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Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 11:43pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Thanks to y'all that understood me. Thanks for the healthy advice. Peace, mwah! 1 Like |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 9:01am On Nov 10, 2015 |
They are his clothes. He employed her to take care of his dad and other things. So why would see something that belongs to ur employers and leave it under the rain because his gf spreads it. If I were my guy that put those clothes on the wire, she would remove. If I help him spread or help with his laundry and may be I go back to my home. He would come back from work and met his clothes soaked on the lines. I would take them if I were living there, or if I m around. I don't need anybody to do that. But see as there were other things on the lines, she removed them and left her employers clothes on d lines cuz I did the laundry, that shows no courtesy. I don't want her to serve me, u all should not take it wrongly. I have respected her, greeted her, but when someone does stuff like this, I shows no respect or courtesy for her employer and what concerns him. |
Romance / Re: I Need The Maid Gone. by ima30: 8:59am On Nov 10, 2015 |
BUTCHCASSIDY: They are his clothes. He employed her to take care of his dad and other things. So why would see something that belongs to ur employers and leave it under the rain because his gf spreads it. If I were my guy that put those clothes on the wire, she would remove. If I help him spread or help with his laundry and may be I go back to my home. He would come back from work and met his clothes soaked on the lines. I would take them if I were living there, or if I m around. I don't need anybody to do that. But see as there were other things on the lines, she removed them and left her employers clothes on d lines cuz I did the laundry, that shows no courtesy. I don't want her to serve me, u al should take it wrongly. |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 8:46am On Nov 10, 2015 |
Itsmenyou: I don't live there. The laundry wey I do sef was my guys own. Not my dresses. I only visit. 1 Like |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 8:44am On Nov 10, 2015 |
I don't live there, I only visit. I hv been visiting for seven years. She was employed this year. I have never had any issue with family, friend or helps. She was employed by both brothers to help with the father and do little things around the home. She should respect their visitors and treat her work accordingly. Simple. My guy scolded her for doing something wrong, the next time I visited I greeted her she didn't reply. I didn't say anything, it wasn't an issue. She spoke to me rudely after then, she transferred aggression cuz she knew she could not do anything about my guy scolding her. I didn't reply her, I spoke to my guy, even his dad n bro told her she was rude. And since that moment, she has been disrespectful when she can. She greets every body that walks in to that house, she doesn't refer to anybody on a first name basis, wether visitor or family. So I know her attitude to me is disrespectful. My guy spoke to her about it she hasn't burged, if what I Complained about was outrageous he won't talk to her. Even he knows she is disrespectful intentionally. I work as a secretary, I don't refer to my boss's visitors on a first name basis until I m told otherwise. I understand my office and I respect it. Even if a visitor does something unruly today doesn't mean I would see him tomorrow and call him John instead of Mr John. I m not delusional. Like I said before my sales girl is almost two years with me, security at home is three years. I know how to treat people. Thanks for y'all that adviced with out being insulting and calling me wicked. I can't say every single thing that's happens, i know I m not a wife yet, what I won't tolerate in marriage I won't tolerate in my relationship. Thanks. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Need The Maid Gone. by ima30: 8:38am On Nov 10, 2015 |
DUOz: He was told by the elder bro to sack the maid. He didn't just sack her. |
Romance / Re: I Need The Maid Gone. by ima30: 8:36am On Nov 10, 2015 |
I don't live there, I only visit. I hv been visiting for seven years. She was employed this year. I have never had any issue with family, friend or helps. She was employed by both brothers to help with the father and do little things around the home. She should respect their visitors and treat her work accordingly. Simple. My guy scolded her for doing something wrong, the next time I visited I greeted her she didn't reply. I didn't say anything, it wasn't an issue. She spoke to me rudely after then, she transferred aggression cuz she knew she could not do anything about my guy scolding her. I didn't reply her, I spoke to my guy, even his dad n bro told her she was rude. And since that moment, she has been disrespectful when she can. She greets every body that walks in to that house, she doesn't refer to anybody on a first name basis, wether visitor or family. So I know her attitude to me is disrespectful. My guy spoke to her about it she hasn't burged, if what I Complained about was outrageous he won't talk to her. Even he knows she is disrespectful intentionally. I work as a secretary, I don't refer to my boss's visitors on a first name basis until I m told otherwise. I understand my office and I respect it. Even if I visitor does something unruly today doesn't mean I would see him tomorrow and call him John instead of Mr John. I m not delusional. Thanks for y'all that adviced with out being insulting 1 Like |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 7:52am On Nov 10, 2015 |
