Everyone at a particular stage of our life we desire one perfect relationship or the other,in that awkward moment where everything in our life seems to be in jeopardy we all need someone in our life and sometimes those in our life seems not to get it when they ought to but it ain't their fault. I wanna talk about the first keys every one ought to know before going into a relationship, I called them the keys to long lasting relationship.
But before I go into them I ought to make everyone understand that finance plays a vital role in every relationship and even when people come into your life mostly as a MAN and the finance ain't there that relationship is bound to end in jeopardy cos it's only with the aid of finance you find your relationship in interesting places,as a MAN in other for you not to hurt yourself I advice you go out there and get for yourself one or two sources of income before going into a relationship cos at the beginning most people will say MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING,yes I agree but to make it better understood it's also MONEY THAT WILL GET YOU EVERYTHING YOU NEED.

1. WHO AM I: The first question is asking ourselves who we are,many people always want to take advantage of situations surrounding them in terms of relationship and expect everyone to give them one attention or the other in a relationship yet they don't know who they are,if you know who you are then it will be an easy step down the way. They have no idea about themselves and then how do they expect someone to just come and know them better than they know themselves?you need to know who you are before looking for someone.

2. WHO ARE YOU LOOKING FOR: It's certain you know who you are,now the question is who do you want to be in a relationship with?knowing who you are and your kind of person determines the type of person that suits your type of person,for example a businessman who will love his wife to always be at home with the kids as a fulltime house wife shouldn't be going around an ambitious woman who takes her career in high regards cos it will definitely be a bad miss.

3. LOVE: You are in a relationship you so desired cos you are dating the type of person that suits you,now it's time for you to love that person to all totality and don't have a double mind of making that person just as a member of your heart but in all totality when it comes to area of spouse in your life so you won't have to regret tomorrow,cos even if you love someone it's not enough reason to say they won't leave you but if you love them unconditional even if things don't work out,you even end up being satisfied with no regret at all.

4. CARE: How well do you love this person you find yourself in a relationship with?there is no way you love someone and you don't care about that person,their welfare and way of life and all is now a part of you and you are always there in all situation that when they are about to find a shoulder to cry on they find yours always and even when they need someone to smile with,talk to and all you always there to say I care and show you really do.

5. TRUST: In every relationship issues of trust always creep in one way or the other,the moment you find yourself in a relationship always tell yourself to trust your spouse and don't give room for doubts cos most relationships are in jeopardy cos of lack of trust,sometimes things appear different from their real intentions,when you doubt your spouse then all other things in the relationship follow that cut channel and down all other things began to drown. lack of trust brings about worry and fear which always leads to speculation and assumption,it's assumptions sometimes that leads to mistake which end up roasting our relationships.

6. HONESTY: Yes it is believed generally that being completely honest in a relationship is what will leads to the end of that relationship,I seems to agree with that but not in all totality due to some reasons from my observation,there is always one guilt or the other but when you live a transparent life then there won't even be a reason why you should be scared of cockroaches in the cupboard. if you are completely honest you won't have to try and remember what you've said before and there is no need being scared about your honesty bringing your relationship into jeopardy cos your spouse knows this is you.

7. UNDERSTANDING: You have to bring yourself down and try and understand your spouse then your relationship and how things role in the relationship cos change is the only constant thing in life and your spouse is bound to change in one area of their life or the other and that is the reason why you have to understand all situations all the way so when there is a change you ought to know where it's coming from and what lead to it,no one is hundred percent there all the way but there is no two ways about it as long at you understand why your spouse may have hurt you that way letting go is a lot easier.

NOTE: A RELATIONSHIP IS A FULL-TIME JOB AND NOT MEANT FOR PART-TIME WORKERS,IF YOU CAN'T FULLY BE IN IT THEN NO NEED GETTING IN.IF YOU JUST WANNA GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP JUST FOR SEX BETTER YOU GO TO A PLEASURE HOUSE (ASHAWO QUARTER).

