A learned fool is more a fool than an ignorant fool.
The greatest fools are oftentimes more clever than the men who laugh at them.

Any unwise person can condemn, critize, vaunt- and most do, with so much temper and emotion.

PocketEconomist: i've got a question for you sis, if your husband respects you, loves you, is responsible and seeks your opinion before taking major decisions, will you submit to him. Before you answer, i believe you know the TRUE meaning of submission.

The fact that my husband loves me doesn't mean he wouldn't be able to take the final decisions. I know where I stand as the woman and he knows where he stands as the man in the relationship. I'm to respect him and he is to love me. If he truly loves me, he wouldn't make a decision that affects us both without caring to know how i feel about it. If our views are different, he would take a logical decision that would not hurt me in any way except for my will not being done. And I know I will submit to him; you don't have to believe me but its true. My point is that I don't owe submission to all the men on planet earth, just the man that loves me. I am not a tool for all men to to boost their self-esteems on, just that man.

bisiopinion: A sense of entitlement: an idiotic phenomenon. No one owes you anything in this world. Female or male.

Spot on. Asides normal humility that is characteristic of a good nature, I do not owe any male homosapien submission. But I will bow willingly before the man that loves me. Even the bible says "we love Him because He first loved us". I'm not a feminist but I won't like to be trampled upon as a person.

Herodion:
Okay, the first picture up there is pounded-yam (iyan). I don't really know all the ingredients my mom used to prepare that rich soup, but those meat na gorilla

Gorilla it is.

@op, kindly summarize those pictures in words. I really want to know what exactly it was you ate.

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Great article with salient points. But since happy marriages do exist, it's worth giving a try. I would still love to spend the rest of my life with the bone of my bones and the flesh of my flesh when the time comes.

wow!

We can be friends if he has an interesting personality. I cannot fall in love with him. Some can scheme to chop his money though.

I wonder why some fellows find it hard to understand that the op was not there when the accident occured & he did not meet the victims there on arriving at the scene!

lol. The topic leaves this 'SO?' reaction.

She has never flashed or sent a simple text! The girl does not care about you. Her heart is most likely with another guy, hence she does not even care to know how you are. I think the reason she even picks your calls is because she doesn't want to be rude.I know what I'm talking about.

Nobody can be like this all the time. Life....

My mouth goes dry.

ighoosagie: the main prerequisites should not just evolve round d colors, height, nd smartness. It's high time we started building relationships on morals and Mkng it a pick for compatibilities. Most times happiness lies on impossible nd neglected places. remember a time would come when u become over familiar to those physical appearances that swept u off ur feet in d beginning, then u start looking around for impossibilities and trying to change uncertainties.



#team good girl#
#team caring husband#
#team happy home#

You are right. I used to want a very tall guy because I'm tall myself. But my guy of interest now is not particularly tall, yet.... So this is just a natural preference that I can control. It's like loving the taste of sugar which you know is not too good for your health. You just have to control the craving.

chess guru:
Don't tell me Van vicker/ ramson noah or Mike *dont know his last name* are all feminine to you?
If I didn't know better, I'd say we are more romantic
#teamlightskin

I tell you they are. To each his own.

He should insert a needle to break the hymen and its done.

lol@the woman's confusion and the weak men.

For a partner, I prefer dark complexioned men. There is just something more masculine about them to me. I am naturally attracted to them. Light-skinned guys just seem effeminate to me, like being with fellow ladies, although I know skin color doesn't define masculinity. That is just my own natural tendency.

@op, I would like to know exactly how long(in inches or cm) your hair is.

asco15: There has been several revelations 2ru the Holy spirit to many people, confirming that chosen is from the Almighty God.
The case of this spiritualist is a confession of his experience. Besides he didn't say that those that came to him were chosen members, rather he mention an alhaji.
Matt.12:36, remember dat u shall give account of every idle words that a u speaketh. Be warn !!!

I wonder what concerns an alhaji with the source of chosen church, all things being equal. I refuse to believe that over-zealous members have nothing to do with this.

Amen!

rationalmind:

By your convoluted logic, how is it your business what I say with my mouth? Its my life not yours.

Ok.

Yes.

RedBenson:

Speaking as a girl right?

They want to see what she sees in you and they compare you to their own man. They also wonder how it would be if they were your girl instead.

Christ did it because the Spirit led Him to pray that way. Everyone should pray as the Spirit leads. Moreso, your attitude in prayer is sometimes affected by the weight in your heart. That explains why Jesus prayed that way at that time. You know what He was praying about...

I agree with 80% of this research. The age segreggation is okay as it gives opportunity for interactions, especially on solving common issues associated with the age. But truely, most youth groups are entertainment oriented and it hardly helps their spiritual lives.

It is not your business what they think with their minds. It is their life, not yours.