abitex577:
By Aunty Julie

I’m in deep shit over relationships. I’m a 35-year-old woman and met a very handsome 43-year-old man. We’ve been dating for five months now and still haven’t slept together. My problem is that in the beginning of our relationship, he asked me how many men I’ve slept with and worried about how he would react, I lied and told him I’d slept with seven men. But after a few months, I could not live with the lie and finally decided to tell him the reason why I still haven’t slept with him yet. I told him I didn’t want to make love because I was scared that he’d lose respect and eventually leave me like all the other men. At this point he asked me again, just how many men were there, to which I replied forty-three. His reply was, “Hmm, one for each of my birthday.” And from that day on, I never heard from him again. I don’t get it , why is it that when men sleep around, they’re studs , yet when women sleep around, they’re sluts ? Why can’t women have their fun too?
Dudu, Abuja

Dear Dudu, I’ve spoken with quite a number of women asking the same question. I don’t want to pass judgment on women, nor am I saying that women shouldn’t enjoy themselves sexually. But men and women are never the same.

You expressed fear about losing respect and the way I feel as a woman is that women should be worshiped by their men. An object that has value is worshiped, respected, cherished, and shared with very few deserving people. As soon as you start sharing that object with anyone and without care, the object starts to lose value. The more people use the object, the more it depreciates and the less bargaining power it has: this is a plain psychological fact of life.

Most women don’t realize the importance men place on a woman’s promiscuity. Women think that because men don’t care about how many women they’ve slept with, they won’t care about how many men their woman has slept with. But the reality is that most men, those looking for a serious relationship and not a one-night stand do place great value on a woman’s sexual restraint.

There was a time when many women cherished their bodies much like a sacred temple where only a noble man, one who respected and loved her, had access to her body. But over time, it seems that women have failed to realize the important role their sexuality plays in finding a long-term mate.

Thanks to the women’s movement, women are so busy trying to compete with men, including in the sex department, that they fail to realize the consequences of their actions. Today, it seems that women are the ones who are collecting notches on their Prada belts by giving their bodies away too easily. But if women themselves don’t value their bodies like they used to, why should men? Some women will argue that if men have the right to sleep around, so should women. But I ask only one question: If women adamantly believe this, then why is it that when faced with the question of how many men have they slept with, most women who have slept around with truckloads of men always lie? Some women will rationalize that they must do so because men can’t handle the truth. But if this is the case, why don’t women let men decide for themselves if they can or can’t handle it? Why do women need to lie to protect men’s egos? I think women lie to protect themselves rather than men because if it’s not shame or regret that’s making you hold your tongue, then the potentially dire consequences of the truth surely are. The power lies with women…


You are a fool thirty five sleep with 43men are you an harlot ?
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/02/i-lost-my-man-because-i-slept-with-so-many-men/

crixtex:
Why do APC members always fault Saraki... Wat if he didnt become the senate president, would they hav brought up all ds corruption cases
They hate Saraki because he is corrupt buh love Amaechi becos he isnt corrupt....

Keneking:


lalasticlala ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

- Did any of the men of god saw this coming
- Did he not settle the boys
- Where is Mrs Faka Patience Jonathan? We need some grammar to illustrate this survival action
- Is there no ATM for settlement in the whole of Bayelsa?
- They trailed and chased him (Jonathan) ...but did not shoot, this story is incomplete More like an escort to his apartment
- But it can be PDP as well, remember that Mrs. Faka Jonathan had her own candidate for the upcoming election in Bayelsa

Be careful of what you said about men of GOD



REVISED:
Former President Goodluck Jonathan this morning when some suspected militants working for the All Progressives Congress in Bayelsa State drove into his convey (convoy) .

DropShot:
We heard more than this before now.

Should Nwazuruke be arrested the zoo will fall

Should Jonathan lose, Nigeria will burn.

Should Kanu be arrested, the zoo will fall.

Release Kanu in 48 hours or we burn down the zoo.
Yet the zoo is still standing gidigba.

Yeebos and empty threats be like bread and butter.

Why are you fueling this matter if you don't know what to say keep ur hand of your keyboard, Igbo people are the china of Nigeria, all their effort is been suppressed and you are saying this? See am no from Igbo land I am a Yoruba man. But they should not harmed him the way fela was harmed and the way Awolowo was harmed and the way mko Abiola was harmed and killed. Is not a threat, they came out for Biafra and they are not hiding unlike Boko haram that is faceless and killing people in mass. Aren't you not tired? Is not a threat okay they should kill him then!!!

