Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Enavie(m): 3:16pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
ProphetJeroboam: As this is good advice. It doesn’t relate to the matter up there. What most of you don’t understand is, you can face your studies and be one of the most successful man alive but not knowing how to navigate through life’s bullshit and being unable to steer through social situations makes you an inept man no matter how successful you are. This is the foundation of the redpill. There are men who are capable of juggling their work,education and social life perfectly but once in awhile they need a little guidance because it is only us men that have each other’s backs. Generic advice like yours do not help the situation. Refrain from giving generic advice like this to our brothers who come here looking for guidance. I will give you a list of the most successful men who have had women trouble, some of them would have avoided it if they had confided in their red pill buddies. Dangote,Otedola,Bill Gate,Jeff Bezos,Cristiano Ronaldo,Prince Andrew,Bill Clinton. Most of us here may not be as successful as these men,sad reality but true also their super successful lives didn’t make them immune. I laughed at 2.1 gp grade like that means Jack Sh*t here in your country or you think the western world gives a fvck about your second class upper or first class. Not everyone here is struggling to attain social status and a redpiller would know the higher your social status,the more you’ll be faced with sh*t like this. I made it clear that I advised the guy up there to get rid of his scarcity mentality, that was my input. If your input won’t contribute to the post then don’t give it at all. Thanks again for your input bro. Simply brilliant! 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Enavie(m): 3:14pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
TarOrfeeek:
Face your studies
This same thing is one of the reasons why many of our men are they way they are today. "Face your book, do not think about anything else." Thus, when they graduate, we are left with youths who know 100 mathematical formulas but lack life coping skills. Understanding women is as vital as learning how to fend for yourself. If you fall into their trap, it could be the end of everything for you. Why should we discourage them from learning something this vital? TarOrfeeek:
Graduate with a 2:1 or better Get a good 6 figure salary
Even this advice... Like seriously? TarOrfeeek:
You'll know what I've done for you.
It seems the likes you have been getting lately have been getting to your head. CLOSING I smell traces of wisdom in your comments. So it is possible you are loaded with wisdom we can all benefit from. However, when a person starts talking too much, they soon start saying rubbish. No insult, consider taking a break from posting. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Enavie(m): 11:28am On Oct 05, 2021 |
SkyFlint:
This post shows you're still scared of death.
What a ludicrous assumption. Go over my post, I stated "untimely death" and not "death". Let me ask you a question, if someone told, "You are going to die tomorrow, but if you do something, your life may be extended." Will you do that thing or not? This is about making wise decisions. SkyFlint:
That said, here's how things are likely to play out in a medical emergency when you're married:
1. You collapse or convulse violently. 2. Your wife panicks and becomes paralyzed with fear. 3. Inaction or inefficient action of your wife as a result of her fear. 4. You die, anyway.
Or.
1. You collapse or convulse. 2. Your wife panicks. 3. But manages to contact the nearest man. 4. The man, ultimately, finds a way to save you.
Fact is, your wife is unlikely to be capable of saving you herself. A man is sure to come into the equation.
Now if you're going to be unmarried, simply skip the wife and go straight to the man in the equation. One way you can do this is to install an emergency alarm button in your own room with the blare in your security man's place.
I smell good intention in your response, but you did not understand me well before replying. I am just going to say, "Thank you." 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Enavie(m): 11:11am On Oct 05, 2021 |
Emmynator:
Good thinking. You see the thing I with life ehn, you can't predict the future. And I tell you, going your own way has its own benefits, but you need to be fully ready to bear the costs of it.
Remember, you'll get old anyway (if you're lucky enough), or sick like you have thought, and if all your family members or your wife or children are working, they will definitely contract your care to others, while they chip in with little time here and there when they are less busy.
There is no point of you making a decision on an ideology, only to end up as an old man full of regrets. What I am saying is, if you go into MGTOW without having a strong conviction, you won't even face this kind of scenario, you will be lost before with your parents bugging you, relatives, bloody everyone, asking you to get married, the natural instincts of procreation, and satisfying your urges, etc.
