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Foreign Affairs / Huge Explosion Rocks Beirut As Thick Smoke Rises From Capital’s Port by Ilal: 6:34pm On Aug 04, 2020
Hundreds of people have been wounded in a huge blast that ripped through Lebanon’s capital, Beirut, according to the country’s health minister.

The massive explosion on Tuesday at Beirut’s port released a shockwave which caused widespread damage to buildings, shattering windows in different parts of the city.

The cause of the blast remained unknown.

Hamad Hassan, Lebanon’s health minister, said hundreds were wounded in the explosion.

Video of the incident taken by Al Jazeera shows a large column of smoke billowing from above an area of the port that houses large warehouses, before a large orange blast is seen and a massive dome-shaped blast wave shoots into the air.

Glass storefronts and windowless across the city were instantly shattered in the blast while videos and pictures shared on social media showed doors ripped form their hinges and ceilings filled with gaping holes.

The blast wave from the explosion caused extensive damage to buildings within a large radius of the blast site.

“I was kilometres away; the glass broke everywhere around me,” said Al Jazeera’s Zeina Khodr, reporting from Beirut.

“The explosion was felt across the city,” she added. “There is chaos in the streets.”

Source: https://ojblitz.com/huge-explosion-rocks-beirut/
Crime / Man Declared Missing Five Years Ago Found Alive by Ilal: 12:45pm On Aug 04, 2020
The UK Police have discovered a man, Ricardas Puisys, 35, who was feared to have been murdered five years ago, now living in the woods.

In November 2015, a murder investigation was launched following Ricardas disappearance, after the police concluded that he had been killed by criminals.

He was last seen on September 26, 2015, at Nightlayer Leek Company in Chatteris where he worked.

Eye witnesses, said he was seen in the company of a small group of Lithuanian men before disappearing, this prompted the policemen to begin a murder probe despite the fact that no body was found.

The police believed he was killed after the criminals exploited him.

Howeve, the puzzle was finally solved at the start of July when officers found out that Ricardas has been living in undergrowth in Wisbech, Cambs, UK.

Detective Chief Inspector Rob Hall, from the Bedfordshire, Cambridgeshire and Hertfordshire Major Crime Unit, said: “For almost five years Ricardas’ disappearance has been a complete mystery.

“That was until we received information at the end of June which led us to finding him.”

According to police, they only just revealed Ricardas is still alive on Sunday 2nd of August, 2020, in order to ensure the family that he is safe.

DCI Hall said: “A team of investigators worked tirelessly following up a number of inquiries, none leading to the discovery of Ricardas. That was until we received information that Ricardas may have been alive and still in the Wisbech area.

“Following a search of wooded area in Harecroft Road, Ricardas was eventually found living in undergrowth, very well concealed after having deliberately hidden and having not spoken with anyone for some time.

He noted that when they discovered him, they didnt announce it at first to protect and put safeguarding measures in place.

“He is safe and we are working very closely with him to ensure he remains safe, but also to ensure he gets the support he needs after having lived through extremely difficult circumstances during the last five or more years.”

The police are now investigating the potential exploitation of Ricardas.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/missing-man-found-in-the-woods/
Crime / Two Killed In Failed Attempt To Steal TV Set by Ilal: 11:36pm On Aug 03, 2020
Police has confirmed the killing of 2 Zimbabweans for allegedly stealing of 2 plasma television in Johannesburg.

It was alledged that they broke into a house , unknown to them the owner was in the backyard.

As soon as they gain entry into the house,they proceeded to loose the T.V from the wall.

The owner of the house,on hearing the noise , he peeped through the glass window to his suprise ,he saw 2 people assumed to be robbers losing his Plasma tv .

The owner ,who happens to have a gun around in the house shot them dead before they could carry it into their waiting vehicle outside the house.

Recently,there has been an increase in the incident of robbery around Johannesburg.

Though the securities are doing everything necessary to nip this problem in the bud.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/failed-attempt-to-steal-tv/
Crime / Shock As Three Men And A Woman Are Found Dead In An Apartment by Ilal: 10:28pm On Aug 02, 2020
The PUNCH reports that tragedy struck on Friday morning when three men and a woman who newly moved packed into an apartment on Reachman Estate, behind Anglican Girl Grammar School, Asaba, Delta State, were found dead.

City Round gathered that the victims, who were in their mid thirties, packed into the estate on Tuesday.

The cause of their death could not be ascertained as of press time, but some neighbours attributed the death to generator fumes.

An eyewitness, a neighbour, who spoke to our correspondent on condition of anonymity, said, “I don’t know any of them but one of them who is the original tenant on this estate is one Mr Mike from Isoko whose father was still in the mortuary before this incident.

They packed in two days ego. Since Wednesday, their door had been locked and we were wondering why they did not come out. It was in that process we informed the police.

“Policemen broke the door and found five of them lying on the floor. Four of them were already dead while one was in a coma. We immediately rushed him to the hospital. Their generator was on till 10am on Thursday before it went off by itself.”


Another neighbour, who described the incident as pathetic, also said he saw the victims packing their loads into a newly rented apartment on Tuesday. “With the look of things, it seems generator fumes killed them,” he added.

The Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Onome Onovwakpoyeya, who confirmed the incident on Friday, said the bodies had been deposited at the morgue in the Federal Medical Centre, Asaba, for autopsy.


She added, “Investigation is ongoing to unravel the circumstances leading to the death of the four occupants of the estate.”


Source: https://ojblitz.com/shock-as-three-men-and-a-woman-are-found-dead-in-an-apartment/
Romance / Woman Storms Wedding Ceremony Claiming To Be Pregnant For Groom by Ilal: 8:46pm On Aug 02, 2020
A woman crashed a wedding ceremony in Detroit and shocked guests as she claimed to be carrying the groom’s child.

