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Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Haryomhe(m): 1:29pm On Jun 29, 2016
Carlcaresophia:

Hello Haryomhe! As for the problem you mentioned,you can take your phone to our Carlcare Service Center, our technicians there will try to check it for you. If you need us send your address and hotline of our service center, please let us know the city and country you are living in now. Thank you!
I stay in osogbo in osun state, Nigeria
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Haryomhe(m): 11:22pm On Jun 28, 2016
Hello!
Please my tecno H7 phone has been misbehaving of recent. the latest issue is that i have been unable to pick calls,it tells me my android phone has stopped working. what can i do please?

Career / Learn From The Clock! by Haryomhe(m): 4:54pm On Jun 20, 2016
DON’T STOP!
I read this quote somewhere and it has forever changed my perspective about life. “Don’t just watch the clock, do what it does; keep moving”. Take a look at the wall clock; it doesn’t stop working unless the battery becomes weak. The basic construction of a wall clock is to run around a cycle over and over again, it never gets tired and it doesn’t complain about what it does. The job of a wall clock is perhaps the most boring thing in the world, going round the same cycle over and over again every day! Just like the wall clock, find pleasure in whatever it is that you do. Your job or current position doesn’t have to determine your countenance at any time. You should be in control! If you don’t like the job, quit! Find or create an alternative and be happy with it. Never let your current situation determine you. Like the wall clock, practice and become a master in your field.

“The job of a wall clock is perhaps the most boring thing in the world”

The word time has become synonymous with the clock. It’s more like a brand. If anyone would check the time they consult the clock, it’s that simple! This is because the clock has mastered the art and science behind predicting the accurate time. The clock didn’t just become trusted in a day, it achieved that level of trust through years of practice. When the mechanism for predicting the time was developed in a clock, it took the clock several years of practicing the craft to build an everlasting reputation. Any modification to the type or pattern is surely an offshoot of the initial brilliance of that mechanism. Most people want to start and get to the top of success ladder within a day, a week, a month or a year. It needs to be stressed over and over again that global brands and concepts are not built in a year but they are started in a day. It takes years of continuous practice because success walks hand-in-hand with patience and continual practice.
Like the clock learn to restart, recharge and overcome obstacles. When the battery in a clock suddenly becomes weak, the next step is to change or recharge the battery and phew! The clock is off to another start doing what it does best.

“Giving up on your dreams because of an
obstacle is like abandoning your
Car simply because it has a flat tire”

You should never give up on your dreams, aspirations and goals simply because you hit an obstacle. Giving up on your dreams because of an obstacle is like abandoning your Car simply because it has a flat tire. Obstacles are meant to be surmounted. How well you rise after a challenge speaks volume about your strength and how far you would go on in life. When you hit that rock button, when your best attempt at what you do best is below par, look within, encourage yourself, re-inspire yourself and start again. Stop looking for motivation outside yourself. Be your own source of motivation. Just don’t stop!
Looking at the clock critically you discover that some, last for many years, while some stop working after few weeks. Beyond the battery life, the most important thing is what the clock is made of; the Engine. How well the engine is crafted determines how long it would last. Many clocks are beautiful and well-designed on the outside but the engines are poor. The same way the content of a man determine how far he goes in life. It’s not beauty or how attractive you are, it is the content of your heart that matters.

“God built him to last”
(Read: Autobiography of Jack Roosevelt ‘Jackie’ Robinson)

In every man, there is a virtue. Most men don’t realize how much they carry on the inside. I think if we can really discover our genius and be that genius it will go a long way in propelling us to the top of the success ladder.
Success doesn’t come easy for everyone. Some inherit it and are rightly placed but for many they have to work hard to get it, it is not an easy task but it is surely an achievable one. Discover your genius, be that genius, don’t stop being that genius for any reason. Learn from the CLOCK!