shogz89: Please, we all work in lenard places. If u start working in a place and you see other old / younger collegues call a person Mrs or miss, you respect your self and call the person miss or Mrs until told otherwise. It doesn't matter who is older. I only visit, I would move in after marriage. I have never asked her to buy anything for me or sent her on an errand. What I won't tolerate in my marriage, I won't tolerate now. I have been with my sales girl for two years. Been with a security guy for three years. I know for a fact that I am not wicked or devilish like you people make it seem. I didn't say I need her to do anything specifically me outside her work duties. But courtesy is needed. |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 7:39am On Nov 10, 2015 |
tonyobj: I don't live in the house dear. I only visit. Thanks for your advice. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Need The Maid Gone. by ima30: 7:34am On Nov 10, 2015 |
zaragal: I don't live in the house, I only visit. What I expect of her are not outside her duties. I have never asked her to buy me anything or sent her on an errand. The least u can do as an employee is to treat people / visitors with respect and show courtesy. It doesn't matter who is who. Or who scolded you before. She was just employed this year. I have been going to that house for 7 years. I m moving in months, change won't come cuz I m suddenly Mrs. I know what I m sayin plssszz. Thanks for all the advice. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Need The Maid Gone. by ima30: 12:14am On Nov 10, 2015 |
DUOz: Thank you for understanding. Thank you. The thing is this, I m marrying my man not his bro. I should talk to my man and he is supposed to be enough to effect change. His brother's wife doesn't met my guy. She talks to her husband. I have spoken to my guy he has spoken to the maid, she did not adjust. It goes to show she is disrespectful to him. Simple. If my case were stupid like some people here think, my guy won't talk to the maid. I m rational, if u go and talk to his bro n then she changes it is obvious my guy has no say. And that is weak. He is my husband not his bro. In the future I can't be going to his bro. Thanks for understanding. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 12:04am On Nov 10, 2015 |
Nihilist: If u read to understand then u would know I am not the stupid one. I am moving into that house in months, and a maid employed by my fiancee would disrespect me. I did not say i command anybody, I have never sent her to do anything for me, never. But if she can't even be polite enough to greet because she was scolded once then she is disrespectful. Simple. It's her office, she should treat visitors with respect. She greats every other person, are they commanding respect? After all they are visitors too. Do they pay her? I have been in my relationship for years. If i can't take it in marriage I won't take it now. Understand ne Mr flavour. |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 11:56pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
[quote author=sonofananimal post=39857588][/quote] To God who made me. I have never told her to do anything for me. I have not asked to buy a single thing for me. So when I say I don't send her on errands I mean it. What I m talking about her is what she was employed to do for the house hold. She is supposed to be decent and respectful to everybody, she isn't. She doesn't call any visitor by name. She doesn't call even the youngest sister by name. I m not delusional please. We are all adults here. Its her office but some one else's home, she doesn't know the difference. 1 Like |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 11:17pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
sonofananimal: I didn't say I send her on errands oo. Some people can't read sha. |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 11:13pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
melodytoda: Wow. Thank you very much. You have understood me more than my boyfriend sef. People don't read to understand anymore. Thanks. Please advice me, I want your beautiful advice. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Need The Maid Gone. by ima30: 11:06pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
JumpingChicken: What you said is rubbish. I m talking about a place I m moving into in months. I relationship I have been in for five years. A maid that was employed this year. I can take his clothes in please. But I come back late at night and see his clothes were still on line, some on the floor. And she brought in clothes for other members of the house. And u think I m saying rubbish. Meanwhile he employed her. That is disrespectful in every sense. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 10:52pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
funkyglitz: I don't live in the house. I visit. |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 10:50pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
xp17: Please she was employed this year. I have been in my relationship for five years. I m not a baby. Her attitude changed because she was scolded by my guy for doing something wrong. The house is being run by my guy and his brother. They both have their responsibilties. They employed her to help with their dad and do other errands around the home. She should be respectful to every visitor. But she isn't. She doesn't call any vistor by their name not even their youngest sister. I m talking about disrespect here. I m not delusional. I have a shop, I have had one sales girl for almost two years. So I know how to treat people and employees. Pls. Y'all 've taken this wrongly. There has been maids before her, disrespect has never been a problem. If I tolerate it now, is it when we marry there would be sudden change. I know what I m saying pls. Thanks for the good advice. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Need The Maid Gone. by ima30: 10:32pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