Footage of the incident has gone viral on TikTok though it’s not clear when it was recorded. 

The pregnant woman turned up at the outdoor wedding while the officiating Minister was reading the vows to the couple at the dome-shaped patio.

As soon as she made her entrance, she began screaming.

She is heard saying: “Anthony! You pretend you didn’t know me? didn’t get your psych med today?

“Anthony I know you hear me! You’re acting like you don’t know me…I got your baby here!”

The minister continued reading the vows but wedding guests were already murmuring in surprise.

The bride and groom ignored the screaming woman but she didn’t relent.

At one point, a young woman, who is seen holding a bouquet in her hands, dashes out of the patio.


She throws the flowers at the woman and shouts: “You better get out of my mama’s wedding. What is wrong with you? What is wrong with you?”

Source: https://ojblitz.com/wedding-crasher-pregnant/
Family / 73-year-old Woman Gives Birth To Twins by Ilal: 6:39pm On Jul 28, 2020
73-year-old woman has given birth to twins through in vitro fertilisation (IVF) at a private clinic in India.

The woman delivered the twin daughters after doctors performed a caesarean operation.

The mother and the twins are healthy and safe as per the information from the doctors at the clinic.

The woman, Y. Mangayamma, is a native of Draksharamam, East Godavari district decided to fulfill her desire of bearing children through IVF.

She was married to Yarramatti Rajarama Rao in 1962 and she had been longing to be a mother since then.

She approached Sanakkayala Umashankar, who owns a IVF clinic at Kothapet.

Given her age, she was admitted to the hospital through out her pregnency days.

Dr. Umashankar said that the entire process was done under the supervision of cardiologist P.V. Manohar.

According to happy husband said, nothing impossible with God, the power of overcoming everything is to pray, and God will make it happen, just wait for God time because God time is the right time.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/73-year-old-gives-birth/

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Crime / Church Member Shoots Dead Armed Robbers In Church by Ilal: 6:29pm On Jul 28, 2020
Police in South Africa are investigating the killing of two alleged armed robbers at a church in Centurion municipality in Gauteng Province, local media report.

The reports say three armed men stormed Querentia Ministry Church in Wierda Park on Sunday and started robbing the worshippers.

A congregant identified as Pieter van der Westhuizen, who is a licensed gun carrier, managed to kill two of the men while another escaped.


Mr Der Westhuizen is the brother of the late Springbok scrumhalf Joost van der Westhuizen, News24reports.


“A statement was obtained from the congregant who allegedly shot the suspects and this will be submitted for prosecutorial direction,” Mathapelo Peters, Gauteng police spokesperson, was quoted as saying by JacrandaFM

Only the church’s pastor sustained minor injuries and was treated on site, the reports say.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/church-member-shoots-robbers/

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Romance / Sleeping With Your Brother In-law Is Not Cheating – Female Pastor by Ilal: 6:21pm On Jul 28, 2020
The General overseer of Life of Faith and Prosperity Ministry in Asaba, Delta State, Pastor Mrs. Veronica has made headlines once again over a controversial statement justifying adultery in marriage.

Controversial Pastor Veronica said there is nothing wrong for a married woman to sleep with her husband’s brothers because they are of the same lineage.

Recall, it was recently reported that the pastor said any man that makes love to her will be healed of his infertility problem because God anointed her honeypot.

Most social media users ridiculed the female pastor over her claims which is encouraging infidelity in marriage.

Now, the Pastor has again taken to her social media page to alleged that a wife can sleep with her husbands brother and it will not be classified as cheating.


According to her, there is nothing wrong for a married woman to sleep with her husband’s brothers because they are of the same lineage and blood, which explains why sometimes family members call their brother’s wives ‘our wife’, meaning she belongs to everyone in the family.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/mrs-veronica-infidelity/

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Family / Predicaments Of A Last Born Goes Viral by Ilal: 10:19am On Jul 24, 2020
A young Nigerian girl who is the last born in her family has written her family members a letter with a set of rules after she got tired of being the one expected to run most of the errands at home.

The girl named Mehitabelle has two older sisters named Michelle and Mirabelle and she feels they do not do as many chores as she does so she wrote a list of rules, detailing what work she is willing to do and the ones she will no longer do.


She also pointed out the areas where she expects her siblings to do better and warned them about sending her on certain errands.


She spoke about putting on the generator, being woken after she has gone to bed to put it off, doing the dishes, bathing, feeding and cleaning their dog, etc.

She also mildly addressed her parents in the hilarious letter and mentioned that she was tired of doing “boy boy” for her family.


The letter was shared on Twitter by her sister Mirabelle and it has now gone viral.

Read the full letter below :

Source: https://ojblitz.com/last-born-predicaments/
Crime / Re: Headmaster Rapes 10-year-old Girl In Yobe by Ilal: 6:41pm On Jul 22, 2020
Kobojunkie:
I hope that is not the picture of the victim included there? undecided

Nope
Crime / Headmaster Rapes 10-year-old Girl In Yobe by Ilal: 6:30pm On Jul 22, 2020
The Police Command in Yobe on Tuesday paraded Abubakar Musa, an Assistant Headmaster, for allegedly raping a 10-year-old pupil.

According to reports, the little girl (name withheld) hails from Jajere, Fune Local Government Area of the state.

Parading the suspect in Damaturu , the command’s Spokesman, ASP Dungus Abdulkarim, said Musa was with Jajere Central Primary School ,in which the victim, a primary five pupil, was schooling.

