Romance / Re: Gambian "Baddie" Bride Passes Her Virginity Test. Gets Cash Gift by Escobar7(m): 5:43pm On Jan 18 |
Baddie girls in nairaland have all left the group chat |
Politics / Re: 2027 Polls: Atiku, Obi, Kwankwaso Agree To Form Merger Party - Utomi by Escobar7(m): 4:27am On Jan 15 |
Pat Utomi that looks like he is using Obi to achieve his mandate of keeping Tinubu in power. |
Family / Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Escobar7(m): 5:20pm On Jan 10 |
To what end would you want your contribution to the purchase of the car noted? Do you anticipate issues in the future that would warrant a refund to you or that you won't be given credit for the car eventually? Is this ego induced? My take is you want her to get a car, then go ahead. Whoever contributes doesn't matter to me, cos the whole point is that it is your wife's car. Or we go back to the questions. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Alleged Sabotage: Sagay Backs Tinubu, Says Somebody Is Playing Underhand Game by Escobar7(m): 10:49am On Jan 26, 2023 |
oyebanji44:
Some people are planning evil against tinubu ..Nigerians won't allow them Speak for yourself dude 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Delta 2023: Ibori’s Loyalists Dump PDP, Move To APC by Escobar7(m): 8:49am On Jan 23, 2023 |
Zelenskyy: Ibori and Co will never allow Delta State to fall into the hands of the Opposition...
If not, they would be exposed for the billions that they have stolen
Ibori, Uduaghan and Okowa, will rather stick with the PDP candidate that will cover their Yansh Their yansh like you call it is well protected under the APC, mind you, APC govt brought him back home from jail. Okowa will have a hard time winning Delta State with Sheriff.
Instead of supporting Omo Agege that will betray and expose them if he becomes Governor. |
Politics / Re: Programme For Ademola Adeleke's Swearing-In Ceremony As Osun Governor (Photo) by Escobar7(m): 11:17am On Nov 26, 2022 |
CoronaVirusRelo: With music having the highest priority in agenda, it is certain that Osun people will be dancing on empty belly for the next 4 years. What is wrong with you ![](/faces/huh.png) ? ��� You just use words for the fun of it? 1 Like |
Agriculture / Re: #poultrybusiness: The Secret Vet Doctors Are Hiding From You. As Poultry Farmer by Escobar7(m): 5:07am On Oct 31, 2022 |
All these epistle is to tell people what could have been said in 3 words. First drugs like gumboro vaccine, deworming, antibiotics as a must are given as preventive drugs and when they fall sick which is rare except the environment or feed has issues. Lastly, what ever drug you give to birds ends up in the stomach of humans because the residue from drugs stay through the short livespan of birds. Why give it always to end affecting the health of the consumers.
Poultry is a lazy man's job, and damn lucrative. 1 Like |
Health / Re: I Might Be Impotent by Escobar7(m): 5:26pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Dude you are okay. Masturbation has really bleeped up your mind. Does pornography not accompany it? Thing is, before you date again, avoid any sexual content. Ensure the next girl you date is one you are really attracted to, it builds your libido. And free your mind from any thoughts having to do with you failing sexually. When you agree on sex schedules, with a lot of fore play, and self confidence that you will perform well, then you will be do well. Be careful not to date an Olosho who will give you infections. |
Crime / Re: Nigerian Man Stabbed To Death In Malaysia After Confronting A Gang Member by Escobar7(m): 7:06am On Oct 05, 2022 |
Goru again!!!!!! Everything about Edirin is problem proned, he should be e locked up for life. |
Family / Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Escobar7(m): 6:49pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234: I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)
I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you. I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)
Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC. I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met) He asked me if she work, I told him He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.