Now, for me to come up with an answer for you, it has to have been my own dilemma, but I am not a MGTOW person for now, and I haven't given such things thoughts. Instead I offer advice, that should guide whatever decision you decide to take.
Take this as a test to see, if you are only scared of marriage or a true MGTOW, depending on your answer. I'll advise, make a decision that you'll stand by, no matter what. Well said. I appreciate your response. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Enavie(m): 11:06am On Oct 05, 2021 |
sajmark:
A redpilled man going into marriage is like a soldier going to war with armour and weapons, WHILE a bluepilled man going into marriage is like a soldier going to war without armour and weapons. Work on yourself and a woman will choose you (this is deeper than it appears)... In lay man's tongue, try and marry a woman that loves you more than you love her. Well said. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Enavie(m): 11:04am On Oct 05, 2021 |
ichidodo: [b] The thing about tomorrow is very hilarious... Tomorrow you can win a million dollars or get run over by a truck, the other aspect of Tomorrow is you can still win that million dollars AND get run over by a truck or you win nothing and nothing runs over you, that being said it is important to make decisions, especially crucial life decisions that we can all live with incase it goes south that's why redpill will tell you to observe all options before taking the plunge and not just delve in like a bloody simp...Yes you can get a "good" girl if you observe all redpill protocols i.e you understand the substance of her perceived goodness in the background and through the lens of redpill you know where she coming from and where she goes metaphorically. You can also live with the decisions of playing 'house' (oneitis) or running game on your 'good' girl, that she may or may not love you is a question of how you fit together in a blue pilled frame or redpill frame but I believe you know enough redpill to understand that in marriage as in all endeavors of life you can either win a million dollars or get run over by a truck OR You win a million dollars AND still get run over by a truck but you must make that decision that will enable you sleep well at night..[/b] I totally get your point. For me, this is about managing RISK. Also, I have come to a conclusion, I will not go into it. My reason is: I am only doing it to use her (although I would also be paying a huge price). But I would not get the result I want if I make my true intention known to her (to use her). To get the result I want, I am sometimes going to have to masquerade myself as a romantic man, and from experience, when you pretend like something, it is only a matter of time you start to really become that thing. So I am going to avoid it, and just keep my mind open to what other possible options may be available out there. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Enavie(m): 10:53am On Oct 05, 2021 |
TarOrfeeek:
Your mother comes first before your wife.
There's a very good reason why?
Marriage vows force women to swear that they will stick by you in sickness and health, but how many of them really do? Maybe malaria and typhoid.
But when the chips are down. When you have a terminal, mind altering or physically demeaning illness - ONLY your mother will unconditionally be there for you.
Except you're not playing your part well or she's getting old.
If you LOVE your mother as much as she deserves, that woman will fight 100 lions just to keep you safe. It does not appear you replied me out of a genuine desire to be helpful: you do not seem to grasp the concern I was having. It sounds more like you have always wanted to say something about this whole "mother and wife" thing, and you saw this as an opportunity to take a shot at it. For that reason, I do not even know how to reply. However, let me deviate a little from my purpose of making the post, to addresses a fallacy in your response, "ONLY your mother will unconditionally be there for you. ...If you LOVE your mother as much as she deserves, that woman will fight 100 lions just to keep you safe." I suspect you have a great relationship with you mother, and those you have also seen around you are great. But to conclude that all women will stand firmly by their children in those very hard times is like a man saying "Because all men I have ever known are rapist, therefore all men are rapists". I would not go further into revealing what sort of relationship I have with my mum. But I will tell you this, in the eyes of some women, children are mere tools they use to get the things they want. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Enavie(m): 2:56pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Hi guys.
Sometimes ago, I made up my mind to never get married. I just did not see any point in it, and this thread has shown me more reasons to not consider it.
However, I am starting to reconsider.
