Smartdoctor:
Good evening guys, please I need an urgent legal advisors in the forum to assist my cousin brother.
He had divorced and sent her wife back to the village for the past six months ago.

But the court asked him to be paying a certain amount of money monthly for the child's wellbeing which he has been doing.

But unfortunately the effect of the money has never been significant by looking at the physical appearance of the child.

He always sends relatives to check on the child of which several reports have reached him about how the boy is always been abandoned to be wandering about alone while the mother will be hanging out with friends.

What strucked him to his nerves was the recent report about the child been seriously sick and rumours that the mother now deals with several sexual partners while still breastfeeding the child....
He travelled from Abuja immediately to his hometown to retrieve the boy via court order but unfortunately the court denied him because the baby is believed to be too young at 1 year and 3 months old.

Now that the court had adjourned the case till 28th this month, he however decided to stay put in his hometown to treat the baby. The baby was taken to the hospital. the doctor took off his clothes and to our greatest suprise, the child's body looks so rough, rashes and boils all over her armpit down to his genital region.

Laboratory test was carried out and the report showed that the child have sexually transmitted infections. Fungi infection (,jock itch) and candidiasis.

All these evidences have been push to the judge phone and what we are afraid of, is the possibility of the judge cautioning her to take care of the child and allow her to continue taking the child's custody.
Can he take the child forcefully after having all these evidences against the mother?

vanitybutiwanti:
Shut up small boy, you know nothing about Rivers state. Major jack on wikes side is kalabari, chief Alabrabra who I'd on wikes side is a kalabari heavyweight, this fight has nothing to do with ethnicity blockhead, there are kalabaris and ikweres on both side of the divide small boy, people pitched their tent in places where they can make money and advance their interests, get that into your dumb skull small boy..Asaris sister Boma goodhead from Asari toru is on sims side because she was reportedly given a contract to renovate Rivers state liason office in Abuja by sim, its infantile to make a blanket statement that the kalabaris betrayed an ingrate because the ingrate has prominent kalabari sons on his side, the kalabari even ditched their better qualified sons(Tonye Cole, Dumo, Tonye princewill) to make an uninspiring opobo man governor, so shut the fhuck up and desist from talking about things you know nothing about

crisubanijunior:
Pray to be in what position exactly? Nairaland bully? . I will just have to give up on u right away. My family will be embarrassed if they get to find out that i am on Nairaland trying to school a fool who resorted to mentioning my family.

If truly u are intelligent, your level of conversation should tell me. From your very first reply, i told u i wasnt going to engage u on that discussion because i clearly depicted your brain level on that reply.

You say u want to go to which country and do what?

Hahahahahhahaha. Bro, the bitter truth is that the only person u owe the truth is yourself. Anyday you are ready to grow up, i am very sure people around you will benefit.

But for now, your myopic sense of reasoning of attacking people rather than issues have engulfed your shallow brain.

crisubanijunior:
…another response that clearly shows you are really a dumb person. If you read that my compound(ogolo) is not far from the Governor’ compound (Fubara), and still made that your ascertion in your number one (1) reply, then i give up on u brother.

Disclosing my mum’s identity to a criminal wont be worth it for security reasons. Its her privacy.

You probably need to get back to the addiction that helps u decipher sentences. Before u respond

crisubanijunior:
…Wike facilitated what? Isnt this a compensatory appointment for his role in fighting a sitting Governor and a fellow ijaw man? We would wait and see how it will pan out anyday we have a Kalabari Governor in this state. Afterall, the Kalabaris are doubled faced people though. Unlike other ijaw tribes in Rivers State.

crisubanijunior:
…have been through ur various comments. They are nothing different from the thrashes u just spilled here. Like i earlier opined, trading words with u all in the name of engagment would amount to nothing but a ridicule on my intellectual capacity.

Thats because your comments are not devoid of insults with no attention geared towards the object of debate.

For the records, i have no hatred for the Kalabaris. My mum is from Asari Toru and my dad, Opobo. Discussing issues with half-baked graduates wont do me any good.

If u want i can give u personal details so that u can check my educational portfolio and political prowess. All you need is to grow up. If u are Rivers, then i would almost be certain that u belong to the other group - the stock who force themselves to be called Rivers citizens.

crisubanijunior:
…have been through ur various comments. They are nothing different from the thrashes u just spilled here. Like i earlier opined, trading words with u all in the name of engagment would amount to nothing but a ridicule on my intellectual capacity.

Thats because your comments are not devoid of insults with no attention geared towards the object of debate.

For the records, i have no hatred for the Kalabaris. My mum is from Asari Toru and my dad, Opobo. Discussing issues with half-baked graduates wont do me any good.

If u want i can give u personal details so that u can check my educational portfolio and political prowess. All you need is to grow up. If u are Rivers, then i would almost be certain that u belong to the other group - the stock who force themselves to be called Rivers citizens.

crisubanijunior:
…i quite agree with u on the fact that politics remains a game of interest, hence everyone tends to tilt towards who holds their interest at heart. I would let every other thing u have written to slide. Because u r not a Rivers son or may not be resident in the state to ascertain a good sense of judgment on the political theory of the state. I am a Rivers son and a keen follower of politics and political trends in the state, atleast from the time after Melford Okilo till date. I know the Kalabaris to a good number of percentage. So engaging u on matters like dis would be me demeaning myself and stooping very low to ur level of intelligence.

crisubanijunior:
…Wike facilitated what? Isnt this a compensatory appointment for his role in fighting a sitting Governor and a fellow ijaw man? We would wait and see how it will pan out anyday we have a Kalabari Governor in this state. Afterall, the Kalabaris are doubled faced people though. Unlike other ijaw tribes in Rivers State.