F22RAPTOR: I m not any of those things. I gave her respect. I was nice, recharged her phone, gave her money to change her hair. But some people are rude and disrespectful. Every body even the father complains, she does the most unbearable things. I shall just filter for good advice. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 10:31pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
noblegrex: I said she was hired her this year. I have been with him for seven years. |
Romance / I Need The Maid Gone. by ima30: 9:21pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
Hello. I have been with my guy for five years now. We are getting married next year. The thing is we going to live in his family house, with his extended family. I didn't like the idea but I found a way to accept it seeing as its quite comfy and it means we won't have to worry about rent. Its basically a two bedroom apartment. The only thing I share with d rest of the family is back yard and staircase. He said we would do three years while he is building his own house. His elder brother who is married lives in that same building. It's the maid THEY hired this year to take care of their sick dad, that worries me. The mom is late. She is very disrespectful to me. So many things happen and when he speaks to her about it, she won't burge. All because it was the elder brother that interviewed her so she doesn't listen to almost anyone else. I spoke to my guy that I would not live with a maid that has not greeted me for almost a year or has no regard for my home or wouldnt obey him. He said he can't tell her to go because she is close to his brother's wife n she takes care of his dad. This may sound petty but it's serious. All this family house wahala, if I tell him to rent a house he would say I m not appreciating all his efforts to make sure we marry next year. I did laundry the other day came back and met the clothes soaked on the clothing line with all the rain that fell, meanwhile she brought in every other persons cloth inside. It might not be a big deal, but I don't want to resent any body I live with in my future home. I need that maid gone, how do I get rid of her? The worst part is that since they all leave together he needs his brother's approval before he does almost anything, if I complain it would seem as if I wanna cause friction between both brothers. But there has been cases where changes were made by his brother n my guy wasn't even consulted. The maid before her was paid by my guy for two years straight, she didn't insult anybody. She left cuz his brother told him to sack her. That their father needed better attention and she wasn't a good cook. Na so my guy sack d girl. No question. They brought this one now and my guy paid for some month's and stopped cuz she was rude to him n me. His bro has been paying since. But my guy still pays nepa bills n does other things to run the house. Yet when he talks to this maid she won't listen. How do I get her gone? I don't like her one bit. She just basically work for the brother n his wife. I can't even send he to buy me matches. She calls me by name, would not greet. My guy told her to stop all these things, she still didn't listen. Please. |
Family / How To Deal With A Terrible Maid? by ima30: 9:13pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
Hello. I have been with my guy for five years now. We are getting married next year. The thing is we are going to live in his family house, with his extended family. I didn't like the idea but I found a way to accept it seeing as its quite comfy and it means we won't have to worry about rent. Its basically a two bedroom apartment. The only thing I share with the rest of the family is back yard and staircase. He said we would do three years while he is building his own house. His elder brother who is married lives in that same building. It's the maid THEY hired this year to take care of their sick dad, that worries me. The mom is late. She is very disrespectful to me. So many things happen and when he speaks to her about it, she won't bulge. All because it was the elder brother that interviewed her so she doesn't listen to almost anyone else. I spoke to my guy that I would not live with a maid that has not greeted me for almost a year or has no regard for my home or wouldn't obey him. He said he can't tell her to go because she is close to his brother's wife and she takes care of his dad. This may sound petty but it's serious. All this family house wahala, if I tell him to rent a house he would say I'm not appreciating all his efforts to make sure we marry next year. I did laundry the other day came back and met the clothes soaked on the clothing line with all the rain that fell, meanwhile she brought in every other persons cloth inside. It might not be a big deal, but I don't want to resent any body I live with in my future home. I need that maid gone, how do I get rid of her? The worst part is that since they all live together, he needs his brother's approval before he does almost anything, if I complain it would seem as if I wanna cause friction between both brothers. But there has been cases where changes were made by his brother and my guy wasn't even consulted. The maid before her was paid by my guy for two years straight, she didn't insult anybody. She left cuz his brother told him to sack her. That their father needed better attention and she wasn't a good cook. Na so my guy sack the girl. No question. They brought this one now and my guy paid for some month's and stopped because she was rude to him and me. His bro has been paying since. But my guy still pays nepa bills and those other things to run the house. Yet when he talks to this maid she won't listen. How do I get her go? I don't like her one bit. She just basically work for the brother and his wife. I can't even send he to buy me matches. She calls me by name, would not greet. My guy told her to stop all these things, she still didn't listen. Please. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Food / Re: Recipe For Losing Weight..... Lose 12kg In Two Weeks by ima30: 9:58am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Pls can I Use chicken without the skin. I plan to buy a kilo and use it in place of anything meat during the 13days. I m just gonna steam it with lil salt n seasoning. Cool? |
