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Business / Re: Is There Any Online Business I Can Do With My Phone? by geoger: 4:12pm On Aug 12, 2013 |
fred04: maxibrainz:plz I need the details too. just email me to eligochan95@gmail.com. thanks. |
Family / Re: What Are Mine Now , A Single Mum ? by geoger: 10:31am On Jun 19, 2013 |
Thank u all for ur help and suggestions. we came back from abroad because of war. I think like it better here in Nigeria. am close to my parents now. even my mum said I should ignore him. I have ask him to open a business for me, but he keeps belonging it. I am trying to start up something for my self and for my 3 kids. thanks be to God. |
Family / What Are Mine Now , A Single Mum ? by geoger: 4:58pm On Jun 17, 2013 |
No woman would love to raise her child or children without the help of the other person.but what if something happened along the way. here is my story, plz I need ur suggestions becos I don't know what I am becoming.my husband and I got married traditionally. we traveled abroad together, we lived as husband and wife for 8months, he bought a ring for me and for himself. our pastor then bless us as husband and wife, so we still live together for another 2Months before I became pregnant. all this while I never knew my husband has a problem of abuse. I was six months pregnant when we had our first quarrel. I gave birth to a baby boy. my baby was 2Months, when he beat me for no good reason he abused me verbally. due to the place we r staying I don't speak the language and their is nobody to run to I stayed with him and the abuse continued, when I call my parents they will only talk what he tell them is what I don't know sometimes they will even blame me. so that make me to stay for years been abuse by the man I love. after five-years we came back to Nigeria. we stay together for months and he left me and the children and went back although he sent money for our feeding. he came back after one year to rent a house for me and the kids. he stayed two months wit us. he will be aside the whole day coming back home sometimes 11pm. his phone never rest, women call him when ever.he still beat me up becos I answer his phone a lady was calling him around 10.45pm, and he is sleeping, she called 3times the fourth one I answered it.so the following day he without and came in and started beating me again this time in public.becos we live wit other people in our compound, some married. now he has traveled again for months now living me and the kids again. together with the shame of embracing me in the public, he even broke my phone. the told my little brother that he is go to marry another woman. my problem now is the way one woman use to talk to me. we r not quarreling but she will be talking to me indirect calling me a single mother. asking my son where is the father it really gets me angry. so plz for those of u out there who understand what am going through, plz do make ur contributions.I even saw a condom in his box. |
Family / Re: Tips To Becoming A Great Single Mum by geoger: 2:56pm On Jun 16, 2013 |
No woman would love to raise her child or children without the help of the other person.but what if something happened along the way. here is my story, plz I need ur suggestions becos I don't know what I am becoming.my husband and I got married traditionally. we traveled abroad together, we lived as husband and wife for 8months, he bought a ring for me and for himself. our pastor then bless us as husband and wife, so we still live together for another 2Months before I became pregnant. all this while I never knew my husband has a problem of abuse. I was six months pregnant when we had our first quarrel. I gave birth to a baby boy. my baby was 2Months, when he beat me for no good reason he abused me verbally. due to the place we r staying I don't speak the language and their is nobody to run to I stayed with him and the abuse continued, when I call my parents they will only talk what he tell them is what I don't know sometimes they will even blame me. so that make me to stay for years been abuse by the man I love. after five-years we came back to Nigeria. we stay together for months and he left me and the children and went back although he sent money for our feeding. he came back after one year to rent a house for me and the kids. he stayed two months wit us. he will be aside the whole day coming back home sometimes 11pm. his phone never rest, women call him when ever.he still beat me up becos I answer his phone a lady was calling him around 10.45pm, and he is sleeping, she called 3times the fourth one I answered it.so the following day he without and came in and started beating me again this time in public.becos we live wit other people in our compound, some married. now he has traveled again for months now living me and the kids again. together with the shame of embracing me in the public, he even broke my phone. the told my little brother that he is go to marry another woman. my problem now is the way one woman use to talk to me. we r not quarreling but she will be talking to me indirect calling me a single mother. asking my son where is the father it really gets me angry. so plz for those of u out there who understand what am going through, plz do make ur contributions.I even saw a condom in his box. |
Business / Re: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free by geoger: 1:10am On Feb 05, 2013 |
