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Career / Re: Lady Who Works In A Palm Oil Mill In Akwa Ibom Flaunts It Online (Photos) by HopeLoveLife: 9:07pm On Feb 19, 2019
delugajackson:
I can't remember the last time I saw a Nigerian lady tyeing wrapper. It's either they put on trouser, shimi, bum-short, crop-top, open-back, low-waist, short-skirt, macroni or spaghetti. They never see the need to embrace our African culture.

Too much modernism has caused so much damage to the African society. That's why there seem to be a rise in nudity and obscenity of all sort, which in turn has caused the society to judge women in a certain manner. May God bless our mothers.
Lol if they tied wrapper now, you will most likely blame it for one of the reasons you cheated on her...not you literally.

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Health / Is Schizophrenia A Physical Illness Or A Spiritual One? by HopeLoveLife: 9:00pm On Feb 19, 2019
Good evening, for some of you who may not not know what Schizophrenia means, the simple definition is hallucinations, depression, anxiety, unorganized thoughts etc it is a very rare mental disorder but there are many people out there suffering from this mental disorder without the family having a clue of what is going on with the person .

Families who live with Schizophrenia patients are the ones to suffer most, infact 99% of the suffering is on them, as they are faced with shame, anger, frustration, suicidal thoughts etc all because one person feels the world is against him or her and gets completely brainwashed by the auditory voices making he or she to live an unbearable life as they are usually agitated, fighting neighbors, false accusations on others, refusing to reason like every other person, becomes 100% suspicious! Wow! Trust me, you do not want an enemy to go through this.

I have a friend, whose mum suffered from this mental illness and as we all know, there is really no cure for Schizophrenia according to science, but I was extremely shocked at how my friend's mother became 100% healed! Like how on earth is that?

Well, a relative of mine who is her best friend asked her about it, she opened up and made some shocking revelations , especially about how she had to carry a sacrifice for her and so many other things she had to do just to free her mom from these evil voices and truly, her mom is perfectly sound and healthy today.

Science has proved that it can't be cured, but spirituality proved otherwise. I won't deny that I don't and will never like the idea of carrying sacrifices as that seems devilish to me, and remember it is give and take with the devil.

Anyways, it is still of great surprise to me as at how her mum recovered her life back within the twinkle of an eye and I'm really happy for her as she had been battling with this for years and those years were the most devastating period for the family.

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Romance / Re: Is This A Red Flag? by HopeLoveLife: 6:14pm On Feb 16, 2019
funmisticqueen:
my advice is to do some digging, ask his ex some questions, find out his relationships and friendship history.

Nothing is wrong with drinking but does he drink excessively? Have people told him to stop drinking before and does he get angry when they do so? Does he get drunk often? Does he do it first thing in the morning?

What are his values? If his hair is dyed gold, does he always dress flamboyantly or brightly? Is he easily irritable and hyperactive? Does he seem too much in your/ other peoples business(intrusive)? Is he capableof remorse and change? Get to know him more and find out.

Seeing as this is your first impression keep it in mind. But still treat him well with respect and emotion.
You are absolutely right... I need answers to the following and I'll only get these answers once I get to know him better.
Thank you so much.
Romance / Re: Is This A Red Flag? by HopeLoveLife: 6:13pm On Feb 16, 2019
Splinz:


You're simply making assumptions upandan. smiley

Calm down. Get to know this guy well and see if there's any possibility of settling down with him. And most importantly, be mindful of the fact that there's no angel out there.

So yes, you're overreacting and getting unnecessarily nervous.
Thank you for this cheesy
Romance / Re: Is This A Red Flag? by HopeLoveLife: 6:13pm On Feb 16, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:
Why not date/know him for like a month before you start passing judgment
Okay, I'll try to get to know him first... Thank you...
Romance / Is This A Red Flag? by HopeLoveLife: 5:07pm On Feb 16, 2019
....So in my pursuit of finding a suitable spouse, note that I'm not desperate but extremely and really careful not to end up with the wrong man reason why I'm a bit picky.
My ex would have been perfect but life got in the way... Okay enough of that angry

Recently, I got introduced to this young good looking comfortable guy by a friend of mine. I met with this guy and to him, he has found his wife lol my friend gave him good recommendations about me so.... lol . Anyways, these are the red flags after spending just few minutes getting to know him in his car:

1. He has part of his hair dyed - gold (side front line)

2. I think he drinks, though I have not asked him but he was comfortable waiting for me in a bar which I refused to meet up with him there.

