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Family / Re: I Want To Run Away From Home by Divaan: 1:31pm On Jun 10, 2023
Note: one free paid vocational training I know is:

FSD VTE Academy
13 Acme crescent, off Acme Road, Agidingbi, Ikeja, Lagos.

You can talk to any of the staff there and you could be assisted with a free accommodation but I guarantee you a good free paid vocational training and internship with them.
Family / Re: I Want To Run Away From Home by Divaan: 1:21pm On Jun 10, 2023
Girlee:
I'm just an eighteen years old female child who would be turning nineteen in Five months time.
I'm a little girl with the brains of a wise old man.
I'm a counselor, motivational speaker, inspirational writer and an upcoming writer.
Nobody knows me as "Girlee"; not even me. I know that's stupid. I just had to come up with this "Girlee" I really don't fancy.
For some reasons I still can't decipher, I couldn't create an account here with my actual "social media" name (still my real name though).
I've counselled the married, singles and those in courtship. I've motivated so many and inspired a whole lot on the planet and things turned out great for them. But the thing is: who will and can counsel the counselor?

Tonight, I'm broken as I've never been before.
I've sat for jamb thrice now and in all, I scored above 200.
Why didn't I gain admission?

Continuation...

Dear, you are welcome to the world. It is at this age reality sets in for many underprivileged or disadvantaged youths in Nigeria and the time many a youths are tempted to make drastic life's decisions that may end in premium tears. This is what happens when there is no proper guidance or a safe place to run to. I would have said you should seek counselling in a good church, that can support you and intervene in your family issues for your own good but unfortunately many churches today are either after your money or only after your spirituality. Your daddy building a house may be his own sure way of keeping an asset that would yield him salary in his old age. He may be acting out of fear. Sadly, this is the vicious cycle in many low-income earning homes and that is why you may be feeling neglected. He may think that you do not need to rush as your schooling could wait. He sees a pressing need to build his house for a security of his own future too. Also note that when A is unhappy, the unhappiness passes to B , then to C and when needs and expectations are not met, the whole environs became toxic and unbearable. This is the sad reality. My one pence advise I know to give is:

1. Be strong, stay resilient and fight. Fight the problem to win. Don't commit suicide. Millions are also facing same problem and worse issues than yours and are still fighting.Peradventure, they could win.

2. If or should you run away from home, seek a proper refuge. You could stay in an orphanage home, or with your pastors or a good aunt but please, let your parent or siblings be in the know as to where you are. Do not fall into the hands of female eaters and virgin hunters.

3. Seek a solution to passing your exams by reading voraciously, practice more past questions and devote more time to study, study, study. Select a course that is professional, lucrative and life fulfilling for your own future.

4. Work and pray. Seek work in places like schools or shops that close early. That way, you have time to refresh and sleep or better still. You could sell things like clothes, shoes or bags to students or in the markets. That way, your time is at your discretion. Pray. Pray as this is the thing we have to do in this part of the world to get favours, grace and opportunity.

5. Seek information and opportunities for young school leavers like yourself. Scholarship? Free vocational paid trainings? Etc.

6. Speak out. Yes. Tell people about what you're passing through. There are many angels as much as there are demons.

7. Wait. Time changes a lot of things. Time could change your state and life entirely. If it doesn't, it could change the way you perceive and relate with your own reality.

I wish you well in your journey and pray you don't make too many mistakes.

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Family / Re: I Want To Run Away From Home by Divaan: 12:36pm On Jun 10, 2023
Evolutionlove:
Okay.

Start Olosho Work like all your Mates are currently doing and stop posting stvpid sob stories on here. Nonsense.

