@poster, my candid advice to u is to bear in mind that there will always be a light at d end of d tunnel. it doesn't matter how long d journey last. If you did not reap d blessings of doing good, ur children will surely do. It pays to be Good. Ur changing from good to bad might land u in a problem that might even cost ur life. Then ur song will be .... had I know.... Dont look at those who seems to be successful in doing bad. They are only building up their own destruction with their hands without knowing it. Be ur self and don't be tired in doing good.

Opps my advice is for you to continue with your so called rude girl.
If u abandon her for this 19 year old virgin she might come after the innocent girl who knows nothing about ur break up. There by putting her life in danger
Talk to ur girl friend about her rude attitude , tell her to change if she must be ur future wife . Be bold enough to tell her about the things you don't like in her so she could amend her ways b4 marrige sets.
If you are not bold enough to express your feelings then , know that you are not man enough to be in relationship yet.
Pls leave d virgin innocent girl alone.
Gud luck.

Nice one . I. Hv not stopped laughing .

dvdon: May be she was infected of tripanomosiasis a disease from tse-tse fly.


Solution: keep a clean environment.

I was taught in school that tripanomosiasis is. For Animal while sleeping sickness is for human caused by d same insect tse-tse fly.
I don't know if its correct , I'm just asking.

Back to base...@opps if ur wife is over weight , she should engage her self in exercise. Skipping is a small but mighty program for weight reduction. She should watch her intake. Or better still visit a Doctor.

Most times , I don't understand how ppl reason on this site . Most ppl will not read well and get the information. , they will just start writing anything based on their level of. Understanding.
Others will join them forgetting the bone of contention .
The poster never claim to be beautiful , she only opened a thread about beautiful ladies. so why d criticism? Let us try and grow up joor .

When u go out , ur guy or hubby will not be comfortable , then when u come bk late .... Its where are u coming from !!!? Somebody gives u a lift , wahala don full ground be that, u will be accused of being a flirt .

[quote author=firetrap]my man, while its always nice to have the support and backing of ur family while taking a big leap as marriage, it is not compulsory. you are an adult and should be able to make decisions that concern your own life without the approval of other people. you're the only one who will either enjoy or suffer ur marriage. with the way Nigeria is now, I'm still astounded that people still think about tribe while on the subject of marriage.

if she is the woman u want to spend the rest of your life with, go on and don't look back.


Bros u wount understand , ur family might differ from others . I am talking out of experience .
If u don't mind , u can check my first post on Nairaland , its not a fairy tale but my true life story.

I greet you all my fellow Nairalanders .
Pls , Can someone tell me more about National Open University , how real is it ?
How real is the certificate one will get after schooling , is d certificate the same with that that of a full time university student? Can one secure Job with it ?
I need ur advice on this pls .

The 2 prominent eyes of a cockroach is only for beautification , it is not an organ for sight .
It uses its antena for sight.

Bro , keep talking to your parents about it , but pray to God first . Prayer melts such mountain. I will advice u never to step in without ur parents consent.
Goodluck.

Since u already know where to see her, as in d church or her family house. Y not pay her a visit one weekend and pour out ur hrt see if there is space for u . Less u keep hoping on a hopeless issue.
Gudluck.

Kingsly met Lucy a fellow corper while in d Camp. Their closeness turn out to be good lovers.
After they were dispatched to their various places of primary assignments, they kept communicating on phone.
A day came Lucy decided to visit him ,body chemistry took place for d first time . When this was seriously going on , both were enjoying it and suddenly Lucy started choking and was dying . When he realised what was happening , he jumped down, raised alarm calling for help . We all gathered , trying to revive her. It was then that we realised that she is athsmatic. She was revived by d inhauler that was found in her bag.
At that moment , kingsly realised that he has been totally naked in d midst of d crowd.
All he could grab from a neighbour was a handkerchief to cover himself before reaching out for his trousers .
Does that really make sence?

