dalass:
The boy at this stage is exhibiting traits all teenage boys go through and if your elder brother can't control him to the extent that he wants him to leave, don't expect your man to want the boy in his house.

As Africans, your first man can come for his boy anytime. No one would want to labour over another man's kids. As soon as he comes to live with you and hubby, your husband becomes a part of his life automatically.....Am sure his family and friends would advise him against such.

Woman, pray hard first!

Then on your knees, with a pitiful look and very low voice plead with your husband for a few years.... 3-4 year stay with you people.. Your boy should be in JS3 or so, so 3 years to WAEC.. Then pls give it all it takes to enter higher institution...Then, he's home free
..has little or no business coming home
.

Or boarding school! Yes...he's only home for the holidays and then back to school... There are even some Christian home schools who still have students stay back during holidays... Find out about those and put him there if your husband doesn't shift ground.

Don't allow the boy run away.. Act fast, so you don't blame yourself and he doesn't blame you too

I must say everyone on NL is feeling for your son. I am!

Cc: Vyvyanvyvy

oil dey your head
Best advice so far, I think everybody should stick to these words of wisdom

dalass:
The boy at this stage is exhibiting traits all teenage boys go through and if your elder brother can't control him to the extent that he wants him to leave, don't expect your man to want the boy in his house.

As Africans, your first man can come for his boy anytime. No one would want to labour over another man's kids. As soon as he comes to live with you and hubby, your husband becomes a part of his life automatically.....Am sure his family and friends would advise him against such.

Woman, pray hard first!

Then on your knees, with a pitiful look and very low voice plead with your husband for a few years.... 3-4 year stay with you people.. Your boy should be in JS3 or so, so 3 years to WAEC.. Then pls give it all it takes to enter higher institution...Then, he's home free
..has little or no business coming home
.

Or boarding school! Yes...he's only home for the holidays and then back to school... There are even some Christian home schools who still have students stay back during holidays... Find out about those and put him there if your husband doesn't shift ground.

Don't allow the boy run away.. Act fast, so you don't blame yourself and he doesn't blame you too

I must say everyone on NL is feeling for your son. I am!

Cc: Vyvyanvyvy

oil dey your head
Best advice so far, I think everybody should stick to these words of wisdom