3. He told me about his previous relationship and how he was supposed to be married late last year, done introduction but due to a slight argument his fiancee left and even aborted her pregnancy for him shocked

According to him, he is glad she left as he could have ended up with a murderer but going back to my room, I asked my self... What on earth could have prompted his ex to go all the way to terminate the pregnancy of a man she was about to marry? What kind of deep situation could have led to such horrible thing?

This got me a bit scared, or am I just overreacting for nothing?
Celebrities / Re: Dj Cuppy Shares Her Make-up Free Photo by HopeLoveLife: 9:29pm On Feb 03, 2019
This kain bed no be for person wey dey wake up early mor mor like 4am go work and the kain dreams you go get on this kain bed ehn.... Make I no just talk...
Religion / The Blood Of Jesus Works Wonders! by HopeLoveLife: 1:42pm On Feb 03, 2019
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Romance / Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 10:55am On Dec 24, 2018
spiralwedge:
HopeLoveLife, please move on.
Yes I'm doing that...trust me... thank you...
Romance / Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 9:57am On Dec 24, 2018
solz007:
Wow!! This Post reminds me of this Book I read on how one should do relationship God's way. I really enjoyed the post. it's more practical Thanks for sharing!!

Yo! I really love what you did, a lot of us don't mind putting Money or an individual above GOD but you trusted God by not denying Him irrespective of how deeply you've Loved this guy.
About the guy, keep praying for him God will surely touch his heart and draw him closer to HIMSELF. I kinda feel his really your Soul mate which God made you guys meet each other so you can tell him about God's Love for him. more like that's your Husband in the making all you gotta do is to win him for Christ.
Read books that'll educate you on how to convert him and if possible let him watch Christian Movies like God's Not Dead that's centered on the existence of God.

Finally, Wouldn't you wanna see him in Heaven?? even when you Don't end up with him, Wish him Heaven by working towards winning him for Christ.
there's this book I read The Call Of Emily Evans in one of the chapters this unbeliever that was converted Lost her son and then she stopped going to Church and Believing in God! then Emily Evans the Missionary In that Neighborhood asked her these questions. Do you Believe your son is in Heaven or Hell?? her reply was Heaven Emily was like wouldn't you wanna See him again in Heaven? with this she had a second thought and started coming to Church. guess I've typed a lot, I got little point In this just pick something.
#SaveASoul!



Wow! Your comment really lifted my spirit! Thank you so much...this is very very inspiring!!!!


I'll try tofollow up your advice, and you are right.. of course I'd love to see him in heaven... hummmmmm...i'll take this up, not because I want him back but to help him discover God's amazing love.

I felt he was my soul mate too based on the fact that, before he came into my life, I had always fallen for the wrong guys and my relationships usually don't last... Like after few months, it is over. So that year I met him, I had a 7-day prayers and fasting (6pm) asking God to direct my God ordained husband to me. I was very specific about my needs, though I told God I would accept anyone He has chosen for me, but He should make me love this person irrespective of looks or anything and I also told God to give me signs, make the man love me endlessly like no one has ever loved me before and I want to meet him in 3 months time that year. Well, that year Lo and behold after 3months I met him, and all the signs I requested for, I saw them all! One of the signs, which was number 1....i told God, I know I'd be meeting different men, but my hubby should fall deeply in love with me at first sight and ask me to be his immediately. Truly, I met many potential guys then, but none asked me out immediately, they were trying to get friendly first but when he came into my life, he didn't waste any time and all other signs were there as well, so I was confident he was my hubby then.

Now, I feel like....were my prayers answered then? How come I met him exactly the 3 months time I requested for? How come he had all the signs?

...but during the period of this relationship, I usually have this dream of seeing him with another woman or someone trying to take my place....but in reality, nothing of such.

Anyways, this is my story... I'm sad it ended, sad I'm still single at this stage of my life, sad that I have wasted so many years on someone I thought was mine... sad but grateful, no regrets all the same.

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Romance / Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 12:24am On Dec 24, 2018
habsydiamond:
maybe he is not ur man then.....u don't know what will happen if u end up marrying him.... I don't know if God used this as an opportunity to push away an evil on ur way in the future.. take heart.. and pray for a better man... I won't lie to u, he may not be like this one o... It also seems u had a sexless relationship with him... If it's so, don't be surprised that, the reason behind him being jovial, caring and all sort was to go down on u... It part of the strategy men use on ladies oo

That's my thought too... We might click so much but he just ain't mine... so sad... Yeah who knows, maybe a divorce in the future and God doesn't wants that for me. Yeah, I'm not keeping my hopes high to meet someone like him or better, just someone God has ordained for me....


