CBTxFactor:
Nice. Watch it and you'll attain enlightenment.

Hehehehehehehehehehe

I saw what you did there with the enlightenment thing

Dear men,

I had decided to take some time off this space but with wetin my eyes don see I can't no more.

I write to tell you that your wife you hold in high esteem, the one you took a vow with on the altar, the one you are ready to put your life on the line for that she will never cheat on you, is not immune from stroking from other men, most especially men in her working place.

A lady friend who is married who works in a financial institution, because of the degree of guilt she was feeling would open up to me telling me how she recently had an affair with a colleague. To say I was shocked to the marrows is an understatement.

I was disappointed for a minute but then I was jolted with the: "No woman is ever truly yours even if said relationship, partnership is recognised before God and before men."

Dear men, no woman is ever truly yours even if you put a ring in it. No matter the number of pills that is red that you gulp, no woman is ever truly yours.

It is something that should be at the back of thy mind for such thinking would save you from future heartbreak the day the truth finally hit you in the face.

I would go on to admonish her that she shouldn't try such again but in my heart of hearts I know she would still go back to said colleague and collect another round of stroking.

Dear men, you are not special.

Like my friend above, your wife, partner is probably being knacked as you read this for no woman is truly ever yours.

Dear men,

It will do you a whole world of good to know it is not every skirt you have to lift.

While you must have the abundance mindset for obvious reasons, yet it is still not every lady you see on the road, in the workplace that you must pursue. For some are not worth the stress.

And if indeed you must run after everything in skirt, still the onus lies on you to vet the ladies you want to go down with for many of these ladies have been drilled beyond repair, scarred mentality, with some infected with only God knows what.

Dear men, it is good to be contented, for contentment is great gain.

Habanero05:


Tbh, we men are an embarrassment to this world. I’m sad to be a man. Our roles are just to provide and protect women and we’ve failed 😞 at that even. See grown men litter on this forum spewing hatred against women. Why all these hatred? Some men are so dumb that they can’t think on their own. I had to block a friend of mine who think he’s smart. This my friend is always bitter. I told him my babe cheated on me by sleeping with a married man she just met and this guy had to tell me to leave her. Imagine that. I mean if I was doing the right thing, will she cheat? It’s my fucking fault she cheated and I just have to be there for her and man up to my responsibility

This guy is obviously clowning. WTF

Even the said lady who quoted him found it incredulous.

Dear men

I write to you this day, please do not seek validation from women.

To seek validation from a woman is to agree, believe that she is not your equal: that she is above you in all ramifications, that-that she is better than you.

To seek validation from women is to kowtow to her being; to be subservient to her every whims and desires.

And history and experience overtime has made us understand that to put women on a pedestal is to incur her wrath, it is to be tossed aside like the very weakling that you are.

Strange I know but it is in their nature to punish men who would take on the world for their case, to finish men who seek their validation.

Dear men, you will be doing yourself, the pristine name of your ancestors a whole world of good if you do not seek validation from these ones.

Women are flesh and blood like thee. They are not your equals. You should be better than them all rounder not looking for ways to please them.

Dear men,

There was this single mom I use to date some years back. Naive me thought given the experiences or the shege life and her baby daddy showed her, she will finally submit, love a nice guy.

The little cash I had then were for her and her daughter. At one time I actually borrowed money to finance her lifestyle so she wouldn't leave me.

I am sure you have an idea in how the story went given I had to write about this one.

Dear men it is not your responsibility to finance the lifestyle of single moms and their kids. It is the duty of the man that knocked her up, the man she gladly opened her legs for and called PAPI while he thrust in and out with reckless abandon.

If a woman can keep a man's child, that man would continue to have his way with that woman till he have his fill. For it is in this context, the Okafor's law stand true.

Dear men that adventure with that single mom left me broke, made me always doubted my worth since I couldn't provide enough for her and her kids.

Dear men single mom are just for fun and never to be taken serious. Never ever to be taken serious.

Samantha124:
I really don't find porn to be addictive, but I guess we're all different.

