Women with their mimetic approach to something gives me headache often.

Why is it that women love to immitate each other when it Comes to business?

My friend is selling recharge cards, I want to sell too.

My friend is into beads, I want to do that too.

My friend uses ankara to do shoes, I will learn it too.

And so on.

Must they do the samething? Like five friends into same business then who will patronise them.

My point is women don't usually think of what to learn or sell, all I see them doing is if Mrs A is doing something and is moving, like 80% of women around her will want to do the samething.

In a street like ten woman selling provisions, then I asked myself who will buy from each other at the long-run.

Its just an advice, please women try and think, create passion, and go for it because imitating someone won't take you anywhere.

Thanks.

Abeg no go inside ikrd 2moro starting frm benson b/stp nd upward, cos 'oro' go dey 2moro nd its applicable to both male&female. Due to d rituals 4 d oba's death/funeral...God save us all

Every human being in life has right to live life to the fullest, but as for celebrities it is other way round with the kind of cameras that followed them here and there, but as for me I still think the male still enjoy being a celebrity to the female.

The female are deprived of so many things when it comes to enjoying their life to the fullest.

What do you think?

I have been dating this girl for a few months now and all has been going really well. I have been looking forward to valentin's Day, planning gifts for her and eagerly awaiting what treats lay in store for me. Imagine my shock horror when a few days ago, she told me she doesn't believe in Valentine's Day and doesn't particippate in the 'farcial' celebration. I'm so dissapointed. What do you think I should do? because am confused if she loves me or not.

Notin lyk dat, both parties should continue with more letters cuz we Nigerians need to know somethings aBout dis people that are hidden and thank God Al-Mustapha got involved in dis...

As a guy i just need to be candid here because I can't remember when last have wooed a lady before, all we do now is just to show some care be it in anyway and before you know it ladies have affections for you.

All we need to know here is that, is this not wooing attitude really working at the. Long run for both party involved? because I always believe sharp guy see it as opportunity and that only come but ones in life time.

Most ladies that fall victim of this do regret from it because the guy at initial stage know what he intend to achieve.

Ladies of nowadays are easily carried away when guy sweet talked them due to their soft brain even if they are in a relationship or not they still make this stupid mistake.

But the problem guys have faced with this attitude is more than that of the ladies which include the following---

1. Settling down with someone we don't have affections for.

2. Contacting different kinds of disease.

3. Either affecting or delaying of what God plan for us.

4. Putting oneself under unnecessary pressure be it spiritually or psychologically.

5. Because we see it as opportunity we do it anyhow forgetting nemesis.

With all these listed above some guys still escape it but most guys fall victim of atleast one of them.

What do you think?

My relationship story is all about tom and jerry thing because my girlfriend usually give me a problem due to her pride.

Am in a relationship of more than ten years if am not mistaken, every little thing result to quarrel, and we can go months before we could settled it because of pride (she does not care and i don't either) and that how we have being running our affairs.

To our surprise, we've being enjoying it that way because whenever we settled it, it look and sound as if we are just meeting for the first time, but come to think of it most relationship like our's have failed even not up to our own case here.

However, of recent she has being acting differently to me, this days she can no longer go for a day without talking to me, I don't want to believe that maturity set in for her, but I want to believe age is no more on her side and she needs to settle down and to achieve that she needs to be serious at all cost, because she is around 26 now if am right.

In conclusion, I want to know which one to believe because the environment we found ourselves it is very obvious that most ladies of this days toy with guys heart especially at the age of (16 to 24) but immediately they realised age is not on their side they started claiming good girl. Why is it like that? Of which we guys at that stage now want to enjoy life because at that time some dreams would have been achieved.

What do you think about this?

What bout ALIKO DANGOTE?!!
Is he also giving most his money to CHARITY?
Just asking

LAST BOMB: if all this billionaires and millionaires gives
this huge percentage of money to "CHARITY", then CHARITY
Is suppose to be the Richest person in the WORLD!!
Now my question is, "Who is this CHARITY.



Am also thinking of that too, we need to find this person I think.

e: 9 Things To Avoid After A Breakup by cosmatika: 8:48pm On Oct 29

Wow, dis is d best thread I'v seen on NL dat affects me directly. I wz a victim to all d 9. But I later blocked her frm all my social networking sites. But d thing is, it's almost 2yrs now she left and I still feel uncomfortable weneva I see ha. And d big prob is dat she's my coursemate and we still hav lyk 2yrs to leave d medical skl so I still see ha everyday in class and clinic.

Guy all u nid is to always be urself, always look good, always be with ur friends avoid lonelinesss

Make use of good perfume, change ur wordrope, believe in urself, be among the best in class

Greet her first and be confident enough all time


Is a good idea, weldone mr. President and i think Fashola should be ready to work too even not for anything but just for the sake of our federal road and electricity. MEGA CITY IS AROUND THE CORNER.

I have a girl in my life, she's caring and loving.
we started our relationship ten years ago, btw us everything was cool and calm but later at the long run, i mean two years in the relationship i got an admission into higher institution and she looses trust in me, with the believe that am dating someone in school and she started acting funny which led to ending the relationship. But two years later after i finished my ND we agreed to continue the relationship, while the first year coming back together she was so wonderful and marvellous with the way she handled situation with me and everything btw us went fine and okay. The girl fortunately for her joined a force and after training she started working and ever since i hardly undastand her but somehow i still believe she loves me.
My problem with her is that if i don't call her for a week she will not bother to call and whenever i eventually called to complain she started bragging that i refused to call her all this while. If i may ask, my believe is if she does not hear from me i expected her to show some care because that was her for me at the initial stage.
Presently we've been quarrelling for more than three months now all because she refused to show me love and care and now she intend coming to my place on Friday.
What do think i should do or say?