Hello NL

I recently did family introduction with my fiancee and we are planning of doing our traditional wedding by early next year.

The issue is she told me she would want us to enjoy being together as married couples after marriages without a baby, that baby will disturb and that she don't want a situation whereby after giving birth i will no longer want to do white wedding.

So I asked her that what if I don’t have money for white yet? and if I don’t come up with the white in 2years time will it be that she won’t take in even after a traditional marriage? “ she couldn't say anything.

Nevertheless, this argument between us was a result of me always telling her how I want a kid/children immediately after our traditional wedding cos age is no longer smiling at me. I recently clock 33 while she is 20 and still schooling.

Mind you, I have intentions of doing white wedding but don’t know exactly when because of finances.

Please I am confused and don’t know what to do.

I think you are the problem.


It's not really because of breakup. I mean... I initiated the break-up. So..

The thing is, I've come to realize that im more at peace when I'm not in a relationship than when I'm in one. At least, I can think straight and focus better on my job than having one guy disturbing me with calls, monitoring my movement and always wanting me around him.



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He can use condom na

siofra:
There's this yahoo boy that has been disturbing me to go to his hotel room. He's a course mate. God knows how many times I've turned him down. I'm tired. So I want to tell him I have a vaginal infection that could be sexually transmitted.
Is it okay to tell him this?
Is this lie going to bite me back somehow?

Call customer service

LONGPREEK:
what channel shows it on gotv, i cant find it

This one want 10 percent.

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https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/bakare-lampoons-unnamed-official-says-change-of-baton-imminent/%3famp[/quote]

Did you reciprocate by swearing too? I please I want to check something

donbachi:
The day she swore with her womb,dat she will never cheat on me.

Presently,my wife.

Amen

quote author=Candycrushy post=103596926]Some girls are just so stupid. Op i pray God blesses you with who your heart really desires. Good riddance to bad rubbish[/quote]

So true. The mum had once asked her if I used to send money to her.. She studies business management

quote author=abeniagbon post=103584160]

The girl I think was in her 20s, thats how they do...just tell her you want to quit the relationship that you don't like her attitude toward money... That you can't be spending without having saving.
She might consider sitting up and beg you for forgiveness. Then mention your rules,

When a woman is in school , she is then to spend more she budget and when her parent knows she dating someone they will be pushing her to him for all financing. Once she ask them for money, they will turn her down, before you know they will asking after you from her.

That's a typical school girls dating... What she studying.[/quote]

Hhh. Prophet goldenheart

Goldenheart:
Op will marry her..... I know what I am saying

Oya ooo..lol

quote author=alizma post=103574973]
First of all, I want to say thank you for cancelling the ticket, that is how a man who know his worth should act.
Now let's get to the main thing, I am advising you to leave the girl for a while, if she get her senses back and ask you for forgiveness, you can forgive and take her back but if not, let her go, and most importantly, you guys should stop sending money to girls unnecessarily. She is in school and her parents are doing their best to pay her bill why send her 20k?
You can buy her clothes, shoes and take her to good places when she comes around but stop sending cash to girls anyhow. You turned her into what she is now. You give her access to cash anyhow and now she doesn't know what it takes to make cash that is why it doesn't take anything for her to open that stinking hole on her face and say who give transport without feeding money. In fact that statement is an evidence that she has been jumping around.
All in all, I owe you one bottle of Stout and fearless for that ticket that you cancelled . You can send your aza[/quote]

Ofcourse not

quote author=drlateef post=103574855]The signs are there. There’s no real love in her heart. She just wants to turn you to ATM. Did you brag to her about how rich you were at the early stage? May be she wants to test the waters and see how true that is. [/quote]

Thank u

Yusufisraelj:


My brother, leave this lady for the sake of your serenity.

If any lady doesn't have the following no even look twice;

1. Fear of God; not just faith in God, a lady with a conscience and the willingness to do what's right and in the best interest of the relationship. also be this kind of person, don't look for what you can't give

2. Submission: the courage and strength to respect you at all times.

3. Hospitable and sacrificial - if a woman can't make sacrifices for you my brother you're in deep soup especially in finances, I mean it, bkos you'll be the alpha and Omega and in all things, your money is for everyone while hers is just for her and her needs. That's a terrible thinking. Bkos this will always leave you sad and feel cheated, you don't want to build your marriage like this.

Since you've brought it to her attention and she's hesitant to change pls walk, however I could sense you deeply care about her, then show her this trend. Maybe she'll have a change of heart, I think it's a mindset issue.

GUO actually Lol.

izzou:




But the girl take style wicked sha.

Baba book seat for God is good motors. Madam said she needs money to buy banana at Ore.

I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?

Bruno3000:
The pastor wan collect ur babe o Better wise up and don't allow ur babe near him.

Ok

wilsonchilboy:
Na der plan to make u marry ur key holder

Bulllshiiiit

Abi?

I was really shocked oo

MrBrownJay1:
Why wouldn't she refused?! Imagine the rubbish!!!

The criminal in robe you visited should be flogged mercilessly for this nonsense. That's how these demons are putting people in harm's way by claiming ARRANT RUBBISH!

I went to a church for the first time, and the pastor told me my girlfriend hold the key to my destiny. I have been dating the said girl since my university year but we kind of have some little misunderstanding which is about to tear us apart. The pastor ask me to bring her while coming to service but she refused to follow me.
My question is, how is this possible? We never did any blood covenant.. Has anyone heard something like this before?