About sex, I don't think anyone would keep such an act of 24hours of being romantic for almost 3 years just to lure me into having sex with him...there was no pressure at all... I'd ask him several times, he told me he loved me beyond sex and I think the hand thing helps him at times lol anyway he is not really a sex freak, he is more of caring, being sweet, kind, loving, business type of person... Just wanting to please you.

Our love was rare, super rare! You know when I see people loving up, I'd be like... Theirs ain't even up-to 20% of ours... It was too much! I haven't even met anyone who has experienced what we had... It's all good...


Thank you so much....i really haven't been able to express myself this much after the break up... bottled it all up and cry once in a while. It's nice expressing my self here... Thank you so much.

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Romance / Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 11:52pm On Dec 23, 2018
habsydiamond:
this guy really loves u...in the aspect of diverting from the religion u guy can work on it....sit him down tell him if he loves u he must remain a church goer or believer of Christ.. secondly, commitment aspect...this guy is afraid of failing in marriage that's the reason why he can't commit himself to u for marriage...he wants a better future for both of us...but his mistake is that God has plan for everybody....it can even be after the wedding that wonders will start happening.... Since u are saying u don't think u can get a man like him, it's better u go back to him and amend ur errors.

Thank you so much....


When the break up occurred, I honestly thought he was kidding lol I thought he couldn't do without me hehe anyways, well I tried talking him out of his decision but his mind was made up as he doesn't wants even his kids to be brought up in a Christian way, knowing fully well how much I love God.

I told him things will work out after marriage as God always opens doors of blessings for married couples, but all were on deaf ears especially for someone who really didn't believe in God.

We both cried once, we were so in love but letting things go was the only way out. I really do not want to hurt my self by hoping he'd change his mindset about Christianity and all....i just want God's will to be done in my life and if we don't eventually end up together, I'd still be happy he crossed my path.

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Romance / Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 11:34pm On Dec 23, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Why didn't you Atleast arrange your goals to align with his? I'd drop everything if it means being with the one I truly love.

Anyways if you are lucky, d love might rekindle.

Oh thanks hun....it was too complicated and I stated part of the reasons above in a reply to someone up....


Thank you, I hope so... But if it doesn't, life goes on but I'm so grateful I experienced that kind of love life, just few people experience such even though it was short.

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Romance / Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 11:31pm On Dec 23, 2018
Auladimeji1:
Broccoli? Are you a Nigerian because we no dey eat am for here
Lol yes I'm but he isn't.. He is the most cutest white man I ever laid my eyes on cheesy cry cry
Romance / Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 11:26pm On Dec 23, 2018
SmellySperm:
Love don chop dis one sense finish
Lol

You know when you are romance sick, then you find someone who gives you over doze of "romanticness" if there is any word like that lol

I am a very romantic lady, but when I met him... I realized I was just a learner lol people around me thought I mixed love portions for him lol
Romance / Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 11:22pm On Dec 23, 2018
habsydiamond:
With all his attributes, praise e come end like that.... I can see fish here. Is there something u are not telling us... For a caring individual to leave just like that no common...pls wetin cause the break up...I wan understand
Lol


I never cheated on him, and as far as I know he was very faithful...


Religion was number 1....he stopped believing in the Bible, Christianity and became agnostic sort of... We used to argue about everything in the Bible, even though he just gave his life to Christ when I met him because he was formerly an atheist.


2ndly....age ain't on my side, but marriage ain't on his mind for now as he wants to be a billionaire..so to say lol and wants us to travel the world, enjoy life together before bringing in kids... How long do I wait for such? Such isn't even guaranteed as anything could happen in the future and I'd have wasted so many years on him....

I mean he loved me so much, so why can't we just get married? He is very scared of commitment and children responsibilities because everyday he talked about how he pities his friend who is a baby daddy and who has two jobs, work so much just to meet his daughter needs and that scared him a lot as he only worked on weekends then, which he was comfortable with ...a good job... then during the week he works on forex trading etc.... He hates working for people.


Anyways, he thought this through after I gave him an ultimatum, otherwise we'd still be together with me hoping for a surprise proposal not knowing none is coming soon, even though he told me several times how he'd be so happy when I become his wife.


I don't understand this my self.... Looks strange.