Hi everyone, I have been following this thread for the last 2month. I am very happy to see that we Nigerians can really help each other. I say may the good Lord bless the people that help others on this thread. Amen. I want to start this biz but don't have enough capital, so I went to get a biz proposal with a man that sells handbags and shoes. he agreed for me to ship for him , but I don't know were to start. I have questions to ask, can I use my fidelity visacard , I need more help on the shipping stuff. plz u can email me eligochan95@gmail.com. or u can me with this numbers 08099279964 , 07066906948. I really need ur help. before the holiday is over. thanks. |
Business / Re: I Have N40k , Which Business Can I Do? by geoger: 3:41pm On Jan 29, 2013 |
hello Daniel, I have been hearing of this sports betting. plz email me and give me the details on how I can join. eligochan95@gmail.com. thanks blessing. |
Family / Re: Please Men I Need Your Help? by geoger: 2:37pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
armyofone:i am the oldest. |
Family / Re: Please Men I Need Your Help? by geoger: 2:35pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
mutter:how did you do it, you left him? that is how my is he blame for everything. if he spoil the weapon he used on me he will blame me for it. i don't have any father to run to like you did but planning to run to anywhere i can to get away from him. |
Family / Re: Please Men I Need Your Help? by geoger: 12:06pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
mutter:thank you so much for understanding me, yes i told him that the arab woman ask me to call the police for him, he later accuse them of giving me a man. I am a Nigeria am from Owerri Imo state. I will not write my decisions here because i don't what him to see it. if there is anyother way to do it then i will. checks my post. |
Family / Re: Please Men I Need Your Help? by geoger: 11:59am On Mar 03, 2011 |
obowunmi:you believe i can't waste my time making things like this up, he gave my access to the internet because know that none of my family members are on net. and he cross checks every other thing i do on the net. this i have been happening for a very long thing but i don't post it you know why? is because he has my password. do you know how times he has beat me because i post something, am posting this because i how made up my mind to live, we have an agreement that if he beats me again i will live that what my mother told him.so even if he comes back and see this propbably he will respect his decisions. and he check the bill alway.if you notice on and off just to save the bills from courting too much. |
Family / Re: Please Men I Need Your Help? by geoger: 11:31am On Mar 03, 2011 |
ifyalways:yes an arab woman told me to go and call the police for him, he told that i should that nobody will listen to me that all the policemen in that station are his friend. and i don't speak arabic, can you imagine i have been here for 4 years yet can not speak a single arabic word, because i don't go out. he never liked it when i speak to any other human being. |
Family / Re: Please Men I Need Your Help? by geoger: 11:24am On Mar 03, 2011 |
ifyalways:i don't have anybody to tell to because they all know he abuse me, like my uncle once told me to quit the the relationship my husband got angry at him and say all sotrs of nonsense word to him ,since then he never care to know how i am doing.my husband don't just only abuse me he abuses and chase away any body that is close to me. i told our pastor he talk to him and he abuse him too acusing me of having an afair with him. he has once said i should stop posting here. he make me feel so sick. he check a very single thing that i do, i have no body to call a friend because he isolates me. |
Family / Re: Please Men I Need Your Help? by geoger: 11:13am On Mar 03, 2011 |
obowunmi:No am not in Nigeria am in north Africa, I lost all my friends because he wouldn't let me call them. I don't even have my own cellphone.he seized it. he even ask me not to call my family members. |
Family / Re: Please Men I Need Your Help? by geoger: 10:39am On Mar 03, 2011 |
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Family / Re: Please Men I Need Your Help? by geoger: 9:42am On Mar 03, 2011 |
@OP, a few questions for you: Did anyone force you to marry this man ? After the beating, how do you feel ? Do you get some form of sexual satisfaction thru these beating ?s How old are you ? How many children do you have ? Are you mentally handicapped or unstable ? Nobody force my to marry him, How do i know that he is an abuser, you met a guy who seems nice and lovely so how do i know he will abuse me, Do you get some form of sexual satisfaction thru these beating ? noway i feel like he is the devil himself. i have two kids. Are you mentally handicapped or unstable ? no but an undergraduate, i dropped out because i have nobody to support me. it's my mother only and i am the oldest of 7 children my mother's husband is late. i am 25 years old. |
Family / Re: Please Men I Need Your Help? by geoger: 8:08pm On Mar 02, 2011 |