Source: @alukoayomiposi./don't-stop
Business / Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Haryomhe(m): 10:03am On Jun 15, 2016
damola311:


one buyer don knack you one star be that.... You know the best solution? Just forget the account and start afresh since you haven't gone far.... Because for you to be able to reach that 90% rating is no easy job.... It's easy for star to go down than to rise

Thanks for the heads up.
I have about 4 stars, abt 80% i think.getting one more shld not be that hard...what can i do to add get it. Am more inclined to this cos of the wahala i went thru befr signing up.network ish sha...
Business / Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Haryomhe(m): 9:24am On Jun 15, 2016
Hello! Please i need your assistance. I just started fiverr,and i have delivered my first job. But anytime go to buyers request its always telling me i need 90% positive rating before i can make new offers. Please what does this mean and what can i do to rectify it.
Thanks!

Education / Re: 16 Strange Things Banned Around The World. by Haryomhe(m): 3:01pm On May 23, 2016
Nice one op! Thoroughly enjoyed the thread. Mods, front-page plz!

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Romance / Its Not Love But Its Very Close by Haryomhe(m): 10:01pm On Jan 02, 2016
…it is not love but it is very close.”
Love is perhaps the most important word in the English language – and the most confusing. Books abound on the subject of love, Television and Radio talk shows deal with it. But with all the attention on this same subject we know very little about it. This is very strange because we use it in thousands of ways; I love noodles, I love my mom, I love Nigeria, I love Chelsea, the list is endless. We have fallen in love with love but we don’t understand love.
Falling in love is very different from the real thing called love. Yes, you read that right. In fact, a large chunk of what we call love today isn’t love. Whether it is crush, infatuation or whatever, it is just a part expression of love and not the real love. I mean if it is true love, why do we stop feeling the crazy rush of emotions we felt in our early dating days. A lady once said, if a guy stop acting nice after having sex with his girlfriend, he probably never loved her. Well as true as that sound, I beg to disagree. I mean have you not heard pf married couples who break up after 10, 15, 20 years of marriage and people who date for 2, 3, 5 and even 10 years then break up. I believe the first problem with us today is having a big misconception of the possible emotional ties. Let’s briefly discuss the common few:
INFATUATION: the Macmillan English dictionary defines this as “a strong feeling of love that seem silly especially because you don’t know the other person very well.” Have you ever met someone for the first time and feel strongly attached to them afterwards? You find yourself acting in ways you could never imagine. You are not just yourself. You probably couldn’t get yourself to talk to them or get to meet them but you fantasize about them and it all ends there. It is not love, its infatuation.

“…every form of emotional attachment that is not real love
Is just a part expression of love, not the real love itself…”

CRUSH: this is perhaps the most common today. “It is a strong feeling of love and admiration for someone”. It is not usually expressed and it most importantly doesn’t last very long. The average life span of such is about 6-12 weeks. If it is more, it’s probably something else. If a relationship starts from this, what happens after 12 weeks?
Other not-so common forms of emotional include Mash, Passion etc. Mash is a feeling that seek the affection of someone or the desire to flirt with someone. Passion is a strong feeling of enthusiasm for something or someone.
For so many of us falling in and out of love, this I believe is the daylight between what we are doing wrong and what is right.
It’s funny how the person you fall in love with becomes the most beautiful or handsome human on planet earth; how flawless they sound, appear and seem to you; how ecstatic you feel; how nothing seem more real to you anymore; how words are inept to describe how you feel; how certain you are that you are truly in love. This is the illusion caused by falling in love. You have it all planned out, peoples opinion or perception about your lover doesn’t matter to you, it seem like you have the whole world in front of you. This is the in-love obsession. It is the body’s way of responding to discovering a deep emotional attraction and the euphoria of this obsession triggers the nervous system to respond with such emotions. It is euphoric, ecstatic and instinctual but it is not the real love and it does not last forever; the average life span of the in-love obsession is about two years after which the couples. You start seeing the flaws in your partner, and the things you never really cared about now become big issues. At this point they either break up and seek new experience or learn to love the real way.


“…at the heart of human existence is the desire to be intimate and to be loved by another.”