It is either you haven't found the right porn for you or porn isn't your kryptonite.

One thing I am sure of, you have something that easily beset you.

Samantha124:
But why does it sounds like it's only men who get addicted to porn and masturbation?

Both genders do watch porn and can be addicted to masturbation but given the beliefs said vices have on men is the reason for the laser focus on men.

One of such belief is that it causes erectile dysfunction.

Were reverse the case, probably same laser focus would have been on women too.

Women watch porn too and are addicted to masturbation but society and science have made us to believe it has a negative effects on men than women hence why the torch light is focused on men.

Samantha124:
But how do you guys get addicted to porn and masturbation though? Help me understand.

It is actually the same way people are addicted to alcohol and the same way people are addicted to sex.

Dear men,

I write to you this day to say: never look to find comfort in women.

Some years ago after a complex job interview one time, I had to call this babe make she show just because I wanted to let out pressure or something which is not unusual normally for me.

You see, whenever I am faced with one of life's many challenges, my 911 call would be to call the babe I was seeing that year to help ease the tension or pressure.

You can't blame me sha, there is just something about a woman's mammary gland that calms the nerve and there is that divide underneath her which can make a man forget his worries.

But one thing I would learn over the years is: the ease, the serenity, are temporal and fleeting. That they never truly tackle the pressure rather they only postpone it.

Dear men, if you must find comfort, find comfort in your God(if you believe in one), secondly look to find comfort in yourself and look to find comfort in the work of your hands.

Beautiful creature this feminine with features designed to provide calm and ease the tension.

But I assure it is all momentarily and not lasting.

heartofcity12:
Wtf 😯. I hope this boy doesn’t fall into depression with this..

TF

As soon as he pays her, make he just block the lady.

Talk of see finish

Mehn, see the way she finished the guy, sterlize his masculinity, emasculated his being.

Ha!!!!

Dear men,

Do not be characterised by weakness. For to be frail in mind, weak in soul and physically sapless are the attributes of children.

To succumb to pain; to fear taking that risk; to be overwhelmed by range of emotions; to fear aloneness; to disregard stoicism; are tinctures depicting a weak man.

It is not in the nature of men to be weak. Look through the good book, the Quran, check through all of history you would see men that bent history; did great inventions; rose from the ashes of obscurity to their names remembered even to this day.

We may not do those great things listed above, but I say unto thee: never be weak. Never give space for fraility.

Go through that pain, address that pressure, find comfort in aloneness, work on your mind, learn new skills, do exercises.

Always choose strength over weakness.

I have tasted from the fruit of weakness and of strength, me will always choose strength.

Dear men, please do not be weak.

Dear men,

To read a book is an act of discipline and humility.

To read a book is simply to humbly submit yourself to a writer's narration.

And that is why I am recommending The Wall Speaks by Jeff rreJ for all men to read.

Dear men even if you have never picked a book in your life before, please endeavour to read The Wall Speaks by Jeff rreJ.

youcanmakeit:



To hell with this make money and women will magically start chasing you... let's us stop this fantasy thinking.

There was this fine girl I gave lift. She stopped at a house. Later, I learnt that's her boyfriend house. I'm not here to broke shame anyone but her boyfriend doesn't look like he has much money. Although he has this bad boy rebellious look.

Anytime I here the make money and women will chase you, I don't totally cosign with that.

I don't want to brag but I just want to pass a point. I work as a sales guy in a very prestigious company on the island... own a nice new car, I recently moved into a nice flat I rented. I might not be wealthy, but I'm living very comfortably. Yes, I get choosen signals from women from time to time, but I'm not seeing women rolling over me and begging for my love.

Same thing with most of my colleagues and friends who are also earning big... I don't see women chasing them and licking their feet while they walk. They still having issues with women. But yet we say make money and women will chase after your dick.

I know a guy in my neighborhood who isn't making money as much as I do, but he change girls all the time. He's not having any issues with women.

I have learned that women love guys who are rebels. The guys who give off this I don't give a Bleep vibe This guy in my neighborhood has that attitude.