Properties / Re: Kitchen cabinets, Wardrobes & Doors @ Touchstone Design Solutions by ima30: 12:35pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
TouchstoneNgr: Thanks for your reply, please do u have a contact person in port harcourt, a phone number or office address, it seems u r based in abuja. Thanks. |
Properties / Re: Kitchen cabinets, Wardrobes & Doors @ Touchstone Design Solutions by ima30: 8:06pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
TouchstoneNgr: Please why mfc over particle board or mdf? Also do u use mfc for every part of the cabinet/wardrobe or just d carcasses or maybe doors. Thanks. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Need Advice. I Have Been In A Relationshio For 5years. by ima30: 12:12am On Jul 23, 2015 |
MRBrownJ: Well, I really just want people's advice, I don't want to reply everyone. I have to reply yours humbly. Yes, I may not have so much trust in him right now for so many reasons in our rship I didn't put in my post. I do trust and believe in him enough to marry him sure. Even that at times is not enough, I need a little more sense, I m working with time here. Two, I do not want to cheat on him, I mentioned that I don't want to be in two rships. The idea came up from ppl, I spoke to. Three, I think very straight. You cant tell how much money he is expecting to know if it is enough for a fancy wedding in the first place, we all r in the labour market, I mentioned that I would run a collective marriage. Thats to show, I m not a careless woman that wants to spend all her man's money. Anyone who uses their entire finances for a fancy wedding is stupid. Lastly, yes, I m a bit confused not totally, I want him but sometimes we need more advice and understanding, that's is why I m here to find a bit of clarity. Taking a bit of everything from the advice I get to guide me, even yours. Thanks. |
Romance / I Need Advice. I Have Been In A Relationshio For 5years. by ima30: 10:36pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
Hello ppl. I met him when I was 18yrs in my second year in the university. He was 21 and had just graduated. That was back in 2008. We were friends till 2010 that was when we become official. So I have known him has a person for almost 7years. But we have been lovers for 5years. We have had our good n bad times n all what not.. He is now 28 and I would be 25 in October. The thing here is the financial part. He has made me understand that the only reason we are not married is the fact that he doesn't have the money. He works, I m yet to find a job. If, I had a job I know living as a couple would be easy, cuz it would be a collective effort. He is saying I should gv him tops two years. But if he gets some money their family is expecting, he would use his share for our wedding. D money hasn't come for over a year now. I don't know what to do. My family is telling me to see how I can breed a relationship on the low just incase he is not forthcoming by next year. I dint know how to date two ppl. I really can't wait two years. He is young at 28 but I can't give excuses at my detriment. I m on d big side and always looked older than my age. Plus there is the thing with never knowing the heart of a person. He can wake up on day and be less interested and vice versa. My mom says I should sit down with him, talk thing's through and gv ourselves milestones.. I do love him n he loves me too. 5yrs is a long time, I even feel the love wearing thin. Please men n women, honest advice. Some guys may be in my bf's shoes, maybe u can speak from that perspective. Thanks. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Maersk Front Desk Generalist Job Vacancy Follow Up. by ima30: 9:44am On May 13, 2015 |
I found their number online, and I called. And they said they did not see my application. That they contacted every application they got. I told the lady I got a confirmation mail. She asked for my name. She said she did not see it. Well, if that the case, maybe others that applied and weren't called should contact their customer care. 08034021844. This might cause them to maybe do another interview. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Maersk Front Desk Generalist Job Vacancy Follow Up. by ima30: 10:45pm On May 12, 2015 |
Uchboggy: My God. I don't wanna believe this oo. R u sure it is for the same position. God dey sha. I don't know anyone that works there. I would have asked fingers still crossed. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Maersk Front Desk Generalist Job Vacancy Follow Up. by ima30: 10:45am On May 06, 2015 |
Has anyone who applied been contacted yet? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Maersk Front Desk Generalist Job Vacancy Follow Up. by ima30: 9:34pm On May 01, 2015 |
Valmesk:Help us with samples, especially the Pli, thanks. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Maersk Front Desk Generalist Job Vacancy Follow Up. by ima30: 10:24pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
UdohOby:I found the job vacancy on myjobmag.com. There was a link after the vacancy post. That's what I used. The link redirected me to their job application site. Filled in my details and submitted. |
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