I am a person who takes their health very seriously. And of recent, something started to dawn on me: if I ever find myself in an emergency and do not have anyone around, this decision I am making could lead to my untimely death (Imagine collapsing while I am alone in the house. Imagine bed-ridden that I can not even stand to take care of myself). I have parents, brothers, and sisters, but considering some things that occurred recently, I would be very stupid to think I can rely on any of them. I feel, if I get a quite good girl (I feel some can still be managed) and play my game well, I may have someone who is going to love me so much that she would be willing to go through a great deal to provide the help I need during such periods.
I thought of having an assistant I am going to employ to help me in periods like this, but I do not think this option is reliable either. I do not think such a person would do a great job during those potentially tough times: it will be just a job to them.
I really do not want to get into a marriage, but at this point, I feel I do not have a choice.
I would like to hear what you guys think. Do you feel it is still a bad idea? If yes, let me in on your thoughts. Or do you know of another option I can consider? 3 Likes |
Properties / Can I Get A Nice Self-contain For N80 - N100k At Ui Area, Ibadan by Enavie(m): 3:09pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
I'm planning on moving to Ibadan this December, or latest January.
My budget is N80,000 (but I'm willing to raise it to N100,000) for a nice self-contain. By nice, I mean something that has the following --- water, tiled floor, painted room (if possible textcoat), wardrobe, and every other sensible things.
So I want to know if this budget will be okay. I'm more interested in the words of people who are not agents, because I don't trust these so called agents.
Or if you think that budget won't be enough, do you know of any area where I can find such a self-contain?
I KNOW THIS IS THE WRONG PLACE FOR THIS, BUT THIS IS KINDA THE BEST PLACE I CAN FIND THE PEOPLE WHO CAN GIVE THE RESPONSE I NEED. |
Properties / Can I Get A Nice Self-contain For N80 - N100k At Ui Area, Ibadan by Enavie(m): 3:00pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
I'm planning on moving to Ibadan this December, or latest January.
My budget is N80,000 (but I'm willing to raise it to N100,000) for a nice self-contain. By nice, I mean something that has the following --- water, tiled floor, painted room (if possible textcoat), wardrobe, and every other sensible things.
So I want to know if this budget will be okay. I'm more interested in the words of people who are not agents, because I don't trust these so called agents.
Or if you think that budget won't be enough, do you know of any area where I can find such a self-contain? |
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Car Talk / Do I Need An ID Card For My Driver's License by Enavie(m): 11:03am On Oct 08, 2020 |
Hello guys. I'll like to get my driver's license, for the first time. And the main reason why I'm getting it, is to use it as a means of identification. But I don't know if I'll also be required to provide an ID card during the process. |
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Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Enavie(m): 9:59am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Guy! What does the info in this picture say?
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Health / Re: Should I Be Worried My Urine Isn't Salty? by Enavie(m): 2:50pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
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Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Enavie(m): 1:39pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Another funny thing is, another order I placed just 6 minutes after I place the first one, is yet to arrive. The latest update on that is still "Depart from transit country or district". I guess the second order has almost arrived as well. 1 Like
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Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Enavie(m): 1:34pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Just to give hope to those of you still expecting their orders:
I finally got an order I placed on June 22, at 1.37pm. I was told they've been trying to reach me since last Thursday, July 30.
But what I find most funny is the fact that before I left home to go collect the package, track24.net latest updated was "Depart from transit country or district ". But now that I got home and rechecked, they've added a lot more info [see the picture below]. What I can infer from this is that the someone, may NIPOST, failed to update this info in a timely manner. 1 Like
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Webmasters / Re: Seo Writers by Enavie(m): 11:19am On Aug 05, 2020 |
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Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Enavie(m): 11:25am On Jul 28, 2020 |
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Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Enavie(m): 10:48am On Jul 28, 2020 |
What should I do now? 1 Share
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Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Enavie(m): 8:34am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Can Zenith Naira card be used for all international transactions? I mean hope their use isn't restricted to AliExpress, etc? |
Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Enavie(m): 12:07pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
HarrierJumpJet:
@ccEnavie Truth be told your parcel just left China two days ago Yeah, I just noticed. The app has been lying all these while, claiming the order departed since the 2nd of this month, whereas the other platform says the order departed 20th.
