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 Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 3:13am On Jul 29, 2007 |
[a clean, tear rubber babe  quote][quote][/quote]? I'm sorry guys, did I miss something? What does this mean?  Is it one of those that are "literal"in meaning , as in tearing a condom? My goodness, Nairaland is quickly proving to be one of the best experience teachers I have ever had. |
| Romance / Re: Is It Safe To Tell A Man "I Love You"? by Godsgirl(f): 4:37pm On Jul 28, 2007 |
you too babe! Agape!  |
| Romance / Re: Is It Safe To Tell A Man "I Love You"? by Godsgirl(f): 4:33pm On Jul 28, 2007 |
Oh, Thanks girl, Thats nice to know. No prob. |
| Romance / Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by Godsgirl(f): 4:29pm On Jul 28, 2007 |
Not neccsesarily, The attraction could have started much later in life, maybe due to circumastances. For instance I just realised the other day (when I analyzed myself in this area) that My attraction to older guys could have started between age 14-16. When I traced back the events of that time period, I realised it was the time when younger guys (my age) were in so much "heat" that during after school lessons, My classmates (the girls) would find their names written on the walls with an illustration of their pubic area. Such immaturity just had to have done it for me. Most older guys, I am sure had gone through that already and might be more stable and patient in regards to sexuality. From age 16, I know I was definately interested in marrying a man much older. One of my reasons was: The chances that he would wait for me were much greater, Agape! |
| Romance / Re: What Unusual Thing Have You Done For Love? by Godsgirl(f): 4:18pm On Jul 28, 2007 |
"Girls"? Don't you think that's a tad bit too general? Well, I speak for myself Raheem, I cannot do such a thing-So help me God. I am certain of this for one, I do not believe in "boyfriend/girlfriend" relationships (I do believe in courtships), secondly, If I was courting someone, I would see to it that I do whatever I want done to me, Even if my partner can't see me, God can-I will have to live with that. |
| Romance / Re: Favorite 'Romantic' Wedding Songs: Married Or Not! by Godsgirl(f): 4:11pm On Jul 28, 2007 |
"Jesus, lover of my soul"-Hillsong (the one I'll be walking to with my papi) Some others that will be played are: "Your love is extravagant"-Casting Crowns, "Show me your glory"-Third day, "Your love oh Lord", "Magnificent Obsession"-Steven Curtis Chapman, "Love calls"-Kem, "Oruka"-Sunny Nneji, "Fallen"-Lauren wood (pretty woman soundtrack), "Forever"-R-kelly (Choc factory),"Never far away"-Lagbaja, "Anything"-Jaheim, "I love me some him"-Toni Braxton, "Funny Valentine"-Chaka Chan, "Baby I'm yours" and "Comforter"-Shai, "Never keeping secrets"-Babyface, "Femininity"-Eric Benet, "Beautiful ones"-Mariah feat sisqo, "Beauty"-Dru Hill, "lalala"-Zhane, "Let's get married"-Jagged Edge, and oh so much more we just may have to create a love cd for the guests, I guess from my selection you can tell a whole lot about me. All songs are clean and romantic-  I've got it all planned out!!! Now where is my papi chulo  |
| Romance / Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by Godsgirl(f): 3:25pm On Jul 28, 2007 |
Quietly following? I'm flattered, thanks hon, |
| Romance / Re: What Unusual Thing Have You Done For Love? by Godsgirl(f): 3:22pm On Jul 28, 2007 |
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| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 3:17pm On Jul 28, 2007 |
@ Mustay oH Shoot!!! lol I never saw it that way (the pencil sharpener), that's a good one. Yeah, I would love to marry a virgin---I do not think there is anything wrong with a man who is reserved. I think it's attractive, Only God knows where they are, Agape! |
| Family / Re: Terminating A Six Month Pregnancy by Godsgirl(f): 3:01pm On Jul 28, 2007 |
