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Family / Re: Beware Of Your Neighbors by emmeyen: 10:55am On Jul 01 |
Sandralight: And how are you sure they don't have that plan? If they have sent her to Secondary School, obviously they will start looking out for a trade for her or even send her to university. Stop assuming they just need her to run errands. Anyways, she don dey streets. Let her see how well it treats her. |
Education / Re: When Should A Child Start School? by emmeyen: 10:06am On Jun 22 |
You'll see parents who teachers beg to come and pick their toddlers from school by 5:00 pm jumping on this thread to talk about how kids should start school at age 4 years, 2 years is too early yen yen yen. Dear OP, You were simply home schooling your child before you took her to a traditional school setting at age 3. It doesn't mean she started school at age 3. You used technology and other things to ensure that she was not missing out on what her mates were doing in school. Not every parent can afford that because they both need to work. It definitely means that between you and your wife, one of you stay at home or run your own personal business that can afford you that time. Both homeschooling and traditional schooling is still schooling as long as learning takes place. People homeschool their kids till 10years and just send them to Secondary School. |
Family / Re: I'm I Right Not To Have Visited My Mother-in-law From Weeding Day Until Now? by emmeyen: 10:32am On May 18 |
Some of una dey think say una wise but your foolishness is second to none. You dey sleep with woman and you expect her not to get pregnant? She gets pregnant and asks you your plan for her and you open your mouth to tell her you are not ready for marriage? Because you get ac and television for inside self con before you met her, na why you must use and dump her? You dey friend mad woman wey dey use suicide dey threaten you and you are still aroused? As in she even dey abuse you before going to see her people and you still went ahead to marry her? I am sure if you had seen a well behaved woman, you would have given one thousand and one reasons why you cannot marry her. If them tell una no sex before marriage, una no go hear. Na that time una libido go high to the highest level. Mr man, you never see anything. The battle has just begun. Reap the reward of your foolishness. You don buy market, gather mind enjoy am. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Men Do Not Benefit From Marriage by emmeyen: 11:07am On May 17 |
Of course it doesn't. But as soon as the man becomes widowed, he barely knows what to do with his life. So you see him looking for a new wife already barely three months after loosing the "useless wife". Marriage truly does not benefit men. Una go dey alright by God's grace. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: My GF Set Me Up With Her Bestfriend by emmeyen: 7:55pm On May 14 |
You see a woman standing in front of your door and you are already sexually charged. Some of you are so cheap, tueh!!!! 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by emmeyen: 12:38pm On May 09 |
dangotesmummy: Ndi "if you love me, you will accept me the way I am". "I just need someone that will understand me". "Nobody is perfect". Make everybody just rest. Understanding fiancee say she no do again 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by emmeyen: 10:43am On May 09 |
dangotesmummy: See just leave those people condemning the girl. Who no go, no know. She must have even agreed to stay there and after observing the family, the girl changed her mind. Some inlaws can be so entitled and demanding which will take a toll on their marriage. No power to write epistles abeb. All I see is a lot of men who are really not grown up and think being a man is all about having a male sex organ. The way I hate hearing a man talk about "my father's house". Who no get papa house? It's the mentality that makes them kill their siblings because of family inheritance.... Let the guy just leave first and see life outside. Haba. That guy will not move out of that house after the wedding, he will give another excuse. The girl has watched the guy and knows his mentality and reasoning and she decided to just stand her ground. This country is too hard to add family baggage to it. Make everybody rest abeg. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by emmeyen: 12:50pm On May 03 |
Your friend is scared about the girl's family, what makes him feel his is any better? Lemme guess, because his parents cover it up right? He should actually see how the girl handles it. If she takes it as a normal thing, he should run but if she sees it as abnormal and something she must fight against, he should stand with her and pray as they both start their life afresh . But most men don't pray, they feel it's the woman that should do all the prayers in marriage. Even when seeking for life partners na woman dey pray pass. A man thinks he can just pick any woman to marry. Marriage is deep and life is spiritual. If he is spiritually capable, he should prayerfully go ahead. Most importantly, let him seek the face of God concerning it. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: My Night Bus Experience - A true Story by emmeyen: 5:13pm On Apr 22 |