While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me In her words a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell
b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends
c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already
d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again
NOTE a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older
b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap
My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly
I don't see this working out again I feel so belittled Gosh It is either you tell her you don't want her again because of her age or you tell yourself the truth that you are really too young to date her. Bringing up the issue of her age anytime you have your talks with her reeks of immaturity, she will definitely feel insecure, and prolly insulted where she the hot headed type. You have no need bringing up her age with your friends or family if you really love her and wanted to stay with her, who has to and cares to know her age as far as you are concerned, if she is good to you. Dude man up and make a choice. 2 Likes |
Food / Re: My Experience Eating Amala At A Popular Eatery In Ibadan by Escobar7(m): 8:24pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Omawumi17: As a young hustler, I went to ojoo area in Ibadan to hustle Luckily I was able to make 2300 naira profit Excitedly, I took a Keke from ojoo to bodija and to buy some food stuffs from the profit. At all at all na winch Unfortunately, the Keke dropped me in front of Amala skye � I said to myself, babe, life is too short, enjoy small na Na so I enter say make I spent 500 from the profit. I saw people picking plate and a woman was scooping Amala into their plate I picked mine too and she asked how many? I said merin which means four little scoop I moved staright to the ewedu and gbegiri line, the soup was enough for up to 4 persons Next was the stew and meat line I did not bother to ask the guy the price cos I thought at all at all meat ll not pass 500 I collected one bokoto Na so I say make I pay money o I handed 1k note to the cashier and he demanded for More Kilode? He said those tiny scoops I thought was 50# is actually 100# and since I collected 4, the Amala is 400. Mogbe! Meat nko He said the meat is 1000 Na so I shout o Eyo kuro o eni damu o I no want He gave me the option of assorted 500 I grudgely accepted and ended up eating 900 at a go Was the food nice? Yes Was I satisfied? Hell No Will I return back? Yes if I get sponsor Did I get food stuffs, yes only potatoes and crayfish Moral lesson: Always ask questions, no matter how silly It's your girl poshscents Ibadan �
Moral lesson Ps: I rarely eat out
Ibadan girls 2 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Atiku’s Impending Graduation At UK University Delaying Reconciliation With Wike by Escobar7(m): 2:05am On Jul 16, 2022 |
yunus22: sir you asked my location in which I told U but you didn't respond You already said you are a student at the moment. What is needed where l am in Delta State is a fulltime position with accommodation and feeding including salary. Besides since your reply, the space has been taken by someone else. A site manager for a dredging company was what l had in mind. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Atiku’s Impending Graduation At UK University Delaying Reconciliation With Wike by Escobar7(m): 8:54am On Jul 06, 2022 |
Imminent graduation, see such dumb reason |
Career / Re: Can I Sue My Employer For This?? by Escobar7(m): 6:46am On Jul 06, 2022 |
yunus22: Good day ladies and gentlemen
I was employed as a security guard at a leather factory through a private security company 4months ago but this company never pays me as they said the factory owner did not pay them . But recently I learnt that the factory owner had been paying them.
I went to the office on Friday to confront them about the issue n also told them I will resign. They asked me to wait till today Monday so they'll forward my issue to their head office to get sorted out.
So I went to the office today, they told me I'll only get one month salary today till when they finally sorted it out then they'll pay me the remaining 3months at the same time.
I said, okay no problem. but the thing that pains me so much is that these heartless entities deducted 6k out of 10k salary n left me took home only 4k. They deducted Five thousand naira for uniform which were never given to us n one thousand naira for audio application form fee respectively.
I returned home dejected, despair n feeling defeated with so many things running on my head. It's really paining me right now feeling like to go n burn their office n kill them all or arrange to kidnap them.
Another thing that I discovered is that the factory owner pay my company 20k but they'll pay me 10k. but one thing that always motivated me is that the factory owner usually buys me food n drinks, sometimes even tips me 500 naira. So I feel like I was just saving my salary I'll cash out later whenever they paid me but it end up in tears, anger n gnashing of teeth.
Ladies and gentlemen I want your candid advice on how to go about this issue please. Should I go ahead and sue them to pay me my remaining salary or ask the factory owner to avoid the company n pays me directly since he likes me?
