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Note: one free paid vocational training I know is: FSD VTE Academy 13 Acme crescent, off Acme Road, Agidingbi, Ikeja, Lagos. You can talk to any of the staff there and you could be assisted with a free accommodation but I guarantee you a good free paid vocational training and internship with them. |
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Girlee: Dear, you are welcome to the world. It is at this age reality sets in for many underprivileged or disadvantaged youths in Nigeria and the time many a youths are tempted to make drastic life's decisions that may end in premium tears. This is what happens when there is no proper guidance or a safe place to run to. I would have said you should seek counselling in a good church, that can support you and intervene in your family issues for your own good but unfortunately many churches today are either after your money or only after your spirituality. Your daddy building a house may be his own sure way of keeping an asset that would yield him salary in his old age. He may be acting out of fear. Sadly, this is the vicious cycle in many low-income earning homes and that is why you may be feeling neglected. He may think that you do not need to rush as your schooling could wait. He sees a pressing need to build his house for a security of his own future too. Also note that when A is unhappy, the unhappiness passes to B , then to C and when needs and expectations are not met, the whole environs became toxic and unbearable. This is the sad reality. My one pence advise I know to give is: 1. Be strong, stay resilient and fight. Fight the problem to win. Don't commit suicide. Millions are also facing same problem and worse issues than yours and are still fighting.Peradventure, they could win. 2. If or should you run away from home, seek a proper refuge. You could stay in an orphanage home, or with your pastors or a good aunt but please, let your parent or siblings be in the know as to where you are. Do not fall into the hands of female eaters and virgin hunters. 3. Seek a solution to passing your exams by reading voraciously, practice more past questions and devote more time to study, study, study. Select a course that is professional, lucrative and life fulfilling for your own future. 4. Work and pray. Seek work in places like schools or shops that close early. That way, you have time to refresh and sleep or better still. You could sell things like clothes, shoes or bags to students or in the markets. That way, your time is at your discretion. Pray. Pray as this is the thing we have to do in this part of the world to get favours, grace and opportunity. 5. Seek information and opportunities for young school leavers like yourself. Scholarship? Free vocational paid trainings? Etc. 6. Speak out. Yes. Tell people about what you're passing through. There are many angels as much as there are demons. 7. Wait. Time changes a lot of things. Time could change your state and life entirely. If it doesn't, it could change the way you perceive and relate with your own reality. I wish you well in your journey and pray you don't make too many mistakes. 2 Likes |
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Evolutionlove: I hope you will be able to say this to your own child someday. So many retards roaming. Do you realise that this is an eighteen year old child and that whatever you say may impact her for life. 3 Likes |
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My sister's dashboard is not opening, I am suspecting someone used her bvn to login. Is anyone experiencing the same? When I input her details and click login, nothing is appearing. |
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My sister's dashboard is not opening uptil now. I am suspecting someone used her bvn to login. Is anybody experiencing the same. |
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IRuinUrDay: Sir, follow your heart, if you were an indigine of Akwa Ibom, I would have advised you relocate and start any business while searching for a federal or state job as it would have been easy for you to get in. But know this, jobs in Akwa ibom(uyo) don't pay well too. Akwaibom is also expensive to live(accommodation). That is how people were recommending Benin republic and I went there and so that Nigeria is far better than that country. Please try apply for this job www.teachfornigeria.org/apply. You can start from there. Wish you well 2 Likes 1 Share |
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This is one reason the bible says not to make friends with an angry man.You spoke all those insults and damaging words to your wife, just because she used one day extra from the day she told you she'd be coming back and was not available as at the time you phoned her. Yet, you're still telling us you don't beat her, meanwhile you're killing your wife with your words. I put it to you that you're a verbally abusive person and quite toxic. That is why she wants to stay away from you. You said you love your wife, but you don't insult people you love. I will advice you work on yourself and grow up spiritually, emotionally and mentally. Study and meditate on the book of proverbs with passages that talks about 'anger' and 'words'. Change should begin with you because your wife returning to your home right now is the least of your problems. Love is patient and kind Love is not jealous It does not brag And it is not proud Love is not rude Is not selfish and does not become angry easily Love does not remember wrongs done against it Love takes no pleasure in evil But rejoices over the truth Love patiently accepts all things It always trust And always continues strong Love never ends (I corinthians 13:4-8 International Children's Bible) 92 Likes 3 Shares |
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He should confirm it is not an hiv PEP(prophylaxis) drug before reaching his conclusion. LTD-M is mostly given as a PEP drug 61 Likes 3 Shares |
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Well done. This is a good part time job. When are we coming for the wedding |
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Instead of you to take your medical result to a Doctor to interpret the result for you and counsel you on the necessary steps to take. You're here asking people who are not even doctors to do so. The test result you posted shows one positive which I cannot ascertain if it hepatitis B surface antigen or it is the panel test. Let a medical doctor certify you positive first before you begin to think of killing yourself. Many people are living fine with hepatitis B and here you are already filling suicidal. I pray God helps you |