The real love experience requires effort and discipline. Our most basic need is not falling in love but to be genuinely loved by another and to know that true love grows out of reason and choice not instinct. This is what the whole of humanity crave for. You hear people say “I want him to love me for who I am”; this is simply because we all want someone to look at our imperfections and love us regardless. Real love is volitional. It is the choice to expend energy in an effort to benefit the other person knowing that if his/her life is enriched by your effort, you too will find a sense of satisfaction – the satisfaction of having genuinely loved another.

alukoayomiposi.
Romance / How To Move On From Loving "The Wrong One " by Haryomhe(m): 2:55pm On Oct 19, 2015
HOW TO MOVE ON FROM LOVING THE “WRONG ONE”
Most of us if not all of us have fallen I love with the “wrong one” at one point or the other in our lives. Some of us actually get to date the “wrong one” and later discover how stressful it can be. Falling in love is one of the most beautiful elements of human life howbeit, when it is with the “right one” I mean, falling in love with someone who loves you back almost as much as you love them.
One is tempted to ask, isn’t that the whole essence of love? Yea, I think so too but some of us just find ourselves head over heels in love with people that will just never fall in love with us, not even for a moment in their life. That’s exactly what I mean by “the wrong one”.
We get to ask questions like, who is to blame, ourselves, the other person, God, fate or any other thing we can attach our frustration to. Most times it all falls back to us and we put the blame on ourselves. I mean, you obviously can’t blame someone for not loving you, they probably like you or don’t just feel that way. Maybe, “I should have handled the situation better” or, “I think i was under too much pressure” or “maybe I over-stepped my boundary” or “I was just too vulnerable” whichever way, the fact still remains that you can’t force yourself on someone especially when both of you are not on the same page emotionally.
These are few tips that can help you move on from being emotionally attached to someone who will never love you back.
· ACCEPT THAT THEY WILL NEVER BE: yes, I know its unimaginable considering how hard you wish they were yours every day, how you tell your friends you’ve found the “one”, how you day dream about you two being together. But you have to come to terms with that reality, talk to yourself and accept that it’ll not happen. I can affirmatively tell you that a girl/guy that will not love you now will probably never do no matter how hard you try. The thought will actually hurt you but it’s the truth so, just get used to seeing him/her that way.
· TAKE THE BLAME: accept the fact that you made the wrong move and criticize yourself, it only strengthens your ego and self-belief in the long run. You get to have better judgment when presented with another opportunity. You will be more experienced in handling emotional issues and yes, that life.
· NEVER BE BITTER: anyone who has been in this kind of situation can bear witness to the fact that you are confronted with a variety of emotions at the same time. Bitterness, anger, self-pity and so many others. It’s ok to be angry, howbeit, with yourself. It’s also ok to pity yourself but NEVER BE BITTER. It’s only humane to greet failure with criticism of the task you fail at. We often criticize something we fail at, tending to shift the blame just to protect our ego and self-esteem but being bitter is not the solution here. It’ll only lead you into taking immature and childish decisions.
· DO NOT WITHDRAW IMMEDIATELY: this is the mistake most people make when in this situation, they want to back off immediately and tell themselves they don’t care about the person anymore but once you know someone, you obviously cant ‘unknow’ them. An event doesn’t become history in a day. Check on him/her once in a while, show him/her you still care but you know better now and they are not as important to you as they were before. But, never make the mistake of retuning back to them because they pity you. Just be good for the sake of being good.
· GET BUSY WITH YOUR LIFE: the whole idea behind falling in love is being selfless, sharing and considering your partner before taking decisions. But when it’s all just you, the least you can do is to get busy with your life and invest in yourself. The time you spend thinking about them or being around them can be channeled into developing yourself. Get busy chasing your dreams, find things you are capable of and get busy with them. It makes moving on easier and you get to attract ambitious people into your life while achieving your goals.
· INVEST IN PEOPLE: most people lose friends and valuable relationship in the process of chasing or looking for love. Why not invest in friends and people around you, take 3, 4 or 5 of your friends out, enjoy their company, have fun with them, do things for people simply because they are your friends. Do well for no particular reason. It helps takes your mind of wrong emotions and help you value good and healthy relationships.
· LEARN TO HAVE FUN WITH YOURSELF: many of us cannot even live our lives without people being around us unnecessarily. Not that it’s wrong to enjoy life with people or with the ones we love but its less dramatic if we learn to have fun with ourselves. Your life doesn’t have to depend on someone. Find fun stuffs you can do on your own. Watch movies, play video games, read books, write, travel, just do whatever you can to have fun with yourself.
Time heals everything, the pain of rejection you feel right now will not always be there, it all wouldn’t matter in a little while. Stop getting worked up over someone who doesn’t care about you, prepare yourself mentally and psychologically for the next right relationship, spice up your life and have fun.
source : https://alukoayomiposi./2015/10/19/how-to-move-on-from-loving-the-wrong-one/
Celebrities / Re: Check Out This Patoranking's Outfit: Hit Or Miss? by Haryomhe(m): 5:19pm On Sep 29, 2015
Over the bar!
;DOver the bar!
Phones / Re: Which Song Do You Use As Ringtone And Why? by Haryomhe(m): 10:19pm On Sep 12, 2015
"on top of the world" by imagine dragons. Inspirational song!
Celebrities / Re: Danny Glover And Tim Reid In Lagos Ahead Of #93Days "Ebola" Cast Unveiling by Haryomhe(m): 8:20am On Sep 11, 2015
I think Mr. Glover is perfectly suited for this kinda script. Just like he did in the movie "Toxin"
Politics / Re: Fayose Donates N500000 & Okada To A Crippled Cobbler (photos) by Haryomhe(m): 7:09pm On Sep 09, 2015
500,000 naira, cool; okada?? For a crippled man Fayose is a big-fat clown!

