THANK FOR YOUR REPLIES

I REALLY APPRECIATE

AND I WANT YOU ALL TO KNOW THAT YOU HAVE CONTRIBUTED IN HEALING MY WOUND WITH YOUR REPLY

AM SO GRATEFUL

I will put my trust in the Lord and i know he will give me strength and wisdom to pass thru this

i pray that no one will pass tru this cos it hurts


@topup
@JJYOU
thanks for your reply

wow this is so touching

i tought mine was bad not until i read this

at this junction with all the reply coming in now , i dont know how to defend myself on my kind gesture to kola

i want all those that are critizising me to know that all i did , did out of the love i had for him

i did not do all this just because he promised to marry me

at least i wasnt a kid when all this happened

i knew what i want and i went for it

i neva knew it would turn out this way

pls stop condeming me ,

i ve had enough for the past one month now after getting to know about his marriage

amen oo

dont compare yourself to someone else just because Kola married her and not you - if God wants you to have job He will give you one - if he wants you to be a housewife to a wealthy man who will treat you right - He will give you a rich husband who will look after you. Just keep praying and keep your heart open to God's will and plan for you

thanks for ur reply

its not that am comparing my self

its just that it is fustrating when you still find ur self lagging behind

i cant just stop crying and my heart is relieved as i cry it out ,

nairaland i really appreciate all of you , i really need your prayer for job opportunity bocos i learnt the girl he got married to is working in a bank in gombe,




thanks

@LADYT
@TOMAGY
@IK-MOORE
@LUXOIRE

THANKS, YOUR REPLY MADE ME CRY

@SOMTO2
THE ONLY OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY WAS THAT I WAS SO HUMBLE TO HIM, I NEVA CHEATED ON HIM AND STILL LOVE HIM , AND WANT TO STOP LOVING HIM COS AS IT IS NOW HE BELONG TO SOMEONE ELSE,

MY LABOUR WAS JUST IN VAIN

I met kola when I got my HND admission, I was so much in love with kola and I later got to know that his family had finacial problems . We were in second semester HND I when he called me and told me that he will have to deffer his admission till he could get enough money to finanace his education , I was not happy, I knew my family doesnt have enough money but I promised him that I was going to try my best for him ,

kola was in school for two good year and cant even boast of a single spoon in his room not to talk of pot and he survived for good two years, I was the one paying his school fees , hand out, I cook for him , wash his cloth, in short I never let him feel that the parent cold not help at the time he needed them most,

in return for all my gesture , kola promised that he will never betray me and that he would love me for the rest of hs life

I was so much in love that even when he offend me , I will still be the one to apologise to him

we finished in 2006 and went for our service , I was posted to abuja and him to gombe, after our service year in 2007 december he was called back from where he serverd , I was not really happy with the fact that he was going to a far place

he promised that I will be the only one in his life and not to worry, I started noticing changes after thre month, when I called he doesnt pick up and when he picks he giving me one excuse or the other and I never let that get to me I kept on praying that he change ,

but to my suprise kola work me up on july 15 2008 at around 6'0clock in the morning when iwas still sleeping, KOLA TOLD ME IT WAS OVER AND THAT HE CANT MARRY ME , HE SAID HIS PASTOR SAW A VISSION AND TOLD HIM THAT HE CANT MARRY ME JUST LIKE THAT

I almost died of the shock but thank God I am still alive to tell my story ,

I heard he got married last month and want all nairalander to pray for me because its too much for me to take OR BEAR

I DONT KNOW WHERE TO START FROM

I A VERRY SAD LADY RIGHT NOW AND I CANT STILL BELIEVE KOLA GOT MARRIED TO ANOTHER PERSON