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Stop all these personality pimping.
What has he done in Kuje to deserve a second term.
What has vastly improved since he assumed office and what is left undone that he has promised to do with facts signed and sealed.
Let us graduate from sentiment pls.

The man is doing pretty well. When it comes to road construction, pls give it to him. He has done well and surely deserves a second term.
Infact this man made me realize that your performance doesn't rely on belonging to the ruling party unlike what most foolish politicians used to say.

angelfallz:
Is she the daughter of Theophilus Danjuma? Its like the man married a white woman

She got married to Theophilus Danjuma's younger brother. They are divorced now but the marriage produced 4children.

Babalawos:
Aboru Aboye

The complete Odu Ifa covers all that pertains to African Tradition Religion Mysticism which comprises of incantations, ebos (sacrifices), worships, initiations, evocations, curses, prayers, praises, charms, spiritual baths, all Orisas.... etc.

The Odu Ifa is our holy book which guides and enlighten Awos. It will be erroneous for an Awo not to be a grand master in African Tradition Religion Mysticism.

Awos dont worship Aje (witch), we dont worship mami water but we know their secrets, laws and we use it for our own benefits by helping people who are afflicted by these spirits be it water spirits or witchcraft spirits.... etc.

To kill a witch is through ebo (sacrifice).

To drive away spiritual husband or wife is through ebo (sacrifice).

To attend witchcraft coven meetings is through ebo (sacrifice).

To attend mami water meetings is through ebo (sacrifice).

Because Babalawos can attend Aje (witch) meetings doesnt make him a witch or because Babalawos can attends mami water meetings doesnt make him a papi water.

See Babalawos as spiritual lawyers that knows spiritual laws and they can bend those spiritual laws to suit them and their clients

Let me stop my teaching with Oyeku Ogbe so that you can fully understand Babalawos relationship with mami water. I will be using Baba Orunmila as a case study

OYEKU OGBE INCANTATION



It was divined for Orunmila when Orunmila hide his money in his room. On the day when he returned from a journey, he found that the money was missing. He thought that one of his Omo Awo has stolen it.

The money kept coming up missing and Orunmila discovered that it was his Egbe disrupting his life. Afterward, he performed the necessary sacrifice, feeding them.

After doing this, this money stopped disappearing. He then began to feed them regularly and didn’t have problem again.

Thank you for reading, leave a comment

Babalawos

I do experience almost what you listed. Infact I had a dream where I was told I am aje olokun...I don't know how to go about it though.

Hmmmmm

Hmmmmm

That's why it's better to marry your tribe. In Yorubaland, which mother would agree for her married daughter to come stay with her when you guys are not having issues or separated.
Ile oko Omo,ni Omo ngbe.
First thing first, how can her mother agreed to her staying far away from her husband
Let me tell you the truth. This your marriage is dead for your own wife to have that gut and tell you , you irritate her...that's extreme. My husband and I have sex almost everyday except I'm on my period. Even when I'm tired(I sell in the market), I will just turn my back and let him do whatever he wants to do.
I have been married for 10years now,and I dare not say such to my Ekiti man. Everybody will hear even my parents. Truly, you are a SIMPle man o.

Firstandonly:
Redmi note 10 is cool, just make sure u always run system update on ur phone. Is it the 4 or 6gb ram u bought?

6gb. Thank you, I will do just that.

I just bought Redmi note 10 2days ago at 100k.

Iro nla

Orisirisi obe gbegiri

In my family, there's nothing like my money or your money... Rather, it's our money. My money is our money while his, is also our money.

When you are in-love, money will the least trouble.

I'm happy for them.

Ask her if there is any kind of unusual discharge in her pant Because I didn't have any contraction b4 the birth of my third child, I only saw an unusual discharge, then off to the hospital... There, I was told I was in labor.

Nice one

When they will not calm down to learn some basic things.

Seasoning cubes she could have placed for few seconds on the cover of a heating pot.

Op, if you are a Muslim, abeg go ahead and wife afterall it's allowed in Islam.

