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frozen70: Amen |
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Mizwisdom: I have nothing to prove to you. If I am a blogger, I would have put my blog link. You choose what you believe. |
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ifyalways: And someone would think that you are responsible. 2 Likes |
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thorpido: The husband cares less. Both my sister and the husband are educated so they know that the man determines the gender of the child. But you know, men are cunning. They will say that it doesn't matter, but in future, their opinion will change. 3 Likes |
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nnamdibig: She tried this method but it failed. Thus the reason it seems to her all hope is lost as she has tried everything within her knowledge as human. Unfortunately, it cost minimum of 3 million to do IVF that can allow you select the gender of the child. |
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ifyalways: One thing that I have noticed about some nairaland commenters is that they can stay in their home and tell what is happening in another man's home. If you read through my post, you will see where I stated that she just delivered few days ago. Do you think we are not working? Do you know the distance between where we are and where she is? So, if you were in our shoes, you will just jump and start rushing to visit a woman that just delivered without any preparation? Think before you judge! 9 Likes |
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sean079: One of my sisters is a nurse. She followed them through when they were about to conceive and put them through on when to have sex to have a male child. Unfortunately, it didn't work. 3 Likes |
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carammel: I wish it is possible to visit her. But we're living miles away from each other. We will ask our sister living close to the state that she is, to visit her. 1 Like |
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Katier00: You are not far from the truth. She said that she doesn't want to give birth again and that explains the reason that she desperately needs a boy. 3 Likes |
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chiommy123: Firstly, there's one of my sisters that has been married for 19 years going to 20 without any child. My sister that is directly younger to this one has just one female child that is 4 years now and they are planning on doing IVF soon. So you see, she has enough life experience to learn from and be grateful. But then again, I understand it's not easy for her. But one of the parts of being an adult is accepting things that we cannot change 2 Likes 1 Share |
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Alexk2: Thank you. We will consider getting a psychologist for her. |
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DUNKA: Well, I will say that there's no "actual" pressure from the husband's family. The major pressure here is the one my sister put on herself simply because the wife of her husband's brother is giving birth to boys. So, it appears there's an unwritten rivalry or will as say "dare" 3 Likes |
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There's this my sister that has two female children She took in for her third child but refused to go for scan. Few days to her delivery time, she finally accepted to do the scan. The result of the scan showed that she is carrying a girl. This is where the problem started. She started crying, calling everybody and weeping heavily. When she first called my other sister, she thought maybe, she has lost the baby. It was when I listened closely to the crying voice of my sister that I understood what actually happened. I had to call my other sister to tell her the true reason my sister is crying. Fast forward to few weeks later, my sister became due for delivery but she refused to go to hospital. The pregnancy water came out of her body but she still stayed at home, the blood which is the last stage before the baby comes out also came out of her body while she was still at home. It is not until the baby stopped making movement that she had to visit the hospital. When she got there, the baby was already weak and the doctor said that any further delay could have seen the baby dead in the womb. My sister wanted to rush home immediately after giving birth. It was the doctor that forced her to stay for an additional day to ascertain the condition of her health and that of the baby. She went home the next day without telling anybody that she has given birth. Not until the husband came home (he wasn't around the day she delivered). Three days after, the husband started calling all of us (her siblings) to please call my sister and ask her what the problem is. You will not believe that my sister is still crying inconsolably. As I type this, I am feeling hurt and pity for the poor innocent child that came out to this world to meet a mother that spites her simply because she is a girl. My sister as I type, has refused to pick our calls. I didn't know people will still think and behave this way in 2018. Please, is it normal for a mother of a newborn baby to be crying profusely, simply because she has given birth to three girls? Our fear is that she might hurt that baby as she has demonstrated during the late pregnancy stage when she was due to deliver. Please, any suggestions on how to make her come back to her senses and know that children are from God? Please, I need your contributions 3 Likes |
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This is impressive. She looks smart 3 Likes |
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madridguy: I have been pretending before these people while talking to my husband about my dissatisfaction with the situation. My husband has been actually supportive but if he by omission or commission allows this old man in, I will throw caution to the wind. 2 Likes |