Where is your location? 1 Like 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Just Got A Job And Your Input And Advice Is Highly needed.. by Escobar7(m): 1:32pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
Das1mama: Good evening to all great men, women, boys and girls in Nairaland. without wasting your precious time i will cut the long story short; as the topic stated, I just got a job in a pure water factory as a Driver, after much interaction and oral interview with the manager of the factory and gave me two options to accept either he will be paying me 15k per month or in every sale I made per bag that i will be earning #4. and aside from the salary he promised of giving me #200 everyday to serve as a meal, so out of curiosity I accepted the second option which is #4 per bag... pls which is more preferable, #15k monthly or #4 per bag sold? thanks and remain blessed. Note: Am to resume on Monday. Wise choice l will say, gets you up and running. Try and work on restaurants, party people and family homes. Be respectful to everyone and trust me, you will make above 50k at month end. Increase your drive, connect with the right market like l mentioned and never forget to look up to God. You will make it. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is This Not A Form Of Slavery? by Escobar7(m): 4:16pm On Jul 02, 2022 |
It's a Non compete clause, carries certain penalty |
Romance / Re: My Cheating Is About To End My Marriage by Escobar7(m): 5:31pm On May 13, 2022 |
Cassahav:
I am a fortysomething man in a long-term relationship – nearly 20 years – and have two children. For the past 10 years my partner has been having short-term lovers. These were clandestine, but more recently she has stopped hiding, called our relationship “open”, and currently has a lover who I do know about. But this “open relationship” can only be one-sided, because she is jealous and suspicious while I am basically not polyamorous. So why stay together? We get on, communicate well (other than the no-go zone of her other love life), rarely argue, are bonded by bringing up our children and are financially tied together.
However, the years of suppressing my emotions – of jealousy, rejection, insecurity, being lied to – have left me broken. Sex (which we still occasionally do have) has become stressed: if I don’t perform enthusiastically, it will justify her seeking other lovers. Also, I am expected to remain sexually attracted to her, which gets more difficult when I know she’s been with someone else recently. We had frank talks when she offered to end her extramarital affairs and be monogamous with me – or plan how we might separate without affecting our children. We were both very upset, as we are very much still in love, and wish the sex side of our relationship wasn’t such a terrible mess.
But it has occurred to me that I am emotionally and sexually broken after this past decade. If I was single again – or my partner was to become monogamous with me again – I don’t think I would be a viable person to be in a relationship with. How do I start to repair myself, inside or outside this relationship?
Any advice would be cool. Like they say, stick to what works for you. You had an open relationship as an African prolly living abroad. Maybe you thought emotional complications like these wouldn't come up. It does with and this is your reckoning. No matter how woke it may seem, first thing you ask is if it would affect your mental health. Now she has gone rogue and satisfaction is eluding you now. My take, if it really does affect your mental health to the point of frustration, and the love is still strong like you say, then go for separation for maybe a year, explaining to your kids to need for it, to avoid divorce. Then see if she would sacrifice her pleasures for love. If she doesn't you can conscientiously tear up the papers. Your mental health first, so you end up dead prematurely or morose or even suicidal. |
NYSC / Re: Should I Continue With My Current PPA Or Change It by Escobar7(m): 5:13pm On May 13, 2022 |
Lasisieniola77: Hello Nairaland,
i am a corp member recently redeployed to lagos so i got an offer to serve in a firm, so after i started the job, i noticed that i don't like the job description and there is no career progression in the job but the job has flexibility.
So i got another place in which they are into advertisement and marketing. In this new place there is a lot to learn and mind you the cost of transportation is the same to the first place and the salary is quite similar.
I don't know if i should change or i should still maintain where my current ppa. So in my ppa, the job description is to search for content and send to people who then post it on the website while the second job description is to monitor the social media of brands like how their advert is doing maybe their traffic on their social media due to the paid ads.