He said the culprit had canal knowledge of the victim on July 15 and 17.

“ Investigation revealed that Musa met her in the market where she sells sachet water.

“ He then picked two sachets and left after telling her to meet him in an uncompleted building for her money.

“ As soon as she arrived, he took advantage of the situation and had sexual intercourse with her.

“ It was also gathered that Musa lured the victim to a-yet-to-be identified place and had canal knowledge of her for the second time

“ We are now working with the victim to identify the second crime scene,” Abdulkarim said.

The spokesman said the matter was under investigation and the suspect would soon be charged to court after the investigation.

Responding, Musa, 37, confessed to having sexual intercourse with the victim twice, but said it was the handiwork of devil.

He insisted that he had an affair with the victim with her consent without any threat or force.

“ She has been soliciting for money from me on numerous occasions, that was what brought her very close to me.

“ It is an unfortunate incident that I regret so much,” he said.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/headmaster-rapes-girl/

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Romance / Zodwa Wabantu Accused Of Preying On Younger Men by Ilal: 6:16pm On Jul 22, 2020
Celebrity personality Zodwa Wabantu has copped the wrath of social media this week, after users on both Instagram and Twitter were unnerved by the performer ‘shooting her shot’ with a much younger man.

Zodwa Wabantu turns 35 this year, and she is no stranger to controversy. Her provocative dances and activities with her sexual health sponsors have made her a household name in Mzansi.

So, when some drama kicks off online, it’s hard for the Soweto-born star to avoid the headlines.

The booty-shaker has been deported from Zambia before, due to her risque routines. She’s been branded a ‘disgrace’ by politicians, and even faced criticism from Jacob Zuma.

However, despite these lighter incidents, Zodwa Wabantu was almost canceled in 2019 after she made ‘homophobic comments‘ on a TV show.

The Instagram comment sparked a fierce debate on Twitter, as many users questioned her allegedly ‘predatory’ behaviour.

The age gap – and Zodwa’s recent love life history – has put her right on the spot, especially considering that she recently uploaded a video of herself with another fresh-faced boyfriend this week.

But the socialite does have a few backers in her corner. A flood of fans went online to defend her actions, contesting that both parties are consenting adults. Well, that’s if Sishi takes up her offer to slide in the DMs…

Source: https://ojblitz.com/zodwa-wabantu-preys-men/
Romance / Stepmom Marries Her 20-year-old Stepson by Ilal: 11:32am On Jul 16, 2020
A 35-year old Russian Influencer, Marina Balmasheva has finally married her 20-year-old stepson she raised from the age of 7.
Before marrying her son, she first divorced her husband.

Marina Balmasheva from the western Russian region of Krasnodar Krai, lived with her husband Alexey, 45, from 2007 for over 10 years before they got divorced.

Marina also revealed that they are expecting a baby after she divorced his father and got married to him.

Last weekend, she tied the knot with her ex-husband’s son Vladimir Shavyrin who she took care of since he was 7 years old. Mother and child are now expecting their first child, a baby boy.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/stepmom-stepson-marries/
Romance / India Man Marries Both His Girlfriend And Bride Arranged By Parents by Ilal: 11:20am On Jul 16, 2020
The headline itself would have made your head spun with its meaning but let us confirm that this incident is absolutely true.

In the list of unusual ceremonies, this wedding ceremony would stand on the top where a man in India married both his girlfriend and a bride chosen by his parents, that too at the same time.

I mean it takes a minute for us to make sense of the situation but for the groom, it was probably a win-win situation.

Sandeep Uike, the groom who came a part of this unusual idea belongs to a village in Madhya Pradesh state in India, named Betul.

The wedding ceremony took place in Keria village which is at some distance from Betul. This ceremony was performed in front of his whole family as well as his whole village and everybody who witnessed this happening would have been equally confused as us.

The story of this strange incident began when Sandeep Uike, came in a relationship with a girl who resides in Hoshangabad when he was studying in Bhopal. During his courtship with the woman, his parents decided to marry him with a bride of their choice.

Naturally, this created a dispute between the Sandeep, his girlfriend, his family as well as the family of the bride chosen by parents of Sandeep.

Now to do justice with everyone, a meeting was held between these three families and they all came to the conclusion that if both the girls are ready to live together with Sandeep, then he should be married to both of them. And that is how this man ended up marrying both his girlfriend and bride chosen by parents.

The district administration is now investigating the case and also the fact that how they conducted this marriage ceremony with too many people when activities like this are strictly prohibited under the COVID-19 prevention protocols.


Source: https://ojblitz.com/groom-bride-and-girlfriend/
Romance / 9 Phrases That Can Boost Your Relationship by Ilal: 7:02pm On Jul 13, 2020
We all want to be appreciated one way or the other by those we call friends and by our significant other. There are simply but yet important phrases and compliments that should be rightly used for great result.

Note that for maximum outcome or result, you should only use these phrases only when you mean them. You should not use these phrases because you want to flatter your partner, rather use them for real compliments and see your partner blush.

Here are the phrases for your significant other:

1. I was thinking about you all day.

Probably your partner confided in you about something bothering them, it will great if you call them and say things like: “I’ve been thinking about you and I hope you are doing better,” I’ve been thinking about you, has the issue being resolved?”

This is best used when your partner told you about anything bothering them. When your partner is a top priority, their concerns become yours.

But you missed them, let them know too. It’s sweet knowing someone truly misses you. Try this phrase: “I’ve been thinking about you, I miss you dearly.”

If you are thinking about someone, let them know. The best part about this phrase is that it’s true.

