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baralatie: An example is Awka to Onitsha. Guy, if you suspect she is cheating, tell her over the phone that you know she is cheating on you and that you are done. Do not continue with her (whether for knacks or otherwise) and never make the mistake of taking her back. You might be emotionally attached, a little bit, but move on and find someone else. |
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Coolsat: Second Wife no truly send you. Na your money she still want. 2 Likes |
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BlackAdams007: Person no work, complaint, person work, complaint. What do you want? 1 Like 1 Share |
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Jennyclay: What do you mean by no love? Do you think love is a feeling of excitement? Love is a decision! Women are emotional beings! The fact that another man is close to her in Uk whispering "sweet nothings" is enough for her to forget the good memories of her husband and then she immediately feels she is no longer in love and says things like " It’s better for the woman to leave the marriage than to start cheating on the man" If you truly have the opinion that you can leave a marriage based on how you feel "in love or not in love" please do not marry. There are grounds for divorce and your feelings are not included " both for the man and for the woman". The idea of marriage is a lifelong commitment to one another, supporting, understanding and deciding to love each other. If one is not up to the task do not do it. Why do you think many men are not married? They are not ready for that kind of commitment, which is okay! I know people with good intentions in marriage have low periods when they catch feelings for others and all that, but they would never think of leaving their marriage due to such fickle fleeting emotions. |
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What exactly is the complaint? Your husband doesn't carry you or he doesn't suck you or you are seeking a new romantic experience entirely thereby relieving your very first? The summary is that whatever it is you want indirectly will not help you since you are married. If you act based on your wrong feelings and u are caught, you will destroy the small peaceful family you have. You can't eat ur cake and have it. You want an expert sucker and u expect he would have been faithful to you if u had married him? You are looking for a romantic fling which is normal as a human, but I advise you squash the feeling. 1 Like |
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You want to marry someone you met online, who lives in PH and whom you are yet to date physically. I know it's a new age and all that, but if you know how immoral young people are these days, you no go try am. The tests that should be carried out should not only be fertility tests, but also, mental, spiritual, hook-up, all medical tests, possible abortions, and body count test! You dey here dey argue about only fertility tests. Please be wise my brother and obey your Father. Obedience is better than sacrifice! |
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IamPlato: You can't force calmness in extreme situations. You prepare for it over time. So they are allowed to do anything that will calm them down in the moment of panic. If speaking in tongues or prayer will calm you down, better do it. 1 Like |
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Can she afford it based on her legitimate earnings? What exactly are the reasons for the reservations you have? |
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lhordspy: Voted or rigged their way? Please get your facts right. How can the citizens vote Ikpeazu who is owing so many months of salary?? |
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I pray he buys his parents a car soonest. May we not meet entitled women. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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Persephone1: Una just dey give advise, dey conclude without any evidence. I think the woman should not rush into conclusions. She has discussed with the husband and he has reassured her. I expect her to believe him. I have been on a dating app for years without any meaningful activity. Infact this thread made me go back to the app to delete my profile since I have hardly ever used it, before one aproko woman go go tell my wife sey I dey carry babe. |
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gshsj: Bros, no try am o. Probability you will lose the money is high. Do not complicate your simple life. 3 Likes |
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aribisala0: Please the cutoff mark is not done just based on higher demand. The average performance of candidates from the state is also a major determinant. Imagine 5 candidates write from Kano and their avarage score is 150. Are you saying Kano's cutoff will be 40 or 50 or even lower because the demand is low? No! the average score forms a basis of deciding who goes in. This will be done in line with the demand( number who wrote/needed). Also if 200 candidates write from Lagos and their average score is 80. Based on your demand theory, their cut of score will be higher than that of Kano in this analogy since a lot people wrote from Lag despite having a lower average. This cannot be so. Their cutoff will consider the average score of the candidates from the state vis a vis the number who wrote. The cutoff marks are majorly based on average performance per state in line with the number needed from the state to ensure that high performing states are judged against each other. States that have a high cutoff mark obviously performed better averagely. Lagos had most candidates in this common entrance exam yet has a lower cut-off than some other states despite their very high demand. N/b: I am not here to argue about the demerits or merits of this system, just to correct the quoted misconception. |
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Shukusheka: Its good they have sent feedback. |