Some of you are just walking perverts! My goodness and you have no single shame. |
Romance / Re: Man Displays Bride's Traditional Wedding Gifts From Her Family (photos, Video) by emmeyen: 3:27am On Apr 02 |
Sonnobax15: Did you read where they said, those were gifts from the bride's family to the couples? And not on the list for traditional rites? 131 Likes 9 Shares |
Career / Re: Proud Father Welcomes Lawyer Daughter With Customized Sticker by emmeyen: 6:19pm On Mar 10 |
Savedday2: It doesn't matter sweet heart. As far as he is concerned, she is his daughter and he is a proud father of a lawyer. If na so e take easy, run am! 40 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: My Husband Of 10 Years Threw Me Out by emmeyen: 10:07am On Jan 24 |
dominique: Anything to blame the woman for the wickedness unleashed to her and her daughter. More like, telling her it's her fault that her husband kicked her out. Who knows if the mother herself was abused as a child and is fighting so the same thing doesn't play out in the life of her daughter. But she is being made to look stupid and dramatic by the family of the man with who she took the vow of "for better for worse". No wonder women keep quiet when their daughters are molested because the act is trivialised and tagged as "a small thing". When that child becomes a lesbian tomorrow, she becomes labelled and booed. The society is just bleeped up gaskia. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Husband Of 10 Years Threw Me Out by emmeyen: 10:00am On Jan 24 |
If this is true, just get on your knees, fast and pray first for deliverance of your daughter. Pray for strength too. And pray for your husband. Trust me, it's not ordinary. Your husband has been manipulated and before you know, another woman will get pregnant before his eyes will open. Your in-law actually wants you to fight this battle alone because they know with your husband by your side, you will win. Forget about them and just concentrate on your daughter's recovery as well as yourself. Marriage is deep. The worse that can happen to anybody is to come from a manipulative family. Stop the talk! Go spiritual before you lose everything. Fast and pray 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Red Pill Ideology Ruined My Relationship With A Nairalander by emmeyen: 6:39pm On Jan 21 |
Doolove: Madam, listen and hear me well, that guy will not let you do that job o. You don't even need to live in his house to be trained . I have not heard you talk about the training when you stepped into his house, instead he is giving you drama. Are you even mentally and emotionally balanced to even concentrate on any job training? Oga wants to train you for job but needs you to stay in his house. Are you that desperate? Is God that wicked to you that He cannot give you a job without you being treated as a door mat? If he even helps you with this remote job, will he not go about bragging as if he gave you life. Pack your kaya and leave all this story abeg. Life is too far and complicated for you to journey through it with so much baggage. He has not even shown you enough pepper. By the time the thing belleful you, you go dust your slippers pick race. For now enjoy it since na im dey give you oxygen. Walk out the door and go and have peace!!!! It's none of your business if he moves on, up, down, left or right when you leave the relationship. Na relationship na, not do or die matter. Why are you women so tied to abusive and dramatic men? Hian! 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by emmeyen: 3:44am On Nov 28, 2023 |
She get fertility problem but you no fit comot eye from her virginity. I thought it was promiscuity that makes a woman infertile. Comot eye from that girl and let her marry someone who loves her. Else, If you deflower her with the aim of dumping her because of failure to get pregnant before marriage, you will never see those children you want to have from another woman. Some of you don't understand life sha. 60 Likes 2 Shares |
Health / Re: Husband Refuse To Pay Half Of Childbirth Hospital Bills Because He Didn't Use It by emmeyen: 2:39pm On Oct 13, 2023 |
Elgaxton: And because he has not lost a loved one during child birth before. |
Family / Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by emmeyen: 9:24pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy: It's the "you denied him sex" gang that is really baffling. But it is well sha. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by emmeyen: 5:53pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
