chaircover:

Wipe your tears, fix your hair, apply your make up & put a smile on your face. No man wants to approach a sour faced miserable babe

Dont be scared to love or trust again. Good Luck.

cold:

A man's word is his bond, he should break it for nobody.

TOPE2000!:

Naija men surely not included

cold:

Generalisations make me sick,pls stop taring everybody with the same brush

cold:

And it's "should" in the context it is used not "shouldn't" thankyou.

TOPE2000!:

Are u sure?

TOPE2000!:

Lol . . . truth hurts huh
Ok . . . maybe not all naija men are like that but majority are though

Some men just think they can mess up a woman's life . . . dump her wen she has given u the best yrs of her life, she feed kola's bony ass , paid his fee . . . . . tssssk

190:

@tope
i heard u are currently training ur man rite 4rm his university!
arent u takin that risk

anyway pls help me talk 2 plat
she's pissed @ me!

TOPE2000!:

Naija men surely not included

TOPE2000!:

u heard wrong dear

lol. . . good

cold:

A man's word is his bond, he should break it for nobody.

Am Alone:

likewise all!

Get IT Dude! Trust No Bo Dy!

Am Alone:

Na TRUE! you no go talk na make we tell you what to do ooooo! No be say in the year 2012 you go come come here come dey cry oooooo! confess now oooo

TOPE2000!:

Boy . . . . .u shud go look it
its shouldnt not should dear

cold:

Do u really want us to get into this,i don't intend to derail this thread, but u're so wrong dear

TOPE2000!:

Alrite dear

TOPE2000!:

Boy . . . . .u shud go look it
its shouldnt not should dear

biola44:

@haley: i feel ur pain, but shit happens n u brought this upon urself

biola44:

@NLS: wat av noticed abt relationships btw same n opp sex is dat goin out of ur way to please pple is no assurance of them doing the same, only makes them take advantage of u in most cases. so dont do favours expecting anything in return(in any r/s), if u must let it be of a free will, so u dont regret in anyway, i'm just trying to say the best thing is to satisfy ur conscience n dont add to pple's problems while being careful also, try to balance things

biola44:

@haley: i feel ur pain, but shit happens n u brought this upon urself
@NLS: wat av noticed abt relationships btw same n opp sex is dat goin out of ur way to please pple is no assurance of them doing the same, only makes them take advantage of u in most cases. so dont do favours expecting anything in return(in any r/s), if u must let it be of a free will, so u dont regret in anyway, i'm just trying to say the best thing is to satisfy ur conscience n dont add to pple's problems while being careful also,  try to balance things

topup:

Hi Haley,

Your post really touched me, it's such a shame that stuff like this happens in the world. One part of me is happy that you two didn't marry because who knows what the real deal was with him, and I am definitely sure you deserve better. You have not mentioned what made him special, but the post instead outlined how special you yourself are. You really are a gem, and with so much devotion, you just need to find the right guy.

I wouldn't say that you were naive, I would say that you were very faithful and loving which is what many guys are complaining of the lack of.

I've just said a quick prayer for you now because I believe God is with you. Just keep faith in the only being who will NEVER let you down.

You will gain so much strength and wisdom from this, trust me, the most painful situations in our life are tests.

Maybe KOLA would have cheated on you or defiled your marriage some way or the other.

Yes God is the judge and if he cheated you and lied then rest assure it is not your battle to fight. Just focus on you, because right now you matter so much. Don't let him have the power, God has the power (not KOLA), try not to wish anything bad against him, it will take a lot of time to accept that you aren't going to marry him, but the sooner you do, you should start seeing all the things you've escaped.

I mean did Kola have any bad traits?? I mean when you argued, did he apologise?? Who knows maybe it was God telling Kola not to marry you, maybe now you have a chance to be with someone who will respect you and you won't have to be the one on your knees all the time. He'll take what you have and give equally, what he has, you will both have, he will apologise for the fact you're apologising, you won't have any serious arguments, you will be happy and know the true value of love, he will value you and know your value.

All the best for the future and God Bless.

Ifedisky:

Really TOPPED UP. You got style mate.
@post. Dust your self and stand up. Your life didn't start with him so WON'T end without him. God bless