This has nothing to do with religion, FYI I am not "religious" I am Christian- There is a huge difference.  Human life begins at conception for your information. One cannot say that once the dr/preg test reveals they are pregnant, that there is no life in their womb. If it were so, why does the dr advice the mother to avoid several things during the first critical early stages of dev? (Ist three weeks) Abortion is a clear-cut evil. Whoever wants to abort their child, go on and do it. As for me, It is dead wrong! Yes, Godsgirl is used to being careful by saying, "this is my opinion" but honey, as for this topic, "This is a fact". I respect women who have done this but now realise the magnitude of what they have done-such women get help quicker than those in denial (who at large face Major Depression with Suicidal Ideations and attempts) Frequently woman who do this face this sort of guilt and are often too ashamed to voice their regret and this is the most painful. The one who has a conscience would advice their fellow woman not to make the same mistake they have made. For those who do not have an ounce of regret after doing such a thing---I believe, the person's conscience has been sealed and if this is the case, I am sorry for that individual. Just because you cannot see the air you are breath, does not mean it isn't there, same thing goes for your womb, Just because tests say you are pregnant and your belly has not started to show, does not mean is life is not in there. Although we have free will to make our own decisions, It does not mean the decisions we make are always wise ones. ABORTION IS NOT BIRTH CONTROL PEOPLE!!! GET IT RIGHT!!! |
| Romance / Re: Is It Safe To Tell A Man "I Love You"? by Godsgirl(f): 2:23pm On Jul 28, 2007 |
My dear people: Is it quite normal for the title on a thread to change?, I admit I made an error on the first title but I did change it to "I Love You", only to find the entire topic change to "Is it safe to tell a man "I Love You" mmmm, Something extremely fishy is going on here, Well, I guess nothing much changed from the title, But is this a normal occurance on Nairaland? Just wondering for the future, |
| Culture / What Exactly Are You Grateful For? by Godsgirl(f): 5:23am On Jul 28, 2007 |
In this day and age, we take so much for granted. In our quest for "the next big thing" we frequently miss out on the several other events or people we often consider as "minor" or insignificant". Can you take some time out of your busy schedule- maybe for a total of 2 minutes to be true to yourself and God, What are you grateful for this day?, It could be a much anticpated phonecall, an engagement etc, Nothing is ever too small or too big. Today: I am grateful for your life-and your ability to see, think, laugh  I am grateful that summer school ends this coming Tuesday and I am half way done with finals  I am grateful for the great love I have in my heart for you all at Nairaland (This is just a small fraction of what I am grateful for) stay tuned for each day that follows. Now tell me, what are you grateful for? |
| Romance / Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by Godsgirl(f): 5:03am On Jul 28, 2007 |
@ Boondoggle Young enough to be his lolita, yeah I said it. (eat your heart out ) |
| Romance / Re: Is It Safe To Tell A Man "I Love You"? by Godsgirl(f): 7:41pm On Jul 27, 2007 |
Thanks for picking that up Donjohano, My goodness! I fixed it. |
| Romance / Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by Godsgirl(f): 7:28pm On Jul 27, 2007 |
Ngo-girl--Your posts are just too funny-I think your exchanges with Zignor is just so cute. You both started to go at each other's neck but then quickly became best of acquaintances--I have been laughing the whole time. Thanks for that girl. Well, to respond to your question , No, I do not personally see anything wrong with marrying a man 12 y older than you are. I personally just responded to a different thread saying that I desired to marry someone at least 10 years older than me and not more than 12, I think 15 year gap is fine for you if that is want you desire. I think older men are adorable; Not for what they have to offer because I enjoying giving rather than receiving anyway. I hate to ask or borrow things, I enjoy gifts from the heart. I definately would be turned off if I knew the older man was trying to buy my love because I am priceless . Moreover, I am a daddy's girl so the more he reminds me of my dad, the better, He can sit me on his lap and whisper sweet nothings in my ear .awww, My sweet old man Moses.Agape! |
| Romance / Is It Safe To Tell A Man "I Love You"? by Godsgirl(f): 7:09pm On Jul 27, 2007 |
Question: Is it safe to tell a man this? and Men, would you appreciate hearing this or does this simply turn you off? Ladies, please feel free to comment on your experiences, having said these words to a man. Are there any regrets you wish to share with the house? Agape! |
