I believe that after traditional or court marriage, you become legally husband and wife. White wedding is just the white's custom; not mandatory in the Bible. People had been getting married before christianity came. If your wife refuses to think this way, u sef wait. At least na just 2 months and you've been waiting for 3yrs.

Fabricated story.

Strange. Some people would give anything to be in the boy's shoes.

You should not have told her you were coming to Osogbo. Why did you even tell her? If you truly want her off your neck, just block her till like forever.

youngprof2n: D worst part is dt am nw in love wit both of dem so is it advisable for me 2 keep one as a friend or should i let one of dem go.

You must be a confused, playboyish, female-attention happy teenager. So you didn't know you were in love with the 1st lady before asking the 2nd.
My advice; let go of both of them as it is quite obvious that you are not man enough to be in any relationship. DATING IS NOT FOR KIDS.

baralatie:

u are outrageously stupid on ur comment!if it was ur sista this wil be ur statement abt a nine year old

Don't mind the ostritch headed simpleton. Very silly fellow!

baralatie:

u are outrageously stupid on ur comment!if it was ur sista this wil be ur statement abt a nine year old

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Like it or not, you don't have a say in such things. Just 'jejely' obey your husband to avoid problems. Better still do it with love, hoping that one day your DILs will do the same for you.
Your MIL is your mother too and if you have a good or at least normal relationship with her, this should not be a problem.

@topic, she wants a relationship with you. @op,Its probably lust because you barely know each other.
Nevertheless, this shouldn't be a problem except you're enjoying the attention and(or) you are also interested in her. If you care about your girlfriend's feelings, you should let the other lady know you are committed to someone. If she insists, what about blocking her forever and such? But if you're looking to replace your current gf of 3yrs for someone you barely know, you can budge. But pls I beg you in the name of womanhood, don't double date.

I know a man who has never had an extra affair.

kilode95: E be like say i go remove marriage from my agenda

Like seriously!

lol, you guys are WIKID.

A lot. But hot temper, arrogance and disrespect rank higher for me.

A lot. But hot temper, pride and disrespect rank higher for me.

@above, his statement does not call for all this. Plus, you really know nothing about his life.

chineloSA:
OP, apologies for using the name of an animal. You pushed me too far.

I sincerely thought that you have the pre-proposal jitters.

I guessed wrong.

But next time, please lets all refrain from name calling. Its very classy.

Wonderful! I didn't know people like you existed on the forum.
No answer to the op's question so, off I go.

Op, if you end up not fleeing as Mr.BrownJay is suggesting, please and please be very careful and smart. Especially, don't allow the lady tamper with the 'protection' as she may be trying to spread a disease. Like some people said, guard your belongings. Also, ensure that you've completed your main assignment before you invite her.
But really, all this trouble just for a piece of @55? Doesn't look like its worth it. Just my opinion.

Nothing of this nature has ever ended well.
My advice-RUN!!!

Boll2010: how true na only ur man's dicck u shove in ur ass true out ur entire........I sabi pple lyk u sista mary, if dem spread dicck for clothline u go steal am!!

See this one. Dude calm down, you know nothing about me. No rule has it that everyone should think the same way. Everybody is entitled to their own opinions. And I just stated mine, since the op wanted advice.

So a curvy lady friend cannot come and pay you a visit because she enjoys your company? You think she wants you. You'd better keep your randiness in check. Even if she wants you, you can still be a gentleman and not sleep with another man's wife, chai!

Please leave this moderator alone. Nothing you say will make him impeached. Just stop taking his actions too personal. Afterall he is only moderating the nairaland part of your life, which is hardly important.

With physical attraction, affection, emotional and mental intimacy, this is what love is to me:
Love is patient;
Love is kind;
Love does not envy;
Love does not boast;
Love is not proud;
Love is not rude;
Love is not self-seeking; Love is not easily angered;
Love keeps no record of wrongs;
Love protects;
Love always trusts;
Love perseveres always;
Love never fails.

oops! That looks to me like a girl child. A girl child with braided natural hair. Or am I seeing things?

EndTimeThings: ok? You have hymen, but that will not reduce the sizE oF thE 'pit toilet'

preach it!

This is a quite impressive improvement. But meanwhile until students are asked to resume, I stay skeptical.