Okay

Wahala

Na wa o

Orisirisi something.... Hmmmmm

Thank God I'm a wife , so I can get a jet

Tunji*, 32, and Ezinne*, 28, knew they wanted to get married a week after they met. Now, they are engaged, but Ezinne’s father refuses to give his blessing to a Yoruba man. For today’s Love Life, they discuss how their faith has helped them through it.


What’s your first memory of meeting your partner?
Ezinne: It was a Saturday in June 2020. I was heading to work, and I sat at the back of the bus. Before I got down, he tried to strike up a conversation. It was a very hot day, so I was wondering how anyone could still have the energy to be toasting someone.

Anyway, we spoke for a bit, and he asked for my number. It’s not like he wowed me or anything, but I gave it to him. I honestly didn’t think it would lead anywhere.

Tunji: I will never forget meeting Ezinne for the first time. Some might call it coincidence or chance, but I know it was God’s divine orchestration. I was meant to go for an early meeting that day, but I ended up delaying it. We wouldn’t have met if I didn’t.

I can’t even call what we had love at first sight. It was more than that. After we exchanged numbers, we spoke non-stop; our connection was undeniable. We knew exactly where the relationship was going within a week.


Omo. Ezinne, was it this intense for you too?
Ezinne: At first, no. I wasn’t really looking for anything serious at the time; I just wanted to focus on God. After just a week of talking, however, I knew I wanted us to be together forever.

I’ve spoken to guys for months without it going anywhere, but in a few days, Tunji proved to be everything I’d been looking for. We also bonded over our Christian values, so it was very easy to go from there.


Where exactly did you guys go from there?
Ezinne: After that first week, the next move was telling my pastor about him. We had previously prayed about me meeting my spouse; I just didn’t know it was going to happen so soon.

It wasn’t even about meeting our parents for us, it was about meeting the spiritual authorities in each other’s lives. Then we started praying together. We’ve been doing that every night since July, except when we have a fight.

Tunji: After we met each other’s pastors, we went to meet our parents. This all happened within a month of meeting each other. It was an eventful couple of weeks, but we knew we wanted the relationship to go all the way.


How did your parents react?
Ezinne: Meeting his parents was awesome. They were so nice, I wished they were mine. Meeting my dad, on the other hand, was horrible. Tunji would never say that because he loves my parents, but my dad was awful to him.

He came alone for the normal “I saw a flower in your garden” visit, and my dad began to lecture this 32-year-old man that marriage is not for kids. Then when he found out Tunji is a teacher, he asked how he would be able to feed me and afford school fees.

My dad insulted his life and destiny. He seemed offended that Tunji would even come to indicate any kind of interest. It was hell, but Tunji was cool throughout all of this. He just promised to come to see my dad again.

Tunji: I really didn’t think his initial reaction was out of the ordinary. It’s something any father could do to protect his daughter. At some point, I thought the questions were becoming a little too personal for the first visit, but I still didn’t feel bad about it.

I figured he wanted to know if I was ambitious enough to take care of his daughter.

Ezinne: LMAO. Do you see? My fiancé is too nice about all of this. He is as cool as a cucumber. He’s the peace in the storm, while I am fire and brimstone. I think that’s why we fit together so well.


Wait. Your “fiancé”? You guys are engaged?
Ezinne: LMAO. Yeah. We never actually dated. There was no “Will you be my girlfriend?” moment. It was more like, “I want to plan my life with you.” If you ask him, he’ll probably say he proposed to me since July, less than a month after we met.

There was no ring at first. He didn’t see the need. He had made his intentions clear, so he didn’t think there was a point to all that extra fanfare. On my end, I had also started behaving like I was engaged.

Then for my birthday, about three months later, he planned an official proposal with my very close friend. He went on his knees, pulled out a ring and asked me to marry him. I honestly didn’t know I needed a ring until I got one.


Wow. Did your family think things were moving too fast?
Ezinne: To be honest, my father has given every reason under the sun as to why Tunji isn’t the right man for me. He was still using, “You just met this guy,” even after seven months of constant visits, but the real reason is clear: he isn’t Igbo.