| Family / Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute? by Godsgirl(f): 6:32pm On Jul 27, 2007 |
I sincerely do not think anyone would want God to say to them after they have cried out to Him in repentance, "Well, repented or not, you have no part of me and therefore are going straight to hell" hmmm, Oh well-I respect your opinion nevertheless, |
| Family / Re: Why Is The Man The Head Of The Family? by Godsgirl(f): 6:11pm On Jul 27, 2007 |
Because my God said so. Inspired by the Spirit of God, St Paul tells us the intention of the Father God in 1 Cor 11:3. For those of you who are familiar with St Paul's writings, you will recall that whenever Paul is not led of God to speak on an issue, but of "himself", he is careful to say something like, "I, not God" to ensure that the reader is aware that this is "his own" opinion. However, 1 Cor 11:3 is not one of those times Paul spoke for himself. But this was actually God speaking through Paul. If anyone does not like my response, they may take it up to the creator, GOD. Go ahead and ask Him why. After all, He is the one who said, "ask and you shall receive" right? I cannot help you further. I choose to obey God-not obey what i "feel" or what "people" think. Everyone has a choice to rebel against His Word. Thank God for free will. I am Christian, If you are not a believer, then find out how an issue such as this is handled in your own area of belief. This is my stance on the matter Agape! |
| Family / Re: Terminating A Six Month Pregnancy by Godsgirl(f): 6:01pm On Jul 27, 2007 |
Well, since this thread is old, I would say, hopefully she decided to keep the little one and also spare her own life as well. Abortion is murder. Agape! |
| Family / Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute? by Godsgirl(f): 5:55pm On Jul 27, 2007 |
"Former" as in "past", "previous", "eariler". She is a new creation. Why not? If she has come to terms with her past, changed her lifestyle and God has forgiven her, who are we not to? My answer is "yes" Agape! |
| Family / Re: Nigerian Men Don't Marry Early Enough? by Godsgirl(f): 5:47pm On Jul 27, 2007 |
Well, this is interesting. If age 35 is considered "too old" for a naija man to marry then I guess my chances of marrying a man 10 years my senior is limited-since most will be married by then.  Oh well, May the Lord preserve my "old man Moses" for me. I am still a good girl and waiting patiently for him.Agape! |
| Family / Re: Your Most Hated Household Chore? by Godsgirl(f): 5:36pm On Jul 27, 2007 |
Dishes, I can only do other peoples dishes when I come to their home because I cannot stand dirty dishes. (please do not say I should come to your house ) However when it comes to doing my own, I can only get it done when I am on the phone with someone. Multi-tasking in this way, takes my mind off the fact that I am doing what I dread- DISHES. I have paid my dues as a child of my parents and need kids of my own to boss. Moral of this: No telephone-No dishes |
| Family / Re: Marrying A Woman 5 Years Older by Godsgirl(f): 5:26pm On Jul 27, 2007 |
I wouldn't marry a man 5 years younger than me. I'm afraid that I will treat him like a child and I do not believe any man (no matter the age) deserves that kind of treatment. I guess it's all in the human psyche but I would prefer to marry an older man. My choice could very well have stemmed from my junior high school experiences. During after school lessons, the boys in class were practically in "heat" every day and wanted to get in every girl's pants; only to write the names of their victims the next day on the wall, with illustrations of their pubic area on display. I'm sure you can imagine how such images could affect a 14 y/o girl at the time. I generally think older men (having already been there and done that) have a better sense of control. My future husband will be at least 10 years older than I am and no more than 12. I've got it all planned out. FYI, I do realise that some older men could act as kids, therefore I do not base my decision on age alone. Agape! |
| Family / Re: Why Would A Man Go For A Second Wife? by Godsgirl(f): 5:01pm On Jul 27, 2007 |
Because of greed. Sorry but true.  |
| Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Said I Look Old by Godsgirl(f): 6:00pm On Jul 26, 2007 |
