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Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by tkb417(m): 4:06pm On May 21, 2009 |
Pls, i dont get this gist.LOL! when did helping someone become a marriage certificate? dont go and look for somebody else. siddon dey shed tears God in his infinte mercies decided to take the madman off ur radar ure hear crying wolf i tire. Boiz don finish for 9ja? and you seriously expected him to marry you?i don tire sef for this NL |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by teboigbe(m): 4:10pm On May 21, 2009 |
i beg u make u no use the name of god in vains |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by luxoire(f): 4:14pm On May 21, 2009 |
if a guy accepts help from a girl that they are in a relationship together and he promises her that that relastuionship would end at the alter - then the girl should nto be blamed for believing out fo love - of course she should be a little less trusting next time - BUT MEN TOO SHOULD CONTROL THEIR TONGUES AND STOP PROMISING WHAT THEY CAN NOT DELIVER - just because it sounds good to them at the time, or will get them what they want |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by tkb417(m): 4:16pm On May 21, 2009 |
beg u make u no use the name of god in vainswhich god? The god of thunder abi Obatala go read ur brighter Grammar b4 u come with ur megedefegede This is not a shrine abeg |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by Nezed(f): 4:32pm On May 21, 2009 |
[color=#006600]@Nezed Telling someone you will marry him or her is a word of honor. He has broken his promise to her,does it make him a man? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO @hollandis Really? word of honour? BTW, y shld he b bounded because she helped him? methink, its a gud thing he did not marry her cos, he will just be marrying her out of loyalty/duty, not becos he loves her, and Boy, he will hate her for that! Let her marry a man that ADORES her, u know, treats her like a woman!
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Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by haley(f): 4:39pm On May 21, 2009 |
at this junction with all the reply coming in now , i dont know how to defend myself on my kind gesture to kola i want all those that are critizising me to know that all i did , did out of the love i had for him i did not do all this just because he promised to marry me at least i wasnt a kid when all this happened i knew what i want and i went for it i neva knew it would turn out this way pls stop condeming me , i ve had enough for the past one month now after getting to know about his marriage |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by Davidcares: 5:02pm On May 21, 2009 |
i feel ur pain but I think u shd read my own story too b4 u start passing judgment on guy. read "MY STORY". I pray that God will give urs too |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by Gadols(f): 5:09pm On May 21, 2009 |
Dont allow what has happened to blur your ideals. Its a shame that he did that to you. You have sown a seed. Good will come to you in the hour of need. You will never lack any good thing in your life. Your destiny shall be as bright as the morning star. You will see your children's children. Love and compassion will always find you every day of your life. Be yourself. forgive the lad and let God lift you. God's blessings gives you a gift that does not come with sorrow. I love your spirit. It is well with you. |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by JJYOU: 5:10pm On May 21, 2009 |
haley:are u new to NL? just move on with your life. he is a jerk and a looser. whatever he has taken out of your life you dont want to give him another do you? like i said earlier this is the nigerian factor. you cant bank most people words. |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by tpiah: 5:29pm On May 21, 2009 |
haley: once again, sorry for what you're going through, but the reason people may be sounding unsympathetic is because its not the first time we've heard such stories and it wont be the last. Many men do not marry the woman who helped them through school. Even if they do, most times their hearts might not be in the relationship and they end up emotionally absent sooner or later. And as a Nigerian, you know the high importance men place on being the head of the home. So, unfortunately, blowing money and feelings on a man doesnt always buy his loyalty especially if the feelings are mainly one sided as yours seemed to be. I dont know if it was this nairaland or somewhere else that I read a story about some girl who said she dated a sugar daddy in order to help her boyfriend through college. All with the boyfriend's full knowledge. Yet as soon as the guy wrote his finals, he dumped her without much ado. Its always dangerous for a woman to have more love for a man than the man has for her. You'll get someone else, dont worry. Just chalk this one down as life experience. Nezed: thank you! |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by Igwe9(m): 5:36pm On May 21, 2009 |
I'm for you sister |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by AmAlone: 5:37pm On May 21, 2009 |
I met kola when I got my HND admission, I was so much in love with kola and I later got to know that his family had finacial problems . We were in second semester HND I when he called me and told me that he will have to deffer his admission till he could get enough money to finanace his education , I was not happy, I knew my family doesnt have enough money but I promised him that I was going to try my best for him , God will Never Jugde him and you have to admit it! You never really do him any good mam. You were in love, lol. . . And you know what; All Is Fair In LOVE And In WAR!!! No Vex OOO Na The Truth Be That! And sooner or later you go get to understand say human no dey disappoint! GBAM! Humans don't disappoint. I don't know if you understand what I meant by that ooo, but humans don't disappoint--You Just Don't Trust Them! Kola no really do you any wrong--I, just like everyone else can do thesame! |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by AmAlone: 5:44pm On May 21, 2009 |