I hope you will be able to say this to your own child someday. So many retards roaming. Do you realise that this is an eighteen year old child and that whatever you say may impact her for life.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Ndlea Online Test Starting On Monday 8th May, 2023 by Divaan: 3:25am On May 08, 2023
My sister's dashboard is not opening, I am suspecting someone used her bvn to login. Is anyone experiencing the same? When I input her details and click login, nothing is appearing.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Recruitment 2023 Official Thread by Divaan: 3:22am On May 08, 2023
My sister's dashboard is not opening uptil now. I am suspecting someone used her bvn to login. Is anybody experiencing the same.
Career / Re: I Want To Relocate To Uyo Without Job Assurance by Divaan: 4:39pm On Apr 10, 2023
IRuinUrDay:
Good morning, Nlder's. Pls, I need your advice. I created this account just now to hide my identity.

Without wasting time on this, I need your advice as I want to take a blind step because i don't know what else to do.

I graduated since 2018 and since then, I don't have a good job till now. Just surviving that's what I am doing.

Currently, I asked my mom to help me secure loan of 100k while I source for another 100k from friends and relatives and repay in 6 months time. I have planned with my wife to secure a room apartment with at least 60k for 1 year and use the balance to hold ourselves till we get something better doing. This is because I want to relocate to Uyo to hustle with my woman and our only daughter. I can't leave my woman aside and travel to Uyo alone. I want her to join me either in 2 weeks time or 3. She is a stylist and can work as Chef. She is also educated with O'level and I have been taken her through computer lesson's.

Now, I don't have any job assurance in Uyo but I have made some contacts. The 2 person's I contacted said once I relocate, I should let them know to help me get job. Also, I don't mind dropping my certificate just to do any job till I get my dream job. I am also working to get myself a driving license certificate and ID in case, I get a driving job in Uyo.

Pls, I want to know if it's wise to relocate to Uyo without any job at sight?

Also, my current state is one of the worst ever as firms here don't pay there staff good money. Like some pay Accountants here 25k/month to work from Monday to Saturday.

Your ideas will be great. My other areas of relocating is Enugu, Port Harcourt, or Anambra. Pls, help a brother.

Sir, follow your heart, if you were an indigine of Akwa Ibom, I would have advised you relocate and start any business while searching for a federal or state job as it would have been easy for you to get in. But know this, jobs in Akwa ibom(uyo) don't pay well too. Akwaibom is also expensive to live(accommodation). That is how people were recommending Benin republic and I went there and so that Nigeria is far better than that country. Please try apply for this job

www.teachfornigeria.org/apply.

You can start from there. Wish you well

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Family / Re: I Am Depressed by Divaan: 7:36pm On Jan 12, 2023
This is one reason the bible says not to make friends with an angry man.You spoke all those insults and damaging words to your wife, just because she used one day extra from the day she told you she'd be coming back and was not available as at the time you phoned her. Yet, you're still telling us you don't beat her, meanwhile you're killing your wife with your words. I put it to you that you're a verbally abusive person and quite toxic. That is why she wants to stay away from you. You said you love your wife, but you don't insult people you love.

I will advice you work on yourself and grow up spiritually, emotionally and mentally. Study and meditate on the book of proverbs with passages that talks about 'anger' and 'words'. Change should begin with you because your wife returning to your home right now is the least of your problems.

Love is patient and kind
Love is not jealous
It does not brag
And it is not proud
Love is not rude
Is not selfish and does not become angry easily
Love does not remember wrongs done against it
Love takes no pleasure in evil
But rejoices over the truth
Love patiently accepts all things
It always trust
And always continues strong
Love never ends
(I corinthians 13:4-8 International Children's Bible)


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Health / Re: Man Discovers His Wife Of 3years Is HIV Positive (video) by Divaan: 9:52pm On Jan 02, 2023
He should confirm it is not an hiv PEP(prophylaxis) drug before reaching his conclusion. LTD-M is mostly given as a PEP drug