Your boyfriend is not God! I am sure you are beautiful. I hope you have got yourself a new friend. One that cherishes you for who you are. The longer you surround yourself with negative people, the more you will become one yourself. Besides, what he thinks does not matter. However, the minute "you" start to believe the lies, is when we have got a problem. Agape! |
| Religion / Re: Are You A Christian If You Don't Believe Every Bible Story? by Godsgirl(f): 3:28pm On Jul 26, 2007 |
Thanks Shilox-That's encouraging. |
| Religion / Re: Is Pastor Kumuyi Our Best Holiness Preacher? by Godsgirl(f): 3:23pm On Jul 26, 2007 |
@ Veracious Thanks babe! |
| Health / Re: My 23 Year Old Sister Just Tested Hiv Positive And Has Won American Visa. by Godsgirl(f): 4:25am On Jul 26, 2007 |
Was the pastor married or single? I ask because I hate to make assumptions. Please bear with me. You asked for advice, I can gladly give it as long this question is answered. Thanks! Agape! |
| Religion / Re: Men In Search Of Women In Church by Godsgirl(f): 3:39am On Jul 26, 2007 |
@ babyosisi Thanks girl! your posts are so inspirational as well, Favor is all yours! Stay beautiful and blessed! His hand is on you girl! You are shining!! |
| Religion / Re: Is The Bible Complete? by Godsgirl(f): 3:27am On Jul 26, 2007 |
Isn't that something? I was just telling someone yesterday how wonderful it is that God covers absolutely everything in the bible and that man cannot get away with a thing. I guess, different strokes for different folks. As for me, It is very complete! actually too complete that it is scary. I suggest you pray for discernment prior to reading the Word of God. Because several things in it will not be revealed to you if you have no right to know. The bible is like a secret box of goodies that only God's children have access to and can understand. For centuries, people have been looking for reasons to discredit it and this thing about it being "incomplete" is one excuse that even I (prior to salvation) used. Thank God for saving me and opening my eyes. You can all stay here are argue about the bible being complete or not-- I am not interested because incase you did not realise, there is also a reference in the Bible concerning getting into arguments concerning His word with people that are bent on discrediting Him. My God is big enough to defend Himself. If I cannot find something in the word of God, Bless God! I know He will lead me to it as I continue to "seek" for it. "Seek and you will definately find" Agape! |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 2:54am On Jul 26, 2007 |
I see the irony and you are absolutely correct. My point is not bent on pleasing anyone or being submissive to anyone. It is more on empowering women to respect their bodies and not be obligated to give themselves (virgin or not) to any man. And yes, I agree Virginity cannot assure ones love for someone else. FYI, if the woman is a virgin at marriage, who says she will continue to be unexperienced for the rest of her life? afterall, the expereineced woman was once a virgin too before she got experienced. Again, my focus is not "virgins" and that is why my previous threads make it very clear that everyone (non virgin men, non virgin women, virgin men and women) in this matter needs to take some sort of responsibility for their actions. I could care less of someones status; Women, to me, are all equal. We still need to respect ourselves and men still need to respect us. This is where I stand. I respect your views as well. Agape! |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 2:21am On Jul 26, 2007 |
@ Thiefofhearts I am a woman so, my heart is geared towards their care. If I sounded a little harsh, it is only out of love. Please understand. Hopefully, a man can speak for the men. He will be in a better position to caution the brothers on how to treat us women. We are delicate and deserve the very best; nothing less. Most women that have been considered "whores" only got that name because they meant well-to show the man how much she loved him. Is it wrong to show a man love? NO, Is there a better way to do it? YES!. I have tried my best to be unbias but I do truly care for "us" women and I know we can do this. This has helped several other women I counsel and it has been successful in helping them abstain. Agape! |
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