[quote author=Empress06 post=29632690]
Hi everyone this is my first time on this forum , thought perhaps i take a chance to write this. I am a currently seeing a Igbo guy but just for sexual pleasure. Am a woman of my own, i have a well earned job

I kina feel helpless at times as I want out of this friends with benefit arrangement. Every time I call it quits he always get in touch with me and making me feel bad.

Anyone out there with adviceabout of letting him go, will appreciate your honest opinion.

Crasly, my honest opinion when a woman is no longer intimate with you. She is not feeling it anymore, or you just don't do it for her. simple as that

Its not gona do you any justice by calling it off first with her.

Niggas like you deserve such.

Duh, correction. lemme spell it out for yah. LOL. Two Hundred Thousand Rand Charlie

Hi everyone this is my first time on this forum , thought perhaps i take a chance to write this. I am a currently seeing a Igbo guy but just for sexual pleasure. Am a woman of my own, i have a well earned job , my own house which i only owe R200 000 of my bond and have my own car.

Before buying the car, he was always there for me when i needed assistance to be taken somewhere. Now that i have my own, he always wants to borrow mine. Mind you, i never borrowed his car before. and in a nutshell he started to act all funny. Always asking me where am at, when i tell him that me and him have an arrangement he doesn't seem to understand. I use to be in a 7 year relationship with my ex ( a south African.) Mind you intimacy is good with him, but in life you cant just make any guy or woman your baby mamma or daddy.

I kina feel helpless at times as I want out of this friends with benefit arrangement. Every time I call it quits he always get in touch with me and making me feel bad.

Anyone out there with advice on how to go about of letting him go, will appreciate your honest opinion. The other day he made a statement that till death do us apart. Now that sounds too psycho for me

Beauty is ok, but with no brains hell no.

Most guys prefer, a little bit of both