VickyRotex:
Imagine. Nonchalant attitude everywhere.

benedictnsi:


Lol.... You mean After Wike

searching4love:
I SEE NO SENSE IN THIS MOVE BY DAVIDO WHAT IF HE GETS BROKE OR DIE BEFORE THE GUY REACHES 20 IS HE TELLING US HE KNOWS TOMOROW THIS IS ANOTHER ATTENTION SEEKING MOVE BY DAVIDO. HE HASN'T EVEN SEND HIS OUT OF WED LOCK DAUGHTER TO SCHOOL BEFORE THINKING OF PLEDGING A FUTILE PLEDGE. NONSENSE

OneNaija:
Guess what the guy is thinking now LOL.

tosh26:
MTN
Entry/ Customer Care: N922,000 P/A
Specialist: N4,340,000 P/A
Manager: N8,680,000

ETISALAT
Entry/ Customer Care: N1,550,000 P/A
Specialist: N7,250,000 p/a
Manager: n/a

GLO
Entry/ Customer care: N792,000 -N1,770,000
Specialist: N4,280,000
Manager: n/a


I disagree with you on this GLo
Source : www.nigerianbulletin.com/threads/mtn-etisalat-and-glo-how-they-pay-their-workers.110941/

Goovo:
Is this for real?

Sijo01:
, Fayose is at it again

Euro31:
Biafra is not born out of politics, there was Biafra before the zoo sets in.

In the zoo there have been.

Kano Riot of 1956 Igbos target.

Kano Riot of 1958 Igbos targeted.

Maitatisine of the 1984.

Sharia Riot in North targeted.

Miss World Riot in North Igbos targeted.

US invasion of Iraq in North Igbos targeted.

US invasion of Afghanistan in North Igbos were killed.

Israel fight against Hamas, Igbos were killed.

Cartoon Riot Igbos were killed.

Election violence Igbos were killed.

Reinhard Bonke Crusade Riot igbos were killed.

Eclipse of the Moon Igbos were targeted.

Tell me what we have in common with uncircumcized philistine.

Igbos kids will score higher to gain admission in Nigeria but others will score low.

Igbos will die in Lagoon if they vote their choice in Lagos but others will walk free.

Imo and Abia States will use their oil to finace beggerly Osun and Ekiti States but Yorubass will carry placards insulting Igbos to leave Lagos.

May the blood of those that believe in one Nigeria be spilled in the altar of the fraud.



Is the genocide not enough?

1deadlugard:





fools


zoo zoo zoo , stop this nonsense and get some sense zoo indeed .


bring back to life millions of Biafran s brothers killed ,we want our land back simple.

Engrpj:
she has been on my neck. for long thinking she will give up...but she won't....
what do I do pls??

chizidgreat:
So many people keep complaining of joblessness in Nigeria whereas there are many jobs depending on how you can develop yourself and crearte good payable job for yourself.

As an undergraduate, have done my best to learn a number of things I can do to help myself. Part of these is that I can bake and design cake very well as you can see above, I can also make good peanuts, chin-chin, bread, buns, fish roll, egg roll, egg scotch etc. I can also decorate very well and as a matter of fact, I can establish myself very well as a caterer and designer if I wish even as a student.

The Interesting part of the story is that I did not attend any school for all these things.

As a child, I always sat near my mother whenever she made cake for customers and if I see anybody making any other thing related to catering anywhere, I will pay rapt attention to learn. The same way is the way I sat near her in the kitchen not minding my gender and today, I can prepare any local, continental and/or intercontinental dishes ever prepared in our house.






For the decoration, I simply learnt that from my fellowship decoration (creativity) wing in school. I am still developing myself and I want you to know that there are also other countless things I can do.

The reason for this is not to brag or to show superiority over any other but to simply spur my fellow youths especially those in school to develop themselves and do something to help yourself and your parents. Thank you for your time.


Source:http://chiziprecious..com/2015/07/career-prospects-learn-to-do-certian.html

feedthenation:


http://saharareporters.com/2015/07/16/former-commonwealth-secretary-anyaoku-jonathan%E2%80%99s-behest-begs-president-buhari-not-probe

dre11:




http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/07/relationship-shes-assured-she-wouldnt-tell-my-wife-we-had-sex/

lekkie073:
What of that 'oga at the top' man

They should promote the guy to become the 'oga at the top' daz all

MissSlimbody:
I guess its the season for snake killing.
Make me sef go vex kill snake

Keneking:
Great Sai Buhari...please order another batch...if they dont want peace, we would give them pieces



Sai Buhari....this is finishing Mehn 2014 model

Where are those PDP fighters come out of your shell and see....

I must witness the commissioning of these assets whenever they arrive Lagos Ports...this is what I call "Ijele masquerade "
Abeg do they need paints, I can donate one bucket of green coloured dulux autobase paint.



cc: lalasticlala

carzola:
Since BUHARI took over all we have seen is bombing, d dullard remove military check points allowing boko haram to move freely and be bombing every where.... buhari God would visit u in due time, may your family have no peace until Nigerians can sleep in peace.... kunu drunkard FU*CKTARD , father of child fu*ker. everyday is how to nd how not to share money we hear... his leaving his brothers that he gave bombs to be killing innocent people.