Sonnobax15:

The key to the cure of all the problem wey this op get dey for middle of red sea

MrAligator:
Ask the so called pastor to give you the name of the church/pastor that joined Abraham and Sarah together or to remind you of the name of the pastor that was at the wedding ceremony where Jesus turned water into wine.

Flee from false prophets for the look like sheep but they are wolves and will lead to the destruction of your soul.

As A Christian it's a personal decision between you and your partner to allow a priest or pastor join you together or pray for you after your marriage. Infact you can pray over your marriage yourself if you want as long as you truly believe you are a Christian.

Dtruthspeaker:


This is not true! God commands us to do "all that is right".

So Sarah had a family and Abraham had a family and for the fact that he was married and leaving with his father shows that all who should have been notified of their intention were truly notified.

Truvelisback:
Before u start calling the man of God all sorts of names, did Adam pay any dowry b4 marrying Eve? Did Cain pay any dowry b4 marrying his sister? Dowry is a human or traditional law, not God's law. The most important thing is the consent of both parents for them to live together. If both parents agree for them to live together under one roof, marriage as taken place. Whether the dowry is being paid or not. But traditions have ruin everything, that's why u see our ladies going beyond 40 without marriage or having children. This is not to say i am against payment of dowry. It should be optional or a thing of choice. If i have a daughter that is of age for marriage, and the man she is engage with loves her and is willing to take care of her but not rich enough to go tru these marriage rites stress, i may not collect dowry from him. Her happiness is my priority.

Truvelisback:
Also, If there is a consent/approval/awareness from both parents that both of them are seeing each other or she is living with the man, marriage as taken place.

Dtruthspeaker:


Correct! This is what The Law calls Cohabitation. This is also a type of marriage.

Thedon22:
This is a mumu post. So, to fight kidnapping we must continue to make currency scarce, abi? That means we cut our nose to spite our face. These people have no creative solution to Nigerian problems. I can't wait for Tinubu to be sworn in to show them creative ways to solve problems without much negative impact on the masses.

LesbianBoy:
In this life, hustle ooooooooooo

A whole inec is replying davido

psalmz:
I just sat down and did some calculations and noticed I spend nothing less than 8k daily on feeding my wife n kids and also fueling my car and generator,some one said I am extravagant ,pls how true it ?

TeamLeader:
Good day guys hows your day going?

Guys am contemplating on getting landed property at two different locations in Lagos and honestly I be jjc when it comes to land measurements and stuffs like that. I nor know anything about the documents and all.

So am asking what should i look forward to? What kinds of documents must I get or request for as a sole ownership.

Help me guys before the follow go another road Waka.

Thank you

Alapojames:
Test that puna to avoid story that touches the heart..
What if you married her in the will and later find out that the garden is wider than black hole � ?

TooNoisy:
He has no momentum.

Its the same IPOB youths that just keep shouting his name up and down. He is not known in the North at all. No one knows him. He cannot get 25% of votes in any northern state. His party has no candidates in the North. They don't have any state chairmen, local government chairmen or even ward members.

No credible politician is associating with him. No one knows him in Ogun, Ondo, Ekiti, Osun and Oyo. He is little known in Edo and Delta. He couldn't even get a Northerner as placeholder. He had to use the only non-Igbo supporting him, who happens to be a discredited politician like Doyin Okupe.

No momentum anywhere. Everything is online and he would not get 2 million votes in the real election. He is just being supported by IPOB members who use cyber bullying as their tactic.

Mrkumareze:
Change mechanic and electrician

eyinjuege:


But how does he know the children are not in school though?
Why would their mother keep them out of school if they can afford to go?
What could they be doing for their mother at home?
He needs to ask their mother about what he's heard concerning the children not being in school.
Or better still, go and see your children and find out from them about their welfare.
Your job should not be more important than your children.

eyinjuege:
Why hasn't he gone in person to see his children and find out about their welfare?
Secondly, Why can't he ask their mother about why the children are not in school? She may have a plausible reason.
Lastly, you mentioned your friend isn't stable enough to have the kids with him. Does that mean he hasn't been sending their school fees?
Perhaps their mother can't afford their school fees for now and she might have changed them to a public school or a cheaper school.
Your friend needs to go down to where his children are and find out what's going on. If it's school fees matter, he needs to buckle up to pay his children's fees. If it's something else, get to the bottom of it and find a solution

Richy4:

I don't want to guess but I kind of understand the woman... She's scared that she will wake up one morning, send the kids to school only to return empty handed because they may have been taken by their dad...

All these will play out well were there's understanding... Let that Man have a one on one conversation with the wife, probably involve one person that the wife respects or holds with high esteem in a neutral place like a restaurant.

Let him tell her there with that person present that this was what he discovered... And if it was because of taking the kids from her, that she shouldn't bother that he won't do it.. if that was not the woman's concern, then they can iron the problem there and then together... My opinion though...

Your contribution is well taken. My appreciation. The husband in any way is not even interested in taking custody of the kids due to the nature of his job. He is not stable. Rather he just wanna be sure that the wife is not handling the life of the kids carelessly.

collette10:
If indeed they are separated, I mean divorced, he can sue for custody of the children on the basis of the woman's deliberate act of preventing the children from schooling.
But it all boils down to if he wants custody of the children.

BIGGIE121:
Hello

GboyegaD:
They are still in communication from what I understand as such, he should ask her why the kids are not in school. However, if there is a divorce proceedings ongoing, he should get his lawyer to write to her lawyer for an explanation on why the kids are not in school.

Kobojunkie:
Op, your friend needs to go through his lawyer to find out exactly why the kids are not in school and then go from there. He shouldn't give himself heart attack prior to learning exactly why they are not in school this semester.

Sonnobax15:

A lawyer should know better on how to deal with this kind of case na . And shouldn't be going arouse asking of advice from a bakery worker like myself and others in-here who doesn't know how to come into this kind of matter...

money121:
Ok