NaijadrivaCars:

To most Mommy's boys/halfmen it is one stage all their lives:
a. Mother
b. Sisters
c. Girlfriends/wives

And their moms be like...

exactly my case right now. Treated like just a maid. It hurts.

The hardest part is staying with someone who has cheated countless times all in the name of forgiveness! There's no punishment greater than that.

Evebeautyworld2:

U shouldn't have end up with such man,I don't want to talk about what I experienced from my ex,men the guy is a fucking mummy's boy who doesn't have a say of his own d mum is so over controlling whatever such mum says is final...hope u don't end up having BP ��

exactly, I don't know how I ended in it o. God help me sha. I'm really tired.

GGirll:


Mine they were only 4 men no girl except d mama's boy I dated d one that got me was one day I came around n she wanted to go out n dressing up but needed someone to help her with her bra hook n despite d fact that I was in d parlour with her husband n son she went to him to help her hook it n just pushed him off n did it for her n she felt bad. They make wonderful friends with their fellow guys but makes d worst husbands ever. Just study d mum, pretend to please her bydoing her hiddings by so doing you'll be in her good book n son will be at par with you.

I tried being in her good book and she ended up treating me like a maid. If I wear good clothe she'd tell me to remove it and wear her/ daughters used clothes. She will be asking me how much I bought the clothes. My dear my humility was utterly abused. I regret it now

GGirll:


So sorry dear I actually escaped one in 2016 he's too controlled by his short mother who saw me as a threat. Whatever we do or discussed n agreed upon d next day he would tell me his mum said it should be d other way round o....after much prayers n deliberations I dumped his woozy ass n now I'm married to a real man. God helped dodge d bullet lol .
In your case just tell him d opposite of what you want to do n see his mum talk him into doing otherwise which invariably was your true intention n try to be close to d witchcraft mother for d peace of your home dear.

exactly o, my mum say this, my mum, my mum. In everything. It's becoming too nauseating and God knows I have tried. She poisoned her daughters mind against me that in their midst I just feel like a total stranger.

GGirll:


Mama's boys the most horrible husbands to have lok

the worst set of men any lady would ever think of. That's what I'm battling now.
Wicked woman + a dollbaby kinda man.

Imagine how unkept that small girl is.
I never knew women are Jezebels until I got a mother in-law.
They should flog her until she wees on her pant. Wicked woman.

I'M A CATHOLIC and I'm proud to be a Catholic. Hail Mary, you're full of grace.

Dear Reno for all the things written in the Bible the greatest is to "love your neighbor as yourself"
If you keep this, then forget how we serve God.

Hmmm. Are you sure you are not on a long thing
Who does that?

I used to think women maltreating others was a myth until I got a mother in-law. Me that's not a maid o I'm seeing all kinds of wickedness and humiliation. My little girl you will overcome.
Frustrated Jezebels everywhere.

Thalinzrcng:


Here is an incontestable fact, my dear- to every married man who cheats, his wife is the cause. One way or another, knowingly or subconsciously (never unknowingly), she pushed him to it..
Yes, in every case. Every.

I don't like it when people sound like this dear. my sis is a very good and virtuous woman. very very submissive but do you know what? she caught her husband sleeping with married women despite the single ones he's been going out with.
cheating is an attitude and a mindset. Don't blame anyone. there's no justification for cheating. thanks.

true talk! if you have ever tasted betrayal before, then you will know that there's something painful than fire.

Martinez39:
Lol. Your emotions are making you argue off point and misinterprete the words of the therapist. A cheat is a cheat, yes I know but certain diligent men are pushed against the wall by their wives' lackadaisical attitude after marriage. The therapist was simply trying to warn such married women that they could lose their husbands if they didn't sit up. Everyone knows a good hygiene is good but some need some motivation and warnings to change.

However you want to see it, the therapist is not saying you should be clean to impress your man, she is simply pointing out how lazy and dirty ladies could be jeopardising marriage. What she said is a reality. Your emotions are running way ahead of you that why you are seeing servitude of females towards males even when it doesn't exist.

NB: I agree with the bold words. Hygiene should be done for the sake of it but pointing out how lack of it can destroy certain parts of your life is not a bad thing. Free the therapist joor. What she said is the reason why marriages have cracked. She is on point. I don't why you, Saffi and CruellaDeVil are getting so worked up.

u are d one who's trying to twist things here no emotions from my side. if u think men are the only ones who cheat in marriages then you're on a long thing. my sister's husband cheated on her with three married women simultaneously.
as a marriage therapist let her be balanced in her advice. some guys wear one boxers for one week, don't shelve or even brush. a woman with such man should cheat?
see my dear in a relationship if u want it to work , always tell ur partner what u don't like and assist them to be better, that's Love. there's no way u can justify cheating in a relationship.
psychology says that one who truly loves his/her partner will always do everything not to hurt them no the circumstances.

Martinez39:
A woman is a human being therefore she should relax after marriage and be poor in hygiene and indifferent towards her appearance? The therapist wasn't saying that the world revolves around men, instead she was advising married women to sit up and she pointed out the consequences it could have on their marriage if they didn't sit up. That's just it.

The therapist is spot on. Body no be firewood when you chase your husband away with your repulsive attitude and the sexual urge is killing him, what do you expect? Instead of you feminists to reason and cast your ego aside, you see male superiority and favouritism even when it doesn't exist and no one cares. It is until when reality hits you hard that you start crying "all men are scums." As I have said, the therapist is spot on.

a woman shouldn't take care of herself and personal hygiene because she wants to appease a man. that is my stand. secondly, a cheat is always a cheat no matter what you do to remain attractive to him. I am not a feminist but I stand on the truth. don't insult me unless if u don't want me to Tontodike u. Shalom.

Martinez39:
Were men created to spend money on women?

has any woman forced money out from your pocket before? a woman is a human being let us all respect ourselves. whatever you want in life give it out.

the world does not revolve around men only. I hate women who talk rubbish talk. women were not created to entertain men.

it can only be God. patience is a virtue. may God meet all of us at the point of our needs, Amen. God
l also want to be a mother of twins o.

ikes9:
The best thing is to have no friends at all,nowadays most 'friends' don't care bout yhu they only think about bringing yhu down

thank you so much. unfriendly friends.

what works for A may not work for B. so enjoy dear and stop making noise.

always talking and chatting with an Ex, all in the name of friendship. too bad , offensive and inappropriate.

Buhari is a monumental failure, a mediocre, a never do well. Envy is the only thing that made him to come back to rule Nigeria. He doesn't have any idea of what leadership is all about. His only language is VIOLENCE.

God bless the man. God please bless me for I have this kind of heart and I'm willing also.

He is a Hypocrite!!!.

love is wicked

smartty68:

Absolutely, SS, SE, SW Leaders sold us out.

yes dear, they're bunch of cowards. placing the lives of their people on the alter of selfish reasons. one day, this single act of theirs will turn around and hunt them.

useless visit. he who sold his relative in the night can never bail him in the daylight. the south eastern governors and elites surprisingly sold and failed their people. non of them condemned this army evil operation , so that he may not be tagged one of the sponsors of IPOB. God is watching.