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Romance / Re: Am I Normal? I Am Catching Feelings For Olosho by Divaan: 8:46pm On Dec 28, 2022
Well done. This is a good part time job. When are we coming for the wedding
Health / Re: . by Divaan: 8:55pm On Nov 07, 2022
Instead of you to take your medical result to a Doctor to interpret the result for you and counsel you on the necessary steps to take. You're here asking people who are not even doctors to do so. The test result you posted shows one positive which I cannot ascertain if it hepatitis B surface antigen or it is the panel test. Let a medical doctor certify you positive first before you begin to think of killing yourself. Many people are living fine with hepatitis B and here you are already filling suicidal. I pray God helps you
Romance / Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Divaan: 2:07pm On May 17, 2022
If you are in a country like Nigeria, you'll be wooed and shamed to eventually marry, because marriage in this part of our world is a great achievement/accomplishment to a lot of people. Our society frowns at singleness. It is not a favourable environment for singlehood. I'm sure you're saying these because you're still young and haven't started getting pressures from family, friends, enemies and society. But if you intend moving to a saner society, then singlehood can be a possibility, as marriage over there is solely by choice. As for whether it is possible, it all depends on your motive and reason for not wanting to marry. If it's because you have the worng mindset about marriage, then it's laughable, but if it's a choice you've made because of health, religion or for whatever reason, then it's ok but just know that if you continue living in Nigeria, you'll be subjected to a lot of mockery and tongue-lashing.
Health / Re: Free Distribution Of HIV In My Neighbourhood by Divaan: 12:19am On May 17, 2022
kingi777:
I'd been bearing this before I summoned courage to post it here on Nairaland in order to get the best advice on how to stop him from further damages without being personally affected. If reporting to police would stop the menace and guarantee my safety why won't I.
why would you want to report him to the police when you don't have substantial evidence to proof that he is knowingly infecting others? The best you could do is call him and counsel him. there are many other stds he could get besides hiv by continuing to sleep around. Counsel him on the medical implication of his actions.

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Romance / Re: Help! I'm Dying Of Being A Simp by Divaan: 10:58pm On May 15, 2022
uwakeminent:
I just can't imagine what happen this evening. I went out to buy food n eat, on my way back i saw a very nice looking girl n was just passing her by when she greeted me and said "please excuse me, please can u help me with 500naira" na so i just put hand for pocket comot 1k give am, even follow am dey waka for shops dey look change. After collecting the money, she thank me and departed just like that. I no even collect number, i no even ask her name. Make una enlighten me more. I can't continue simping like this. Right now am angry wit myself. I just dey waste money anyhow ontop girls matters without kpanshing
Before thinking of kpanshing any girl you meet. Just make sure you have tested yourself for HIV, HPV, HSV and HBV as these are the most common incurable STDs(Sexually Transmitted Diseases).This is the enlightenment I have for you.

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Health / Re: Laser Surgery Experience For Piles/hermorroids And Anal Fissure by Divaan: 8:48pm On Apr 14, 2022
Thank God Almighty for your healing. I pray that those going through this same illness would receive their healing as not everyone will have the money to travel outside their home country. I have never experienced pile in my life, but my heart reaches out to those who do. I pray they all find their healing as it must be a very painful experience. Thank God for your life

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Health / Re: Pls Help I Have This Skin Disease (viewers Discretion) by Divaan: 8:36pm On Apr 14, 2022
If you don't want to die young, get yourself into the nearest primary health care center. There's no herbal recommendation here that can help you right now. See a doctor immediately