I playfully asked him how he does it.

He said "omo don't mind all the girls, Dem to like dick too much.'

He was saying, this girls like sex too much that's why he's able to get them.


But mean while on this thread, guys are preaching that women don't like sex.

Guys....If you are there waiting till you start making millions before you start getting sex and getting girls.....You are wasting your time!

I'm not saying you shouldn't work hard and make money. Definetely, every guy should be grinding and focus on improving themselves.

But I'm just saying that, the woman you are hoping to Bleep when you finally become rich is probably fucking a broke nigga who has I don't give a Bleep attitude.

Better learn what these rebellious bad guys are doing to attract women, or keep waiting till you make billions before you start bleeping girls.

This is why the only guys I listen to on this thread is ubunja and Pukkalolo and maybe few other guys. These are the guys that truly understand women and game...the rest are just copy and paste

From my post, you would see I wrote men should grind not because of a woman but he should do so for self improvement.

Any man grinding for a woman somewhere will cry hot tears.

Another fact is, women will always choose the best of us most especially when they are in their prime.

Those ladies giving you those signals, know you are well to do for yourself hence the signal but such signals can never shine bright for a bike man or a conductor or a danfo driver for such men are not their levels.

It is the nature of women to date upward and not downward.

Women of a true may have flings with such men from time to time but when it is time to settle, they don't commit to such men.

In their prime they desire adventures but when reality starts to dawn on them they desire stability.

I honestly don't get the emotions that came with your reply since we are all here to learn.

There is no such thing as a guru when it comes to the Redpill for with the Redpill we are forever learning. True they are others who are well versed with the Redpill but the day a man thinks he knows it all with the Redpill is the day he shoots himself in the leg.

Go through my previous post again, the conclusion you think I am trying to achieve with that post is so far from the point.

Dear men,

I write to you this day to tell you that women will always choose the best of us.

Women will always choose men who has leverages, advantages over others most especially when women are in their prime.

It is why they find it easy to discard men of low status, men still struggling, men who lives in a one room apartment.

We actually cannot blame them for it is in the very nature of women to want security and provision from their men.

The onus now lies on you to level up, to become a man of value, to become a man you can be proud of.

While the responsibility does lies on you to become a better man it is also imperative to know that women should never be the reason for your grind even if they are sure to buzz around you like flies to stool when you attain society's ordained success.

Your goal should be improvement; to be better than you were yesterday; smarter, stronger than you were yesterday; wiser than you were yesterday.

Dear men, cussing out a woman over her inherent nature or having a pity on oneself is surely a waste of time and only help accentuate the hate and the depression.

It does you no good.

No matter how hard a saying this may sound, women will always choose the best of us. At least till they reach the dreaded 30.

Dear men,

Having and maintaining frame cannot be overemphasized enough.

We were awashed with the news of a young man this week called Killaboi. Man lost his frame(probably never had one), murdered his girlfriend and now he is on the run.

One moment of madness, all his dreams, all his goals, all that potential dashed and now Killaboi is in the drain of regret.

To have frame is to be in control of your emotions. Given women biological make up, they are likely to get a pass for being emotive but for men no such passes, as society would not hesitate to punish an unframed man.

An unframed man is irrational. An unframed man let his fists do the talking since he cannot bring his woman to order. An unframed man is tyrannical. An unframed man is currently like the weather we have now, hot today, cold and wet tomorrow.

An unframed man is a chatter box. An unframed man cannot take rejection with grace.

Unframed men are the reasons feminist are armed with weapons that has decimated and emasculated men today.

Unlike an unframed man, a framed man inspires, a framed man is respected with his lady subservient. A framed man is confident, he is rational and will not hesitate to run 440 from a woman who can make him break frame.

Dear men I write to you this day that to maintain frame, to keep emotions in check is a good thing. It is one that would probably save your life.

Silence and walking away has been one effective weapon to bring emotions under control and it has prevented quite a few from sending someone's daughter 6ft under.

