i say ask what she wants, then decide, at 16 your old enough to make decisions, give teenagers some credit people!!!

woops meant STARS not starts

tall guys give girls freedom, you can wear high heels, as you look UP at them you see the starts and not the ground, its easier to be 'on top' of the guy if hes taller, its easier to dance with them, it just looks more pleasing to the eye,

this is all if you really care about your image,
if you love the guy then all shapes and sizes will do