So i really don't know. That is Data mining and lead generation. Quite good skills to work with in data analytics companies, and also good for online jobs called virtual assistance VA jobs paying in dollars. Your choice anyway, do the one your mind agrees with and get job satisfaction and not just for the pay. 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: An Abomination’: Pelosi Leads Outcry On Supreme Court Draft Abortion Ruling by Escobar7(m): 4:23pm On May 04, 2022 |
God1000: The best US speaker in my lifetime, she stood up to trump tyranny and defended US Constitution when Donald trump tried so hard to destabilise America's democracy, history will be kind to her. What do you know about America to come to this dumb conclusion of yours? Trump's tyranny? 2 Likes |
Health / Re: My Tooth Is Killing Me, Help!!! by Escobar7(m): 5:14pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Ask any member of Cherubim and Seraphim church to show that perfume they put in water to bath or drink, for gotten the name, Miss something, use it to wash your mouth, gaggling it around your mouth. Thank me later. |
Politics / Re: Rotimi Amaechi Runs Around Stadium As He Declared To Run For Presidency (Video) by Escobar7(m): 10:25pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
todaynewsreview: Sentiment aside, Amaechi and Emefiele seem to the the darlings of the northern cabals. Don't get it twisted, the North have been in the business of using Southerners as pawns. These two you see will be used to divide the vote of the entire south into fragments, while unilaterally giving power to their real stooge, a Northerner. |
Family / Re: How Can I Set A Boundary Between Me And My Neighbor? by Escobar7(m): 3:04pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
On a cool day call him aside and tell him never to throw such jokes at you again, you don't 'act around' an issue like that, confront him maturedly and a with straight face |
Politics / Re: Abdulmumin Jubrin Meets With Rabiu Kwankwaso In Kano by Escobar7(m): 5:53pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
EmirGold: Nobody can stop a moving train, Tinubu nah you we trust, nah you we want as president of this country May God continue to bless you and may your haters die miserably Nigerian Youths... |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Calls Out Molo (Show Promoter) For Claiming She Doesn’t Know Him by Escobar7(m): 5:32pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
Well orchestrated drama ..#still clapping |
Politics / Re: I Won’t Tolerate Politicising #FreeLeahSharibu The Way Oby Ezekwesili Did - Reno by Escobar7(m): 5:32pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Aidejay: Why Has Reno Omokri Been Insulting And Shading Oby Ezekwesili Of Recent. Last Time He Called Her Ugly Now He Is Shading Her Again. Maybe Something Transpired Between Them We Are Not Privy To. Here is why.. She was one of the strong voices against Jonathan's govt using Bring Back Our Girls to discredit him. Reno being a cabinet member of the administration lost out and has since then hated Oby, doesn't waste time in throwing shades at her and making her look like a sellout to the South by canvassing against Jonathan. |
Family / Re: My 17 Yr Old Sister Is Pregnant... by Escobar7(m): 11:20am On Feb 17, 2022 |
You said it all. She would now be humbled to see life as it should be, not a playing field.. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Advice On How To Deal With My Ex-girlfriend Who Is Married by Escobar7(m): 11:18am On Feb 17, 2022 |
You got balls bro, real balls. Twentythree and married, and the opposite gender still scare the hell out of me, even in my thirties. Look, tell her in strong terms to stop goading you sexually. She and her family wanted old and rich and she has got what she wanted. Send her money if you must, though l would strongly advise against it, she married rich abi. Imagine her in your wife's place and cringe at the feeling, it's scary right? Be guided. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Men, Do Not Lose A Good Woman!!! by Escobar7(m): 12:05pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
The "unintentionally had a fling" is what l find offensive, nevertheless l won't bash you, think some things through before you post them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Wants Space Cos I Am Broke by Escobar7(m): 4:40am On Feb 01, 2022 |
You lack money when she is around and do better when she is isnt. Does that not tell anything?? You best stay away from her. |
Politics / Re: All Bola Tinubu Support Groups To Hold Meeting On January 17th by Escobar7(m): 6:18am On Jan 11, 2022 |
l remember saying that BAT will one day be paid in his own coin, l guess now is the time. His presidential move has failed from the word go,even his own cronnies will betray him. Every sensible person knows Timubu will never win. No integrity,no plans for the nation, looting will be intensified in his time, Nigeria will go another 20 years backward. He will never become a president. That is an unquestionably attestation and an indefatigable truism. |
Romance / Re: I'm Suspecting My Girlfriend by Escobar7(m): 9:29am On Dec 19, 2021 |
James4358: The female gender is never satisfied... The fact that she deleted her chat history with the guy is a red flag already. I just had to marry early & i've gotten myself out of this girlfrnds mess. There r hardly loyal. Your being married didn't solve any gf related wahala, even the wives at home hoe sometimes more than these gfs. You married a good woman, thank God for that. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Cyril George Carsten: Don't Be Nice To Your Mother-In-Law, She Isn't Your Friend by Escobar7(m): 7:36am On Dec 16, 2021 |
Stupid talk 1 Like |