet girl, sweet enough to admit to mistakes and listen to others. Now maybe we should make a checklist of some of those a** holes and see who among them needs a call or two to say "I'm sorry if I offended you" and smartly see if you can hit it off right this time around. Perhaps if we you do it right the two of you can make us some gorgeous babies and you will wave good bye to baby blues. You go girl!

I was feeling you while reading your unhappiness because I was like here is somebody that knows exactly how loneliness feels but girlfriend along the way I could not feel you any longer because you have somethings wrong wrong but I am not angry with you because you are such a baby. Just like somebody mentioned here if you stick to that your checklist and even the improved checklist you may have to wait another 25 years to find him sweetheart.
  I understand the longings of your heart dear because there's nothing we ladies can do but wait for a man to come and marry us. The deductions I made from your write-up showed me that you are an intelligent and beautiful young lady but you seem to have a little pride which had your expectations from a man too unrealistic.  I agree with you that one must be attracted to who one wants to spend the rest of their life with.There's nothing wrong with knowing what you are worth and wanting respect and kindness from your man but there's something wrong with thinking that you are worth more than certain people Baby. You need not cross out certain kind of men, you can meet a very intelligent man  that have some but not all these qualities but he happen to be short so out he goes out of your list , you can also meet a tall, dark handsome hottie just the way you like em but he lacks in other dept so that is how you will keep being choosy. I am a graduate but I don't look down on any Nigerian man,  I have dated the unschooled trader, a crippled and a near blind school mates have even indicated their interest to have me. You know why because I mingled with them and accepted them as friends. The man for you may be stocked up in a short body and there you are waiting for a hunky man, which reminds me that the first time I became fully aware that I am tall was the day somebody complimented my long legs, it meant nothing to me that I am tall.
I can see that both of us are suffering from the natural Baby blues but girlfriend you need to come down from that tree and meet me down here for a tete-a-tete and do make away with that improved checklist of yours because the truth is there's no one man with all those attributes. Physical appearance is not all that makes a man. Give me a man that has a heart for God, a man that respects himself and others and I can check and balance the rest and see whether we are compatible enough.If he is so short that his hugs won't go all around me, I will give him much hugs that will be enough for the two of us. If he can't be hunky for me, I will be the hunk for the two of us. If he is too thin, I will feed him and he will hunk and macho up for us. Now let me stop lest I  make you regret the ones you have rejected in the past that you nicknamed "a** holes". Girlfriend you gotta get that rose tinted coloured glass out of your eyes to be able to recognise a goodly man when he finally arrives. Now Tracy quit being a baby and grow up girl.