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Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Enavie(m): 12:02pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Lemonz:
Departed on the 20th of this month. Hmmm Use global.cainiao.com to track it. Track24 has delayed updates. Not very long delays though. But I don't think your package has arrived at the post office. It's still early If you suspect that its in Nigeria check nipost.gov.ng and use their track and track feature (I doubt it would give any results) Just be patient Hope I was able to help Alright, thanks. |
Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Enavie(m): 8:39am On Jul 22, 2020 |
Lemonz:
It's unlikely. This is normal. It depends, what is your current tracking status and how long has it been on that particular status?
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Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Enavie(m): 7:54am On Jul 22, 2020 |
Guys! Is it possible for my order to have already arrived at the post office, without the tracking info getting updated?
It's been about 3 weeks [21 days] after my order left China, and there has been no update! 1 Like |
Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Enavie(m): 11:15am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Valto: 10days ago Naira Mastercard? |
Webmasters / Re: I Need A Husband by Enavie(m): 12:05pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
erickjany: My name is Miracle Ujobo. I am a graduate of Microbiology. I am working but still aiming for a better salary. I have my age parents I am taking care and my younger siblings. I have been helping them for long and age is not on my side anymore. I am thinking about to quite helping and focus more on myself. What I need mostly now is a man that I will settle down with and make a family. I am a pretty middle 30 years old lady. But men hardly come on my way. Sometimes I cried in my closet to ask what is wrong? Pls my successful sisters that have settled down with their husband's. I am nuasing a thought to have a baby of my own or should I still be waiting for my man to locate me?. Please your advice will be helpful in this critical time of my life. Please help me! Moderator pls help me by placing this on the front page. Thank you
NB: I AM NOT THE ONE IN QUESTION. THIS IS WHAT A LADY FRIEND SEND TO ME THIS EVENING. THAT THIS IS WHAT SHE IS BATTLING. IF YOU HAVE ANY MEANINFUL ADVISE TO GIVE HER PLS DO SO. SHE IS READING ALL COMMENT HERE
If she's not ugly [she doesn't really have to be a goddess or look super sexy] and she's got good characters, THEN SHE'S GOT NO PROBLEM. All she has to do is to start working on HOW TO MAKE MEN WANT TO HAVE HER. It's that simple. At times, a lady's way of doing things may not naturally attract men. In other words, she has to start putting conscious effort into it. I repeat she shouldn't bother herself, as IT'S NOT A BIG PROBLEM. She just has to be willing to invest conscious effort. Men are among the cheapest things these days, although that excludes me ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) ! 1 Like |
Webmasters / Re: ¶¶ [CASE STUDY] How I Ranked For A 39k Search Volume Keyword by Enavie(m): 4:10am On May 27, 2020 |
darthv: Backlink is no longer Googles core rank factor but user experience is. Any proof? |
Webmasters / Setting Up A Standard Website With Less Than $2: AWS, Zerossl, Cloudns by Enavie(m): 4:36pm On May 24, 2020 |
I'm kinda less busy and in a good mood this evening, so I just feel like sharing some things a lot of people might find useful.
Yes, you can set up a standard WordPress site with less than $2.
Step 1: Head over to tld-list.com for a domain name. This site is kinda like a big book containing info about companies selling domains at pretty affordable prices. Just check it out, you'd understand what I'm talking about. And this is the only thing you might have to pay for.
Step 2: Head over to aws.amazon.com, to get a free VPS from Amazon web service. You can google "AWS free tier" to learn more about the free VPS. You'd be allowed to use a VPS for free for 12 months.
Step 3: Set up your server: install apache, php, mysql, etc. This is where most people would have a lot of problems. But if you're willing to get your hands dirty, you should figure this out.
Step 4: Head over to zerossl.com for a free TLS certificate. ZeroSSL is more like a nice web interface for Let's Encrypt.
Step 5: Head over CloudNS.net, for a dependable nameserver. We have a lot of DNS providers out there but I prefer these guys because they are kinda transparent and sincere. And their DNS console is more powerful than most other DNS providers. 1 Like |