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Health / Re: Any Cure For Hepatitis? by Divaan: 2:29pm On Mar 22, 2022
Consult your doctor
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Need Urgent Help, Dying Slowly by Divaan: 2:24pm On Mar 22, 2022
Look out for opportunities online and apply e.g npower, teach4nigeria,etc. Google search engine homepage now advertises job, internship n scholarship opportunities for youth. Take advantage of that.scroll down google home page n apply for opportunities that suit you.
Go to any school n request for a teaching/non teaching job.
Look for what you can sell at our everyday market e.g cloth, shoes, bags, earrings,etc.You can go sell early morning market from 5-9 and evening market from 5-9, depending on what you are selling. These businesses require just 10-15k capital.
Locate a good junction. Cook rice at home, take it n sell there. These are all good starting point until you get what you want.
Youu can drop your WhatsApp /phone number and I'll be sending you opportunity links. It's information you need right now.
Health / Re: Contraceptives? by Divaan: 9:03pm On Mar 18, 2022
Most general hospitals/Good pharmacy will enlighten and offer you contraceptive that best suits you for a very little/meagre amount like N500-1500. I don't think you can get a free contraceptive except condom.

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Health / Re: Hepatitis by Divaan: 8:57pm On Mar 18, 2022
3-6months.
Health / Re: Causes Of Sagging Breasts And Helpful Tips by Divaan: 8:53pm On Mar 18, 2022
What goes up must surely come down according to law of gravity. Sagging breast is a natural phenomena. Age, posture, body type, hormonal changes, breastfeeding, breast bones, tissues and muscles all play a role in making breast sag. So next time you see a sagging breast, stop attributing it to number of men ladies have slept with

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Health / Re: I Spent Like More Than 2k On Malaria Monthly, How Do I Help Myself Pls by Divaan: 8:47pm On Mar 18, 2022
They've said it all.

In addition,
1. Always complete your drug dosage.
2. Run a comprehensive medical checkup. The Oyo State hospital management board( that is all general hospitals in Oyo State) have very cheap medical testings. Some of their test goes for about N200( two hundred naira). You can travel and run your test there.
3. Get your Bible and begin to pray and confess your health and healing to God.
Health / Re: I'm Dying Slowly by Divaan: 8:37pm On Mar 18, 2022
Seek spiritual healing by praying to God or see a good pastor to pray with you. God is the perfect healer. Doctors only care but God heals.
I experienced something similar many years ago and when I knew l didn't have money to treat myself, I had to look up to God and He didn't fail me

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Health / Re: Bleeding Prolapse Hemorrhoids Pls Help by Divaan: 8:28pm On Mar 18, 2022
Lankoly12346:
Have you found the cure yet, I'm also battling with it too and I'm scared to visit any hospital coz the review I got is not encouraging about the surgery

Sir, go to the hospital and get yourself treated for your problem. Person no dey shame for sickness. Don't wait until it becomes chronic and fatal.Go and see a doctor. Pharmacist,herbs and agbo sellers should come after you have seen a doctor.
Health / Re: Please, Any Known Effective Way Of Getting A White Teeth? by Divaan: 8:22pm On Mar 18, 2022
Visit any general hospital in Lagos e.g luth, lasuth,etc. Ask for their dental clinic and say you want to do teeth cleaning or scaling and polishing. It's as cheap as N4,500. This should be every six month. After that, get sensodyne toothpaste. Sensodyne comes in different types:gentle whitening, or rapid action.

Alternatively, you can visit a good private dental clinic and do teeth whitening which goes for about N50,000 for 4 sessions (perfect whitening). The general hospitals only do teeth cleaning but good private dental clinics also do teeth whitening e.g Cordent dental clinic Ikeja, just after Ikeja under bridge

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Health / Re: Where Does Our Soul Reside by Divaan: 9:13pm On Feb 24, 2022
Rather than relying on scientific jargons that lead to nowhere. These books will answer your questions and put things in perspective. You know even if a doctor should dissect your body in a laboratory. He will not be able to find your soul. Read this these books with an open mind if truly you are willing to learn.

Man on three dimensions: Spirit, Soul and body by Kenneth Hagins

Growing up spiritually by Kenneth Hagins

The New Birth by Kenneth Hagins.

P.s try get the first book online by the same author

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Health / Re: Am I Depressed? [Picture] by Divaan: 8:20pm On Feb 22, 2022
You need Jesus cos nothing else satisfies but Jesus.

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