We think about a lot including family, friends and our significant other each day and telling them when we can strengthens our relationship with them. “I was thinking about you and it dawned on me that we haven’t spoken in a while.” “I’m so glad you called. I’ve been thinking of you lately.”

If you desire a sweet/pleasurable relationship, let your partner know you had thought about them.

2. I can’t go to bed without hearing your voice.

This is supper romantic and it speaks volume to the ONE. It leaves your partner smiling all through the night even while they sleep. In fact, you will occupy their heart with JOY the next day.

3. You look good/amazing.

You look good is just enough.” Though you can even pair it with the one above; “I’ve been thinking about you, you look good or gorgeous or amazing, etc.” from observations, women give each other compliments all of the time. This shouldn’t be for women alone, it is okay for guys to compliment themselves too and of cause, that special one, the butterfly in your belly.

4. I love the way you see the world.

Everyone loves to be told they’re interesting or fun to be with. For instance: “Every time I’m with you I learn something new.” “That’s interesting, I never thought of it that way.” These phrases make people feel valued and well appreciated. Trust me, anytime you need someone to talk to, you’ve got an audience already because of the value you place on the relationship with the person.

Few phrases make people feel more special than the words “I love the way you think.”

You don’t need to be super creative to tell someone what you think about their role in your life.

5. The question.

People love to be asked questions even if they have no clue about the answer. Anyways, that’s not what we’re talking about today. From experience, we love to talk about what we know. Ask questions you think they have answers to and be willing to listen.

For instance: “I’m curious about your experience with jumpsuit.” “Can you tell me more about 9/11?” “I’d love to get your opinion on Mr President.” “Can I get your advice on investment?” “What do you think about going on a road trip next summer?” “What’s your Thought on dating?” “Please share your experience with me on having a healthy relationship.”

Most people love to share their experiences. They love to talk about their lessons learned. They love to know that their voice is respected and people appreciate their perspective. So when speaking to someone about a topic that is clearly important to them, ask them to share their thoughts. It’s a guaranteed way of making people think highly of you. Plus, friendships rarely fizzle out if you are making an effort to learn about the other person’s thoughts, feelings, and ideas.

6. I followed your advice.

With reference to #5 above, when people observe they’ve in one way or the other steered you in the right direction, they feel good about themselves. When someone does something for you, no matter how little and it has made a significant change in your life, let them know.

Appreciation makes people feel good/cherished. We all like it when people listen to us, but love it when we’re told we’ve been helpful and our words have made a positive effect.

7. I love your vibe.

No matter how bad a day is going for anyone when you use phrases like: “You have the best vibe or energy,” “I always feel better after spending time with you,” “With you the world stands still” they feel better and will have a smile on their faces.

“I love your vibe,” “I really admire how positive you always are,” “I always have fun when I’m with you.”

8. I miss you.

Sure you miss someone, family, friend or that special one. It’s good from time to time you send a message to your friends and family that you have not seen for a while and let them know you miss them. It’s a message from the heart.

You could reach out to a friend now and ask how they are and tell them you miss them. Tell them that you’ve been thinking about them and bring up memories that will make them smile. It takes a second, but it can help to make a friendship last a lifetime.

What about sending those lovely missing you message to your significant other? How do you think they’ll feel? Sure they’ll feel loved and valued. Ensure to tell your partner you miss them when you do. It could be during working hours or anytime at all, just let them know you truly miss them.

You could sometimes mention what you miss about your partner – (their smile, face, talk, touch, etc) or you miss their presence.

9. I saw this and it reminded me of you.

If you heard a song that reminds you of a particular period, person or your partner, send it to them. If you watched a movie and it reminded you of someone, let them know. If you see a funny pair of socks or cloth that you know a friend or partner will love, get it for them.

Words powerful, both good and bad. So, why not say the good ones? Positive words are sources of strength during our weaknesses. They give strength to the weak. It strengthens the bond between partners.

If you noticed, none of the above phrases are complicated. In fact, most of the phrases and the words that make them up are pretty small and direct. They’re also easy to remember.

Just pick a few and try them out, see the reaction you get and try to use them often – but ensure to mean every word you say.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/phrases-that-boost-relationship/
Romance / 62 Year Old Mother Of Five Marries A Nine Year Old Boy by Ilal: 1:25am On Jun 21, 2020
Baby faced Sanele Masilela is one of the world’s youngest grooms after he wed Helen Shabangu for the second time.

The ceremony was held a year after the pair first said their vows and they tied the knot in front of around 100 guests.

The wide-eyed audience looked on as Mrs Shabangu shared a kiss and a piece of cake with the groom in the South African village of Ximhungwe.

The bride is already married to her long-term husband Albert, 67.

Little Saneie said: “I told my mother that I wanted to get married because I really did want to.

“I’m happy that I married Helen – but I will go to school and study hard.

“When I’m older I will marry a lady my own age.

“I chose Helen because I love her and although we don’t live together all the time we meet at the dumping site where my mother works regularly.”

The boy originally married his wife after he claimed he was told by his dead ancestors to wed.

But his family shockingly let their youngest son marry the 62-year-old and gave a £500 gift to the bride and spent a further £1,000 for the big day.

And the child would not rest until South African traditions were honoured and a second ceremony took place to make the marriage official.

The ceremony was branded by villagers as “sickening” but the boy’s family defended the union saying it was just a ritual and not legally binding.

His 47-year-old mum Patience Masilela said:

“Sanele was fine and he was happy about the ceremony last year and it what he wanted – he was not shy.

“He was just happy to get married, very excited and was not embarrassed about it. So much so he wanted to do it again.