Dear men, it is your responsibility to maintain frame at all times. Never give yourself to any moment of madness.

For a man without frame is violent and tyrannical. He is a man society would happily cheer for his utter plunge.

Dear men,

Ephesian 5:22: "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord."

Dear men it is not the duty of a woman to love you, it is the duty of a woman to reverence you, respect you and honour you.

To look for or desire love from a woman is foolery. For experiences and stories overtime has shown that it is not in the nature of women to love men.

That her lips spells out the "I love you" in every mothers' tongue and even the ones forgotten in the tower of Babel should not in anyway taint what is expected from a woman.

Disney lied to us, that other gender are not capable of love. Their love is only reserved for the ones their womb begotted.

Dear men, whatsoever things were written aforetime, they were written for our learning, were written for our admonition so that we may know the principal thing expected of a woman so we may not to make the mistakes of those before us.

Dear men the only thing that is required from her is not her love, it is her respect, it is her submission. Only then can a relationship blossom.

Anything other than this, is just you preparing your heart for heart breaks. I mean, you can't know more than the most influential Apostle of all time who penned down Ephesian 5:22.

You can't know more than Paul of Tarsus na.

Dear men,

I write to you this day that on no account should you ever put a woman on a pedestal.

Early last year whenever I try talking dirty to this lady friend of mine or send pictures depicting eros, this said lady would waste no time in censuring me.

And I am not going to lie, overtime I was careful with the choice of words I used around her.

Only for me to find out this week, that this friend of mine in the said period she was criminating me, was having s*x and doing things they do in smut videos.

Dear men, regardless of how naive and innocuous she looks, she might even be stern, give a face of repulsion when raunchy words her dandied around, but never you put her on a pedestal.

Never you paint and make her to this Mona Lisa of purity. For someone somewhere is bringing out the naughty side, the loose side, the side she perfectly hides from the world.

After all, one man's partner is another man's LovePeddler.

Dear men,

Some time ago the lady that I was seeing had a huge crush on Adekunle Gold.

She would go ahead to tell me the day Adekunle Gold makes a move on her, she would fall hopelessly for him without a second thought. Her words might have been said in jest but one could see tinctures of truth in said words.

I am not going to lie, that day me was jealous and I felt a flash of pang strike through my heart.

Somebody here sometimes ago said: "Hypergamy always beats love no matter how genuine that love is"

Truer words have never been spoken.

Was it last week or so when Ruger invited a lady to the stage, made her feel so special and all and told her to call her boyfriend's name and throw him an expletive.

Dear men, the said lady did not hesitate to call the poor boy who goes by the name Daniel out. Ha!!! And the boy must have thought he has a babe😂

Dear men Hypergamy comes in variation.

It comes in your financial position, your station in the society, it comes in the degrees you have, your family influence, it comes in the environment you stay, it comes in looks too.

It is the very nature of women to go for guys who has an edge in life over others. They actually do it for security purpose, for stability, for comfort e.t.c

And what I have learnt so far in life is that you can't beat nature no matter how you try.

Dear men I write to you this day that even if your babe be as gentle as dove, has a big heart like mother Theresa, have humble beginnings, like all women white and black she has hypergamy rooted into the fabric of her very soul.

Your lady is not special!!!!

Dear men,

I write to tell you this day that the best thing that could ever happen to a man is a heart break.

Yes, to have your heart broken by the one you call love, the one your heart beats for, the one you swore you would grow old with, build a house and do the things that lovers do with is truly the best thing that could ever happen to you.

The thing about heart break is that it does provide clarity. For heartbreak is like a mirror helping to reveal the true nature of women and helping you see pockmarks that you have help fester in your life.

What you intend to do with the revelation made clear by the mirror that is Heart break can help determine if it is the best thing that could indeed happen to a man or the worst thing.

Few have used heartbreak as an inspiration, as a motivation, as a weapon to become better version of themselves, to surpass their limits.

But sadly we can't say the same for many. For many have lost their self worth, lost money, lost self esteem and many has even lost their lives in the process.