If after 4 yrs he could not define their relationship , then he isn't serious with her. 30 is not a barrier .

antitpiah:

Are you sure those people are robbers? Say No to Jungle justice.

If they are not robbers , what then were they doing with gun? Eye witness said .... they started the shooting first, and the mopol man was shut on d hand .

chaircover: lets consider all the angles first before making any decisions

There is a possibility that the lab gave the wife the wrong results. Has this possibility been explored?

I think she furged the result, cos her husband has asked her to take him to the clinic where the test was conducted , but she refused. And the result itself is no where to be found.

michelin89: AS X AS

25% AA
50% AS
25% SS

You have 75% of probability of having a perfectly healthy child.

Think twice!

Thanks for d information , i hope it work out well for them.

Efemena_xy: @Poster, what's the outcome of the second pregnancy?

Is that child AS or an SS too?

She has not deliverd of d second pregnancy.

Actually u are right , but the lady in question is schooling in another state, and she was writting exam then. Based on this she had no time coming to do things together with her husband. Besides, Her husband trusted her, gave her no benefit of doubt as an under graduate who should know the implecation of merging {AS} with {AS}. she did the test there and brought the result to her husband who presented it to the priest.[

This is a question my one and only brother is asking . Pls your contribution is highly needed.
Charlse is a brother of mine , by God's grace , he acquired little wealth. He fell in love with grace , who is an under graduate , 300 level to be precised. They dated for just 3 months , and went into marriage.
During courtship, charlse asked grace what her gynotype is , and she said she is {AA} while chalse is {AS} . With this result , they were both fit for marriage , and charlse went ahead with his proposal.
Before their wedding , the priest requested for their gynotype , same result as above were presented to the priest for confirmation. He went ahead and got them wedded. They did their honey moon in London
She took in and deliverd "Nora" after 9 months.
She took in again after 6 months . It was then that Nora became sick, initially , we thought the sickness was a result of d second pregnancy, due to a contaminated breast milk from her mother. After series of test, it was noted that NORA has {SS} gynotype. Now the question is ..... where comes d {SS} gynotype .......?
It's quit obvious that Grace knew that she has {AS} gynotype , but refused to make it known to Charlse, so that she can enter that home , simply because of the wealth.
Now , Charlse being totally confused because he loved Grace so much, is asking if he should divorce Grace or go ahead with the marriage and face the risk of bearing {SS} children.

@poster, Does ur family know that u are in love with this girl? They may be seeing u together thinking that u are just friends without knowing that there is something special going on. Now, because of her good character, ur mother and brother decided to bring her in to be part of d family.

In d other hand , if u hv expressed ur love and plans to this girl , she would hv told ur brother that both of u are in love.
To me, ur bros and mum are not to blame

@tadon200, i didn't get pregnant at the age of 13 , but at 25yrs of age. If u read it well , u will note that we met each other when i was still in secondary sch. i finished my sec. sch., went to a catering sch, after which i worked for two yrs b4 the prgnancy occured.

I quit agree with u that i started too early, but we never knew we will ever be seperated while we are still alive.

I know my story is a lesson to every single amongst us. Any relationship that does not have a full family support, should be dissolved no matter how strong u think the love is .
I hv not stopped asking God for forgivness since then.

I pray that God will see me through.

I thank u all for all ur sincere advice. U hv really encouraged me to take a bold step. I appreciate.
@ijogz k , i am a Christian and hv not relented since then, i have been praying believing in what God can do.
@tellwisdom, thanks for atleast clicking on my topic.
@omega25red, i don't want to point accusing finger at any one, but i know it was not ordinary.
@mikron and ebonyvibe, my womb was not removed , it was torn according to d doctor.
@ronkebp, we entered into no covenant. Unless for the fact that he took my virginity can be regarded as entering into covenant.
@texazzpete, i did not make up this story , its my life experience. So , ur sincere advice can go a long way in healing my wound.
@orikinla, he is not a rapist , cos it took us 2yrs to hv sex after we know each other. Besides he is just 5 yrs older than me.