“After the wedding last year people keep asking them question like will they live together, sleep together, have babies but I keep telling them that after the wedding everything went back to normal nothing changed.

“Sanele moved to Venda not long after the wedding because he wanted to learn a new language, but they are very close. Our families are very close.

“It was nice celebrate with a wedding once more, it was after all a calling from the ancestors.

“By doing this we made the ancestors happy. If we hadn’t done what my son had asked then something bad would have happened in the family.”

The bride, who is old enough to be the child’s grandmother, has children aged between 28 and 38. She yesterday said she was happy with the arrangement.

She said:

“I’m very happy that the boy chose me and my family support and understand that it is part of making ancestors happy.

“One day Sanele would grow normally and have family of his own and get married one day, all this ceremony is for making ancestors happy.

“We are playing.”

The couple did not sign a marriage certificate and do not have to live together. Both have gone back to their regular lives.

Mrs Shabangu’s husband of 30 years attended both wedding ceremonies along with the couples five children.

He said:

“My kids and I are happy because we don’t have a problem with her marrying the boy – and I don’t care what other people say.”

Source: https://ojblitz.com/62-year-old-mother-of-five-marries-a-nine-year-old-boy/
Romance / What Does Your Man Really Need? by Ilal: 3:14pm On Jun 13, 2020
If you are in a relationship or not or you're already married or soon to be, at this point, take a seat.

Dear woman, you should know this: if you understand a man's need and meet it, he will love you with the whole of his life.

Men can go any length for the woman they love. But you must first play your part.

You can't do the following things for the wrong man and meet his needs. But if you are with the right man who loves you so much, consider yourself lucky and please don't take him for granted. Many women aren't these lucky to have such men.

1. He needs peace of mind/serene environment.�

As a woman, since men are created to be a provider and he is a logical thinker, he has so many things boggling his mind that he needs a calm to relax.

If you don't know how to create a peaceful/serene environment for a man, he'll look for peace elsewhere.

“Peace of mind is critical to a loving partner and for a healthy relationship”

I know that women tend to be reactive. They react spontaneously. They dish it out almost immediately like a Tennis player. But if you treat a man this way all the time, he'll prefer to stay out late, work late, hang out with the boys, hangout with a mistress or drink himself to stupor at night so that he would become deaf to your ranting and keep a stony heart.

Don’t be a woman who nags life out of your man.

“Men loves women who do not increase their pressure” because men are naturally pressured.

An average and serious man is thinking of how to make life comfortable for himself and his family, but when you increase the frustration that life throws at him, you will sell him off to a good looking and probably curvier mistress or secretary who helps him unburden his heavy mind.

As a lady, know when to discuss pressing issues with your man. Do not talk about bills when he hasn't settle his mind after a long day. Help him relax first. Talk about other things other than bills. When he’s relaxed, you can bring up the issue. Some people leave such issues pending till the next day. Don't deprive him sex when he needs it because of something he's yet to provide for you or the kids.

“Give your man peace of mind and don’t add to the troubles of his life”.

2. He needs your respect.

Do you know that the greatest need of a man is not sex? Please read that again. A man's greatest need is not sex but respect - #RespectYourMan

Don’t be dazed dear.

A man can have sex with a woman and yet don’t love her. But there’s no man who doesn't love a woman that gives him so much respect.

Try this simple trick and thank me later - Treat a man the way he deserves to be treated and you'll bring out the baby in him. “All men are babies; he’s just one with ego”.

Men love to be in charge. A man loves to be treated as a king. Men have ego and a wise woman will pamper it rather than bruise it through her ignorance or negligence.

Respect isn't about kneeling down and to carry the food on your head for him to eat from while kneeling. Respect isn't about saying "I’ll submit to you”, I’ll do this or that…”.

Respect to a man means that you don't take him for granted, you value his opinion and do what he tells you. Note: it doesn’t mean your opinion is not worth listening to, but you must first play your role by showing him you respect him and he’ll follow through with your advice. In fact, when you truly respect your man, your decision becomes his. In other words, whatever you tell him to do is what he’ll do.

In short, the summary of respect to a man is obedience.

Don’t disgrace your partner in front of his family, friends and kids when the factory is open.

Do you know why wives are advised to be submissive to their husband? It’s because some women lead independent lives, especially first born and probably the industrious ones; for them to submit to their husband will be a tough battle because they have independently made decisions and embark on projects without any help from a male figure in their lives.

However, it is very easy for a woman to submit to the right man who wouldn't treat her like a slave, but would love her as the ‘bone of his bones and flesh of his flesh’. Bone talks about support while flesh talks about covering.

An ugly woman who respects a man will get his 100% attention than a beautiful woman who lacks respect. Plus other things like making good food and so on.

3. He needs a help meet.

A help meet isn't a woman that will give him a mind-blowing sex, prepare a finger-licking meal or take care of his house; a help meet is a woman that can fill in the gap that exists in his life. This is why some refer women as a man's "better half".


He needs a woman who can help him fulfill his purpose, dreams and visions. He needs a woman who they can both brainstorm ideas for better future. He needs a woman that can cover him and support him – Bone of his bones and flesh of his flesh: Bone talks about support while flesh talks about covering.

He needs a woman that would encourage him when others give up on him. He needs a woman that can stand behind and beside him when his fears seems greater than his faith.

He needs a woman that would give him 4W's: warmth, wrestle, walk, and work with him – having your back too.

4. Have a teachable heart.

Other needs of a man include a teachable woman who can give him good food, sex and look good for him. This is why you should dress well to look your best for him because men are moved by what they see most of the time, prepare good food for him or learn if you don't know how to cook, and learn to satisfy him in bed. Don’t be timid to try new positions with your significant other.

