esosa993:

Am pmering you, you doinring as if you didn't seering my pmering. You better go and checkering you mail box replyring my pmring oooo.

Babice sweetheart, long time. Missed you ooo

MrsPhyno:

It seems as if something is wrong with your head.
Right?

Guy be patient, if it does work, be patien, if she's still hanging be patie, still not work, be pati, still giving you hard time, be pat, arghh, this girl is stubborn ooo, be pa, which is she up to, be p, she still have not gotten over the past, try Patience!

misspicy:


kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa

Your case have passeth my power dear, I resign

mamagee3:
I own an iPhone 6+ and I can't stop wondering with the materialistic the world is turning into. I can't stop wondering the fact that it's very possible that a gold-digging Nigerian man will only date me because of my expensive phone.

True or Nay!

Look op, I like you, in fact am in love with you. But I can't help but wanna puke or hit the nearest wall to me when I see your dumb post
Sincerely speaking, I doubt if you're dumb, you're a wise lady, in fact a very wise one if my intuition is leading me in the right direction. But you keep wanting to play the dumb b!tch, why I pray you do realize that you are creating a negative impression on yourself before its to late.
Please upgrade to the latest "windows" for the love of Washington!!!

misspicy:
kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa


Thought it was only me o



but OP what do you want them to say

Miss pepper, this your new model of laughter, hmmmm, you're sounding like an escapee of yabaleft ooo. Hope you've not lost it sha cause am to old to start searching oooo

artisticallyart:

Those who bring thier character online, they are many and many hide thier character especially the silent observers- fear those ones.

Dude, am a silent observer; well most times, rarely do comment, only when its necessary or when I see it as fun. BUT am not to be feared!
And neither am I advertising myself in anyway, I've met several ladies online ranging from 2go, eskimi, mxit, facebook e.t.c even Nairaland itself, but I doubt if any of them have ever regretted knowing me because majority of them are still friends with me after the romp!

V

Me, me, me!!! Anyone una choose, it still represent me, check my signature if you no gree.
*winking Korede Bello's style"

E be like say one dude with tribal marks don thief op girlfriend oooo. Wahala dey ooo

PunkyVeer:
Most of the ones on this section are so immature, they don't deserve to even hump a leg

I think it'd depend on his personality & the kind of comments he makes. If he's the mouthy type that only talks about yansh all day & everyday, probably not.

Miss, someone's comment does not justify that person, even though I slightly agree with you.
There are those who brings their characters online, either bad or good, while there are those who uses their online personality as an alter ego.
Most importantly is getting to know the dude's personality on a more physical and interactive level

Eleniyan15:
Free101

hop you will bail your jos bae

I know icym241 would never allow it, she'd rather rot in jail than allow our valuable money enter police hand.
Habi I lie bae

Lol, so when Bible say "In the beginning ......................", it was right on track!

Confessng:
You know what ?
There's an ancient hawaii teaching that helps to heal trauma

Its about 4 sentences and saying it over and over again has been proven to heal trauma

You don't have to say it out ,just say it in your mind or out when you feel like...


I AM SORRY
PLEASE FORGIVE ME
I LOVE YOU
THANK YOU

Say it as often you can
You will be healing your soul

Lol, I don't think I need that, am "healed" already.(I guess). But seriously, I don't see it as a trauma, instead I see it as an experience in life.
By the way, let's not misplace our priority, its the op's friends that needs help on this thread, obu mua.

obiorathesubtle:
I agree

I think this is the first time I've ever seen you agreeing with the op. Its a good improvement on both your parts.
On her part, for creating reasonable threads and reducing the bashings
And on your part for being tolerant of her

Confessng:
Even you are still bleeding.
You are trying to bold face it but you aren't healed yet !
Remember my dear friend th

Maybe you're right.
You know that saying "wounds heal but scars remains"?
It means even if am still bleeding I shouldn't let it get my head. With time, all wounds heals if given the chance to.
If we keep on blaming ourselves for our actions and inactions, we won't know when we'll get caught in the webs of our doings and lose our self altogether.
Its okay to grief, but if we over do it, then the deaths of our love ones would be in vain.
I do shed some tears when I do some reminiscing but I do tell myself, "you're alive for a reason".

Lol, do sugar mummy still exist Even if they do, mark my post, you'll never find any on Nairaland!