Well everyone seems to be good at saying who is a woman and what women really are but I guess if asked they will simply go with the dictionary which says a woman is an adult female human.
But on the contrary I would love to say a woman is an upgraded version of a man,a woman is a man with more projected chest and with a womb. Women are everything a man would never be nor could ever be even if he should try,women are made differently from men and so are their qualities,an upgrade in versions simply means to make it more powerful and efficient in order to provide a better service.
When we say women are weaker vessels many people tend to get it wrong on what it really meant for a woman to be seen as a weaker vessel,they were made with more lovely statue and body build as an upgrade of what has been made. Women were made emotionally as an upgrade to the logical being that exist before them,as emotional as they are they became more sensitive and has more insight into things than men.
Because of their nature and upgrade they are bound to crash or breakdown easily,women are weaker vessel cos they are more equipped and powerful inwardly than men which makes it more complicated for them to handle likewise them being more difficult for men to understand. Women always have this tendency of becoming something new in a tough situation unlike men cos of their weaker nature which makes them vulnerable and also efficient,women are weaker vessel cos they got more weaker spots outwardly than men.
Women are only weaker vessel because they have been filled or nearly filled up unlike men who needs to pave a way for himself,majority of they world see the paved way for a woman,good or bad she has 89% tendency of being a wife,mother,then grandmother which always come out phase by phase but it's highly regarded as certain because a woman must get married they say.
In terms of a computer when a computer's memory is full and no space to receive anything,that computer becomes pretty slow and frustrating and for a rookie it just seems the computer is dead and gradually you might start having corrupt files and bam,slowly it crashes by first warning with maybe something like a blue screen (am not a computer geek,so I may be wrong there.)But what am really trying to say is that women are weaker vessel not because they are weak but because they are loaded with all the qualities men lack and need and that makes them vulnerable.
Women are the most sensitive but mostly find themselves being complicated and that is why they are the weaker vessel with all the weak spots though they are powerful,they are vulnerable and weak cos majority of them always needs someone to tell them how they look before they believe what they saw in the mirror,they always need someone to compliment them about how they look,what they do and everything else and that is why they are vulnerable and weak,stronger than men inwardly,more efficient and powerful but weak cos they always need someone to say something good before they believe it's good,so if someone or couple others keep saying no not that they just believe it's hell no not that.
Weaker nature but built in a more efficient way,they just love being complimented and not until you keep doing that to them you never find their strength no matter how hard you try cos you always keep hitting a brick wall.

Gender equality is believed to be an equal right of all human (male and female),but firstly I would love us to separate both words and then put them back together.
GENDER simply means the fact of being male or female,especially when considered with references to social and cultural differences. While EQUALITY is the fact of being equal in rights,status,advantages and before the law.
According to wikipedia, GENDER EQUALITY is the view that men and women should receive equal treatment, and should not be discriminated against based on gender.
What it simply states is that all human are to be given equal rights to everything and no one should be discriminated because he/she is a male/female from doing whatever they do and in my view that gives birth to so many other things most NIGERIANS see mostly as havoc and abomination,if a man should not be discriminated for dressing like a woman or acting as one then he can be see as a woman and that is what I believe to be homosexual. In foreign countries which gender equality was introduced,the men and women go to work,the call each other,they share the bills,the do things based on equal rights.
Now in terms of our great country NIGERIA,over the last 5 years women of this country are so furious and aggressive ovver the issue of GENDER EQUALITY yet they fail to understand the full concept of gender equality,what it really means and how it works but all they care about is keep chanting the word or getting it mixed up in their speech at all times,I will try to clarify my argument so everyone can best understand what am saying.

 