For every man that decided to attack a scared woman who probably did the only thing she thought was right after being beaten and humiliated by a drunk man, you people are simply mad! As in raving mad! May the likes of OP's husband befall your siblings or daughters. If you don't have money as a man, have good character. You cannot lack both and be shouting bruised ego. God punish that ego that will make you raise your hand on an hardworking woman who decided to take up the responsibilities of the home. And it's because she is doing it well, that's why he has the guts to go and drink. Nobody is advising that woman to run from the monster her husband has become till he is back to his senses. The he-goats are busy claiming she denied him sex. When he comes back smelling like a hippo after drinking, what is she supposed to do? Take her bath and lie down for him to climb? Madam! Do you have male relatives? Put them in the know of who your husband has become, let them come and warn him not to raise his hands on you again. And be on the look out, if he doesn't change, biko carry your things and leave before he kills you and start blaming the devil. Stop feeling guilty. Else he will capitalise on that guilt and bring more drama. If he has ego, he should go and work! even if na to carry blocks for head. Real men work to provide for their family. Not going about sulking and beating their wives. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing Or I Will Regret It by emmeyen: 8:51pm On Jul 04, 2023 |
The two of you are not serious. You see Seven orphans with the eldest sister just being a little bit off age and instead of you supporting them from afar Or seeing how you can help them grow up to some level of independence, you decided to reason with your waist for what ever reason you thought was best. Then after the thing has boomeranged, you are now saying she should discard other siblings. Na So e take easy to discard siblings because of man? You don't have money, you went to impregnate an orphan with 6 sisters. Now you have added an infant to their predicament. Then that your baby mama needs serious beating because with their condition, "man" should be the last thing on her mind. How she got pregnant for a man who is not her husband with the hope that he will take her and her sisters into his house after marriage is pure madness. Oga stay away from those kids let them find their life abeg. If your daughter is the problem, please take her away and take care of her yourself. Leave them alone. People should learn to stop adding drama to people's drama. This is not about you being a simp or whatever. This is about you not being able to see that what those girls need is someone to guide then through life. Just let them be. Na beg i dey beg you. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I Have A Feeling That My Wife Will Cheat On Me. Here's Why by emmeyen: 11:58am On Jul 03, 2023 |
Valoromega: Ehn cheat na, make your eye clear you. Mr "I just flirt once in a while with some other girls". Shebi you are the man, so cheat. You have the licence to cheat. Allow us to rest Biko. |
Romance / Re: (relationship Wahala) My Girlfriend Bought A New Phone by emmeyen: 1:07pm On Jun 06, 2023 |
makeherscream: And you came out to disrespect your relationship by asking silly questions? E dey pain you say she buy 97k phone. Meanhwhile na one 30k itel you been wan give am. Or sorry o, you liked the fact that she did not have a phone while you had one so it will make you feel like kingkong(at least that gave you some sense of security as no man can chat her since she does not have a phone) Or could it be you wanted to break up with her and you have been waiting for her to ask you for a phone so as to abuse her that she is entitled and use it as an excuse to dump her? Oga the babe don buy phone o, if you are not a bad belle, close your mouth and stop embarrassing your self. If we check well, the babe phone cost pass the one wey you dey use. Pele ehn. I know you will still break up with her o, because e pain you well that she is not at your mercy before she solves her life's problem. Na una dey find independent woman, na una still dey suspect once they refuse to Look up to una for anything. No worries, someone better will come her way. Enjoy your suspicions while she is still yours. Ndo o |
Family / Re: Should I Meet Her Biological Father Before Paying Bride-Price To Her Step-father by emmeyen: 4:30pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
43Ronin: A lot of them do not understand. People lose their lives or are even scarred for life because of negligence during marital and burial rites. And someone is here telling the guy to go on without the biological father. The fiancee's mum does not even know that she can lose her life for wanting the step dad to take the place of the biological father during marital rites. Tradition is tradition o. It hurts most times but it is what it is. |
Family / Re: Should I Meet Her Biological Father Before Paying Bride-Price To Her Step-father by emmeyen: 4:23pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
MetaBroadband: You said you are from Aks. You of all people should know that tradition is no respecter of persons. The woman's biological father is the one to give out his daughter in marriage. He and his kinsmen are the ones to give you the marriage list. It may be painful for the step dad but if he really loves his wife and your fiancee, he will give to caeser what belongs to caeser. The girl is not his. He will always reap rewards from her but this is a very delicate situation and you cannot afford to be careless. Wokeness and English cannot cancel traditions.....your fiancee does not understand the repercussions of what she is telling you to do. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Help My Fiancée Unlocks My Phone While Am Asleep by emmeyen: 1:29pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Your guy dey cheat. He just wants to confirm if you both are in the cheaters club. |