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elektra: Exactly, this sister that is leaving has stayed with my husband from the time he rented his apartment and is ready to stay until he look after her at old age. Her stay with us made her other siblings to overlook her, with hope that she stays with us and therefore we should take care of her. Now that she's moved, it's everybody's responsibility to take care of her. |
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tugar: I don't think any African man with self-esteem will type what you just typed. Why should we accommodate him for a short while? It's not as if he has any reason that shows he's coming to stay for a short period of time. This man doesn't have sham at all. I overheard him asking his wife if they are not ashamed of themselves that her, her mother and father could not feed and pay the school fees of their four children. I mean, which responsible man does that? Is it the responsibility of the wife's parents to train the children they both brought to the world? I wish you understand the personality of the person in question. 6 Likes |
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Amhappy: Please I don't know how to start quoting everybody. The day my husband suggested that he should go and learn how to drive so that he can become either a bus or a taxi driver, all hell was let loose. He called everybody telling them how my husband has insulted him by suggesting that he should become an 'ordinary' driver. I think my husband in a way caused this, because even till today, this man still collect money and food items from my husband and our house. For those suggesting about bringing in any parent, both mine and his are late. |
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I got married to my husband in 2012. Before then, he has been living with his elder sister in a three-bedroom apartment. Within the first few years we lived, things were going fine and we were in good terms until suddenly things fell apart over time. The story is too long for me to type on here. For sanctimonious Nairalanders, please don’t ask further for more details to start your sit-at-home judgement because I am not ready to answer any of such. The short story that led me to create this thread is that I asked my husband to rent an apartment for her. My husband has rented a one room self-contained apartment for her in a place not too far from where we stay. Mind you that this lady is not married and is about 50 years of age. As if the burden of having this elder sister-in-law around since I got married is not enough, I have another brother in-law who is also an elder brother to my husband. My husband happens to be the last child of the family. This man came the day my sister-in-law was packing out that he wants to pack into our house. Note that this man is married with children. His inability to take care of his wife and children led them to pack to the wife’s family. He has been living alone for long. Please I need help on how to stop this man from moving in with us. I have a daughter and a foster daughter who sleeps in the parlor because the third room is where we packed our properties. When this girl urinates at night and it stains our rug, the whole parlor stinks. My plan is to move her with my daughter to the room where my sister-in-law just left. This my brother in-law does not do anything. All he does is eat, bath, sleep and walk around, only to come back and eat again. I have told my husband that if he packs in, I will leave the house for them until he is done marrying his brother. Enough is enough, this people don’t want to give me breathing space. The annoying part is that this sister-in-law connived with the problem that he will move in as soon as she moves out (I guess she wants to use it to punish me for sending her away) without my husbands consent until the day she was packing out. cc lalasticlala Royalroy 2 Likes |
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elmafelix: Please I have gotten a mail for the business awareness test. How was yours? Can you give me a hint on what to expect please |
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LuckyWinner: I wrote the test on Thursday last week and today I received a success mail. Please how do I prepare for the business awareness test Deadline - tomorrow by 1pm Please treat as urgent everyone reading this that can help |
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roldre: Please if you have gotten the study materials, can you kindly send it to me at talktodrflora@gmail.com My test is also scheduled on Thursday 17th August |
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dapyd1: Please send me your study materials to talktodrflora@gmail.com I have my test scheduled on Thursday 17th August, I will be 26 in December, I hope that is not a barrier |
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lordMac80: Dude, are you fvcking kidding me? I have really seen where a beggar has a choice and opinion. You write so intelligently yet you couldn't use your intellectual prowess to save your azz from soliciting for help online. I am no way in support of the girl's post but your response so far depicts pride and arrogance. Please note that there is no excuse for begging. You don't need an online advice before you know that you should go and work. Are you just knowing that people can make money by working at construction sites? Are there no sales boy or car wash vacancies in Port Harcourt? Dude, stop showing yourself and get your freaking azz to work. I hate it when people try to prove a point when they are actually clueless. 4 Likes |
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Eketem: There's no medical condition here It's normal. One thing is certain, he's going to stop it with time. 1 Like |
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