HE MUST BE AN IGBO MAN!!! OR A YORUBA MAN!!!! Don't marry from these 2 tribes. They will kill you. Others might do the same. . .but you would escape alive. But not these 2 ethnic groups. At your own risk Yup! Delta Igbo ok. . . NOT across the Niggering Niger Ooooooooooooooh!!! At your own risk I say Even when you are in bed with 'those' Igbotic ones. . . your whole body will feel and look like you survived the Biafra war. . . and still hurting!!! Avoid them!!! Very ROUGH! Don't deal with 'Ruffians' or 'Rascals"!!!! They beat women!!! Even with their little 'men' between their legs. You are right my husband is an Igbo man, he believe is good to beat a woman because that how his father treated his mother. I try to live but my mother keeps telling my to stay, to consider the kids.but i fear my life is in danger I will live. and start all over again atleast find a way to raise money and finish my education from where i stopped. |
Family / Please Men I Need Your Help? by geoger: 4:39pm On Mar 02, 2011 |
Hello everyone I need your help on this question. Is there anything that a woman will do that will make a man the beat her messily . ( giving her black eyes) . My husband beats me so much that I can’t take it anymore. He beat me when am pregnant, one month after give birth to our child. Because I ask him questions. He is doing thing I don’t understand , like make late calls to whom I don’t know. Keeping secrets for me. He beat me again because I told him I don’t like the way he and his boy friend use to behav |
Health / Please I Need Some Help! by geoger: 10:41am On Feb 15, 2011 |
Last October I had a miscarriage and My last period was January 8.I have missed my period for more than7 days but this morning I saw something like my period but it didn’t for one hour. I have been urinating a lot and have back pain, and my nipples are paining me. I mine pregnant ? |
Travel / Re: Warning: Disturbing Images, The Horror Of Attempting Europe By Land. by geoger: 2:54pm On Nov 22, 2010 |
hello, pls where can I see the images, I want see if someone I know was among. Thank. |
Music/Radio / How To Get A Radio Licence by geoger: 8:27pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
I want to know what it takes to get a radio station licence or what it takes to register it. if it takes money how much is it. thanks. |
Family / Re: What Is Marriage? by geoger: 2:18am On Oct 19, 2010 |
mutter:good you very much. but I need more people to tell me their own opinion. |
Family / What Is Marriage? by geoger: 3:56pm On Oct 18, 2010 |
WHAT IS MARRIAGE IS THE BEAUTIFUL RING, THE CERTIFICATE THEY SIGN OR IS IT THE BLESSING THAT THE MAN OF GOD PLACE ON THEM, WHICH IS THE MOST IMPORTANT when you answer then I will know what next to write. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Home Based Internet Jobs. Earn $250 Daily. by geoger: 11:55am On Oct 13, 2010 |
want to add more to your on line income just visiting this site is free.www.onlineworkindia.com/?id=153108
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Family / Re: Why Do My Husband Lie So Much? by geoger: 1:08pm On Oct 02, 2010 |
Thanks for your advises, really I don't if he has been lying to me how could I know, but recently I found that he is indeed lying to to me, last night we were watching a television show, SO YOU THINK YOU CAN DANCE on( MBC 4) a man was dancing so I went inside the kitchen, so when I came out he has finished dancing so I ask my husband if they gave the man ticket to Vegas? he said no but at the end of the show they mentioned the man's name as one of the people that is going to Vegas, before that I ask him if he drank tea before going to bed he said no but he did,after we finished our dinner i went bed I sleep very early because am pregnant, we have been married for 5 years now and we have two children, when I was sleeping our baby girl came in with a cup on her hand so I taught it was water but when I woke up in the mid night i found out it was tea, so i ask him if he drank tea he said no.I don't know why he said know I have never fought him when he eat.He make all the money in the house he buys everything in the house but why is he acting this way? lying for a little thing. we write what the family should be doing every day he remove the ones I wrote, but the one he write about praying everyday he find it so difficult to do, I will ask him up to 6 times to come and pray sometimes he pray or he will not.I am trying to work on my marriage and I want us to do it together but my husband don't listen to me.rather he will fight with me.We have been fighting for years trying to know each other the more but for some months now we I have been much happier then ever, except last night when I found out he lied to me twice at the same time who know how long he has been lying to me or is he just forming a new bad habit? |
Business / Beware Of New Form Of Yahoo Yahoo by geoger: 12:35pm On Sep 27, 2010 |
Last week I receive a strange email. He said is name is john jamal that he is from Sudan ,but he stays in a refugees camp in Dakar Senegal. That he is the only person left in their family that his father was kill in the war. That his father was a wealthy business man be he died. Now he is looking for my help to help him transfer some money. So I Google to find out if truly there is a united nations camp in Dakar , you will not believe what I found ,I read so many people saying the same thing about a girl who is writing them the same thing he wrote to me. This is the email he sent to me. My Dear One, I am more than happy in your urgent mail to my mail.How are you today? l hope fine.Mine is not too good due to my suffering condition here in Dakar Senegal.My name is john Jamal I am (24) years old, single and never married, 5ft 8 inches Tall, 55kg weight, black hair and brown eyes,l am from sudan in West Africa and presently l am residing in a church Orphanage home here in Dakar Senegal as a result of the civil war that was fought