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Nairaland / General / Nothing Lasts Forever! by Haryomhe(m): 3:13pm On Sep 07, 2015
I have been converted!
I am now a faithful believer in the concept "TIME".
The nostalgic feeling that comes along with the thoughts of who I was two, three, four, five years ago is my biggest conviction. Not that I was a bad person, not that I was a "low-life", uninspired or just another young boy walking the surface of this planet without a real idea of what "life" really is.
No! I was much more than that. I just happened to be someone in his own world, living by the moment and doing things his own way. I cannot categorically say I can remember much of who I exactly was some years back but one thing is sure, I was not half the person I am right now.

"Dreaming only lasts until you wake up and you find you’re not asleep.
Silence only sticks around till someone in the room decides to speak.
Luck runs out and hearts go cold, we’re only young until we’re old and summer leaves us wondering where it went.
The friends you have can disappear, the whole world can change within a year and money only lasts until it’s spent.

Truth will change and time will fly, the party lasts until the wine is gone.
This time next week the radio will change its mind and play a different song.
We stay in touch till we forget, beauty fades the kiss will end and fame will love and leave you just as fast.
You’ll have it all Until it’s gone the books get burnt and statues fall, sometimes feels like nothing will ever last".

Those were the words of my favourite musician and songwriter, Emily Sandé on her track titled "Lifetime" from her album "our version of events"
Although, when she wrote this song she claimed it was a transition period in her life, when she had to choose between what she was doing (who she was) and who she is right now. But the fact still remains that nothing, I mean "not-a-thing" lasts forever. Not wealth, not health, not power nor position and not even "the greatest element of human life; love". They all would disappear with the moment. Indeed, time changes all things!

