@OP
Your issues have nothing to do with tribe but more to do with living in close proximity to your family after marriage. The best cure is to move far away from them as soon as you can afford it.

It is easier being a man. Too many issues being a woman, just too many! From hair/skin/nail care to time spent on clothes/shoes to naturally monthly stuff and then the societal pressures. I would rather be man if I had a choice.

Idowuogbo:
And sexy.....

Abi o!
Instead struggling with a 30kg bible

I will not be offended.
It doesn't bother me where he reads the scripture from as long as he is quoting God's word. I am more concerned about his interpretation.
Infact, using Ipad makes the pastor look trendy.

If he/she has several bags and you are in a position to aid, then it is fine. If it is just a bag then let them be.

May his soul rest in peace

amu ukwu:

na who go washing am when e dirty?
meanwhile wetin you dey miss?

To wash am easy nah; one babe go dey buy and another mbgeke babe go dey wash! QED!

I no know wetin I dey miss o; abi you wan show me something?

Where the drinks for dis beer parlour? Abi na only gist dey the place?

amu ukwu:

Respond to the bolded.
Spend small ke, you know hear say Kim K buy "Lambo gini" abi na wetin be the name of that car sef, for Kanya West. tell them to spend big on us, no be only boxers and singlets them go dey buy for us.

You kuku see boxers and singlets and you still dey complain! You suppose give thanksgiving for dat one o, some boys no dey see free groundnut sef.

MRbrownJAY: there are many other things to worry about in r/ships, the fact that such a small issue is a big deal to you is alarming. what is next on your list? how much more do you think you can control this lady?

the lady CLEARLY told you before that she sees nothing wrong in double dating, yet you now are trying to change her. lol, bro, you are confused. whether she still seeing the guy or not is irrelevant here.

Abi o!

@OP
The girl already told you she can double date for financial reasons and also that the other guy helps her financially; what other hint do you want?
Abeg make I go drink fanta jor!

::Andrew:::
I have had series of arguments with different ladies concerning how I will act with ma wife when am married and have kids.
I am a bosoms loving guy and had always planned to make sure my children feed only on baby food, never to go near my territory.
If you happened to be my wife and I instructed you not to feed my bosom to the baby except baby food, how will you react?

Ok what if after series of arguments I agree that me and the baby will share one each, no one crosses the border to another. The
smallest person takes the smallest size. ladies only please reply. 

Funny guy.
So while the baby sucks one, you will balance on the other!

sweet_jummie: @hbabe,I intend to confront him wen next we met,because we do not live in dsame state, we only see each other once a month,I bliv he truely luvs me because he came see my mother concerning our r/ship and he assured her dat our introductn will take place b4 d end of dis year,@konnecktions146,his not yet aware dat I know his cheating on me,I intend ton confront him wen we met face 2 face,his regards his maturity,his just 25yrs but his very handsome,he just got got a job dis year wit a bank after rounding up his nsyc late last year,ever since he started working,dat was wen I notice via his fb inbox dat he has been flirting around wit other girls

I am glad that you decided to confront him, take it easy sha o.
Remember don't enter the kitchen if you cannot stand the heat. Before you venture into marriage make sure that you able to stand his excesses o; because his cheating is likely to get worse o.

I advise you confront him and tell him how his cheating affects you.
The weird thing is that so many guys who cheat, actually love their partners and cheating is just a way of having fun just like some like partying, hanging out with friends or drinking beer in beer parlours.
Talk to him and hope he changes; if he does not/is unable to change his ways then you have some serious thinking/decision to make.