We got married late last year after 3 months courtship. I saw her in a dream before I met her physically so I was sure that it was all God. To the glory of God we have a very handsome son that is less than a month. To say I regret that move is an understatement. I have been praying for her to cheat on me. I went to even do a DNA test on our son but result affirms I am the father. She just orritates me as she lacks talking manners, she is a spendthrift,cannot think on her own, very dependent on others inshort she is spoilt in all ramifications. She is nt even pretty and I wonder what the hell i was thinking when I proposed to her. To tell you how much I loathe her, I refused sending her abroad for the delivery of our son in the hope that she may die during child birth since she have very low tolerance for pain (God forgive me). But as it turned out, my desire was not granted. I am really tired of the marriage as I just loathe her the more on a daily basis. I cheat on her with reckless abandon and really don't care if I am caught. I really need advise on what to do. I must admit she is putting in a lot of efforts to please me and she adores me but sometimes I am so irritated that I just want to hop into a plane and jet off to another continent and never return. I have even thought of arranging a lady to claim we have a child together so that my wife will divorce me. Please, if you have a good idea, do let me know.

Why don't you just file a divorce? If you are not really interested in being in marriage with this woman, why don't you separate from her? Hire a lawyer or file divorce by yourself, I know there are plenty of sites even on the Internet, like https://onlinedivorcer.com/ or any other, which you want. Why torture three of you (you, your son and your wife). Each of you deserves a regular family, deserves being loved and supported. Just be the man and stop this.