Two years ago, Range rover sport was the proof of wealth among Nigerian artistes but right now every one is hustling to get a mercedes benz G-wagon.
In men's fashion world two years ago, no one would have thought we would be rocking the present craze of vintage shirts with brouges.
Its funny how things that hurt some days, weeks, months and years ago don't matter anymore. Its funny how you move on from that heart break that seemed liked the end of the world, its funny how the exam you failed in secondary school doesn't matter anymore now that you are in the university.
All these are evidences that converted me. Its all going to pass away with time! Its pointless chasing or holding on to ephemeral things when I know they wouldn't matter in a couple of years.
This is not to say am against luxury, No! In fact, am a lover of the luxurious items. Just that I strongly believe that a fine line should be drawn between things that are ephemeral and important ambitions. More energy and time should be channelled into acquiring assets that brings luxury.
Romance / Re: Guys, What Would You Do In This Situation? by Haryomhe(m): 10:25pm On Sep 05, 2015
Sabrwahaqqo:
The question is what did you do?
declined politely. Told her am taking a different route.
Romance / Re: Guys, What Would You Do In This Situation? by Haryomhe(m): 10:24pm On Sep 05, 2015
Hazardd:
what do you do then?
declined politely. Told her am going thru a different route
Romance / Re: Guys, What Would You Do In This Situation? by Haryomhe(m): 10:22pm On Sep 05, 2015
falconey:
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yes.
Romance / Guys, What Would You Do In This Situation? by Haryomhe(m): 8:56pm On Sep 05, 2015
I was going to church on a particular evening (about two weeks ago), then a lady walked up to me (next door neighbour, though we rarely talk) that I should act as her boyfriend while she walks across a particular street. She claimed some guy (among her numerous "toaster"wink are waiting for her and she doesn't have time for unnecessary conversation with anybody.
Guys, if you were the one, what would you do?
Nairaland / General / Re: Question Of The Day:- What Is The Hardest To Catch The Faster You Run? by Haryomhe(m): 7:47am On Jul 21, 2015
very simple.. breath
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Haryomhe(m): 1:57pm On Dec 08, 2013
My blackberry curve3 is giving me this "enter MED code" stuff.. My pin is 23419B44, My IMEI is 353933.04.395240.2 please help me!
Romance / Re: Ugly Girls Have Better Guys, WHY? by Haryomhe(m): 7:17pm On Nov 09, 2013
U really need to see me nd ma gf, best combo ever, fyn gurl + fyn boi!

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Education / Re: Updates From President Jonathan & ASUU Meeting by Haryomhe(m): 12:12am On Nov 05, 2013
Ahah! 00:12 na meeting or vigil?
Education / Re: Updates From President Jonathan & ASUU Meeting by Haryomhe(m): 11:56pm On Nov 04, 2013
Why ar we all tinking smth gud can come out of diz meeting?!
Education / Re: The Present Strike May Last Up To 5 Years If FG Remains Adamant - ASUU by Haryomhe(m): 6:17am On Oct 23, 2013
5yrs ke, even if it wud be very protracted it cant enter the election year. #positive
Romance / Re: Do Guys Cry After Being Dumped? by Haryomhe(m): 2:57pm On Oct 21, 2013
I may be pained to d bone (..if i truely love ha..) bt crying is definately outta d picture.
Education / Re: ASUU Strike: Forget Media Reports, No Progress On Discussions With FG by Haryomhe(m): 1:48pm On Oct 21, 2013
[quote author=drered][/quote] this dude is high on expired weed!
Education / Re: ASUU Strike: Forget Media Reports, No Progress On Discussions With FG by Haryomhe(m): 9:56am On Oct 21, 2013
We dnt even knw wat to believe in our press reports nw, *smh for FG o!
Celebrities / Re: Peter Okoye and Lola Omotayo Are Engaged! by Haryomhe(m): 11:29pm On Aug 06, 2013
Laila Ikeji: And Lola said yes...
Lola Omotayo has two kids for Peter - Cameron and Aliona.
Big congrats to them.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2013/08/peter-psquare-proposes-to-lola-with.html
why she no go say yes whr range rover dey!!
Politics / Re: Marriageable Age Of Places Around The World by Haryomhe(m): 8:47pm On Jul 21, 2013
The only thing i can imagine here is a 9yrs old gurl telling her friends "thats my husband" ...crazy!
Entertainment / Re: 8-Yr-Old Boy & His 61yr-Old Wife Enjoying Married Life (Pictures) by Haryomhe(m): 3:02pm On Mar 26, 2013
Craziness at its peak!!!
Politics / Re: Did You Vote Jonathan In 2011 And Will You In 2015? by Haryomhe(m): 6:59am On Mar 19, 2013
I didnt bt i may be forced to if there is no suitable candidate.
Education / Re: Policemen Threaten To Shoot & Arrest UNIABUJA Students by Haryomhe(m): 4:28pm On Feb 18, 2013
They shld come and learn from great ife students!!!....

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