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If you are in a country like Nigeria, you'll be wooed and shamed to eventually marry, because marriage in this part of our world is a great achievement/accomplishment to a lot of people. Our society frowns at singleness. It is not a favourable environment for singlehood. I'm sure you're saying these because you're still young and haven't started getting pressures from family, friends, enemies and society. But if you intend moving to a saner society, then singlehood can be a possibility, as marriage over there is solely by choice. As for whether it is possible, it all depends on your motive and reason for not wanting to marry. If it's because you have the worng mindset about marriage, then it's laughable, but if it's a choice you've made because of health, religion or for whatever reason, then it's ok but just know that if you continue living in Nigeria, you'll be subjected to a lot of mockery and tongue-lashing. |
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kingi777:why would you want to report him to the police when you don't have substantial evidence to proof that he is knowingly infecting others? The best you could do is call him and counsel him. there are many other stds he could get besides hiv by continuing to sleep around. Counsel him on the medical implication of his actions. 1 Like |
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uwakeminent:Before thinking of kpanshing any girl you meet. Just make sure you have tested yourself for HIV, HPV, HSV and HBV as these are the most common incurable STDs(Sexually Transmitted Diseases).This is the enlightenment I have for you. 1 Like |
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Thank God Almighty for your healing. I pray that those going through this same illness would receive their healing as not everyone will have the money to travel outside their home country. I have never experienced pile in my life, but my heart reaches out to those who do. I pray they all find their healing as it must be a very painful experience. Thank God for your life 1 Like |
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If you don't want to die young, get yourself into the nearest primary health care center. There's no herbal recommendation here that can help you right now. See a doctor immediately 1 Like |
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Consult your doctor |
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Look out for opportunities online and apply e.g npower, teach4nigeria,etc. Google search engine homepage now advertises job, internship n scholarship opportunities for youth. Take advantage of that.scroll down google home page n apply for opportunities that suit you. Go to any school n request for a teaching/non teaching job. Look for what you can sell at our everyday market e.g cloth, shoes, bags, earrings,etc.You can go sell early morning market from 5-9 and evening market from 5-9, depending on what you are selling. These businesses require just 10-15k capital. Locate a good junction. Cook rice at home, take it n sell there. These are all good starting point until you get what you want. Youu can drop your WhatsApp /phone number and I'll be sending you opportunity links. It's information you need right now. |
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Most general hospitals/Good pharmacy will enlighten and offer you contraceptive that best suits you for a very little/meagre amount like N500-1500. I don't think you can get a free contraceptive except condom. 1 Like |
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3-6months. |
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What goes up must surely come down according to law of gravity. Sagging breast is a natural phenomena. Age, posture, body type, hormonal changes, breastfeeding, breast bones, tissues and muscles all play a role in making breast sag. So next time you see a sagging breast, stop attributing it to number of men ladies have slept with 1 Like |
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They've said it all. In addition, 1. Always complete your drug dosage. 2. Run a comprehensive medical checkup. The Oyo State hospital management board( that is all general hospitals in Oyo State) have very cheap medical testings. Some of their test goes for about N200( two hundred naira). You can travel and run your test there. 3. Get your Bible and begin to pray and confess your health and healing to God. |
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Seek spiritual healing by praying to God or see a good pastor to pray with you. God is the perfect healer. Doctors only care but God heals. I experienced something similar many years ago and when I knew l didn't have money to treat myself, I had to look up to God and He didn't fail me 1 Like |
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Lankoly12346: Sir, go to the hospital and get yourself treated for your problem. Person no dey shame for sickness. Don't wait until it becomes chronic and fatal.Go and see a doctor. Pharmacist,herbs and agbo sellers should come after you have seen a doctor. |
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Visit any general hospital in Lagos e.g luth, lasuth,etc. Ask for their dental clinic and say you want to do teeth cleaning or scaling and polishing. It's as cheap as N4,500. This should be every six month. After that, get sensodyne toothpaste. Sensodyne comes in different types:gentle whitening, or rapid action. Alternatively, you can visit a good private dental clinic and do teeth whitening which goes for about N50,000 for 4 sessions (perfect whitening). The general hospitals only do teeth cleaning but good private dental clinics also do teeth whitening e.g Cordent dental clinic Ikeja, just after Ikeja under bridge 2 Likes |
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Rather than relying on scientific jargons that lead to nowhere. These books will answer your questions and put things in perspective. You know even if a doctor should dissect your body in a laboratory. He will not be able to find your soul. Read this these books with an open mind if truly you are willing to learn. Man on three dimensions: Spirit, Soul and body by Kenneth Hagins Growing up spiritually by Kenneth Hagins The New Birth by Kenneth Hagins. P.s try get the first book online by the same author 2 Likes 1 Share |
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You need Jesus cos nothing else satisfies but Jesus. |
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