See what I'm saying, last time from d way dis guy talked, u'd thnk he was Joseph's tiwn brother, now u slept with her and she's not a virgin, so u want to leave herr, I bet if she was a virgin, u woulda've left her for someone else too, hoping dat o ne w ill be a virgin


d fact that u're 27 and u slept with a 16 yr old is a shame, u should be shot dead! get a life and stop molesting d poor girl!!! it's not like u have future plans for her, dirty smelly he-goat like u!!!

It depends on how u put urself ou tthere, there are guys that are ugly, I mean really ugly, but they way they relate with ppl, the way theur carry themselves and all dat, their attitude, u no go even notice d flaw, especially d short guys, oh they must be noticed!!! They always wnat to be noticed

but there are some that are REALly ugly, d ones wey wowo pass second hand bicycle, carry urself anyhow, u go still remain ugly!, especially d ones with a nasty attitude too, it's just how u put urself out there

and if u k now u're really ugly, try to dress well, damn!

dafidixone:



This is the trick of the devil to limit you. I beleive you aspire to go heigher in life? learn to make your requests know through Fasting and Prayers. For the Bible says "if not through fasting and Prayers no one can receive from God"

Shallom!

Dude, u know that was just an expression, right??

I lived with a pastor for 8 yrs, I know what fasting is, but I was not made to fast 3 days straight at a very tender age, that is just wrong!

TO HELL WITH "FOR BETTER FOR WORSE"

TEH DAY A MAN LAYS HIS HANDS ON ME, THAT'S IT. IF YOU OVERLOOK IT THE FIRST TIMES, WHAT ASSURANCE DO YOU HAVE THAT HE WILL NOT DO IT AGAIN
I KNOW A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT ARE MARRIED AND THEY ARE VERY BITTER, PLS NOBODY HAS D RIGHT TO QUESTION U IF U LEAVE GHIM, U SAID U HAVE TWO DAUGHTERS, YOU HAVE UR DEGREE, MARRIAGE IN DIS CASE (AND ALL OTHER THINGS SHALL BE ADDED), YOU HAVE WHAT U NEED, PLEASE LEAVE DIS MAN, IF BEING SINGLE WILL MAKE U HAPPY, LEAVE HIM ALONE.

I KNOW A MAN WHO BEAT HIS WIFE TO DEATH JUST BECAUSE SHE ACCUSED HIM OF CHEATING (WHICH HE DID), PLS DON'T EVER TAKE IT EASY WITH A GUY THAT PUTS HIS HANDS ON YOU. IF YOU KNOW WHAT'S GOOD FOR YOU, U WILL LEAVE D MARRIAGE AND MOVE ON. YOU HAVE TO KIDS TO SUPPOSRT YOU, DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT PPL HAVE TO SAY, because I KNOW SOME NIGERIANS WILL OPEN THEIR DIRTY MOUTHS, ESPECIALLY IF U'RE YORUBA, FORGET THAT!

GOODLUCK WITH UR DECISION!

karinkapo:


YES YOU CAN

HELLO ALL,
I WANT US ALL TO STOP POINTING ACCUSING FINGER TO THIS YOUNG GUY, EVERY ONE ON EARTH AS THE RIGHT TO DO AND UNDO WHAT EVER PLEASES HIM OR HER. HE HAS THE RIGHT TO MARRY ANYBODY AT ANY AGE. IN THE NORTH GIRLS DO MARRY BEFORE THEY SEE THEIR PERIODS(MENSTRUATION), I MEAN BEFORE PUBERTY AGE, SO WHAT HAS HE DONE WRONG, NEVER THE LESS I AM AGAINST HIM DISFLOURING THIS GIRL AT THE AGE OF 14, BUT LETS BE A BIT SERIOUS, HE MADE A MISTAKE, HE ADMIT IT AND HE WANT TO CORRECT HIS ERRORS BY MARRYING HIS GIRL FRIEND.


@POSTER,MY ADVICE FOR YOU, IS THAT, YOU CAN DO A COURT MARRIAGE FOR HER NOW SO THAT YOU WILL NOT LOOSE HER AND LET HER CONTINUE WITH HER STUDIES UNTIL SHE IS OLD ENOUGH TO HANDLE A HOME. I HAVE SEEN A MARRIAGE WHERE BY THE COUPLES WHILE THEY WERE STILL A TEENAGER WENT TO COURT TO FORMALISED THEIR RELATIONSHIP BEFORE THEY WENT TO UNIVERSITY, TODAY, THEY ARE HAPPILY MARRIED, IT IS WHEN THEY ARE ABOUT GETTING MARRIED(CHURCH WEDDING AFTER UNIVERSITY EDUCATION) THAT BOTH PARENTS WERE TOLD AT THE COURT THAT THIS CHILDREN OF THEIRS HAD FORMALISED THEIR RELATIONSHIP LONG AGO.


IF YOU ARE AFRAID OF LOOSING HER, THEN FORMARLISE IT BY TAKING HER TO COURT, MANY ADULT ARE OUT THERE BUT 80% OF THEM ALL ARE SECOND HAND MATERIALS, DIFFERENT MEN HAVE LIED ON THEM. DON'T BE ASHAME OF YOURSELF ONLY BE BOLD AND BE A MAN.


I WISH YOU THE VERY BEST I WISH MYSELF.

