Ire2:
Looks nice. I might try it.

Baba. I fit reason something with you personally through email?

This life Na pot of beans, no be this boy dem dey slap anyhow like thief last year?

stinflame:


Trust in a relationship can be worked on. If sincerely she is sorry you will know. I might just be one of those rendezvous outing. Look beyond her mistakes if she shows sincerity and focus on what you like about her . Bold to say because it worked for me.

Have yiu been in such a situation before?

Thanks to y’all that contributed to this thread, I have decided to let her go. I’ll travel, clear my head out there, then come back this December and look for someone else.

cooluzi:
iswear bro really love my foot... most Nigeria men act sissy tho

Chill bro, things I have done in this life, you can only see it in movies. As you get older, you develop affection for someone, I have known this lady since she was a little girl . Like I said before, it was all good till she went for service

Nnaabros:
All these I REALLY LOVE! I REALLY LOVE makes me wanna cry


Truth is, it's painful and it's normal to feel defeated. But whatever decision you chose to take its entirely up to you.

Remember that even if you still go ahead and marry her, this incident will always remain in your memory and will reduce the amount of respect you have for her.

You don’t have to blame me bro, she was a good girl till this last Christmas. I’m not holding brief for her, I’m just seeking other people’s opinions thats why I put this up here.

rockyh:
never invest ur love on a lady not even your wife but ur family cos they will someday walk awy but ur family will always be by ur side

I didn’t invest all my love on her, she said she will understand if I decide to dump her. She keeps painting a different picture of how the whole thing happened.....I’m leaving this country again next week, will figure out what to do with her when I get there

olanshi:



Good. I know there is an active battle between what is going in your head and your heart. But trust me bloke, don’t ever go that direction! Respect is not served there no more, love is never enough fam!

Thanks mate, I appreciate your contributions. I’m just taking my time to see how this pan out......I have been with a lots of women before, starting all over again man! Shit is very hard

olanshi:


Wake up from your dreams bloke!

I’m wide awake fam!

fakeprophet:
I hate to hear the word i really love, it sound like a word of a sisy man

don’t say that bro, this’s a lady I have known since she was 7 she has lived with my mom and sister before....you can see why I really loved her

shege45:
rape ko
She willing bleep d guy joor. Ds one na format. I wonder how u guys even do ds no sex in a relationship thing

Baba, I have seen it all with women, I lived in Brazil, so sex no dey push me like that. I’m mad at her because, she refused to come see me after I came back to the country, while another guy was drilling her. After 3 years plus, she just allowed another guy pop her cherry.

I just found out my girlfriend of 3 years plus, who I’m planning on getting married to this year has been deflowerd by an average joe, who took her and her friends out. she’s a corper and I traveled last year August, came back Xmas, she refused to come see me when I called her.

I didn’t know she was receiving dick from someone else and got pregnant in the process, had an abortion

Now, she’s claiming the guy got her drunk and raped her. I dunno what to do anymore, I really loved this girl and have already told my mom and siblings that she’s the one that I’m getting married to....I’m confused, I don’t know what to do with her anymore