Dear men I write to you this day that no woman is worth breaking your beating heart for.

And if you must indeed have a broken heart, it should not be said of you that it was over a woman. For no woman on God's now mechanised earth is worth having heartaches, heartburns for.

Dear men,

Just this evening a member in a group where I belong sent a Youtube link of this programme he participated titled Love Hunt or something.

Erm, let say the video left a sour taste in the mouth.

One thing I do know is that my ancestors before me didn't fight wars, endured famine, tilled the soil for me to put myself in a spot where ladies with prolly over 20 body counts would have to pick me from a pallete of guys; pass sniding remarks; and show contemptimple histronics.

The program was so bad that even the winner of the said show this week was not spared. One could perceived the disgust, see the superlicious gestures and sense the disappointment of the said ladies.

Dear men, nothing beats self respect and dignity. Even if you don't meet society standard all rounder I beg thee this day never go on tv shows where ladies that have been d#ckmatized, used and dumped have to choose from a number of men on who they intend to start a relationship with.

Bro it is a dumb move!!

No matter what anyone says, you are the price!!!

Even offline, dear men you do not deserve to be ridiculed like that. No man simp or redpliller deserves to be treated like what I saw today in that show.

Everyday one fears for the future of men in this generation. Smh.

MetalJigsaw:
One sad truth:
Simps and betas will always be the majority among men...


"Good morning nairalanders.

I've been dating this girl for about 3yrs. Initially it was sweet and rosy untl she cheated. First time I forgave her then she repeated it again with another guy, still I forgave and yet again she did it with another guy. My attitudes towards her changed and although I loved her, I just started changing my attitude towards her and for the past 1yr we fight and quarrel all the time but cos I love her I'll still go to apologize to her and trying to make things work.

She practically has been staying with me all these years, we live like we're married. So we quarrelled about 2months ago and she moved her things out of the hse, which is her regular routine every time we quarrel. I tried to talk to her to settle things out but she refused. I tried my best and got tired until 2 weeks ago I agreed to the breakup she has always been asking for after her friend told me she already has a new bf.
Now after that day, she has been calling me everyday till today, she calls and randomly paid visit once, the second time she wanted to come visit I was not at home. I've made up my mind to move on but this her act of calling everyday, I'm not comfortable with it. Should I block her
Or instruct her to never call me again (although I feel that'll be harsh) I'm a very gentle man and the least word that will hurt a woman, I don't like uttering it.

She told her friend nobody ever made love to her like I do and for that reason she always want to come back to me but just for sex. But I believe one day, she'll get over this sex thing that's intoxicating her and probably stick to the dude she'll be having in her life.. The one time she visited we had sex. That was about a week ago and yesterday she wanted to come visit but I wasn't home.

I forgot to mention the part where I am actually taking care of 100% of her bills.... I'm working in a financial institution where I earn about 150k monthly . Although the pay is not much but I'm not outrightly broke.

She does nothing at all.. the little career skill she has, I sponsored her through.

So what do you all advise I do?"

Ha!!! What did I just read

What is wrong with men today?? Where did it go wrong for this guy to simp like this

Ha!!!! God abeg o

Dear men,
Even on father's day, men are not spared.

Not to stir up gender rivalry or something but when people offer pean to fathers on Father's day, there is one peculiar word that goes side by side with father's day celeberation and the said word is: RESPONSIBLE

You see something like this: "Happy Father's day to every Responsible father out there."

Are we then saying only men have a disposition to be irresponsible?? And that women by default are cherubic

Funny I tell you.

Check through your social media, check the mail from the office congratulating fathers, there is always that responsibility clause that comes with celebrating a father but for mother's day no said clause.

Sad indeed

Here is me not even talking about how single moms have now hijack the Father's day celeberation.

Dear men, Beyonce was not wrong that year when she sang that it was women that rule this world.

For as long as we continue to live in a bluepiled world, one that attaches a clause for father's day celeberation and not do so for mother's day celebration, men would continue to lose the war against the matrix and I fear we all may not be spared.