in my country some years ago.I lost my both Parents during this deadly Political War,that Damaged Thousands of innocent Souls in sudan .My family was among the first target of the rebels because my Late father have a Successful business and also a politician supporting the present Government when the problems was about to start, l managed to make my way to a nearby country Senegal where l am staying now and never pray or think to step my legs in that bloody country called sudan. I would like to know more about you.Your likes and dislikes,your hobbies and what you are doing presently. I will tell you more about myself in my next mail. Hoping to hear from you soonest. Yours Forever john Jamal. HIS NEXT MAIL, Dearest, Thanks for your mail,I will really like to have a good relationship with you, and i have a special reason why i decided to contact you. please my dear i dont know your age as you know that god knows why he has hiving you to me and age will never be a barrier. I decided to contact you because of the urgency of my situation here.I am constrained to contact you because of the maltreatment I'm received from my step father. he planned to take away all my late father's treasury and properties from me since the unexpected death of my beloved Father. Meanwhile I wanted to escape to Europe but he hide away my international passport and other valuable traveling documents. Luckily he did not discover where I kept my fatherʼs File which contains important documents. So I decided to run to the refugee camp where I am presently seeking asylum under the United Nations High Commission for the Refugee herein Dakar, Republic of Senegal. I wish to contact you personally for a long term business relationship and investment assistance in your Country. I don't have any relatives now whom i can go to as all my relatives ran away in the middle of the war. The only person i have now is Rev.Daniel matak who is the pastor of the (Living Spring Christian Church) here in the camp, he has been very nice to me since i came here but i am not living with him rather i live in the males hostel. The Pastors Tel number is (+221-765205930) if you call, please tell him that you want to speak with me so that he will send for me in the hostel. Please at refugee here i don't have any right or privilege to any thing be it money or whatever because it is against the law of this country.I want to go back to my studies because i only attended my first year before the tragic incident that lead to the death of my parents took place. My father of blessed memory deposited the sum of(4.750,000,00 million pounds)in a bank with my name as the next of kin. However, I shall forward you with the necessary documents on confirmation of your acceptance to assist me for the transfer and investment of the fund.I will also like to complete my academic studies in your Country which you will help me to recommend a nice medical Higher Institution.I was studying Heath science before the killing of my parents by the Rebels and was a second year student in the University It is my intention to compensate you with 15% of the total money for your services and the balance shall be my investment capital. This is the reason why I decided to contact you. Please all communications should be through this email address only for confidential purposes. As soon as I receive your positive response showing your interest I will send you the contact of the bank immediately. In the light of the above, I shall appreciate an urgent message indicating your ability and willingness to handle this transaction sincerely. Awaiting your urgent and positive response. Please do keep this only to your self please i beg you not to disclose it. Yours Sincerely, john |
Properties / Re: Can 1.3 Million Naira Build 3 Bed Room Flat? by geoger: 3:36pm On Sep 20, 2010 |
thank you all for your comments,i really appreciate them. now i know how i can use to build. |
Properties / Can 1.3 Million Naira Build 3 Bed Room Flat? by geoger: 2:01pm On Sep 18, 2010 |
I want to know if 1.3million naira build a 3 bed room flat in my village, in Imo state . Am not buying any land and can two plot of land be enough for it? and still have some space. |
Travel / We Really Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria To North Africa . by geoger: 1:54pm On Sep 09, 2010 |
we are danm sick of this country called nigeria we just want to go and look for greener pasture. pls if u are interested to go with me just contact me or cheek me out here.burggersjoint-saint..com |
Travel / Re: Cheap Tickets To Lagos From Europe by geoger: 1:42pm On Sep 09, 2010 |
i really want to travel to Europe |
Romance / Re: What I Mine To Do, I Am Confuse by geoger: 5:53pm On Aug 09, 2010 |
Thank you everyone for your comments you are just God sent to me.I will try to let the past be the past and face the future, now I can have sex with him again probably getting ready for another child as he ever wanted. But I have one problem with my husband he never say he is sorry, and he never say thank if I do something for him. But I have forgiving him for the sake of my children. I will try to talk to him today and let him know how i feel about this past years and tell him That i am sorry for nagging him because I do NAG him sometimes. I hope that will help since he can't say he is sorry let me do it for him,(although he do buy me some things if he feels he hurt me.) once again thanks for your comments. |
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