In nigeria generally,it is believed a guy should always be the one to toast a woman by all means necessary and when a woman seems to try to want to toast a guy all the women who claimed they know all about GENDER EQUALITY call her a fool or a prostitute,but they fail to realize that being equal in gender means to all aspect of life,a woman will always want the guy to make the calls at all time and even when you send card to her just to assist she would flash you and expect you to call or may likely call and say thanks but that is all you will ever get cos majority of nigeria women mentality is that the guys should do the calling but they spend time talking to their female friends.
MOST NIGERIA women wants to be given full respect as a gender so they always fight for equality BUT they will never do what it meant to be equal,when couples are paying for stuffs together people call the man a selfish and stingy man,when a man asked from a woman he his a fool and a gold digger,but none of these women would realise or see that the foreigners they want to imitate when it comes to gender equality they keep to their end of the bargain,a woman can't find a guy in a club she likes and talk to him,all she will try to do is send signs to him so he can maybe come over and talk to her.
Most NIGERIAN women would say why buy expensive gifts for a guy or even buy at all,he ought to keep sending you gifts,they want all the good stuffs attached to GENDER EQUALITY but they don't want to do their own part of the bargain,sometimes I just feel it's insane mostly when a man would have to go to a woman's house to seek for her hand in marriage and they would ask him to bring heaven and earth,those women claiming GENDER EQUALITY will never split the bills with the man since it's their marriage,I think they should pick up the challenge and see what it really means to say GENDER EQUALITY for humanity,am not against it but I just hate it when they have to hide behind it in some cases and then in the other case come out as being an african woman where the man do it all cos in my own opinion I have always believed women are far more greater and special species than men.
“ I THINK WOMEN ARE FOOLISH TO PRETEND THEY ARE EQUAL TO MEN,THEY ARE FAR SUPERIOR AND ALWAYS HAVE BEEN” - WILLIAM GOLDING

It is a common grumble that Our Vampire politicians' lifestyles are far removed from those of their electorate who voted them into offices. Not so in Uruguay.
Laundry is strung outside the house. The water comes from a well in a yard, overgrown with weeds. Only two police officers and Manuela, a three-legged dog, keep watch outside his residential base

President Jose Mujica has been described by the International media as "the world's 'poorest' president", due to his modest modus operandi and his donation of around 90 percent of his $12,000 (£7,500) monthly salary to charities that benefit the talakawa and small entrepreneurs.
In 2005, He married Lucía Topolansky, a fellow Tupamaro member and current senator, after many years of co-habitation. They have no children and live on an austere farm in the outskirts of Montevideo where they cultivate chrysanthemums for sale, he refused to move to the luxurious house the Uruguayan state provides for its leaders, and chose instead to stay in the modest home he shares with his wife in the capital, Montevideo. Jose Mujica drives an old 1987 Volkswagen Beetle.

His lifestyle and the fact that he donates 90 percent of his salary to charity has earned him the label 'the poorest president in the world.I guess the world is not really interested in those who really want change but they all cry they need change.

Mujica is a man who practices the simplicity he preaches and never minces words, a style some of his countrymen criticise as unpresidential, but which makes him a hero to those of his countrymen who has benefitted from him and to those who believes in change and also to me for I see him as one of my greatest heroes and mentors.

In an interview, "Those who describe me so are the poor ones," he says. "My definition of poor are those who need too much. Because those who need too much are never satisfied." That is to say those who always goes after everything as long as they yield wealth from it are not as rich as they thought from all ramifications, rulers are never satisfied and they are very very poor inspite of the wealth they have stolen from the world.

My mentor said “I'm called 'the poorest president', but I don't feel poor. Poor people are those who only work to try to keep an expensive lifestyle, and always want more and more.”
It is very clear that we dont have heroes as leaders like him in my very own country, we have political armed robbers and economic saboteurs that have stolen the collective wealth of the nation.Why would there not be insecurity, where unemployment is the order of the day? Why would there not be insecurity where poverty has taken over homosapiens? Why would there not be insecurity, where our docile and weak rulers amass wealth to themselves at the detriment of the masses?

If these issues are not addressed without much ado, I doubt if we would still have air to breath at last cos even all the wealth can't buy any like it.

Who agrees with this?

Still in d spirit of VENTING today, I have a message 4 d HUSTLERS!

In d history of MANKIND, Hustlers never really make a significant impact in their Generation. Hustlers are not motivated to live 4 people, hustlers are only concerned about short-term pecuniary gains. Hustlers don’t think of the future. They want immediate gratification. An Hustler is not vision oriented. They are not driven by a purpose.

An Hustler will never really reach d peak of anything or be known for anything in particular because their attention span, focus and commitment to a cause is short-lived. Hustlers are not guided by VALUES, PRINCIPLES OR ETHICS in the conduct of their actions or attitudes, so long at they get that immediate benefit. Hustlers are mostly lone rangers, they don’t have the ability to develop relationships that can be leveraged upon in future. They are mostly predators. I can give you d endless qualities of an HUSTLER!