Romance / Re: After Three Kids... I Dont Have Urge Fir Sex Anymore by emmeyen: 10:05pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Looter100: Pele my dear. You go dey alright. Very soon Bubu go leave office and you wont need to lash out your frustration on everyone. |
Romance / Re: After Three Kids... I Dont Have Urge Fir Sex Anymore by emmeyen: 4:21pm On Oct 22, 2022 |
Some of you have no human feeling at all. Imagine how the majority of you are blaming the woman as if she did wrong by coming out to say what her problem is. You think it is easy to work, come back to do house chores and not be tired. Did you read where she said she used to like sex and she was not always like that? Na to just carry phone begin dey type rubbish.... Madam talk to your husband and let him know how it is with you. He is your husband not a masquerade. You should be able to let him know how disturbed you are. If you need help with the house chores maybe you both can work things out. You both can also try spicing your sex life up instead of making it a routine thing because it may be you are probably bored of the sex. Instead of being disturbed about him getting a side schick or whatever, you both should really be bothered about why you no longer like sex as before and try to work around it. Leave all these ones threatening you of how you should let him marry another wife. Na wetin dem dey tell singles be this. Sex is overrated. When you are not married it looks like if you don't have sex, you are going to die. After marriage, you see sex and dont know what to do with it. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by emmeyen: 9:47am On Oct 09, 2022 |
cedricksly: A lot of ladies really have low self esteem. They take all manner of nonsense and gibberish talk from men because they wanna get married. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by emmeyen: 9:57pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Ebenman: Talking about standards, a man who will open his mouth and talk down a fellow human in the name of "we are not of the same standard" has no standard. Read that again! Na the mumu girl I blame. E be like say you get one small car, na why her brain no dey work well. You have told her off and yet she is still sticking around. You are looking for how to take that her virginity, get her pregnant and then dump her in the name of standards. You are not even talking about intelligence here or values, I doubt if those things matter to you. What if she gets a job in a good school tomorrow or better still God blesses her and she starts a school of hers? Mr standard, block the girl and rest. Cased closed! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why Did Ladies Stopped Wearing This (pix). by emmeyen: 4:28pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
A lot of you men just come online and talk trash just to belittle women and it is really not your fault. Underskirts are for transparent clothes. You wear it under a transparent dress so the partings of your thighs are not visible when walking or when your legs are apart. Every underwear has its function. A tight cannot replace an underskirt. Underskirts are more advisable to be worn as women so your lower body can air out the heat coming out from it. As a matter of fact tights are not advisable for women. It is so hot and heats the whole place up. Some women wear pants and wear tights before even wearing trouser and a little wonder why they won't smell or stink. But the same men that complain about women's privates having odour are the ones coming out here to talk about underskirts being outdated. Some of una sha 4 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by emmeyen: 7:41am On Oct 03, 2022 |
My problem is with that person you call friend. How is he your friend please? You yourself are emotionally immature. You cannot meet a person for few weeks or months and start calling them names like "my best friend","my missing rib", "my betterhalf". You trust too much sir. And what is it with introducing your girl to your colleagues? Don't you have boundaries? By now, you should know its time to call it quits, withdraw yourself from that relationship. It's over already. 18 Likes |
Crime / Re: My Friend Raped A 14-year-old Girl by emmeyen: 9:36am On Oct 02, 2022 |
Ikennaford: May all your girl children be raped at fourteen years. Amen 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: It Could Be Mine by emmeyen: 5:55pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
You cheated on your wife and broke your marriage vows , then made a post about Okafor's law bragging about how the sex was sweet. Today you are talking about what to do about the result of the Okafor's law experiment. Don't do anything bro. You can pretend it doesn't matter. If possible, take the secret to your grave that you possibly fathered a child with your ex and blame it on Okafor's law my brother. Kudos. 2 Likes |
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