Just be teachable – have an open heart and don’t take every correction as meaning ill about your feelings, etc.

What other things does a man needs that I didn't mention?

Share your thoughts please.

Source: http://www.juilal.com/2020/06/what-does-your-man-really-need.html?m=1
Romance / My Vagina Almost Caught Fire – Twitter User by Ilal: 8:36am On Jun 13, 2020
A Nigerian lady has narrated how she almost died from a sex-related accident which occurred while using her vibrator.

According to @webdesignher, this occurred after deciding to use her vibrator on the “highest and most violent setting” for the first time.

She tweeted;

So my vagina almost caught fire today.

Home alone so i decided to use my vib on the highest and most violent setting for the first time. I never crank it high cos: Its super loud.

It vibrates so hard that in the event that it doesnt rip my clit to shreds, im unable to hold on to it when things get slippery

Today i was like Bleep it, lets see the worst that can happen. If we die, we die noni.

I was enjoying myself then i started feeling heat on my fingers but i was like “nah its the friction from the vibration..” then i started smelling a combination of burning tyre and u know how..

(contd.) how on sallah day when they are burning the hair off the ram? Yes that was my coochie hair being singed.

The vibrator imploded, started melting from the inside and tried to barbeque my hooha. I flung it and ran to the bathroom to Tampa.

Aliexpress eshay oh. Made in China.

My biggest fear is dying from a sex related accident or having a intimacy gadget stuck in me which is why i dont trust dildos. Today my life flashed before my eyes.

Imagine them finding my dead body with barbequed vagina. I’ve learned to appreciate my own fingers.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/vagina-on-fire/
Romance / Police Officer Caught Sleeping With A Woman In His Car: What Happened Next? by Ilal: 6:02am On Jun 12, 2020
A revolting video depicting a member of the Zimbabwe Republic Police (ZRP) has left the country in stagger after it turned into a web sensation.

As indicated by a 35-second video cut, the unidentified law enforcement official is seen having a good time inside his parked vehicle, recording his best moments using his mobile phone whilst his significant other is by all accounts shutting her eyes and seem to be enjoying the act.

It is as yet not satisfactory how the undated video spilled to the internet-based life. However, judging from the mini footage, the woman in the clip did not know that her other half was recording since her eyes were closed.

In a comparable episode detailed by iHarare, a Bulawayo based Zimbabwe Republic Police (ZRP) official found himself between a rock and a hard place after his illegal relationship with a wedded lady brought about a child.

Unbeknownst to the ‘home-wrecker’, the wedded lady had lied that she was not attached to anyone in any way and ready to mingle.

The infidelity outrage just became exposed after it spilled into the courts of law.

Speaking before Magistrate Nomasiko Ndlovu, Mushandu uncovered that he was in total darkness about the fact that Moyo was generally hitched to another man during the resource of their illegal undertaking.

The court additionally heard that the complainant ended the illicit affair soon after finding that Moyo misled him about her relationship status.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/caught-sleeping-with-a-woman/
Romance / Husband Caught Stuck With A Hot Clande At Daraja by Ilal: 3:51pm On Jun 02, 2020
A woman who busted her rich husband deep in an illicit affair with a clande at Daraja Mbili area at a bar, used a popular witch doctor’s charms to make them remain stuck while in the act.

According to the eyewitnesses, the lady who was identified as Moraa was married and she suspected the husband of going out before she approached Mugwenu Traditional Doctor to help catch up with her man.

The traditional doctor says his spell casting powers work within 24 hours.

He handles general problems ranging from winning court cases, winning the lottery, protection of family and property, as well as accurate prediction of one’s future. He heals blood pressure, diabetes, ulcers, gonorrhea, syphilis, TB, and manhood weakness among other ailments.

The traditional doctor further solves life challenges, for instance, love issues, family problems, hardships in business, increases your luck which is in, winning lottery games and court cases, promotions at work and clears away devilish spirits and nightmares.

You can get the help you need wherever you are through distance healing.

Mugwenu Doctors say one of their greatest attributes is distance healing: They will work together with you, but detachment is the key to success during this healing process.

You must be in a quiet place and detach yourself from everything around you.

This is very important because your body must connect with the healing elements. On confirming the incident, police said that the two lovebirds stuck while having an affair at a local bar.

The officer called upon the area resident to stop extramarital affairs and instead remain faithful to their marriages.

With the exceptional working experience, Mugwenu Doctors can turn your problems into permanent solutions.

You don’t even need much but just a call to get your problems solved. Do not be limited by location. You can get the help you need wherever you are through distance healing.

Mugwenu Doctors say one of their greatest attributes is distance healing where you just have to focus on instructions and you will heal.

Mugwenu Doctors say they can lock and unlock. They can help you anywhere you are.

Distance doesn’t matter as long as you follow instructions. His solutions are real and come fast.


Source: https://ojblitz.com/husband-caught-stuck-with-a-woman/
Crime / Nine Killed To Cover Up One Murder by Ilal: 11:54am On May 28, 2020
Warangal Police have arrested a 24-year-old man for sensational killings of nine people whose bodies were found dumped in bore well last week.

The police stated that the accused, identified as Sanjay Kumar Yadav, allegedly murdered the nine people for covering up another murder that he had executed in March.

The police stated that the accused, a native of Bihar, had been living in Warangal for the last six years. He was in a live-in relationship with a woman, identified as Rafiqa.

Six people out of the nine deceased were Rafiqa’s kin, natives of West Bengal.

The three other men, whose bodies were recovered from the well, worked at the same gunny bag manufacturing unit as Rafiqa’s kin.