YES, BROKE MEN ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE STANDARDS TOO.

Do not allow anyone broke shame you to accept or settle for less.

jayAjoku:
My Boy’s Girl just left him A few weeks Ago . Guess what ??
he Was the one that took her virginity They Dated for Over 3 years And she still left.
What makes you think your Virgin Wife Or Girlfriend will not Leave or Cheat on You if the Conditions are Favorable And Reasonable Enough for her to ? 🤣😂

The Only Thing you should do in any situation you find yourself Especially with women is to Enjoy the present moment While being on Guard It Could all be over tomorrow 🤌🏾

"A woman is never truly yours, it is only your turn"

This should be the back of every male's mind

Dear men,

Simps are surely bound to suffer.

Never ever envy a simp.

A simp and his resources are sure to part ways like the red sea.

A fool in love is a simp. That you provide all of her wants, furnish her lifestyle, yield to her every whims, sponsor her to school does not make you a PROVIDER, it makes you a simp.

If you must indeed simp, simp for mummy, simp for sister but never simp for anyone that is not blood.

Dear men, I write to you this day that to simp is a dangerous journey. It is indeed our nature as men to be like Clark Kent-a super hero, to save the day.

But I write to you this day, that you must fight that nature, for it is a good fight, for no woman on God's green earth is worth simping for.

Dear men,

While we must hold women accountable for their actions, we should also get to look inward.

We should look to grow, we should look to evolve, we should look to be masculine.

Take a look at the mirror, if you see deficiencies(not physical deficiencies) you are not proud of, work on them.

Do exercises; burn the midnight candle; before carrying out investments, do a thorough research; learn a skill, hone it.

Carve thyself into the man that when you look at the mirror, you can say "it is (Your_name) am looking at."

Dear men hold thyself accountable.

Karlifate:


Nice one 👍

@ bolded:
I thought of posting something related to it, when I'm less busy...

Boss, fire on please I would like to read your submission on it.

Dear men,

Never ever mistake the beauty of a woman for innocence.

That she is the finest thing you have ever seen or that she rival Katrina Kaif in beauty does not tell that she is innocuous.

There was a time in my life that I was sure ladies do not visit the loo. given how wonderfully they are made.

Growing up, Disney and others also helped accentuate and portrayed that they are this gentle soul, innocuous and cherubic beings.

But reality would show that this lot are sharper than blade, wiser than serpent, cunnier than fox and that if you don't meet a particular standard, they won't think twice before discarding you.

Many of us here found the redpill because of their ruthless nature.

Mistake is accidentally falling that glass cup; mistake is recharging your line with ten thousand naira instead of a thousand naira you had in mind; mistake is stepping on someone's shoe.

What mistake isn't, is taking the beauty of a woman for innocence.

Dear men, you are permitted to make mistakes in your daily life, but never ever mistake the beauty of a woman for innocence.

Dear Men,

If you must choose a wife, choose one who is untainted, who has not be drilled, one who is a virgin.

Turn deaf to those who say, "Virginity do not matter and that it is what is in the heart that does". Turn deaf to those who says "He is not matured or man enough to handle a woman's past."

I mean the bible, the quaran and archaic laws of different cultures in years past cannot be wrong na.

I shudder when I see men pay huge bride price for women who are not virgins. I mean this are virtue ladies give free to other men 98% of the time. To now see other men pay huge bride price causes a pang in my heart most times.

One consequence of a tainted lady is that she can give it to every Femi and Emeka; for the Okafor's law as we so know it, is so well, alive and kicking.

Dear men, if their standard is having a fit, rich and handsome man, yours should be that of chastity and it should not be negotiable.

logicalhumour:
^^^
@Dexter08

What if I told you that the "black" behaviour was (mostly) genetic?

And what if I also told you that you shared false statistics according to the Census Bureau's Current Population Survey?

I don't seem to follow boss.

akwesenana:
Dexter08, the 'spare the rod part', do you mean you cousins beat him up?

Yes boss.

It was that bad.