Tunji: My family didn’t think it was too early. At the time, our plan was to get married between February and March of 2021, about nine months after we met, and they were in full support of that.


Ezinne, when did you find out what your dad’s real issue was?
Ezinne: If I remember my dad’s story correctly, he started out in one tiny room with no money. So, he was broke in the beginning — broker than my fiancé — but my mum still gave him a chance. That’s how I began suspecting money wasn’t the real issue.

Then one day, he called me to say he is just trying to protect me. He said Yoruba people don’t like us, and he isn’t going to be responsible for what happens to me if I marry one of them. That’s when everything became clear.


Damn. So, what about the plan to get married around March 2021?
Ezinne: LMAO. Plan? In fact, Tunji and I just came out of a very big fight because of this date. I was really looking forward to getting married in March — I had even started sewing my dress — but it’s not happening.

The last time Tunji went to see my dad, he ran to the bathroom. He didn’t come back out.

Tunji: I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve gone to see Ezinne’s father. I remember he was really upset the second time I brought up marriage, so I gave him a bit of space.

The most receptive he’s ever been was when I went with my brother. He wasn’t feeling well that day, but he was quite accommodating. That made me optimistic that he was finally coming around.


Wait. Ezinne, why did you and Tunji fight over the date?
Ezinne: I hate remembering the fight because it’s not like we’ve settled it; I just had to move on. Tunji had promised me that even if my parents didn’t consent, we would go ahead and get married in March.

So, I brought it up at the start of January, and he said we would still have to wait until my parents agreed. I was like, “If you love me, you should be ready to go to court and marry me without our parents.” I mean, we are both over 18.

He said he can’t kidnap me from my dad, and I was just there like, “KIDNAP ME, SIR!”

Tunji: I really believe we will get their consent in due time. I have faith that we will. I don’t want it to get to that point where we get married without their approval, but Ezinne and I will make that decision if the need arises. I just don’t think it will.


Ezinne, do you think your dad is warming up to the idea?
Ezinne: LMAO. That’s the funny thing about all of this. It’s almost like there is demonic activity going on. For Igbo families, there’s something called “knocking on the door” — the Iku Uka — before the introduction, and Tunji already did that with his brother.

My dad seemed very open that day. They even laughed and watched TV together. Everything seemed fine, but for whatever reason, he is back to being difficult. So, no, I don’t think I can say he is warming up to the idea.


Na wa. How has all of this friction affected your relationship?
Ezinne: It’s been tough, and the fact that we are celibate isn’t making it any easier. Whenever I’m in pain and crying about this whole issue, I just want to jump on him and have sex.


Oh? You guys are celibate?
Tunji: Yes. It’s a decision we made together. It’s been tough, but we know it’s necessary for the kind of relationship we are trying to build. Ezinne is a beautiful woman, and I’m very attracted to her, but I know it’s going to be worth the wait.

Ezinne: Before Tunji and I met, I had been celibate for a little over a year, so sex was the last thing on my mind. I had just gotten closer to God, and I was no longer interested in having sex before marriage.

Thankfully, he was on the exact same page as me regarding the whole celibacy thing. It was refreshing that I didn’t have to convince him to wait until marriage. That doesn’t mean it’s not been hard oh.

We used to make out at first, but we started counselling in my church and one of the rules is that we cannot go over to each other’s houses. That has definitely made it easier to stay in check, but it’s still tough.


What are the other rules in counselling?
Ezinne: They are pretty annoying rules to be honest. I mean, how can you tell me not to visit my man? LMAO. Basically, we are not allowed to be alone together. If we want to see, we have to go out on a date.

One time, I asked, “What if we don’t have money to go to a restaurant?” They were like, we should buy Coke and meat pie and sit down. Their major concern is that we avoid anything that could lead to temptation.

We also have to pray together often and listen to our pastors. They are currently praying with us that my dad will soon give consent, so that’s great. To be honest, the only hard rule is the celibacy one.