On March 6, Sanjay and Rafiqa were returning to Warangal in a train after meeting the latter’s family in West Bengal.

Sanjay allegedly strangled Rafiqa over some issue and threw her body out of the train in Andhra Pradesh.

According to a report of The Times of India, the accused allegedly mixed around 60 sleeping pills in the food consumed by the nine persons.

After they got sedated, the accused dragged them one by one and dumped them into the bore well located on the premises of a gunny bag manufacturing

After recovering the bodies from the well, police initiated an investigation. While examining CCTV footage, the investigating officials noticed Sanjay on a bicycle late on Wednesday near the gunny manufacturing unit.

Upon interrogation, he confessed to the crime. He said that one of Rafiqa’s kin named Nisha was threatening to make a police complaint against him over Rafiqa’s disappearance.

Fearing police action, he plotted to eliminate all of them.

The police said that nine people were in an unconscious state after having food laced with sleeping pills.

Sanjay dragged them to the well in the wee hours of Wednesday last week and dumped them one by one. They drowned.

Moreover, the investigation has also revealed that the accused killed his lover because she learnt about him getting closer to his daughters from the previous marriage.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/nine-killed-to-cover-up-one-murder/
Romance / Man Takes Girlfriend On Romantic Picnic, Pops The Big Question by Ilal: 11:44am On May 28, 2020
On Tuesday, a stunning lady, @lezzzley, took to Twitter to share how her boyfriend proposed.

She posted a couple of snaps - one showed her bae on a picnic blanket and the other one shows @lezzzley wearing a stunning diamond ring.

Her post read:

"He took me on a picnic and this happened."

Take a look at her post below:

The post gathered over 508 000 reactions and social media users loved the romantic proposal.

Twitter user, @juleswth, commented:

"Congratulations but more importantly - the set up this man planned out, the sorted cutlery, the traditional basket, the ice pan. Fantastic."
Another tweep, @brit_bianca, added:

"I’m glad you finally found someone that knows your worth."

Social media user, @Kittydepp_, wrote:

"So sweet he has a necklace with your name. I'm crying you’re both so lucky."

on another viral proposal. A woman detailed how her bae asked her to marry him after she gave birth.

Wendy Mawenizer Maritshi took to the #ImStaying Facebook group to share how she became a mom and a bride-to-be on the same day.

She posted a video on the social media platform and wrote:

"I'm staying because the very same hospital I gave birth at (Anncron Hospital) on the 19th is the same day I got proposed to. I was discharged as being a mother and a fiancée."

Source: https://ojblitz.com/romantic-picnic-with-girlfriend/
Romance / Ghanaian Slay Queen Confess Sleeping With Dogs In Dubai by Ilal: 12:27am On May 28, 2020
Dogs have always been “man’s best friend”, but it turns out they can also be a woman’s best sleeping partner as illustrated.

A Slay Queen who gave her name as Mona Gucci has told the world stories of how Ghanaian Slay Queens are being sodomized and forced to sleep with dogs all in the name of getting some dollars to flaunt on social media in the United Arab Emirates (UAE).

In an interview on Accra-based Neat FM monitored, Mona said some ladies in Ghana and Nigeria have been made the stooges of Dubai-based rich men who sodomize women for just pleasure during their leisure.

Mona Gucci, shocking dropped the bomb when she added that these slaying queens are also forced to sleep with dogs while the rich men in Dubai sit and watch for the pleasure of it.

In her pathetic account, she revealed how these group of rich men come together and play the game of ‘truth or dare’ and sometimes get all their friends to sleep with just one lady.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/shay-queen-mona-gucci/
Crime / Man Gives Wife Money For Upkeep After Plotting His Assassination by Ilal: 6:37pm On May 27, 2020
A Ghanaian man whose wife allegedly plotted with her lover to have him killed still showed his soft spot for her after she was remanded in Police custody for the second time by the Asokwa District Court in Kumasi.

He was pictured handing money to his wife for her upkeep in prison following her second appearance in court on Friday, May 22.

The 27-year-old woman called Mavis ‘Maadwoa’ Brepo, married to David Gator, 55, allegedly planned with her 50-year-old boyfriend, Patrick Asare, to kill her husband so they could settle down together.

Mavis Brepo and Patrick Asare were reportedly arrested after an assassin they had called to do the job turned out to be the Manhyia Divisional Police Commander.

Since their arrest, Gator has maintained her innocence, claiming that she was under the influence of a spiritual force when she planned with her lover to have her husband killed so they could both get married.

The two suspects made their first appearance in court on Friday, May 8, 2020.

Adom News reported that Gator who was in court with other family members assured his wife of his undying love as she cried profusely after the hearing.

He also gave her an undisclosed sum of money and reportedly told her it was for her upkeep in prison while an investigation into the matter continues.

The publication also claimed that Mr. Gator has long forgiven Mavis and appealed for the charges against her to be dropped so that he can take her back as his wife.

The case was adjourned to June 3.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/wife-plans-husbands-assassination/
Crime / I Sleep With My Four Daughters Because It Is Approved By God by Ilal: 9:04am On May 18, 2020
Man claims that God is in support of his act over his four daughters.

A 64-year-old man, Bassey Archibong, of No. 10 Kunle Dipo Street, Majidun, Owutu, in the Ikorodu area of Lagos State, has been arraigned for having carnal knowledge of his four daughters aged between 12 and 20.

It was learnt that Archibong had been having incestuous sexual relationship with the girls since 2016.

Archibong was arraigned on three counts of continuous sexual relationship with his daughters, failure to get their consent, and involvement in an amoral relationship with the victims before the Ikorodu Magistrates’ Court 1, Lagos.