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Romance / Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 11:04pm On Dec 23, 2018
madridguy:
Do you want him back? If yes, do you know his favorite food?
Lol what are you trying to advise me to do? His favorite food is broccoli...
Romance / Re: Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 10:58pm On Dec 23, 2018
Oyindidi:
Go and settle with him

It's very complicated hun....feelings have been fizzled out and it's best not to wake sleeping dogs...but I'd gladly say yes if he walked up to me one day and ask me to be his wife, if I'm single... otherwise no, but this I doubt.
Romance / Story Changer Has Changed my Story for Good! by HopeLoveLife: 10:49pm On Dec 23, 2018
lipsrsealed

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Romance / Re: Help Me Guys!!!! by HopeLoveLife: 9:51pm On Dec 07, 2018
samysmoothfresh:
you mean your dad stood at the door eavesdropping on your 8hrs conversation with your boyfriend?.
Not 8hours...about 45mins....loool
Romance / Re: Help Me Guys!!!! by HopeLoveLife: 9:37pm On Dec 07, 2018
kunleweb:




Someone's going to come for.my.baby soon. All dad go through this process. He'll come around.
Awwwwh you are so sweet... thanks for your kind and soothing words cheesy
Romance / Re: Help Me Guys!!!! by HopeLoveLife: 9:06pm On Dec 07, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
U welcome Miss..... Good it's all over now..... Be careful to avoid repeating same mistake...
Thank you so much, I'll watch my back next time lol
Romance / Re: Help Me Guys!!!! by HopeLoveLife: 8:52pm On Dec 07, 2018
cialis50:
Lol! Reminds of d day I was caught mastu... embarassed
Please share with us what happened in details.
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Oh by the way guys, we finally had a family meeting.... My Dad, step mom and I.... It was the most embarrassing meeting of my life...but I was able to clear myself as per being a virgin because they concluded I'm not one, and I don't think they believe I'm one after talking so wild. Anyways it is all over, but the thought of my dad listening to my conversation keeps hunting me once in a while...



I'm 27years old by the way... Thanks you all...


@greatagain17 @DanDeeBoss @Kunleweb


Lots of love guys...
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Canada Desperately Looking To Fill 430,000 Vacant Jobs by HopeLoveLife: 8:52pm On Dec 05, 2018
IamJix:


I wish I know most things, I can't know everything.
Awww okay just teasing you...
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Canada Desperately Looking To Fill 430,000 Vacant Jobs by HopeLoveLife: 8:45pm On Dec 05, 2018
IamJix:


I'd like to know what mammon is bro.
You want to know everything angry
Romance / Re: Help Me Guys!!!! by HopeLoveLife: 6:26pm On Dec 05, 2018
kunleweb:




Just like I ssaid earlier its all.in your thoughts. Take it off your.mind. here lies the first assignment
Okay thanks dear... Really doing that.... cry
Romance / Re: Help Me Guys!!!! by HopeLoveLife: 6:25pm On Dec 05, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
Though I tried everything possible to avoid eye contact with him..... Coz it makes me feel guilty.... It didn't take long for him to start talking to me...gringrin.
Hummmm I can't wait for months to pass by already.... God help me and forgive me.
Romance / Re: Help Me Guys!!!! by HopeLoveLife: 6:02pm On Dec 05, 2018
Splinz:
it's really simple.

If you can't face him here on earth, then you can as well wait till you get to hell.

I hear Sey they no dey look Uche face for there.

Inugo?
Kai I need revival
Romance / Re: Help Me Guys!!!! by HopeLoveLife: 6:02pm On Dec 05, 2018
kunleweb:



See.girl.what does your dad.like? Surprise him donhus laundry if possible. Things you used to do.around the house but stopped.for a long.time. go out buy bolo or whatever snacks and.fruits he.likes to eat make the bag big then announce your arrival.daddy I was out today and I thought about you. Give him.some.better spoiling treatment. It is.simply a nonverbal communicative way of saying.let's move behind this. No.one talks.about it.it ends there cool?
Lol thank you so much... I'll do this lol I hope anytime he looks at me he won't see me as dirty because I really ain't... The dude just teased me so much and I played along foolishly
Romance / Re: Help Me Guys!!!! by HopeLoveLife: 6:00pm On Dec 05, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
gringrin Since he's pretending, you also pretend like nothing happened.... Try to be in your best behavior... Treat him well....Give him time to heal.... Same thing I do to my dadgringrin
Hahaha okay I'll do this lool so you've been through similar case? Oh well good to know I ain't the only one.... I'm trying so much to forget, but I keep remembering all I said and it's driving me nuts

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