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Danyyyyyyyyyyy: She has an obligation to help as the wife. That's why it is a marriage. It is her duty just as it would have been the husband's duty if the tables had turned. That is exactly why before going into marriage both parties should understand what marriage means. People should stop rushing into marriage and saying vows they do not understand. Then when the chips are down, they start giving flimsy excuses. Staying single is not a crime, but please do not redefine marriage. Marriage means that both parties leave their parents and come to together as one. Giving instances of selfish acts by men and women in marriage still buttresses the same point that people should stay single. In marriage you don't sacrifice because it is comfortable. You sacrifice and discomfort yourself because it is what you swore to do. The man must bend backwards to provide no matter how difficult. The woman despite not being in the mood smiles and allows sex. Despite being tired prepares food for the children. The man uses his last card to pay school fees. I expect the wife to give up her Kidney to save the husband's life or find a solution together with him. Running is not the solution. She is his wife and they are one! 3 Likes |
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OP, you need to quickly kill those thoughts before they ruin you. Have a heart to heart discussion with your wife and sort out things. Please also ignore the side chicks suggestions here as it will not end well too. Always picture the end from the beginning. |
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This is hilarious! 1 Like |
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I initially thought he was being sacarstic not until I read the full story and understood that he was dead serious. The lack of objectivity by some of our leaders is alarming. 2 Likes |
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It's shocking how everything is termed "racism". |
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I am suspecting it might be FIRS. Remember the first assessment had a lot of tax questions. I also read in other federal government recruitment threads here on nairaland that FIRS will be retiring a lot of staff by the end of the year. |
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These are assumptions which could mean nothing. Please don't make decisions based on assumptions. You saw a wink and a pout, and you concluded. If dem dey alone for house together, u go faint be that. Things are not always as they seem. Be sure before venturing further. |
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Good One! Inspiring and workable strategies. |
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Queenlovely: Who are you? Tell me! |
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Young woman, please don't visit that guy unless you want to risk being taken advantage of. Verbal abuse is also not acceptable, neither should you abuse him. Please tell him politely that you do not think it wise to visit a man alone and at this age. Someone who really cares about you will understand. Shine your eye ooo! 1 Like |
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I know how difficult this may sound. I am also not saying I would have done or not do what I am about to say, but I am duty bound to tell you what I believe is right. You must forgive all those who have hurt you. You must not necessarily visit or invite them to your house, but whenever you can help them with financial assistance, please do. We are to love our enemies and even pray for them. Please help them when you can while you stay far from them so they would not infect you with their toxicity. |
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Nuttella: Neither Aisha nor Ngozi should be your standard. I am also not against you working or helping your husband. All forms of work are hounarable! But then, your assumption that help must be financial is really flawed. How can you quantify raising valuable children, how much is it worth? What is greater than this? I am against sterotypical views as mentioned by the teacher. From her statements, if a wife cannot contribute financially, she is a failure. Jeez! What has happened to our world? If before you get married, you are already thinking that your husband will need your help financially, then your thoughts might come to pass, creating a future where your husband will always lack. Be careful what you think. 3 Likes |
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truthsayer009: You guys talk a lot about money as a result of poverty. The feeling by a man that a woman needs to bring in money is a poor man's mindset. Raising ethical, productive children is a far greater honour than any kind of work. A woman should decide to work based on passion/vision for an activity and not based on the need for money and her passion or work should never take the place/role of raising great kids which she brought into the world. Our men should be taught to provide all the needs of their family. Poverty is first and foremost in the mind. Once you truly know that your supply is endless, working or not working will never be an issue. 6 Likes |
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Nuttella: Follow this advice at your own peril. Marriage ain't no competition! People spew a lot of wrong suggestions based on their own failed experiences. Husband and wife should agree on what they want to do based on their preferences. Both parties should love, submit, be willing to compromise while respecting each other. Respect and love is a decision not based on actions or achievements of one another. For a successful marriage, kindly refer to the Holy Books. 4 Likes |
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delkuf: Did Jesus talk about tithing? I really would like to learn. All I have heard about tithing is from the old testament before Christ came and died for us. There are several laws in the old testament which are completely ignored but tithing is always the focus. I addition to learning which I am very open to, my opinion is that the bible teaches giving as an attitude. A willingness to always help as opposed to hoarding. |
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Balanced write up by Dele. Interesting read indeed! 1 Like |
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