The word ‘I AM HUSTLING’ is self-derogatory. We don’t hustle, we work HARD and SMART. In working hard and smart, we clearly know what we want, our goals both short and long term are clearly defined and we are able to articulate same to people around us. As an hard and smart worker, you channel all your energies and passion into a particular cause, you are majorly concerned about making a significant impact and building a LEGACY that can and will outlive you. You are people and service conscious and will do all in your best to help others GROW.

In the game of LIFE, Never HUSTLE and NEVER even use the word to describe what you are currently engaged in. You can’t go to a place where you hope to get a million Naira contract and tell them you hustled to get here rather you use LOFTY words like THANKS TO GOD AND I WAS DETERMINED, I WORKED HARD, I WAS SMART, I KNEW WHAT I WANTED etc...

Once your goals are clearly spelt out and you put in all your energies and resources into achieving them – Then you are not HUSTLING but working hard and smart.

One Love and goodluck with your decision on speech management cos you never may know how it affects.

A showpiece is something which attracts attention or admiration as an outstanding example of it's kind presented for exhibition or display.
A masterpiece is referred to as a sculptor's or artist life achievement,the greatest of all work done throughout their career and it's a more outstanding creativity and surface of skill.
A showpiece is a work done and placed on display for people to look and admire while a masterpiece is not placed on display just anywhere but it's kept in a special place far from the crowd and it can only be seen by special and great people.
In humans today,a man with pride who boast about everything and nothing is a showpiece while a wise and humble man is a masterpiece,you don't need to flaunt all you got to prove who you are;who you are is so important than what you are,what you are is a boastful term to who you are while who you are humble represents what you are.
EXAMPLES:
1) A showpiece wants to get attention and be noticed but a masterpiece wants to give meaning and purpose.
2) A chain necklace and a diamond necklace.
3) A showpiece will say these are the houses I have built while a masterpiece will say these are the houses I am blessed with by God.
4) A showpiece wants to command respect but a masterpiece wants to give respect.
5) A showpiece wants to collect but a masterpiece wants to give.
A showpiece or a masterpiece?you are either a showpiece or a masterpiece and it's all as a result of your mindset and actions,who you are and what you are may either define you or destroy you.you are a result of what you have thought and ponder upon.A SHOWPIECE OR A MASTERPIECE,WHICH ARE YOU?

Section A
1a.The number of chibok girls are 300 and they were kidnapped as a result of politically influenced war disguised in form of a terrorist group called boko haram.
1b.The statement was made by the ex firstlady of nigeria and to the principal of the school where the chibok girls were kidnapped.the exclamation was made as a result that only the principal waka come n the people were not there for their firstlady to help them oh.
2a.The people holding hands are animated representation of oneness as described by thhe nokia company.
2b.I presume it should be mook and not made lol.
3.The censor companies of blackberry in universities are on temporary shut down,as soon as they are back the answer will be made available to you.
4.I guess obasanjo did cos the latter will be better than the former or former former former.
5. N5.25 lol
6.It was eaten by the founder so it will not be stolen cos no one would pick or steal an apple with a biten part/mark.

SECTION B

1.Nigeria police like money more cos even the ladies of the night work mostly at night but the nigeria police work day and night,girls won't take 20 or 50 naira but they see it as good business(if in between day n night even dey dem go work too).
2.I for know am if I go school oh but as I nor go I nor bother as e be say who nor go sch sef dey get big big contract n who go dey work 4 am mostly seen only in nigeria.
3.Na boy girl na,I talk am b4 say I know book pass dele cos dele na odoyor(he nor know anytin).
4.The value of x is that I dey play well well and na only wen beta tin dey come nai I take dey do like dat so dat e go come fast fast make witch nor put eye stop am.
5. 60 minutes makes one hour and 24 hours make one day so 60*24 =1440 days

SECTION C
1. Prado n Ferarri is equivalent to any babe accepting to be bride at the d day cos women and luxury are at pararrel lines which intertwix like accident but on a constant base.so dbanj may likely do so as a result of one having clean shaved head and the other stylos,one with numerous rumour on women and father to numerous kid while the other koko master with limited rumour with no proof.
3.She is the first lady of the ATM group and she was chosen cos she is the only one who can make men withdraw from their account more than they desired without knowing why.