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OchoL:u know i did see your first comment but choose to ignore you at first but at this junction ill only hope you get a taste of what your offering maybe you'll understand better how i and others who quoted you felt when we saw that comment. 1 Like |
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Airtel 6 Likes 1 Share |
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More than ever ecowas needs to come together and work thimgs out positively and this time it should be for real.. 1 Like |
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At this junction i really don't know how best to thank you guys for the idea and advice rendered. The motivation i got from most of you and the ideas/strategy being rendered in tackling the situation is top notch. I appreciate everyone for their positive contribution and hope to do better than i did in coming times. I pray it all ends well for me and my family.. Once again thanks to everyone.. @ moon i really appreciate your piece and also hope to read it out to my little bro. Truth is from your narration i can deduece my lil bro is toying same line with you which ill try to amend. Thanks verymuch once again.. 2 Likes |
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ichidodo:Alright, ill suspend the excercise . She'll soon go to boarding school, there are diets would automatically adjusted.. 23 Likes 1 Share |
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M00N:thanks.. 11 Likes |
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Ishilove:for her age shes overweight though and i don't think its wrong taking her out for morning exercise. Im very much in support of her jugging every morning.. 16 Likes 1 Share |
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Floryangel8:excatly. You know, during my childhood days before my kid sister was born ive stayed with her mother for holidays. She was never harsh to me, infact i must confess she pampered me to the extent my dad had to avoid me going to stay with her, also ive stayed with my uncles who always treats me well. They canned me when necessary and treated me like their children, even their wives were not harsh to me but how do i explain to people that my mom is behaving badly to their children when i know they treated me well? Ill still look for a way to talk to her and see reasons from this angle too. Thanks for the idea, its an inspiration.. 108 Likes 1 Share |
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boman2014:honestly. She's transfering her hate for the little girls mother on the little girl which is not right. On returning the little girl back: bros that would be greater guilt on us. I don't know which is better though. Returning her back means no quality education for her, exposing her into illegalities, high tendencies of getting into prostitution. Judging from the environment, it would take a miracle for her to make it out of that environment positively in life. Now watching her going back to that poor environment knowing we could do something would be our greatest guilt. Although ill take your option and weigh on it still. Thanks for the advice.. 40 Likes 1 Share |
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OTayobami:you know the hate issue is my greatest fear. But ill take your words and also read others comment and know what action is best. Thanks though.. 6 Likes |
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More than ever am not happy with my mom. I have this younger sister who was adopted by my dad from his younger sister (her father is late), she's just 10 years of age and I really don't like my mom's attitude towards that little girl. In the past when i was much younger, my mom had many quarrels with the mother of my adopted sister which I really can't give accurate count on who's right or wrong, but for the record my aunty (younger sis mom) is very troublesome no doubt. She started living with us June last year and I noticed she's always very happy when me or my dad comes home. I was thinking it was because we were very nice to her, not knowing the kind of pressure she was going through at home. Several occasions I have seen my mom saying too many harsh words to that little girl which I am not comfortable with but I've had to keep my calm. I feel reacting would make my mom hate her more as she might feel the little girl has turned her children against her. The saddest part of it is that our last born who's 15 years is taking the same part with my mom in frustrating that little girl. Today Ilost my cool and reacted and truth is I'm not willing to continue keeping calm again. My immediate younger brother (we are 3 boys and no girl) decided to start taking this my little sister out for jugging cos she's too fat. She always returns home crying cos of the pressure they put on her to jug. My mom on hearing her cry today came out and started beating her and saying hatefull words to her, including insulting her mom, calling her mom names which honestly would get any child angry if they are told same about their parent. Out of annoyance I got up and shouted at my mom to leave her alone that it's becoming too bad for her as a mother to treath children like that. Instantly my mom kept calm and guilt was written all over her face. I'm honestly not happy about disrespecting my mom but I'm no longer keeping my calm. There was a time when my dad had to take similar action against my mom and it didnt go well for anybody, the little girl suffered more hate from my mom and my dad wasnt really happy with my mom that period. Returning that little girl back to her mom is never an option as the environment where her mom is very negative and would no doubt worsen her situation. Talking to my mom calmy about it has been done by me and my immediate younger brother but problem still persists. My worries are. 1, the little girl 2, my youngest brother who is taking after my mom 3 me disrespecting my mom. Nairalanders your advice would be appreciated on this situation. I already have what to do in mind already but I will love to hear from those who have experienced similar situation and how best to handle it. 216 Likes 14 Shares |
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