Proverbs 4:7

@poster,

I see you are in Iraq. I will advice that you go to the nearest mosque and ask for permission to 'do' your brother's wife. Or better still just tell your brother.

Tell her you are not good enough for her.

But if she's a good manager, she may decide to manage your behind.

****and what do u mean that "the mother of the child is still alive?? Is she suppose to be dead??

I wonder o. She for kuku go kill am. Nonsense!

You can fashi her and look elsewhere. How about that? Not rocket science.

If you think it will happen. You better cram the bible fast!


Proverbs 7:
1MY SON, keep my words; lay up within you my commandments [for use when needed] and treasure them.
2Keep my commandments and live, and keep my law and teaching as the apple (the pupil) of your eye.
3Bind them on your fingers; write them on the tablet of your heart.

Stealing from who? If it is from you, that may not be stealing. Consider is to be 'advance possession'.

Semilore,

Ok, Cool. I will ping u on yahoo in a bit.

Semilore,

How are you doing? Una don comot from Saudi?

progressive elaboration

My dearest PMP!!! Na you be that? Small word o. You be real correct person jare. How runs now. anyway, u get my id.

@Rubbermaid,

you are either laughing at the confusion or pretense of the poster or at the fact that we said same thing in different ways or,

@Rubbermaid,

i sure can guess why you are laughing.

@Rubbermaid ,

Well said!! I think present can become ex if care is not taken!

@adekennis

Nope. C'est ne pas. Ko le se se.

@SwtNsoFLyy

You couldn't have said it better!

@poster,

Allowing him to come over for a chat/lunch does not seem sensible IF you are not trying to get back. Anything he wants to talk about can be done on phone and if that doesn't work with him, he should keep the gist to himself then. You said he doesn't want to talk on phone. How does that concern you? What if you don't want to talk in person too? You certainly don't need to see him. What will your current dude think of your ex traveling from outta state just to 'talk'. Regular chaps don't make such trips just for peace or to tender apologies, such trips are targeted at comebacks. So if you are not game for that, just say no.

She wants to dump you, you want to lose your job.
God forbid, but assuming she dies nko? What will you do? Hang yourself?

Get real and hold on to your job. use your brain!

Isaiah 41:10
Fear not [there is nothing to fear], for I am with you; do not look around you in terror and be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen and harden you to difficulties, yes, I will help you; yes, I will hold you up and retain you with My [victorious] right hand of rightness and justice.

@ijogbon, well said

@ poster - Just 6 months? That's hardly enough time to really grow together. Those are the growth pains. As long as there is no physical abuse, she should do the same thing Bill Gates did to his business. He never ran away from the disappointments and setbacks of his software in those early days. She should just remove all the M&B fiction from her mind and add some ingredients like ijogbon suggested. Ko ju be lo.

Working, My yahoo is on my profile.

Yes o. At any Time T, Period P, Occassion O, Circumstance C.
Sebi na to spray some 'Shout' on it toss it in the washing machine . Alaye foshofosho. Nothing spoil.

G-Money, Abi u think say my mama no fit give me that kind name?

Specify your budget in Naira.

Assumption:
1. You are married.
2. Joint account means 'having legal and authorized access to each other's accounts whether or not you spend from it or being co-owners of accounts"
I think:
If you are married and you can't have a joint account due to trust, You are in the same category with 'pre-nup' folks; No real oneness, trust or openness. Love is not all that is needed to be in a relationship. Trust at times, can be even more needed than love. At least, I know you won't make your wife a beneficiary of your life insurance if you didn't trust her. Extreme example, you would say. But how can you attempt to live the rest of your life with someone you don't trust or cannot be open to? Just because you love him/her? Think again! As you get older, trust is going to be one of the major catalysts that keeps your love burning. Gba be.

Well, what about if the wife/husband is a shopping freak? Spends money unnecessarily? Hmmmm. I can't really answer that one. I just think you should respect each other enough to agree on your spending.

Furthermore it works out better for your family if you pass on without a WILL or if you lose consciousness and there are hospital bills which your spouse cannot cope with. He/She will readily have access.

Having said all that, if you just want your own unshared account despite trusting your partner, fine. If you want it because you want to be independent? Wrong! Marriage is about dependency; not the other way around.

If you are single, you don't really need a joint account in my opinion. Not unless you are 100% sure that you guys will be getting married. And there's no 100% until "you may now kiss the bride".

I saw the note about the naija dudes looking for medical professionals, That is an example of folks that you cannot trust. Smell the coffee and you won't have to be with them.

Norcross (Gwinnett). Prolly 11 miles from Lenox mall area.

ATL resident here. What's the game plan?

@Vitastraka

Accept my apology. I thought you responded to me ni.

Regards.

@ Dis Guy - Mo gbadun e jare.

@Vitastraka - Don't get mad when you don't know the word and someone points it out to you,
It just shows you have work to do - Omo ile iwe o - ka iwe e. If you chose to harden your heart like Pharaoh did, then go for it.