The defendant pleaded not guilty to the charges.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/how-i-sleep-with-my-daughters/
Romance / Six Types Of People You Should Never Date To Avoid Heartbreaks by Ilal: 11:47pm On May 12, 2020
Counterfeit relationships are the ones that leave you dissatisfied. Sure, getting into a relationship is easy – the charming words, romantic dates, lavish presents and more can all seem incredibly attractive.

Sure it may all seem good and rosy at first, but sooner or later the real colours start to show.

When red flags are seen, they are usually ignored thinking it is a one-off situation. But as they continue to move along, these red flags tend to become serious problems, causing havoc to.
No person is perfect. But ignoring signs can do more damage to a relationship and cause heartbreak and pain in the long-run. Be it with men or women, here are six kinds of people to never date to avoid pain and heartbreak.

1- Never date somebody who hasn’t healed from their past.
Getting into a relationship with this person might leave you devastated for they might end up comparing you to the person in their past. This will do more damage than good since they fail to recognise that you are not and cannot be that person.

2- Never date a person who is unclear.
Whether it comes to feelings, emotions, attachments, their past, or anything else, good relationships need clarity to set a strong foundation. Statements like “let’s go with the flow,” not putting a label on what you are, ignoring your questions about their past, etc. are all red flags to watch out for.

3- Never date somebody who doesn’t meet their own expectations.
It is very easy to make things sound rosy and create a web of dreams and lies. But when it is time to act, there are only excuses and absolutely no effort.

4- Never date somebody who is self obsessed.
It is easy to spot somebody who is self obsessed – they only care about telling you their problems and need somebody to listen to them. When it comes to them listening or helping out, they vanish, tune out or just don’t care.

5- Never date a person who never accepts their mistake.
Taking the blame, owning up, showing up are all signs of a decent human being. Instead, passing the baton, making excuses for not showing up, not taking blame, etc. are all things that will come and bite you later on.

6- Never date a person who is never around.
You have to wait for hours together to get a text or a call back. They are selfish and only get in touch when they want you or miss you. Forget making you feel special and loved, they are not there even when you need them the most!.

Try this and your love journey shall be sweet.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/six-types-of-people/
Crime / Delivery Guy Caught Touching Public Surfaces After Licking His Hands by Ilal: 8:48am On May 12, 2020
A delivery driver was caught touching public surfaces including lampposts, railings and even cars after licking his hands.

The incident occurred on April 30 on a residential street in Putney, London.

In a video filmed by a resident, the man was seen walking back and forth in the street in Putney, southwest London, before he then proceeded to lick his hands and wipe his saliva on the public surfaces despite the social distancing guidelines enforced in the UK due to the Coronavirus pandemic.

Linda, the resident who filmed the video told Newsflare: ‘The delivery drivers congregate on this road waiting to take the orders, but they aren’t practicing social distancing! And then we see them do this.

‘It’s disgusting, touching our railings and our cars after licking his hands, especially in the middle of a pandemic! We have reported them to the police.’

Police reportedly told Linda that they wouldn’t take the matter further because they believe he didn’t commit a malicious attack.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/caught-touching-public-surfaces/
Crime / Re: Buhari Rapes Lady Selling Akata In Ogun State by Ilal: 8:30am On May 12, 2020
profnigga:
I don bilivit!!!
buhari must hear diz
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profnigga:
I don bilivit!!!
buhari must hear diz
Crime / I Sleep With My Daughter Anytime I Get The Urge by Ilal: 8:29am On May 12, 2020
A man who has been sentenced to 10 years in jail for impregnating his daughter who he confessed to sleep with her anytime he gets the urge to do so.

38-year old Patrick Ayesan, a resident of Iguobasuwa in Okosa area, Ovia South-West of Edo State, made the confession in Court before his sentencing.


He pleaded guilty and was sentenced to 10 years imprisonment while his daughter is currently with the State Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/i-sleep-with-my-daughter/
Crime / Re: Buhari Rapes Lady Selling Akata In Ogun State by Ilal: 8:24am On May 12, 2020
fuckingAyaya:
Na the same way the latter raped Aisha na
lipsrsealed
fuckingAyaya:
Na the same way the latter raped Aisha na
Crime / Buhari Rapes Lady Selling Akata In Ogun State by Ilal: 8:20am On May 12, 2020
A man identified as Buhari Abiola aka Eyinju, has been arrested by the Police in Ogun state for raping a 21-year-old lady selling akara.

A statement released by the state police command spokesperson, Abimbola Oyeyemi, says the arrest of the suspect followed a report from the victim who made a complaint at Adigbe divisional headquarters that while she was selling fried potatoes and beancake at church street area of Ojere, the suspect came to buy the fried potatoes and asked her to come and collect money in his house which isn’t far from her shop.

The victim said on getting to his house, the suspect forcefully dragged her into his room where he had carnal knowledge of her.

Upon the report, the DPO Adigbe division, CSP Austin Okpadile, detailed his men to the scene where the suspect was promptly arrested.

On interrogation, the suspect who denied initially, later confessed that he actually raped the girl. He told the police that he has been making advances on the victim for quite some time but she constantly turned him down. He said when he saw her selling fried potatoes that very day, he decided to use that as a bait to get her in bed, The Vanguard reports.


Meanwhile, the commissioner of police CP Kenneth Ebrimson who expressed worry about the rate at which young girls are being sexually abused, has ordered the immediate transfer of the suspect to anti-human trafficking and child labour unit of the state criminal investigation and intelligence department for further investigation and diligent prosecution.

Source: https://ojblitz.com/buhari-rapes-lady-selling-akara/

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