LMAO. Fair enough. How is this relationship different from your past ones?
Ezinne: It’s different in the best possible way, but I’m thankful for the past ones. All those failed relationships helped me realise what I wanted, so I wasn’t forming hard to get or being childish when Tunji came along.

He is also dependable and very sure of me, so I feel secure. I feel like if someone tells him that my nudes are trending on Twitter right now, he’d just shrug. I never have to question how he feels about me. It’s the best thing.

Tunji: I can’t even compare Ezinne to any of the women from my past, but I can say how I’ve changed. I’ve gotten wiser, and I now know how to appreciate and accommodate a lot more in relationships.


What are your plans for the future?
Ezinne: This question is making me smile because, for the first time in years, I’m excited about the future. I look forward to us having a beautiful family, great jobs, a nice house and premium nacks. Yes. I’m ready to unleash the dragon in the bedroom.

Tunji: LMAO. We hope to build a godly home where friendship, trust and respect are the top priority; where we can raise godly children and be of great support to those around us.


That’s really sweet. What do you love the most about each other?
Tunji: I love so many things about Ezinne, but let me try picking a few. For starters, she’s God-fearing — she has an unmistakable fire for the things of God. She’s also a go-getter. I just love how driven and passionate she is about her desires.

Ezinne: He is the kindest, most thoughtful person I’ve ever met. This isn’t even about how good he is to me, it’s about how kind he is to those around him. He cares about helping others.

He is also a hard worker. He is so dedicated to his students, and even though teaching isn’t the job he envisioned for himself, he still gives it his all. That’s why I know I’m marrying the right person. He doesn’t let his frustrations weigh him down.

He is also my biggest cheerleader. Honestly, I don’t know how I got so lucky.

Na wa o

Thank God is not for married women...

Aye ti dori kodo

Ori gbogbo awon Fulani yi ti daru

Abeg Park, make I laugh small...

Make I laugh small abeg

tarantino1:


You're my kind of person.

Yes o

Hmmmm... Op, the message is deep.

If it were to be reversed, I might not divorce my husband but definitely he has lost me. I can never be the same again with him. I am still asking God for the spirit of forgiveness. I don't forgive not until I retaliate. Like when what you did to me has to do with life, my future, it's hard to forgive.
I will tell you a case while I was in SS1. We do have agric. Science subject as the last subject on Fridays. Our Agric. Science teacher said one Friday that two students should bring a polythene bag of humus soil, submit it to the class rep and that the class rep should bring names of students that submitted theirs(10 marks) .
The polythene bag then was 5naira. I had no money on me whereas I saw a friend with some money during the break-time, asked her what she's doing with the money, she told me that she would be going to Oshodi to get some clothes the next day(Saturday). We were four intimate friends in the class. Asisat quickly picked Adebisi, I was left with Omolade(the girl with the money). I rushed out to quickly gathered the sand for us(the 2 groups). Then went to meet Omolade to explain to her that I had no money on me now but I will bring my 2naira,50kobo in the evening to her house(her house was just a stone throw to ours). She said never, that she would go and pick another person. I was like what
God so kind, Adebisi came with two polythene bags , one for her and Asisat and one for Omolade and I. I was dumbfounded. (till tomorrow, I can never forget Adebisi). Three years after our secondary school education , Omolade came to our house and saw a bag of rice. She was like, "the money her father gave her was just too little to take to school, that if I could help her with small portions of rice". (Although before she told me that, I gave someone in the compound from the rice). I simply told her that my daddy had counted all the grains in that bag and you know how my daddy is. She left and reported me to all our friends... Simply told them what she did to me when we were in SS1.
So, my brother, that her text is deep.

Just know this... You are yet to have a wife...
As a wife, she's supposed to cover up your disability... As a wife, she's supposed to compliment you.


No matter how angry or disappointed I am... I can never utter such or maybe because I know the kind of man I married... Ekiti men with their ode-ori... Lol

One beautiful thing abt me is whenever I am angry and very happy , I don't talk.