Well my fair lady, as a relationship advice guru, i'll say this to you. If you and these guy dont really have much to say to each other, then you probably shouldn't be together in the first place. When people are well suited for each other, things flow as they have similar interests or ideologies. Love is natural and not demanding. trust me.

I think beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and a result i will say thats neither are good. you need to find your woman attractive or your relationship is doomed. She doesn't have to be beautiful in peoples eyes as long as she is pleasing to yours.

In conclusion, an ugly girl could be your queen as long as you see the beauty in her.

So my answer is that you need a woman who is beautiful(at least in your eyes) and you trust. kapish?

I really dont know as i'm still a newbie here. If you are hoping to meet people then you're in luck as i am the african embodiment of cupid which is why i'm dr LoveBug. i also operate a free dating site which you can visit at africandateline.com. there are quite a few thousand chicks and dudes seeking relationships and more.

There are two ways you could do this. The right way or the cheeky way.

The right way -
Simply tell her that it's over. What would you be doing with a cheating girlfriend anyway? Where's your pride my man? Have you lost your mojo?
If you're the type that doesn't mind sharing his woman, then forget the moaning and get a grip of yourself.

The Cheeky way(assuming that you are definitely trying to leave her).
Tell her you are gay or you have an STD.
You can say that you need to go your own way because you think she is too good for you.
Tell her that your parents have arranged a wife for you and she'll be arriving in a few weeks and you dont want to hurt their feelings. Dont forget to tell her you'll always love her.(you can sing that instead).

If none of these work then you are stuck with her for life.