You were in love, so all you did to him you do in the name of love and love is 'wicked' Anyway, you have to admit that----he is a married man now. Sorry for my harsh words oooo. I feel for you sincerely. . . Jus like you was your cash and time, and someone quote: "There Is No Harm Equal To That of A Wasted Time. . . " Baby gurl package yourself for the best. Believe in GOD. And forget say you do am good. God dey and I sure as hell say you go get the bext! |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by shanda(m): 5:54pm On May 21, 2009 |
Madam, cheer up!!! It's a lesson to u, that u should not get emotionally involved with any guy. Forget love. It doesn't exist. It's just a figment of the imagination of some ppl. Anyway pele sha, if ur story is true. |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by dae(f): 5:57pm On May 21, 2009 |
shanda:Eh? For real? if she cant get emotionally invoolved with any guy, should she start getting involved with women no offence o, your parents, the bond they share, what is it called? |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by shanda(m): 6:02pm On May 21, 2009 |
What has the feelings one has for one's parents got to do with that of a guy |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by tkb417(m): 6:06pm On May 21, 2009 |
What has the feelings one has for one's parents got to do with that of a guy cant u read well? the bond between ur Father and Mother is called what? |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by dae(f): 6:14pm On May 21, 2009 |
tkb417: Thank you o jare ---- English Language for some people can become a bit challenging. Tha shanda:Naija people as usual , Answering question with question. All i did was ask a simple question. I'm not on your neck, i was just curious to know what bond they share, finish!!, not for you to get all defensive, Jeeeez!! |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by 190: 9:22pm On May 21, 2009 |
u mean guys can be dis |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by Bossman(m): 9:28pm On May 21, 2009 |
I concur, that this is a tough one to swallow. However, I hope you get the strength to move forward with your life. And, tell him and his pastor to go to hell! There is a good chance he is lying about the pastor thing. And even if the pastor told him that, most of those pastors and their vision is complete nonsense! Best wishes! |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by Sauron1: 9:37pm On May 21, 2009 |
haley: This relationship was always going to be a dead end relationship. I still cannot understand why Naija ladies try so hard to marry their age/classmates!!!! While it might work few times, it doesn't work most times. It's hard enough in Naija for a man to marry and by the time women are thinking about their biological clock, the men are not even stable enough to walk the aisle. |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by biina: 9:50pm On May 21, 2009 |
I am always skeptical of judging one solely on the narration of another. Kola is obviously not here to defend himself. That aside, I believe all is free and fair in love and war. I 'm sympathetic to your plight (if all you said is true) but you made your choices and he made his; both parties are responsible for how things turned out. Learn from the experience and move on. |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by TOPE20001(f): 9:57pm On May 21, 2009 |
@Poster Every disappointment is a blessing disguise So the f'ucker told u he doesnt want to marry you but got married a month after?? This is why some women always have plan B, just like an insurance for shyte like this i think its a good idea actually Kola can go Bleep himself |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by 190: 10:02pm On May 21, 2009 |
tope sef dey talk! |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by TOPE20001(f): 10:04pm On May 21, 2009 |
190: lol. . . why i no go talk |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by 190: 10:12pm On May 21, 2009 |
@tope dey there! |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by rite2salas(m): 10:13pm On May 21, 2009 |
Warning - while you were reading a new reply has been posted. You may wish to review your post. |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by edogram(m): 10:14pm On May 21, 2009 |
Fool you once shame on him, but fool you twice shame on you. I really don’t have any advise to give in this kind of story. Becos nothing will help you. The only solution is a matter of time, I promise it will get out from your mind. Just focus and be careful next time, lesson one is normal but lessons too is not normal |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by AmAlone: 10:17pm On May 21, 2009 |
tkb417: Dey Band Betwin yah MAMA and yah PAPA is called PIKIN |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by platinumnk(f): 10:19pm On May 21, 2009 |
190: so. . . its u and tope now eh? im just waitn for the judges to make this a clean cut. |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by 190: 10:28pm On May 21, 2009 |
@plat My Gawd @tope pls come 2 my aid plat dosent trust me 1bit! pls come and help me xplain tins 2 her its not what she's tinking! |
Re: Kolawole! God Will Jugde If I Ever Did You Wrong by ebila(m): 10:32pm On May 21, 2009 |
@haley, Gurl,let d tears go cos d hurt will go wit them,but pls don't let d luv go cos u'll need it for someone more deserving.U should b glad he didn't break up wit u one week b4 ur weddin',so u can see it's all for d best.Goodluck dearie & pretend u didn't see any criticism-infested-post. |
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