YOU SHOULD BE SHOT DEAD FOR THIS STUPID COMMENT YOU MADE, i BET YOU SLEEP WITH 9 YR OLDS, HOW CAN U TELL HIM TO GO MARRY A 15 YR OLD, WHAT MAN IN HIS RIGHT SENSE WILL FALL IN LOVE WITH A 15 YR OLD, AND HE IS LIKE 30 SOMETHING, YOU ARE A BIG FOOL!

LMAO, are u kidding me

EWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, abeg dis guys is just looking for attention, u even slept with her when she was 14, and u said u're older than her with almost 16 yrs, YOU ARE A SHAMELESS HE-GOAT!

She loves you? are u ok? what does a 15 yr old know about love? Can't u find someone ur own age? and her parents said u can marry her when she's 16, are they that poor? I bet u didn't ask that girl out, u are one of those old folks from d stone age who give their children to old wealthy men, i'm sure that's d case here, You should be ashamed of urself, u even had d guts to come here and write this stupid post, I'm sure you're not in the states, because you will rot in jail!!!! GOSH!!! How can ube so cruel!!!


But I want to believe this is a joke, if not, May God punish u!, AMEN!

titosantin:

you are simply impotent, look for mama rashidi and get "shepe"

Lord have mercy!!!! Kai!!! Nigerians can be so mean!!!!
dat cracked me up, LOL,

@ poster, they say u are nice, smart, LOL, I only say that to ugly guys, guys wey wowo pass second hand okada, or maybe u have a problem with ur self esteem, u have a low inferioirity complex, talk to somebody, get out there and do something, leave d fear alone, take d hard road, it might work out!

Check yourself!
Make her trust you!

NA WA O I can't even fast one day, 7 yr old are now doing 3 days, is that in Nigeria cos that cannot happen in d states, dem go close that church with immediate effect! Chei, all in d name of worshiping God, abusing d poor children, what a pity!!!

WOW! There is no other name for "WRONG", it's called WRONG

I swear to God, men like you send women to jail, because u treat dem so bad, they end up killing you. Are u not the one that got her pregnant? Even though u're not a woman, do u think women feel good tru d nine months of pregnancy? You are a disgrace! nmwo u wan tto go and sleep with her, I mean look at the stupid question u asked

"Can adultery help my marriage" Yes it can, so go ahead and sleep with someone else, when ur wife ispregnant again, Get out there and go sleep with someone else! It will help ur marriage, infact it willl even make it d best marriage!!

I swer, some men are just not worth living on God's earth, dis crap really pissed me off!

How can adultery help a marriage? God!!!! make I stop sef!

It's no problem at all, most ppl say only fat pl get it, I'm skinny as hell and I have it, it doesn't bother me, cos I have ppl who appreciate me, dat's all dat matters, stretch mark is just something dat "happens", u can't question it

LMAO, I been think say him dey talk about him STILL be virgin, wey u don make me laugh like mad person

Go return the STEALING virgin o , LMAO

OSUN STATE BABY, , u can't beat that

Osun State's Finest, dat's what they call me!!! HAHAHAHA

It all depends on ur lady, and since she understands ur plans, don't freak out, parents will always be parents, dat's my most marriages end up down d drain because of d parents, they should be happy that their daughter is 28 and she's not searching, she already got one, abeg take ur time, as long as ur girl understands, dat's all dat matters, keep giving those parents some excuses, let ur girl help u out with that part too, it is well!

There is nothing wrong with stretch marks at all, it's all part of being matured, u can't question puberty!

Just saw d picture on ur profile, it doesn
t have to be big, abeg did u ever think that maybe, just maybe, what she meant was that, u're not good looking?

LOL, you must be a 12 yr old or something, or a VIRGIN!!!

A girl wan take shower with u, DUH, U BETTER RUN TO THE STORE AND GO GET A PACK OF CONDOM, gosh! how can u be so slow, to come here and ask questions, and u said GIRLS ARE FUNNY, HA!!! see pot calling kettle black, Go buy condom and finish business!!

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
GOD! My stomach hurts, LMAO LIP DESTROYER, hahahaha God!!! I wan die of laughter

Busta:

damn it people. You know the answers to your problems
quit wasting space on Nairaland.

RIGHT!!!

STEAL A VIRGIN

che che:

u don't understand ke?? tynos said somebody stole a virgin

Mehn, una no go kill person with laugh here, , LMAO, DANG, can't stop laughing, lmao

Nigerians!!!! chei!!!

opokonwa:

@poster

And you immediately started a thread to shop for a new one

Na biscuit?

Help me ask am o , orisirisi

sillyboy:
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AGBAYA OLOKO TI KO MO OMODE!!

LMAO OLOKO TI KO MO OMODE LMAO NAIJA PPL SABI YAB ABEG!!!

@ Poster, u should be ashamed of urself, 27shouldn't u be with soemone over 20 or something, GOSH!!!! AGBAYA NI E O>>>ALA I NITIJU, ELEPON RAGO!

shameless man, !

Internet relationshipo, hmm for me that's a NO NO, make two of una meet up b4 u start anything, and if he's exactly what he seems to be online and in d real world, dump d first trash abeg!, infact dump him right now!
LOL , seriously though, 4 yrs and he doesn't tell u he loves u? FORGET THAT CRAP ABEG!

Why would a naija girl struggle with u, wey be say when money come, u go just look her like say she no exists? shio!

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO PLS DON'T DO IT! If you feel that u can handle it anymore, its better for you to go get a divorce, sleeping with another man while in a marriage is very wrong, yeah u might feel better having sex, but think about the result, it won't be so pretty, don't be so desperate as to ruin ur future, PLS get a divorce, don't do it while u're still married