Mandela27:
Africans are naturally wired to be very violent

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

jamesversion:


Asari Toru
Akuku Toru
Degema
Okrika
Ogu/Bolo
Bonny
Andoni
Opobo.
Ahoada West
Abua Odua
Parts of Phalga

All these 10-compounds local government areas.

slim75d:


Igbos have no say in rivers politics
It's just we the ijaws, the ogonis, Ikwerres,
Ijaws have 8 LGA, Ikwerres have 4 LGA ogonis have 4
Infact the ijaws own the southern part of Port Harcourt, where the port and government house is located

Taylor94:
Lol Sim is actually serious


Sam Jaja is from Opobo


Sargent Awuse is from Buguma and every Rivers man knows Awuse was the Atiku of Rivers guber tussle because he never won even after contesting so many time starting from Odili


Desmond Akawor na Oyigbo man


Emma Anyanwu na Ulakwo Etche man who is Wikes senior man in the other circle. Wike doesn’t even call him Emma Anyanwu what Wike calls him is Oga Anyawu


These are strong Rivers men but did you notice anything?


No Ikwerre man among them


Na sim Fubara dey dull himself, if I be Sim I’ll expand Ikwerre road from Mile 1 education straight to Igwuruta round about just to justify my reason to demolish Wike papa house for Wimpey junction


After all na wetin Wike do Omehia and the rest


Sim my governor Abeg try dey smoke loud once once make you dey get mind you too soft

Kukutenla:
Too late
The elders should collect their brown envelope "tfare" and go to home to await further instructions from the executive govunor of Rivers State.
Rivers State is not anyone's property and the earlier the audio godfather realises this the better for him.
The people of Rivers State are standing solidly behind their govunor to deliver his mandate.
Any stumbling block will be crushed
God bless Sir SIM Fubara
God bless the people of Rivers

LOGICALKEN:
My brother met a girl two years ago at a friend’s bachelor’s eve. They were kinda dating and some months after the girl said she was pregnant, at first she said the pregnancy wasn’t for my brother, some weeks later she came back and said the pregnancy is his.

My bro accepted all responsibility and took care of her while she was pregnant. We even went to the family to let them know my bro is responsible for the pregnancy.

During delivery my bro paid all medical bills which was a bit high because she delivered through C.S, now my bro has been taking adequate care of the child and mum.

When the child was about 3 months old, a friend of my brother’s baby mama called and asked my brother to conduct a DNA test on the boy, my bro was surprised, when he told me about it I adviced we conduct the DNA, when we informed the girl we want to conduct a DNA she sounded confident and was like “una get money to waste na”. We travelled to her city and did the DNA and about a month later the result came out, surprisingly my brother is not the father.

Now my bro is demanding a Total refund of everything he has spent on the boy, the girl’s family has been begging. Should my brother just forfeit everything and move on or press charges?

I FEAR WOMAN SHA, with this experience even if I born 30 children for this life, I go do DNA for all of them one by one.

Jennyclay:
Nobody is above mistake.

Biko, just forgive and leave everything and move on. Can’t you see how catastrophic the economy is How do you expect a nursing mother to pay you back when she also has a baby to cater for

Learn to forgive!!

May God help us.

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

CoronaVirusPro:
IPOB be thinking they can mess with South-South the way they do with Westerners!

Those guys don’t have a fuse box in their brains, and can be very mean and violent. All those Bayelsa, Delta, Rivers and Akwa-Ibom demons are naturally mentally unstable and just looking for where to wreck havoc.

IPOB should just continue facing Westerners and Northerners. SS is a no go area.

EriMma1:
Some men don't have shame.

So now, he'll open this his big old body before this small girl and be having fun?? Some things shouldn't just be at all.

I dey shame for am.

saphiere:
I am Igbo. Enugu precisely. I got this to say.
When you do the same thing over and over you will definitely get the same result.
Men have been governing us since 1960 and nothing comes out. Give chance to the female folks let's see if there would be a chance.
After all, Queen Esther changed the history of her people.

potent5:
Because your men are lazy and irresponsible.
Igbo men are not lazy. You get?

mightyokwy:

Igbos don't value women. Ekwulife and Stella is from where?. Tell us any elected political position occupied by any ijaw woman. Idiot

Ricky97:
Guys checkout how updated you are with some world's famous people.

LadyExcellency:
How is Egbema, who is a brother to Ohaji now from Rivers State since 1927?

Rivers State of 1967? Land grabbers. Ijaw is teaching Wike how to grab lands.

Wike ran to Supreme Court instead of lower Court thinking he will use Justice Odili to buy off justice forgetting that Mrs Odili is not there with Rivers State quota rather that of Imo State.

Sonoyom:
How many times will they tell you that proposal is not for you?

brightfuture24:
"Getting a picture of my son in school with a scar on his face, and I got no explanation, I don't even know what was wrong with him..."


Nahhh, FFK is a demon with a heart of stone. Age is truly not a guarantee of maturity or wisdom. The fact that things didn't work out between you and your wife is no reason to deprive the children of their mother, or the mother of her babies. Those boys are so young, so vulnerable. What exactly is the rationale behind the wall he's putting up? Just to punish her?? If you love the boys so dearly as you claim, you'd realise how much they need their mother and not some over-bleached girlfriend playing stepmom.

So wicked. This is the difference between Nigeria and saner climes. Try this in the US and social workers will seize those kids before you say Jack. Praying for this girl, may her pain come to an end in no distant time.

lalasticlala:
What do you think about a 30-year-old man dating an 18-year-old girl?

EzeAnambra:
Ogogoro has really dealt with this our oyel people, foolish set of drunkards

Biodun556:
If the same pressure we mount federal government is applied to state governors, Nigeria will be better.