Like seriously, if she was my sister or friend, I would tell her to sit the fvck down and get her sh!t straight.
Lemme give you a story, should in case you decide to visit this thread created for you.
At the age of 8, I start thinking I was responsible for my sister's death. She's the last born and third of we kids. I was playing with her in the living room and she accidentally fell hitting the ground with a hard thud (headlong and still in her "months", I can still hear her piecing cry ). She died when she was about nine months. I did blame myself
My dad died about a month later, I was never on his good books, (and with just cause), my younger brother was his favourite and I was the black sheep. It even got to the point he told my mom that my brother would be the one to wipe her tears. He's dead and I blame myself for not being a better son, who knows if it was my wayward ways that sent him to his early grave But life still continues.
While growing up, I became very wayward to the point I always get my mom into trouble and do muddle her name with every chance I got, as a matter of fact, I was a total disgrace to be a called a son (a first son at that) my mother do sheds uncontrollable tears and did many unmentionables just to get me back on track (both spiritually and physically, heck, I even got two facial marks to prove it). Now she's sick and even lost the use of one of her eyes. Do I need a priest to tell me am I catalyst to this cause? I'll leave that to you to judge.
Fast forward to 12 years later, my grandad was diagnosed with prostrate cancer. My mom, (his favourite) is the only one closest to him, he was hospitalized and she couldn't be with him because of her job, and I was still waiting for admission then without a job so I became his caretaker.
He was in the hospital for about two weeks in a different state and I was the one with him there, sleeping on the floor, bathing him, cleaning him, feeding him and in charge of expulsion of his urine bag. He underwent an operation to remove his balls, got discharged, we came back home, he was getting better ( I was the one staying with him at his house which was somehow close to my mom's house), I was still taking care of his needs.
On that faithful day or should I say, that cursed day, he woke up in the wee morning (around 3 to 4), soiled his bed. I did cleaned him and changed his bedsheets and put him back in bed without any ill feelings, heck, I even got prayers from him. Only for me to decided going to get my charger quickly from my mom's house only to come back to meet him on the floor gasping for breath. (He ended up dying in my arms).
I blamed myself a lot, if only I didn't go for that stvpid charger, I won't have left him and who knows he might not have been dead, maybe he called my name and when I wasn't answering, he struggled (because I came and saw him soiled) to get down and in the process hit his head on the ground. Who knows, maybe he even thought I abandoned him and left him for death because he was being a burden on me (which he was not!) and decided to give in to death.
I blamed myself over and over again to the point that I never wanted stepping into his compound again because I couldn't stop the bad memory coming back.
But after a while, I thought, I can't kill myself or destroy my life for the dead, I'll live my life to the fullest and make amends when I have the opportunity. I moved on and believed it was their time to die, and if any of the dead have an ish to settle with me, we'll do that in the other world when am dead!
Sorry for the long epistle,

opey25:
Latin universal language? I guess u are joking.the best solution is to remove all foreign languages from our national emblems,federal institutions and law courts.if you think Arabic letters promotes islam,we muslims also think Latin promotes the roman catholic church(christianity).

That's why "Nigeria" was never a good idea. The country can never favour everybody.
An mind you, I never thought Latin was a "Christian" language. Sha what do I know

opey25:
why do we have Latin as the motto of federal institutions like UI and UNILORIN.

Latin is more of a "universal" language. Its like a lingua franca of the world. like the one on the One Cent of the USA.
But this, this is Nigeria for fvck sakes, you don't expect a country of diverse ethnicity and religions to use what others think is a "religious language" (which is not far from the truth) on national emblems and the national currency (I think the currency ish is no more there)

Look at the Arabic inscription on everything "national", and later they'll go on and tell the igbos and Yorubas that its one Nigeria!
I pray God opens our eyes when its not too late

Abosedeni:

You concur or object?

Rapsowdee01:


It's RAPSOWDEE

That's why the quotations marks are there bro. Its a parody of your moniker

Dude "Rapsoweed" abi what are you called, abeg no die in vain biko. At least don't let your parents money go in vain.
Look for someone you trust, search for a ritual money making herbalist, let them use you to make money, let the "trustee" then take about 3/4 to your parents so that they can reap where they've sowed.

Whenever I become a full lieutenant in the Nigerian Army, let's say, 2025

Dude, do yourself a huge favour by hugging the nearest Transformer you can find.
Don't worry, it won't harm you, it will just automatically reset your brain to factory settings!!!

Sometimes, the dudes just want to feel the warmth and love of just one kid before they eventually settle down.
Some just wants to have the taste of being a father even when they are still schooling before they gather enough to marry